What’s your worst friendship betrayal experience?

My then gf with serious commitment lying to me how she was disvirgin by a studen doctor... Story long, but i am fine now with my wife. But i won't forget her bedmatic experience ( forgive me oh lord with my youthful sinful days).

When dey snub u

My bosom buddy.I shew him my chat with a potential fvckmate and then he went behind me and hijack the gal from me-and im fine pass me.I no vex cos i believe no man own any woman like she's a pair of shoes.What pained me was that he needed to really 'spoil' me to the gal who is a pastor's daughter,that i smoke and drink and all that jazz...i didnt even accost him on the issue but till today my trust for him has diminished completely...las las im no see the color of the gal panties cos im na muslim.

Oh

thesilentman:
My bosom buddy.I shew him my chat with a potential fvckmate and then he went behind me and hijack the gal from me-and im fine pass me.I no vex cos i believe no man own any woman like she's a pair of shoes.What pained me was that he needed to really 'spoil' me to the gal who is a pastor's daughter,that i smoke and drink and all that jazz...i didnt even accost him on the issue but till today my trust for him has diminished completely...las las im no see the color of the gal panties cos im na muslim.

but he dated the girl abi

Postinor:
but he dated the girl abi

na long-distance thing through phone,man.Them no ever meet in person.

thesilentman:

na long-distance thing through phone,man.Them no ever meet in person.

wow, the guy Bleep up then,he no even bang the girl

My was in my yr 1
A friend of mine stays close to my babe then in school,
(Both my friend and my babe den never knew themselves)
As I was in my guys house, I called the babe and directed her to his place.
After that day was history between us.
The babe was always spending nite in the guy house
She slide me.
Thats where I learnt my first lesson never to carry your babe go ur man house.

So bad and painful

westlius:
My was in my yr 1
A friend of mine stays close to my babe then in school,
(Both my friend and my babe den never knew themselves)
As I was in my guys house, I called the babe and directed her to his place.
After that day was history between us.
The babe was always spending nite in the guy house
She slide me.
Thats where I learnt my first lesson never to carry your babe go ur man house.

You should run from such selfish friends

“A person is called selfish, not for pursuing his or her own good, but for neglecting his or her neighbor’s.” —Richard Whately

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It was a guy I helped through my university days. Like I was always carrying this guy academically to the point one lecturer caught me one-day and advised me to be careful of the way I teach/assist my friends inside the exam hall. Immediately after our final paper, my house rent got expired and I don't want to renew it because I will soon leave school, so I told my guy I will like to stay with him for sometime pending when I'm done with my project. He agreed and I moved in, there was this other guy that approached me and asked me if he can join us, I related the question to the first guy, he agreed and the guy joined us.

One faithful day, we agreed to contribute money to buy foodstuffs *school life things na,* I told him I will bring mine when I enter the campus because that is where the banks and their ATM points are. Being the unelected leader of my project group I was not chanced to go to the ATM when I entered the campus because I was putting finishing touches to my project work which I am to submit that same day.
So, the guy approached me for the money while I was busy discussing with my project mates inside one lecture theater, I told him I haven't gone to the ATM point, maybe I should give him the card to help me out on that, he said no need that I should bring it when I get home.

I got home in the evening after a stressful day, normally I was hungry and didn't remember to give him the money immediately I got home but I have the money on me but hunger no let me reason am. The guy gave me my own serve(portion) of the lunch, as I was about to take the first mold of the garri, na so the other guy I introduced said "shey xyz i.e don drop him own money, before I could say anything, he responded with "na true," na so the other guy ask him to remove the food from my front, omoh I wan mad. It may look like a joke but they were serious with it.
At that point, I was like guys wetin be all these na, shebi we had an agreement and I just dey enter and you all know whatsup in school.
Already, I have lost my appetite, I brought the cash I withdrew from the ATM point and showed it to them, and told him he know there is no way I won't give them my own money but hunger made me not to remember to do that when I entered the room.

