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Re: Are We Been Insensitive Or We Should Just Help Our Neighbour. by Stevenbright(m): 6:06am On Jan 01 |
Lamanii22: Majority of Nigerian mothers are like that nowadays. 2 Likes |
Re: Are We Been Insensitive Or We Should Just Help Our Neighbour. by Karleb(m): 6:08am On Jan 01 |
This is new year. Let them learn their lessons. You should also be minding your business. You are not Jesus, don't save anyone |
Re: Are We Been Insensitive Or We Should Just Help Our Neighbour. by UnfairLife7(m): 6:46am On Jan 01 |
Rich4god:i am just reading your second page which is the continuation of the first page. I think you should help her get her daughter release. Let the mother and daughter sign an undertaken at the station that she'd not be found frolicking around with miscreants. Help her for the sake of humanity please |
Re: Are We Been Insensitive Or We Should Just Help Our Neighbour. by Capernum: 6:58am On Jan 01 |
Mind your business sir, otherwise you will be a gossip topic in that compound. Caretaker already gave all of you a soft instruction. You'll appear like a compound rebel because of a small upcoming criminal girl. For the sake of your safety, plan to leave that vicinity. You calling the attention of the mother earlier had generated a kind of soft eneminty with those small boys... They are not just yahoo boys.. They are cultists too. Leave the girl... It's best she stays long in the cell to learn her lesson very well. She's becoming a criminal and this might be God's way of cautioning her. She's just 3 months plus in that street 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Are We Been Insensitive Or We Should Just Help Our Neighbour. by LooneyLester: 8:53am On Jan 01 |
Both the mama and daughter are nice too 1 Like |
Re: Are We Been Insensitive Or We Should Just Help Our Neighbour. by Tallesty1(m): 9:25am On Jan 01 |
UnfairLife7:You know, I used to wonder if people who post certain things online have parents or people they respect, but then it occurred to me that some of them are already mothers with grown-up children. So yeah, mothers say worse things. One day, a lady came home with long braids, and the mother's concern was how her boyfriend would cope during doggy. She voiced this concern out loud, and I overheard it because I was outside. 6 Likes |
Re: Are We Been Insensitive Or We Should Just Help Our Neighbour. by Rich4god(m): 9:33am On Jan 01 |
Stevenbright: Not majority sha.. But more of modern days mothers are like that. They don't care what their children does. And if you try to correct the wrong of their children, you become an enemy. 4 Likes |
Re: Are We Been Insensitive Or We Should Just Help Our Neighbour. by Rich4god(m): 9:34am On Jan 01 |
Tallesty1: Wow.... This one shock me like Buhari. |
Re: Are We Been Insensitive Or We Should Just Help Our Neighbour. by Tallesty1(m): 9:39am On Jan 01 |
Rich4god:Bro, how is your conscience treating you? Is it okay with the whole "mind your business" stuff? Will it not judge you harshly if you don't help? In most situations, I do things that satisfy my conscience, and there are times that I regret following it, but I know deep inside that it would have been worse if I hadn't listened to it. Forget what people will say or think; do you, do what is right. The lady is still in the age of unseriousness and will likely regret her actions in the future. This very incident will teach her a good lesson if she has sense, so please help if you can. If a certain police officer minded his business in 2015, I would probably be in prison right now wasting away for something I didn't do. Looking away always sounds nice until you are the person being ignored. Forget the mother; she actually doesn't have one. Do you; it might be your worst mistake or the best decision this year, but you'll never know if you don't try. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Are We Been Insensitive Or We Should Just Help Our Neighbour. by Rich4god(m): 9:59am On Jan 01 |
Tallesty1: I agree with you. Me I have always been someone who takes action to fix it correct things. When I started noticing the girl hanging out with those guys, I was really concerned, cos i knw it won't take time before she lands in trouble. But what is more worrisome is the fact that the mum knows about it but refuses to caution her daughter. This issue of mind your business is actually causing more harm than good in the society. 4 Likes |
Re: Are We Been Insensitive Or We Should Just Help Our Neighbour. by UnfairLife7(m): 10:09am On Jan 01 |
Tallesty1:So sad A mother gave her 18 yrs old daughter a bead to wear on her waist to prevent pregnancy after she has done 2 abortion |
Re: Are We Been Insensitive Or We Should Just Help Our Neighbour. by Ishilove: 10:11am On Jan 01 |
Rich4god:Oga, you tried to warn the mum but she was more interested in finding a husband for her daughter, even if it means the prospective husband was a criminal. She has other children, let them contribute to pay for the item. As for the silly girl, I hope she has learned her lesson 2 Likes |
