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Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by Karlifate: 1:22pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
Trustmea: LMAO! 🤣 |
Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by Ensa777(f): 1:22pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
I have sat down and thought about it and yet it remains that I do not have any favorite among mine. |
Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by Chetas81(m): 1:22pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
Great0ne1:LOL HOW THEM GO 4UK WOMAN,BORN PLENTY PIKIN,SHE NOW LOVE C MORE THAN A ,______ MAYBE SHE NO REMEMBER HOW THEM 4UK HER TO GET THOSE BELLE_____ SHE NOW DECIDED TO LOVE ONE MORE THAN OTHERS, SHE GO PAY TIRE 😳 |
Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by Dancebreaker: 1:26pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
VinnyBaba:A publication by a DNA test lab in Lagos published their findings earlier this year. Search NL for it. It found that 26.2% of ALL kids belong to another man. These are results the lab had over many years. But older findings were roughly 25% for all kids and up to 40% (average 35%) for firstborns. We have discussed such reports for over 10 years on NL here. Reason is most women have multiple sugar daddies and boyfriends and don't usually know who is father of first preggy. They usually give it to who is most eligible or most likely to accept it. But some still continue sleeping around but a bit less than when single. Women used to dispute it here until the latest result came this year. Only a very foolish will just accept a baby without DNA test these days. Even if she's your wedded wife. I know people whose 2 or 3 kids were not theirs at all. 3 Likes |
Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by Mercisharelove(f): 1:27pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
lecoeur: Fixed 1 Like |
Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by okoroemeka(m): 1:35pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
lecoeur:most times there is nothing a parent can do because the likeness is natural,out of my 6 children I loved my fourth child the most she is currently doing nursing science and she is the excat replica of my late mother,both in stature ,speech,behaviour,manners,will of character,infact what she is called is osodiemeaku or osodi which means a wife that helps her husband to make wealth ,which is my late mother's alias when she was alive. |
Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by jaszplus12(m): 1:37pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
Aaaaarghmed:Same canoe carry me and you bro! We stand by ourselves always! |
Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by Karlifate: 1:39pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
Antai123: Open your own thread & tag the mods. 🤷 |
Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by sytccoach1(m): 1:41pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
It's very painful to be treated as second class by those you expect to love you unconditionally.Talkless of them saying it to your face.My mum did same for me with my younger brother.Though it can felt bad before now but now I am stronger, better and richer independence on anybody except God. So just use it to motivate your self to be the best you can be and ensure you don't repeat same with your children. 2 Likes |
Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by Antai123(m): 1:42pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
Karlifate:How do I do that please? |
Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by Karlifate: 1:47pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
Beautifulvivy14: 👍 |
Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by sytccoach1(m): 1:48pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
Don't rush critical decision of your life it can lead to a life time of regret. Anyways,my advice is look really deep inside what do you really want, that connects you to your preferred destiny then decide to go for it.nontheless try to gather some change in your present work to register and write your Ican before resigning there with nothing to fall back on. That will help you leverage forward in case you decide to resign, when you start another job hunting. Karlifate: |
Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by CallTheCops(m): 1:48pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
Antai123:Create a thread |
Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by Prenonjebose: 1:53pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
I am the carbon copy of my dad in looks. This made my mum really close to me. But, it was the other way round for my dad. He often felt disappointed in that the resemblance was only physical. He wanted me in his preferred career path of medicine, but I never liked nor fulfilled his desire. This often made him make such comments that I didn't inherit his cerebral capacity. Initially, I used to feel a certain resentment against this, but later on just became carefree towards this. My mom on the other was always quick to defend me. Both are gone now, but I felt her departure more. I cried and was depressed for weeks. 3 Likes |
Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by Nackzy: 1:58pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
phenylalanine:AMEN 1 Like |
Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by Ikpunnegi01: 2:08pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
Ignore, move on with your life! Don't allow hatred or envy get hold of you. You're the BEST! |
Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by xavuv: 2:14pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
dalitigator:Made sense |
Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by Reference(m): 2:20pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
Affection fades with time, favouritism affects forever. They are not the same. 1 Like |
Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by stuffs2002: 2:33pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
Godada: The boldest very true most times |
Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by Badadvisor: 2:34pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
Aonkuuse:Mothers always prefer their first son in igbo land |
Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by RevenuesBoost(f): 2:45pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
Westerhoffe: So right You'll just know that your siblings are jealous of you even if they pretend to love you. I'm writing from experience 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by StraightGaay: 3:01pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
Ahmed0336:Hmmm |
Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by saysoo: 3:06pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
Even in he bible , God prefered a particular child, man, nation. So who are you mortal man? |
Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by lecoeur(m): 3:18pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
veekid:Lol dey play |
Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by lecoeur(m): 3:19pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
RECTEM:It doesn't affect me in anyway, this is just a notice out there for parents to do better |
Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by lecoeur(m): 3:20pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
kokakola:I don't understand your point. Be more straightforward. |
Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by frog12: 3:28pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
don't be foolish. don't start trouble in the family |
Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by sajiwere(m): 3:40pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
It's never a sin because even with Jesus Christ, what Peter could not ask Him John the Beloved can ask. Jacob nearly kill Joseph by displaying his favouritism on him to the rest of his siblings. In short, their may be special child due to circumstances of birth but never shall you as parent display it! quote author=lecoeur post=126916680]While growing up, sometimes my father takes me out with him and during those times he teaches me certain things that a man should know. Thing is, something happened I can't recall but that thing made him tell me he preferred my younger brother to me (We are 3 boys tho), I even noticed it because he took him out more and bought things for him. I was this kid that's so quite, reserved and always on my own and he never liked that. On the other note, my brother is very agressive have this agbero type of behaviour lol. My dad fell ill and I took care of him both at home and in the hospital to the point of his death I was with him, I didn't take what he said to heart and he never apologized but I did all that because I loved him very much, I saw him as a hero, even the person that he preferred wasn't interested in taking care of him as much as I was. I totally forgot about this whole thing until this my younger Bro accused my Mom of been bias towards him which is true but as the first and oldest son I always stand for him whenever that happens because I know how it feels. Please I urge present and future parents to do better with hiding or avoiding this favourite child thing, it's not really ohk.[/quote] 1 Like |
Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by lecoeur(m): 3:45pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
frog12:Some of you on this platform need to learn how to read and comprehend. 1 Like |
Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by toprealman: 4:09pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
lecoeur:Focus on you, give the energy to your career. Success gat no enemy. Building your empire with zero inheritance is possible. 1 Like |
Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by Archworld(m): 4:12pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
lecoeur: When I saw this post my mind was like, WTF!! Adults shouldn't care about this at all. You don't give a damn about being preferred or liked by your parents. A grown man with responsibility shouldn't care about this . Only teenagers in their parents house should carw |
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