I work and trade crypto and forex, my girlfriend knows how much i earn, but because i have plans, i still live in a modern selfcon in an estate.

So tonight i asked my girlfriend whom i wish to marry, if she would be willing to marry me as i stay in this selfcon, even if i don't have money to rent 1bed room.

She said she can't, please what does this mean? Possibly not my class? Possibly might leave when things go bad?

Move on

Most times, rejection bring out the best from us.

Your story after u made it won't be without her

She's a good woman, Hussle hard and build a duplex so she can Marry you

scholarshipbaze:
I work and trade crypto and forex, my girlfriend knows how much i earn, but because i have plans, i still live in a modern selfcon in an estate.

So tonight i asked my girlfriend whom i wish to marry, if she would be willing to marry me as i stay in this selfcon, even if i don't have money to rent 1bed room.

She said she can't, please what does this mean? Possibly not my class? Possibly might leave when things go bad?

What does that that supposed to mean, you work, trade crypto and Forex? Ain't that bullshits?
When you are struggling

Is crypto and forex enough to start planning marriage? What other investments do you have? Don’t be deceived sir, love is not enough in a marriage, a woman will always think ahead, the future of her unborn kids, the kind of environment she’ll want her kids to grow up and the rest. Women are love mathematician, you must calculate and get it right to some extent . So it means in her calculations she didn’t get you as the answer. It’s not that deep, these are some of the reasons why women shouldn’t date men in their age range, it mostly doesn’t t work out.

And when you eventually marry her, she will tell you she wouldn't like to see your siblings or parents visiting right?. You must be a fool if you yield to her feeling.

scholarshipbaze:
I work and trade crypto and forex, my girlfriend knows how much i earn, but because i have plans, i still live in a modern selfcon in an estate.

So tonight i asked my girlfriend whom i wish to marry, if she would be willing to marry me as i stay in this selfcon, even if i don't have money to rent 1bed room.

She said she can't, please what does this mean? Possibly not my class? Possibly might leave when things go bad?

It's her choice
Leave her alone

Tell her that any girl who can't marry you as you are now is not worth your time

scholarshipbaze:
I work and trade crypto and forex, my girlfriend knows how much i earn, but because i have plans, i still live in a modern selfcon in an estate.

So tonight i asked my girlfriend whom i wish to marry, if she would be willing to marry me as i stay in this selfcon, even if i don't have money to rent 1bed room.

She said she can't, please what does this mean? Possibly not my class? Possibly might leave when things go bad?

Many things wrong..

Try move to one bed room with water..

viyon02:
And when you eventually marry her, she will tell you she wouldn't like to see your siblings or parents visiting right?. You must be a fool if you yield to her feeling.

You will sit down in your 2 by 2 and type the figment of your imagination, where is the correlation between the bolded and this thread?

What is there if op yield to her feelings? People like you always think expressing ones heart desire is a bad thing, what is wrong in upgrading from selfcon? All these poverty mentality people sef, if Op doesn't like what she said, he should break up with her and move on, very simple.

scholarshipbaze:
I work and trade crypto and forex, my girlfriend knows how much i earn, but because i have plans, i still live in a modern selfcon in an estate.

So tonight i asked my girlfriend whom i wish to marry, if she would be willing to marry me as i stay in this selfcon, even if i don't have money to rent 1bed room.

She said she can't, please what does this mean? Possibly not my class? Possibly might leave when things go bad?

she sees no future in your crypto and forex thing

so far what have you done with the money u earned from it

Fact is the that, getting married now shouldn't be your focus.

Imagine getting married where you presently are, she gets pregnant and start having children.... Nigeria already has over 133 million people living in poverty, 99.5% of Nigerians who have bank account, have less than N500k in it.

Nigerians are fond of "nobody knows tomorrow" in regards to such situations, giving examples of people who married while financially struggling and later became financially comfortable, the question is....are they even up to 5% that make it out of that bracket? What happens to the remaining 95% and more, still in the trenches as they continue to have children and regenerating poverty?

1: please wetin be the diff' btw selfcon & 1 bedroom??
2: what's your GF financial status??

you can combine funds for a better apartment, if she's not okay wit ur present resident.
if she noh gree, abeg tell her to calm down, marriage is about commitment and support abeg...

Yes na... She's right... But she can collect gbola in the same self-contained...
Dunno why, I just believe that guys dat stays in self-contained, can knack well than those in mansion 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈

for a woman to intend getting married she is supposed to have a job. If she has a job, she will be willing to support you the man
when the two of you combine funds, to get a 2 bed room flat will not be hard...

