seankafor:
is it worth it?

larride:


Toor. I dont think you need an agent for this one as you are applying directly to the agency, I've tried apply sef and the link is working but I wanted to make sure I understand how that route works before I apply sef.

Instead of using 12k pound to run that package, it will make sense to go through school package.

I need a change of environment asap before person go kpeme unnecessarily. I don dey almost dey reason suicide.

reccy:


Not at the expense of lives!!!

nihilistjnr:


Finding ones purpose in life is one of the hardest things to achieve. And the truth is the vast majority of people will live and die without ever figuring out what they were put on this planet to do.

I recommend looking up the concept of Ikigai to see in simple terms what finding and achieving your purpose might entail.

Until you're able to find your purpose, if you ever do, I suggest that you focus of a series of short term and long term goals that you can set for yourself. The goals don't all have to be super specific either...although it helps.

That's the technique I use to get through life at the moment, because sometimes I feel like a leaf blown on the wind, going wherever fate takes me, without a sense of my own agency. I sometimes feel like my life is just one long exercise in duty and obligation - duty to be a good sibling, a good son, a good husband, a good father, a good employee, a good neighbour etc.

Defining myself in reference to what I mean to people has caused me great mental anguish in the past, because I recognise that I act as an umbrella to so many people with nobody doing the same for me.

These days I have accepted that there is a gap in my life associated with not knowing my purpose for existence, but I am also hopeful that my day of insight will come. Till then, I continue to set monthly and yearly goals for myself and focus on achieving them, which provides me a sense of purpose in the short term.

I wish you well my brother, but you must know yourself and you must learn to suffer. To be a MAN is not a day's job.

OasisX:


....you ain't just a Winner but a Champ always bro. No matter what its is, victory is so certain for you.

seankafor:
Let's support each other and not fight each other

We re all one in the lord 🙏

Ballzproblem2:

akwesenana:
I no fit lie, I have my reservations concerning supporters of Tinubu. But there's a line to that.

seankafor:
A01

GloriousGbola:


na so e be for all of us.

stay strong.

to para quote ibime - we are going through a business cycle decline.

we will get through it.

iamoyindamola:
The black book
Kudos to netflix for bringing the best out of naija producers

nihilistjnr:


Things are super tough here as well right now. The economy is tanking, there's fewer job listing, and cost of living is RIDICULOUS.

Be prepared to never stop studying if you want to make it in corporate. Be prepared to run multiple concurrent jobs if you're looking to do menial route.

I graduated from my MBA 3 weeks ago, and I'm already on another training course as we speak. This shit is NOT easy.

GloriousGbola:
Better to remain silent and suspected to be a bitter malignant arsehole than to speak out and remove all doubt

Amigoss:
Political,Religion,Tribal,club affiliation and sexual orientation differences aside,Humanity first🙏....

May God,Mary,Allah and Otem help us all and those going through difficult times strength to weather the storm...

larride:


I actually know. My own frustration is majorly from the fact that it just seems as if I'm going round in circles or just stuck in a position. That feeling where you don't even know your purpose again.

I guess it's just a phase of being overwhelmed with situations. It's a wonder to me how I still function optimally at work.

Na why I dey look to just move and start afresh.

seankafor:
so what do you suggest we do now

Theflint1:
It's good to look for that fresh start, but try stay in the present and build, Japa na another person decision ultimately, so what can be done in the interim should keep being done.

That US travel route is actually pretty solid, if scholarship fall comot from am, will make things real easy.

afrodoc2:


There was never any doubt. I diagnosed that thing a long time ago, and it wasn't just malignant arseholism.

Theflint1:
Editi Effiong, the movie has been in production for like 3 years now. Na to reach house watch am sure pass.

donjazzet:


Again, politics is indeed OUR LIVES.
I cannot overemphasize that enough.

A country and society is made or marred by it's politics and people's personal values are reflected by their political values.

The APC is a party that has exposed itself as a party of rulership by division.
Sowing seeds of discord in order to rule a fractured society and make it's adherents hate others.
Look at when we complain as to how things are soo terrible in the country and then these adherents just comfortably swipe it aside as non issues? How then does one commemorate with them when they complain of the same factors which was exactly warned about?

donjazzet:


As in!!
I'm truly sorry but I can't feel empathy for people who deliberately and willingly self sabotage their selves and fortunes despite several warnings and forebodings.

Am I really supposed to feel sorry for someone who has actively defended the wickedness of our leaders and vociferously attacked everyone who sought an obviously better path and reset to the countries political system?

Am I really supposed pretend that the last few months and years haven't happened where he doubled down and tripled down on support for the APC and still continues to this very day despite the fast paced backwardness the country has speeding at??

I'm sorry but I'm not pretentious. I wouldn't pretend to feel sorry for someone who is getting burnt because he stoked and enflamed the furnace and then walked into it despite soo much pleadings and warnings not to do so.

The APC is directly responsible for the gross economic mismanagement of this country for this past decade. A mismanagement that is costing lives and creating massive economic refugees on a daily basis, anyone who would see all these and still support them because of primordial sentiments or "our son" only has himself to blame and cannot seriously wish to see any sort of sympathy towards him. It's that simple and logical.

Ballzproblem2:
you never see anything suicide thought ni , suicide squad kor 😂.


Keep defending nonsense government

iamoyindamola:

Ajegunle Romano
You must have signed a life contract to remain stupid I was expecting anything sensible from you of all people

Taguchi:


This one wan start royal rumble

At the mention of otem every tongue must collect

TrebleChamp:
The country is stressing a lot of people, especially family men. E truly no easy this days with bills increasing on a daily, bro try to dey watch a lot of comedy skits like sabinus and co to make you laugh and take your mind of things. I have always said that nairaland helps me kill stress, you will be ok bro.

donjazzet:


As in!!
I'm truly sorry but I can't feel empathy for people who deliberately and willingly self sabotage their selves and fortunes despite several warnings and forebodings.

Am I really supposed to feel sorry for someone who has actively defended the wickedness of our leaders and vociferously attacked everyone who sought an obviously better path and reset to the countries political system?

Am I really supposed pretend that the last few months and years haven't happened where he doubled down and tripled down on support for the APC and still continues to this very day despite the fast paced backwardness the country has speeding at??

I'm sorry but I'm not pretentious. I wouldn't pretend to feel sorry for someone who is getting burnt because he stoked and enflamed the furnace and then walked into it despite soo much pleadings and warnings not to do so.

The APC is directly responsible for the gross economic mismanagement of this country for this past decade. A mismanagement that is costing lives and creating massive economic refugees on a daily basis, anyone who would see all these and still support them because of primordial sentiments or "our son" only has himself to blame and cannot seriously wish to see any sort of sympathy towards him. It's that simple and logical.

Amoto94:

Remove one of the dots before com