I left the room angrily, I later moved of the apartment that same day evening.

He later came with one of our mutual friends to apologize, but I have keeled the friendship.

The guy chatted me up recently, although I have forgiven him, the friendship no be like again.


Modified: Why are you guys quoting me these du mb?

Can't you see where my annoyance with him is?
He is not the only one I did that for, why didn't I mentioned others?
How can someone that called himself my closest friend collide with another to treat me that way because I did not drop money the moment I entered the room?
Even if I did not drop it as agreed sef, and the other guy suggested that action, as my closest friend back then he should able to cover up or decline such act or at least be balance not planning such despicable act.
Do you all know what it means to remove food from someone's mouth when they are hungry?

Well, I'm not surprised because most you all are slow and unintel ligent to decode things, or you guys are so used to evil act and backstabbing that you all see it as normal way of life.

I’ll give two 😂

In UNN 200 level, the lecturer Engr dr c u nwoji fixed a test which is 30 marks for morning but some reason it was postponed to afternoon, I didn't know .so I went to the hostel (alvan) to sleep.

I noticed that the hostel was empty as engineering student was mostly there.i jumped up from my sleep, suspected that something was wrong, I called my friends but as it was ringing they were switching off the phones , na so I used speed run to hall,see as they were smiling with the test papers in their hands .they have just finished writing the test.

Back stabbers will only stab when you show "em your back

-Eminem-

Lol

Keep to yourself most times (I know it is hard) and you’ll never fall into the hands of wolves.

We have a lot of monitoring spirits in human form trying to sieve information from your wide mouth .

My bro colonised my babe and was always saying they are friends... Each time I wanna be with my babe, I will see two of them, and the next thing is she is my good friend but meanwhile he knew her through me.. Lols.. As a nigger wey I be, I freestyle and moved on...
It hurts coz it's my bro but at the end, it was so relieving for me. Didn't even know how I just moved on so quick and felt a very big burden off my body...

I use to date this gal who told how a friend of mine was asking her out she told him it can’t work between them cos she loves me las las she gree for the guy behind my back o
Guy later told me how he knack my babe

I bought an accident car in Yankee in 2021. A Toyota Camry 2019. It was a minor accident but the pictures looked worse than it actually was (at least to the eyes of a regular person). I fixed up the car. It was running perfectly. In fact, 90% of what I fixed up was body work. The airbags burst...that was worst of it picture wise. I told one of my guys like that. The guy is a car dealer. Anytime I'm around him and tell someone about the car, he will go behind and ask them to check the car out with VIN that the car was almost write off. The last person he bad mouthed the car to bought it. This was early 2022. It was an experiment to see how the business was. I took the idiot out, bought him enough shayo and fish, used my old schoolmate to pose as if he wanted to buy the car, he then exchanged numbers with the schoolmate, and sent him options of other cars he has claiming the car was write off and I was a rookie car dealer who bought a bad car.


People bad. The guy still thought the car was in a car lot at Ajah until last year November when he asked me to resend the photos of the car. I just dey laugh inside me.

I introduced 2 friends of mine to a businéss I was engaged in
I was earning real big,we were suppose to start the business together but they were scared of investing in a business the success wasn't guaranteed
The business became successful and due to the huge success I achieved in it they begged me to help them out. I was young then and I had so much trust in them that I never thought they would betray me
I generated 146,000 for them to start,I showed them how to do everything without hiding anything cos they helped me in the past
Long story short they went behind my back to meet all my customers, sold the goods to them at a much more lower rate,they fought with the person whom I take as a guide in the business,they even cut me off in all the dealings
It was really painful but I acted calm without complaining, I did not even complain
My business crashed but I recovered and came back stronger
2023 one of them is really begging me to teach him how I'm making money presently but experience is the best teacher besides my fiancee won't even allow me to pity them cos she was with me when they destroyed my business then....

