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Re: was I Wrong In Wanting To End Friendship With My Friend? by Funflipper: 2:07am On Nov 24, 2023 |
Ginaz: You don't need anybody to tell you anything. Just use your common sense and stop sending the kids on errands. 2 Likes |
Re: was I Wrong In Wanting To End Friendship With My Friend? by culf: 2:11am On Nov 24, 2023 |
Ginaz: I won't reply any of you again since you have decided not to stop. If both of you keep at this, how will you feel when you meet tomorrow. Let's disagree to agree or let go of things please. It's late, both of you should go and sleep. Thank you and good night! Peace[img] Ginaz: I won't reply any of you again since you have decided not to stop. If both of you keep at this, how will you feel when you meet tomorrow. Let's disagree to agree or let go of things please. It's late, both of you should go and sleep. Thank you and good night! Peace[/img] Ginaz: I won't reply any of you again since you have decided not to stop. If both of you keep at this, how will you feel when you meet tomorrow. Let's disagree to agree or let go of things please. It's late, both of you should go and sleep. Thank you and good night! Peace |
Re: was I Wrong In Wanting To End Friendship With My Friend? by Ginaz(f): 2:12am On Nov 24, 2023 |
very stupid hypocrite. foolish gaslighter and useless scalywag. she came to say help and don't expect anything from who you help. while she goes and use ideals of one of her dad's student he helped. who wants to give and not receive from those they help if the chance is present? people like that stupid girl will dish out what they can't take. expecting me to accept her hypocrisy while gaslighting her evil personality. they said fools are irredeemable. surely she is one stupid fool in the whole internet. you have wood in your eyes but want to remove my own. hypocrisy of a disgusting human being who can't take what they dished out. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: was I Wrong In Wanting To End Friendship With My Friend? by Ginaz(f): 2:31am On Nov 24, 2023 |
Gerrard59: and as for you, I'm not childless ok? I am not ready for motherhood yet as I'm still young and should be focused on my life's growth. I'm talking about childless women who don't have kids and don't have access to kids to help them at home. i never knew children could cause so much issues between two or more people reason I felt for them |
Re: was I Wrong In Wanting To End Friendship With My Friend? by Nobody: 3:04am On Nov 24, 2023 |
After all being typed and read .... It is good to HELP AND MOVE ON! And again! "Ki Oluwa maa fi ona ati je wa sibi ti o nira" Good night . Don't dream of Me o 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: was I Wrong In Wanting To End Friendship With My Friend? by Ginaz(f): 3:23am On Nov 24, 2023 |
Persephone1: help and move on slogan you didn't practice? so who needs your advise more? isn't it you? Your dad helped someone and you went to use the person's help to push your business. yet you're saying give and don't expect anything in return. stupid fake thing like you. take your own advise first before saying your meaningless slogan. |
Re: was I Wrong In Wanting To End Friendship With My Friend? by Ginaz(f): 3:26am On Nov 24, 2023 |
Persephone1 is an imposter who doesn't practice her so called useless slogan. Madam do as you have spoken. person kill ant you say the person do evil but you don kill cow for back. Oloriburuku! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: was I Wrong In Wanting To End Friendship With My Friend? by realtalk19: 3:27am On Nov 24, 2023 |
Fountainofyouth: Well said 1 Like |
Re: was I Wrong In Wanting To End Friendship With My Friend? by Kingson28: 3:37am On Nov 24, 2023 |
[quote author=Kobojunkie post=127126647]Your questions shock me. In that case, abeg go hire house-help naw! When she hires the house help then she STOPS giving her friends any money. Case closed. You only want to collect money from a friend, but you don’t want her to send your children on errands. Just bid farewell to the money. I will use it to hire house help. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: was I Wrong In Wanting To End Friendship With My Friend? by Nobody: 3:39am On Nov 24, 2023 |
So I took time to read through the thread as saw how Op was just thickening the plot here and there.. The problem with people like this is they will never see or accept their wrong. I just wasted my time sha. Good night oooo. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: was I Wrong In Wanting To End Friendship With My Friend? by goodmike7: 3:48am On Nov 24, 2023 |
Persephone1: So you have never sent kids on errands? the hypocrisy of peolpe here i alarming 2 Likes |
Re: was I Wrong In Wanting To End Friendship With My Friend? by Kobojunkie: 3:57am On Nov 24, 2023 |
Kingson28:Exactly and she go keep her peace of mind as well! 2. The friend didn't ask OP for money. OP gave her money without her asking for it before revealing that her offer was not in fact free of charge. 3. If you don't know how to truly give — without requiring repayment—, it is best you keep your money and get yourself a household instead. 1 Like |
Re: was I Wrong In Wanting To End Friendship With My Friend? by Kingson28: 4:02am On Nov 24, 2023 |
[quote author=Kobojunkie post=127134723] Exactly and she go keep her peace of mind as well! 2. The friend didn't ask OP for money. OP gave her money without her asking for it before revealing that her offer was not in fact free of charge. 3. If you don't know how to give freely, it is best you keep your money and get yourself a household instead. You will be a dangerous person for anyone to have as a friend because you will not be available in their time of need. With friends like you, who needs enemies? You qualify better as an enemy rather than a friend, if your friend can’t send your kids on errands. |
Re: was I Wrong In Wanting To End Friendship With My Friend? by Kobojunkie: 4:12am On Nov 24, 2023 |