Puss360:
Yes na... She's right... But she can collect gbola in the same self-contained...
Dunno why, I just believe that guys dat stays in self-contained, can knack well thaon those in mansion 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈

funny you..

scholarshipbaze:
I work and trade crypto and forex, my girlfriend knows how much i earn, but because i have plans, i still live in a modern selfcon in an estate.

So tonight i asked my girlfriend whom i wish to marry, if she would be willing to marry me as i stay in this selfcon, even if i don't have money to rent 1bed room.

She said she can't, please what does this mean? Possibly not my class? Possibly might leave when things go bad?

You wish to marry her but she's not wishing to marry you. Not because of the house you live but because she doesn't want to marry you and she's using that as a cover up. How about people living in face me I face you. How about those living in batcher people still marry them. Since she can't marry you then there's no need for you to continue with her.

Freestyle her ngwa ngwa

All this unserious ladies out there sha, what's bad in settling down in a sef contain for a start, he wants the guy to spend all this earnings on rent and if you find out now, that babe might be broke and don't have any financial strength to support the dude to get a better apartment or even in marriage.. guy marriage is all about responsibility and love is not enough, if that sefcon is what you can afford, pls dont strain yourself cos when the gbege happen, that woman no go look your side. she is not ready OP cos if she is, she wont mind marrying you in a kiosk let alone a sef contain. we have married family that live in a one room apartment and even have kids there and they are living happily which is the most important thing, You can live in mansion as a woman and never have peace of mind.

qwertyboss:

What does that that supposed to mean, you work, trade crypto and Forex? Ain't that bullshits?
When you are struggling

Lol, m worth over 30m in cash and assets, still skeptical about staying in the country or leaving thats why am still in a selfcon... She doesn't know

But i wana marry befor either leaving or settling, and am wondering if you can't now, where is the love??

Solocoin:

You wish to marry her but she's not wishing to marry you. Not because of the house you live but because she doesn't want to marry you and she's using that as a cover up. How about people living in face me I face you. How about those living in batcher people still marry them. Since she can't marry you then there's no need for you to continue with her.

Thanks for this

What's the difference between Self Con and 1 bedroom?

I think she doesn't want to marry you, people get married in face me I face you houses sef.

If she's serious with you like you are with her then this wouldn't be a question.

All the same, it's good to move to a 2 bedroom flat, I suspect she's thinking how comfy the house will be when children start coming in but then again that's not a valid reason to reject a marriage proposal, it's either she's a gold digger or doesn't fancy you.

Marriage sounds very important to you. She sounds like she wants financial security to feel safe enough to get married. Love is not always enough.

She doesn't think you're ready to take care of her and a family .She has no confidence that if she finds herself pregnant with you that you can take care of her, a house and children.
If you love her, you need to meet these goals. I think they're reasonable goals of hers and should be your goals, too.

scholarshipbaze:



Lol, m worth over 30m in cash and assets, still skeptical about staying in the country or leaving thats why am still in a selfcon... She doesn't know

But i wana marry befor either leaving or settling, and am wondering if you can't now, where is the love??

Well don't let her know,
Because she will later change her mind bcoz of the money.
Better break up with her and find a better mother for your children

scholarshipbaze:
I work and trade crypto and forex, my girlfriend knows how much i earn, but because i have plans, i still live in a modern selfcon in an estate. So tonight i asked my girlfriend whom i wish to marry, if she would be willing to marry me as i stay in this selfcon, even if i don't have money to rent 1bed room. She said she can't, please what does this mean? Possibly not my class? Possibly might leave when things go bad?

It means she is wiser and more sensible than you are being at the moment. Why is the world would you, seeing reality as it is, expect anyone who tie the knot when not financially ready for what comes next or follows? No be crazy be that?

She get standard be dat...


You are below her spec.. 😁😁😁


Better thank and appreciate her
for her honesty. She is just in the
relationship to enjoy your big
cucumber 🥒🥒, not to get tied down
In marriage to a struggling citizen.


Go look for your level and have
your peace of mind.

Ok

Lol Wahala...

So you sef wan marry for Self Contain....


You wan marry inside Studio apartments if kids show how do you plan to arrange things....

What's self con?

The question should have been will you marry me? Simple. Why did you add self con to the question? You gave her options and she made her choice.

Now ask her to borrow you money to rent her dream apartment.

This type of girls can't manage a home, when the cash is no longer flowing. Marrying a girl that is contented is very important.
Leave her and move on, unless your name is SIMPlus