Re: Are We Been Insensitive Or We Should Just Help Our Neighbour. by Ishilove: 10:21am On Jan 01 |
Klass99:Well said 2 Likes |
Re: Are We Been Insensitive Or We Should Just Help Our Neighbour. by Ishilove: 10:24am On Jan 01 |
Tallesty1:Please, tell me you are joking 🥺 |
Re: Are We Been Insensitive Or We Should Just Help Our Neighbour. by Tallesty1(m): 10:44am On Jan 01 |
Re: Are We Been Insensitive Or We Should Just Help Our Neighbour. by NoToPile: 10:50am On Jan 01 |
Rich4god: You see this bolded part is the reason why lots of landlords profile prospective tenants but the landlords are called harsh when they say they don't want this, that, they want working class, young couple whatever specification they state they want, its from experience. Just one wrong tenant can give the wrong people access to the compound and land everybody in trouble if care is not taken. If they give this woman quit notice now, they will say landlords are wicked. Comot eye oo, let the mama pay for the consequences. If it was a mama that has been cautioning her daughter it's a different thing entirely. Just know that those boys will probably rob one of the other flats in the compound, if they continue associating with that girl, it's just a matter of time. Lots of parents of young adults are failing these days Stay away from contributing as the Caretaker has said. 3 Likes |
Re: Are We Been Insensitive Or We Should Just Help Our Neighbour. by Rich4god(m): 11:37am On Jan 01 |
NoToPile: You just said the truth ... And that's one of the best way to keep ones compound safe. Lots of parents are really failing in their responsibility, especially if it's just the mother. Am very sure, if the dad was to be fit and around, he won't condone such. Imagine sometimes I come back home around 9:30 10 then I will see the young girl still outside with the boys and the mother is comfortable with that. 2 Likes |
Re: Are We Been Insensitive Or We Should Just Help Our Neighbour. by mrjojo: 11:47am On Jan 01 |
Learn to mind your business , as easy as it sounds , it quite difficult for a lot of people . Don't even tell a woman how to raise your kids .. If you suspect the boys are into fraud or illegal activity, report them to the police/efcc |
Re: Are We Been Insensitive Or We Should Just Help Our Neighbour. by Biglittlelois(f): 11:49am On Jan 01 |
Tallesty1: What did I just read 😱 What the hell did I just read 😱 4 Likes |
Re: Are We Been Insensitive Or We Should Just Help Our Neighbour. by crackhaus: 11:50am On Jan 01 |
Foodqueen:You typed all these with your senses intact? 4 Likes |
Re: Are We Been Insensitive Or We Should Just Help Our Neighbour. by crackhaus: 11:51am On Jan 01 |
Tallesty1:The mother's line of work is obvious. 3 Likes |
Re: Are We Been Insensitive Or We Should Just Help Our Neighbour. by Acidosis(m): 12:18pm On Jan 01 |
UnfairLife7: A mother who abandons her blind husband in the village is capable of anything. You don't have to read the entire story to know the kind of family in OP's story. 5 Likes |
Re: Are We Been Insensitive Or We Should Just Help Our Neighbour. by hedeybody: 1:09pm On Jan 01 |
Re: Are We Been Insensitive Or We Should Just Help Our Neighbour. by Anunakeeh: 1:12pm On Jan 01 |
Rich4god: You haven't learn serious lessons in life. I avoid poor people like plague. 2 Likes |
Re: Are We Been Insensitive Or We Should Just Help Our Neighbour. by NoToPile: 1:13pm On Jan 01 |
Rich4god: She now wants you to help contribute to release the daughter? Remove your eye. The kind of young adults being bred these days is alarming. Thank Goodness some parents are getting it right. 2 Likes |
Re: Are We Been Insensitive Or We Should Just Help Our Neighbour. by Think9ja(m): 1:15pm On Jan 01 |
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Re: Are We Been Insensitive Or We Should Just Help Our Neighbour. by KingLennon(m): 1:15pm On Jan 01 |
Jeon:Aren't u saying anything? Aren't u criticizing your gender as you would have done if the tables were turned? |
Re: Are We Been Insensitive Or We Should Just Help Our Neighbour. by pek(m): 1:19pm On Jan 01 |
duduade: |
Re: Are We Been Insensitive Or We Should Just Help Our Neighbour. by Sucre7: 1:19pm On Jan 01 |
Let no one naira come out from your pocket. 3 Likes |
Re: Are We Been Insensitive Or We Should Just Help Our Neighbour. by pek(m): 1:21pm On Jan 01 |
I will give you the advice i will give my son or my brother, don't contribute a kobo fpr her release. 1 Like |
Re: Are We Been Insensitive Or We Should Just Help Our Neighbour. by illicit(m): 1:22pm On Jan 01 |
The problem u shd have with them is the fact that they obstruct ur entrance to ur compound Any other thing is pokenosing, none of ur business.... 1 Like |
Re: Are We Been Insensitive Or We Should Just Help Our Neighbour. by Meteng: 1:24pm On Jan 01 |
OP, e no concern you. If you contribute shishi, you be mumu 1 Like |
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