Kingson28:I give without expecting anything in return. I don't believe in paying people to be my friends nor do I need people who feel they ought to be friends with me because I was kind to them at one point or another. I prefer friendship that comes straight from the heart, not one that was paid for with my money. 2 Likes |
Re: was I Wrong In Wanting To End Friendship With My Friend? by folake4u(f): 4:25am On Nov 24, 2023 |
Persephone1: Perse, is that really a female or male wey dey disguise? 3 Likes |
Re: was I Wrong In Wanting To End Friendship With My Friend? by Ligxy(f): 4:41am On Nov 24, 2023 |
Ginaz:What's your friend's job? 7th pregnancy keh? Stop allowing the kids into your home, you can give them food in takeaway packs, let them go eat at home, that way, they don't have to wash your plates or clean your house. My neighbour specifically told me that I can send her kids errands whenever I want, but omoh, I borrow myself brain, I don't send them anything... I have a toddler, and no help, but I carry my baby on my back and run my errands by myself. Now, my baby is 3 and can walk by himself, if I have to buy stuffs across the street 10 times, I go with him 10 times. I still dish food for my neighbour's kids.... They're not poor tho. 😂 1 Like |
Re: was I Wrong In Wanting To End Friendship With My Friend? by Ligxy(f): 4:51am On Nov 24, 2023 |
Ginaz:You're actually a kind person, but very emotional, you should learn to contr your emotions. Mothers don't like anyone sending their kids, I can assure you of that. I try so hard to avoid sending other people's children on errands. Not sure I'll like any neighbour sending my kids errands frequently too. 1 Like |
Re: was I Wrong In Wanting To End Friendship With My Friend? by IjebuWarrior: 5:23am On Nov 24, 2023 |
Ginaz: Imagine, you dey try use ur friend's kids as ur personal slaves cuz you feed them some watery beans... Good she refused. Miserable sharp-mouthed ugly thing. 1 Like |
Re: was I Wrong In Wanting To End Friendship With My Friend? by Ginaz(f): 6:47am On Nov 24, 2023 |
IjebuWarrior: go carry children from orphanage home to your house and feed them strong beans if e sure for you. As your mama born you ugly like monkey, you think say everybody ugly like you? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: was I Wrong In Wanting To End Friendship With My Friend? by Ginaz(f): 6:49am On Nov 24, 2023 |
Persephone1: mumu fake pastor wey dey cap. you don let go of your hypocrisy? You didn't waste your time as you were thoroughly exposed as the mumu you are. two faced pretender wey dey disguise. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: was I Wrong In Wanting To End Friendship With My Friend? by Ginaz(f): 6:53am On Nov 24, 2023 |
Ligxy: Ya I get it. I'm trying to stop them which will be gradual process. thanks. 1 Like |
Re: was I Wrong In Wanting To End Friendship With My Friend? by Tempulated(m): 7:08am On Nov 24, 2023 |
Problem everywhere 1 Like |
Re: was I Wrong In Wanting To End Friendship With My Friend? by SAMBARRY: 7:14am On Nov 24, 2023 |
Persephone1:lmaooo this one still dey in severe pains Miserable low life dey do winner for NL Oya go collect your prize for CBN 2 Likes |
Re: was I Wrong In Wanting To End Friendship With My Friend? by SAMBARRY: 7:17am On Nov 24, 2023 |
Ligxy:if you don't like it,you will like it when they get to university.even clerks go send them message Taya. Maybe you go dey follow your children everywhere dey fight everybody wey wan send am message 1 Like |
Re: was I Wrong In Wanting To End Friendship With My Friend? by Movichabiodun(m): 7:18am On Nov 24, 2023 |
If the woman was to be financially stable. Would you be bold enough to pick up your phone and pull a call through to send one of her kids for you to send an errand? You are the one taking an advantage of her situation. Is this how women support women? People should please birth the number of kids they can raise conveniently 1 Like |
Re: was I Wrong In Wanting To End Friendship With My Friend? by SAMBARRY: 7:29am On Nov 24, 2023 |
Persephone1:she don disgrace herself at last 1 Like |
Re: was I Wrong In Wanting To End Friendship With My Friend? by Caseless: 7:31am On Nov 24, 2023 |
Ginaz:You should have been diplomatic in how you end the relationship. You did it so abruptly that it's making her to call you to what's happening. You should have gone to see her and still give her stuff. You have to start by stopping to send her children on errand, then you reduce your contact to just phone and you disappear gradually. Children are mostly honest. They hardly lie. Don't stop helping them, but keep your distance. |
Re: was I Wrong In Wanting To End Friendship With My Friend? by Ginaz(f): 7:38am On Nov 24, 2023 |
Caseless: I was hurt. na human I be nor be robot. Thanks for your input, I've reduced my contact with her. thanks for your support. The children are gradually being stopped from coming to my place. 1 Like |
Re: was I Wrong In Wanting To End Friendship With My Friend? by Ginaz(f): 7:39am On Nov 24, 2023 |
SAMBARRY: very big disgrace. infact na she be the biggest disgrace of nairaland in year 2023. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: was I Wrong In Wanting To End Friendship With My Friend? by Sucre7: 7:51am On Nov 24, 2023 |
Ginaz: Being good and supportive to the family does give you the right to send their kids to errands. Like WTF? Would you have acce9if you were in her shoes? We are too quick to dish to others what we can't eat ourselves. 1 Like |
Re: was I Wrong In Wanting To End Friendship With My Friend? by Ginaz(f): 8:02am On Nov 24, 2023 |
Sucre7: oga wenti you for tell David wey save Jonathan son to be eating at his table but gave out his inheritance to his slave cos he didn't follow him to hide from Absalom his son? you will tell David he has no right and he's wicked. face front abeg. the matter don do. everyone is fine at a proper distance. move on abeg. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: was I Wrong In Wanting To End Friendship With My Friend? by SAMBARRY: 8:25am On Nov 24, 2023 |
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