Lol Nairaland.

You are idle na why


No mind your business make you allow small boys for street tidy you

Sai ! . What nonsense is this. If truly the mother said that then u are wasting ur time trying to help them. The lady would still not change and the mother would still not change her mindset.

Personally i won't help people that have chosen to be stupid cuz they will continue to be stupid. I would hv help if her mother didn't said what she said. Helping them would just be as ur not doing anything cuz with mother's support that's how the lady would be.

It seems you like the younger daughter and seeing her with those guys dem pain you......
Shebi the mama don tell you indirectly to mind your own business yet you still get mind in the girl....
Dont contribute any shishi and stay away from the girls family affairs....you fit land for trouble ooo!

Foodqueen:
Mind your business.

I can't imagine that u actually went to say that to her mother. Isn't she aware about what's going on before

No matter how much you try, that girl no go ever look your side, there are some girls that are destined to date bad boys, she's one of them.

U thought cos u are a cool guy, she should av been chilling with you ba

If u like part with your money cos u av the hope that she might start dating you. OYO.

Mind your business before them naked you for that house.

Read very well, op is not talking about dating the girl.

I think minding his business will be better because it clearly shows that we read meaning to someone trying to help.

He might just be concerned and don't want her to mix with bad boys. Same thing any good big brother will do.
But almost everyone is telling him the girl won't agree to date him.

Wahala

Rich4god:
Continued....

One Saturday, me and another neighbour just came out from our compound, only to be hearing shout from those boys that "we can't do them anything, that we don't have the right to tell them not to stand at the front of our gate, that if we do anyhow, we go see anyhow". We just neglected them and went away.
Later on, I learnt that our caretaker warned the mother to tell her daughter not to be standing at the front of the compound with those guys. So obviously, the girl went and told the guys about it that's why they were raking.

On the on Friday, 22 Dec, I came back home to hear the news that the girl have been arrested in connection to a stolen item and even though the item have been found, it was found in a bad state and the owner is insisting that they pay him for damages before he can withdraw his case. Police are saying that they can only release the girl if we pay the owner the money his requesting for,as the boys claimed the item spoilt at the girls hand, but for the boys, they will be charged for breaking into someone's residence to steal an item.

Now the mother have been begging us to help her raise money to pay the owner of the item as she doesn't have enough. But our caretaker is saying that none of us should donate a penny to her.

I just feel as though we should help her, but all the other are buying the idea of the caretaker that we should stay out of the case.

My little opinion, you seem like a nice guy and remember our good deeds helps us in another way. That little girl is lost and no be you go show am light but do the little you can. Help them..use someone else to render the mom the help needed. Trust, if you help them sit back and watch how things pLay out. If the girl comes out and her brain reset then know she is just a little lost girl, advice and probably help her secure a job to get busy as she plans her life but if she come out still dey misbehave then lock up. Problem no dey finish for those kind people…peace bro

UnfairLife7:
Jesus


I don't believe a mother can say that...

seems this world is truly coming to an end o

some mothers these days are very shameless

ShiShi I no go drop.

Too much wisdom

Klass99:


It is funny how folks are often quick to say mind your business BUT when they themselves are in a mess or bad situation they desperately wish someone will help them and not mind their business.

For instance, when it is raining or about to rain, the same crew of mind your business will want you to help them with a ride in your car or help them bring their clothes in from the line. When they jam wahala with police or SARS now, they will want others to join them in seeking justice and fighting their fight. They will not remember to say mind your business in these situations .

I write all this to say you did nothing wrong by voicing your concerns to the mother because that girl was courting the sort of trouble that could affect all of you in that compound. What am I even saying sef, her interaction with those boys was already affecting you guys, because they were repeatedly blocking the entry and exit point into your compound with their presence and refusing to move for others to conveniently pass.

On the matter of contributing money to help the mother PLEASE MIND YOUR BUSINESS, do as the caretaker has asked and stay out of it. Let the mother plead with the property owner and explain to him that she has no money, her continuous pleading may touch his heart to withdraw the case. There is a lesson to be learnt in all of this by the mother and daughter, they may not learn it if you guys rush to bail them out.

These neighbours also sound like the sort of people who can be ungrateful, the sort who turn around to bite the finger that fed or helped them.

Rich4god:
Continued....

One Saturday, me and another neighbour just came out from our compound, only to be hearing shout from those boys that "we can't do them anything, that we don't have the right to tell them not to stand at the front of our gate, that if we do anyhow, we go see anyhow". We just neglected them and went away.
Later on, I learnt that our caretaker warned the mother to tell her daughter not to be standing at the front of the compound with those guys. So obviously, the girl went and told the guys about it that's why they were raking.

On the on Friday, 22 Dec, I came back home to hear the news that the girl have been arrested in connection to a stolen item and even though the item have been found, it was found in a bad state and the owner is insisting that they pay him for damages before he can withdraw his case. Police are saying that they can only release the girl if we pay the owner the money his requesting for,as the boys claimed the item spoilt at the girls hand, but for the boys, they will be charged for breaking into someone's residence to steal an item.

Now the mother have been begging us to help her raise money to pay the owner of the item as she doesn't have enough. But our caretaker is saying that none of us should donate a penny to her.

I just feel as though we should help her, but all the other neighbours are buying the idea of the caretaker that we should stay out of the case.

You are what?
You are MUMU
I don’t know why people can’t mind their business
You, yes you, why can’t you mind your business?
Person tell you say her daughter need husband,can’t talk to her daughter, can’t advice her daughter, daughter too no get sense na that same daughter you wan go contribute money for. Are you normal?
See e no Dey pay to be good o, better carry blind eye and be like the caretaker

We should learn to be each other's keeper regardless of status or religion.










