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Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by kpaofame: 1:48pm On Nov 20, 2023 |
tuzle: Someone who offered Biscuit to an older individual is rejecting Bread both made of flour and Sugar from that same individual... No problem, 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by AchichaMmuo: 1:48pm On Nov 20, 2023 |
PuZZyNegro: You see collecting bread as awkward, yet you went with biscuits and juice to meet your future inlaws, clown. 5 Likes |
Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by MisterGrace: 1:49pm On Nov 20, 2023 |
You should have applied emotional intelligence and accepted the gift. You did wrong. Just apologize and move on to better things. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by umarfantami(m): 1:49pm On Nov 20, 2023 |
You are either a male gold digger or you are looking for ways not to marry her after chop and clean mouth. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by Googledotcom: 1:49pm On Nov 20, 2023 |
OP, all I see in you is pride, nothing more 4 Likes |
Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by Greenfusion: 1:49pm On Nov 20, 2023 |
Mindlog:Lol...abeg must person bring gift to their prospective in law on the first day...?.....we too get wahala for africa......im bring biscuit and im dem give am bread in return e dey complain..lol 1 Like |
Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by majasaint: 1:50pm On Nov 20, 2023 |
Women have suffered in the name of LOVE!. Tufiakwa. The painful part is that the girl might have given her body and life to this idiot. When I visited my inlaw for the first time. I went with nothing except money. Gave her 80K 5 Likes |
Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by Guyman01: 1:50pm On Nov 20, 2023 |
Ishilove:A bottle of Ogogoro hot drink would have been better than the diabetes gift he gave to them > 7 Likes |
Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by Blessedarethepe(m): 1:50pm On Nov 20, 2023 |
I can't wait to accept huge gifts from my in-law family. After all, we are becoming one soon. If they like they should offer me a car as a gift. I will drive it home peacefully. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by kpaofame: 1:51pm On Nov 20, 2023 |
emmyt2: The Food they offered Him is not okay, but the Biscuit and juice he took is okay what are you even saying.... they offered him food and still gave him bread as a parting gift... Oga when want wife traveled all the way from Lagos to PH with just biscuit and Juice but bread is the issue. u and the OP "over normal" |
Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by ZaddyJ: 1:52pm On Nov 20, 2023 |
PuZZyNegro:Tell me this was all a joke But if it was real you re the biggest mumu and u re going to get into trouble with those folks moving forward. You did something very wrong ,imaging if it girl/ fiancee did that to your mother ? 1 Like |
Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by Slurity(m): 1:52pm On Nov 20, 2023 |
PuZZyNegro:NO STORIES. YOU ARE WRONG FOR NOT COLLECTING THE BREAD, CULTURE IS IMPORTANT THAT THIS EXPLANATION THET YOU ARE GIVING. I UNDERSTAND YOUR OWN VIEW BUT CULTURE DID NOT. JUST APOLOGIZE |
Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by Emmanlems: 1:52pm On Nov 20, 2023 |
Your prospective in-laws are well cultured and are rich in wisdom. You were supposed to visit them with bread and not biscuits. African parents cherish bread a lot. They didn't like the biscuits you brought, and there's no way they would tell you that to your face. So, they decided to pass the message to you indirectly by offering you bread. The awkward feeling you had in accepting the bread was because it is supposed to be the reverse. Don't kill yourself. The deed has been done. J ust do the right thing next time you visit. Buy them bread and wine. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by Tobest94: 1:52pm On Nov 20, 2023 |
You 4K up you stil de proud to admit. Even if na boiled egg dem give you, you must collect it. You can dispose it on your way out if you don’t want sha 1 Like |
Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by pendusky(m): 1:53pm On Nov 20, 2023 |
PuZZyNegro: You rejected hard earned gift from your inlaw. Anyways, you could have collected it and even if you no eat it. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by intruder15(m): 1:53pm On Nov 20, 2023 |
PuZZyNegro: You don't reject a mother inlaw gift. No matter how useless it is to you. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by profmallor: 1:54pm On Nov 20, 2023 |
Did you grow abroad, are you not african?. You collect that bread and thank them. Not because you need it, but because thats what was offered 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by Guyman01: 1:55pm On Nov 20, 2023 |
PuZZyNegro:You didn’t see a bottle of Ogogoro hot drink to give your potential in-laws, na diabetes inducing gift of biscuits you took them, maybe by your next visit they would have amputated one of their legs and when they offered you a better gift you rejected it 1 Like |
Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by sacajawea: 1:55pm On Nov 20, 2023 |
LordReed:Many people have deep mental Illness without realising it After reading that statement form his own mouth, "gifts are Symbolic", I was sort of confused, had to check if it's the same person that Posted that commented. My mind travelled far, and I see that this one is twisted, a functioning Psycho... His own comment underscored the point he was against, 9 Likes |
Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by Ten06(m): 1:56pm On Nov 20, 2023 |
You sound arrogant. Accepting them does not meant that you must consume them. Accepting them shows respect 1 Like |
Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by BluntCrazeMan: 1:56pm On Nov 20, 2023 |
PuZZyNegro:Learn to accept gifts oga. Accept it first. What you do with it is now your wahalla, and no more theirs. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by Kotika: 1:57pm On Nov 20, 2023 |
[font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font] PuZZyNegro:You did what? Reject an in-law's gift? Mine gave me pawpaw when i went there. I accepted it with my whole heart and told her that i was a fruity too, even though, at that time, i was not! Married now for almost a decade. Mother in law still sends me fruits till date. It's called decorum, it was a damn test, damn it... 4 Likes |
Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by bigyouth: 1:57pm On Nov 20, 2023 |
NEVER LOOK A GIFT HORSE IN THE MOUTH 1 Like |
Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by akan102: 1:57pm On Nov 20, 2023 |
PuZZyNegro:My brother you no try 4 Likes |
Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by hify9935(f): 1:57pm On Nov 20, 2023 |
yoniehuin:Two loaves aunty! Two loaves!! Education indeed isn't scam after all. 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by Greenfusion: 1:59pm On Nov 20, 2023 |
DeBiafran:Says who?.....y must u visit your prospective inlaw wit a bottle of wine? Do they take wine? |
Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by AyeMoJuba: 2:00pm On Nov 20, 2023 |
PuZZyNegro: Stop the argument already...you err by rejecting a gift from your-would-be inlaws Besides, it's the ill mannered and uncultured that rejects gift. Even if the gift doesn't agree with your standard, courtesy demands you accepts it. You were not properly educated in our ways as Africans. |
Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by spy24(m): 2:00pm On Nov 20, 2023 |
oluwaseyi0: No dey reply children that have no clue what marriage is about... They think everything is about them.. there is no single angle that you will turn the issue to that will make it right. OP match better line.. that is the mother of your wife to be, by extension she is soon to be your mother. If you no trust them no kuku marry the daughter it's that simple 6 Likes |
Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by Enemyofpeace: 2:01pm On Nov 20, 2023 |
Small pikin dey do you. You better grow up before you begin chop wetin married couples dey chop 4 Likes |
Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by Bluffly: 2:03pm On Nov 20, 2023 |
PuZZyNegro:You don't judge them. Your act is disrespectful and deameaning. Collect it first, and whatever you do with it is ur own business |
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