It was in 2012 a close friend of mine lost his job, life became so hard for him that he started feeling dejected, frustrated and even suicidal. I would go over to his place after work, stock his house with food and even pocket money. I gave him my house key so he could step out from his compound at times to avoid goofy neighbours. I personally sustained this guy for over nine months.
Towards the end of 2012, there was an opening at my work place and I quickly met my boss on his behalf. He got the job even without passing the interview ahead of others as I have the ears of my boss.
This dude started working in my office second week of January 2013, I was so happy and felt fulfilled. Fast forward to six months later, this dude got jealous of my close relationship with my boss, started destroying that relationship by gossiping me to my boss. All the inner deals I did that no one knew about even before he started working with us, he went and tabled them before my boss just to gain his favour. I felt bad and a deep sense of regret. Even my boss was surprised he could do that to his close friend but my boss believed him to the extent that the level of trust he had for me started waning.

I resigned early 2015 when I couldn't take no more of his treachery and betrayal. I got a loan, added to my savings and established my campany few months after I left the firm. God opened doors for me beyond my expectation. Today he is full of regret but lacks courage to come meet me for help. I will never forget what that guy did to me, above all, I learnt a great life's lesson. People, be careful who you help.

Since my blood betrayed me, I said no to closeness to any being except my wife and kids. Any other friendship must be for my own advantage

The day a Bossom friend shot at me at close range because of woman wey dey trip for me...

If my skin been no tight, I no for dey see this topic to type this Tory so...

Someone whom I considered a friend and decided to help (he was shamelessly living with his parent at the time), risk my job and reputation for in order help him survive turned around to 'bite me'. Before inviting him, I used to help him with cash and little businesses here and there.

After inviting him, whatever I had I shared, divulged personal info to him, and even got him jobs twice. He slept, ate, enjoyed and lived in my house all for free. Never knew he intensely envied me—I was just joining the corporate world and trying to find my feet. It got to a point in the second job that I was asked to fire him twice (underperformance and stealing) as he worked under me then, but I skirted around it and pleaded on his behalf. I got into trouble due to this, because it turned out that he was living well beyond his means using company's money to eat extravagantly and spend on women.

Only for the motherfucker to receive some money from his uncle after intense begging. I never knew I was housing a deadly Mamba in my house. He traveled and started flexing all over and started acting arrogantly, buying stuffs and becoming secretive. I ensured he never came back to my house, and asked him to meet me at a neutral place to take his belongings. The next thing he did was to start gossiping, backbiting, lying and trying to tarnish my reputation. Those whom he involved came to tell me. After, he proceed to call me, bragging that he has lots of money, which money?? I laughed and hung the call.

The next thing he did was to get married without any visible source of income (he has been sacked) and living off the funds he was given, none of his few friends attended the wedding including his father (God forbid I attend such and further risk my reputation associating with him). There and then I knew envy and inferiority complex was at play and he is seriously toying with poverty.

Here I am laughing at him from a distance because I know retribution will definitely visit him, and when it comes, he'll come crawling in pains on a hot asphalt road.

Nowadays, I hardly blame wealthy folks who refused to help certain people—friends or not. Some even proceed to block lots of people on social media and co, don't blame them! These rich people have been burnt over and over and decide never to let just anyone into their private space again. If these folks would no longer do that, who are we, ordinary people to do such and get burnt?

In addition, when you see some people suffering, please don't interfere, the same way you'll not interfere and help put out a bushfire ignited by kidnappers that eventually engulfs their hideout, don't interfere in the affairs of these people too. Many have committed abominable atrocities and you may incur unnecessary suffering yourself by interfering.

And yes, God is the most merciful, but he is perfectly Just, no nonsense and also the indomitable avenger who would seek vengeance for you in such decapitating ways anyone can imagine. Those kind of people often get their punishment in full measure here and beyond.