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Bro ... I understand your concern about the girl... but the mother was aware of her daughter hanging out.... why tell her about what she already know? The response you got should've made you stay clear of her business. Now the girl is in trouble and you are trying to dive into their business again? ... the people in the compound all agree except you. Why are you supporting what you just condemned? ... why not let her and the mother suffer the consequences? ... why notballow them to learn the hard way? ... you help them you will be seen as a godfather ... they will now be coming to you for financial help ... and when you refuse ... the same girl will set the aspiring yahoo boys on you. May I mention the neighbours will begin to stay clear of you? Hmmmm ... the neighbour daughter is giving you headache ... you wrote a whole lot between the lines but don't even know.

Rich4god:


I want to believe that you didn't read my post well before you typed this your reply. I have important things to do than to even think of following a lady. This is one of the problem with you ladies, when a guy shows a geniu concern towards your wellbeing, you automatically think that he's trying to "get you".

So if your neighbour sees a family member of yours following criminals, he should just allow her be because correcting her means he want her to be chilling with him. Uwa mmebi.

Lady, not all men follow things under skirt.

I heard you. I can relate though. It's obvious, they always come to regret their actions. They never deserve a good man. Neither be a simp nor a bad man. Watch out for yourself.

Don't help.

Rich4god:
Continued....

One Saturday, me and another neighbour just came out from our compound, only to be hearing shout from those boys that "we can't do them anything, that we don't have the right to tell them not to stand at the front of our gate, that if we do anyhow, we go see anyhow". We just neglected them and went away.
Later on, I learnt that our caretaker warned the mother to tell her daughter not to be standing at the front of the compound with those guys. So obviously, the girl went and told the guys about it that's why they were raking.

On the on Friday, 22 Dec, I came back home to hear the news that the girl have been arrested in connection to a stolen item and even though the item have been found, it was found in a bad state and the owner is insisting that they pay him for damages before he can withdraw his case. Police are saying that they can only release the girl if we pay the owner the money his requesting for,as the boys claimed the item spoilt at the girls hand, but for the boys, they will be charged for breaking into someone's residence to steal an item.

Now the mother have been begging us to help her raise money to pay the owner of the item as she doesn't have enough. But our caretaker is saying that none of us should donate a penny to her.

I just feel as though we should help her, but all the other neighbours are buying the idea of the caretaker that we should stay out of the case.

If u pay a dime, u re not but idiot from pit of hell

9182736455O1999:

It's your decision to make but if I were to be in your shoes and if I am capable, I'll talk to the caretaker and other tenants if we can help at least for this first incident.
Then observe the attitued of the mother and daughter.

A snake is always a snake despite changing its skin....leave the woman to suffer h
For her wayward action..... left to me....i will not give her anything and i will not ask abt her

Do not donate a penny. And if they continue lottering around, report them to police station for causing problems in your area.

Klass99:


It is funny how folks are often quick to say mind your business BUT when they themselves are in a mess or bad situation they desperately wish someone will help them and not mind their business.

For instance, when it is raining or about to rain, the same crew of mind your business will want you to help them with a ride in your car or help them bring their clothes in from the line. When they jam wahala with police or SARS now, they will want others to join them in seeking justice and fighting their fight. They will not remember to say mind your business in these situations .

I write all this to say you did nothing wrong by voicing your concerns to the mother because that girl was courting the sort of trouble that could affect all of you in that compound. What am I even saying sef, her interaction with those boys was already affecting you guys, because they were repeatedly blocking the entry and exit point into your compound with their presence and refusing to move for others to conveniently pass.

On the matter of contributing money to help the mother PLEASE MIND YOUR BUSINESS, do as the caretaker has asked and stay out of it. Let the mother plead with the property owner and explain to him that she has no money, her continuous pleading may touch his heart to withdraw the case. There is a lesson to be learnt in all of this by the mother and daughter, they may not learn it if you guys rush to bail them out.

These neighbours also sound like the sort of people who can be ungrateful, the sort who turn around to bite the finger that fed or helped them.

you're a very sensible person. I'm totally in support of your submission. God bless you.

Nigerians with their fake "mind your business" life style. Some them would later come online and drop their account numbers asking for help, how I wish they could keep the numbers to themselves.

Some women gave birth but are not worthy mothers. That's the kind the girl has, cos I don't know the kinda mother that'll see her young girl hanging around with jobless boys everyday and still would feel comfortable. Nonsense mama.

UnfairLife7:
Jesus


I don't believe a mother can say that...

seems this world is truly coming to an end o

na poverty bro

Tallesty1:
Bro, how is your conscience treating you? Is it okay with the whole "mind your business" stuff? Will it not judge you harshly if you don't help? In most situations, I do things that satisfy my conscience, and there are times that I regret following it, but I know deep inside that it would have been worse if I hadn't listened to it.

Forget what people will say or think; do you, do what is right.

The lady is still in the age of unseriousness and will likely regret her actions in the future. This very incident will teach her a good lesson if she has sense, so please help if you can. If a certain police officer minded his business in 2015, I would probably be in prison right now wasting away for something I didn't do.

Looking away always sounds nice until you are the person being ignored.

Forget the mother; she actually doesn't have one.

Do you; it might be your worst mistake or the best decision this year, but you'll never know if you don't try.

If you read this story from beginning to the end and still adversing him to continue put mouth into the matter,....I fear who no fear u.

If OP butchers by cultists tomorrow, you will only offer RIP to the dead, .

..... meanwhile,if u think op should still be putting mouth on the issues, in which the mother of useless girl had already warned him to stay clear, I will advise you to ask OP to send u his phone number, so that he can give you useless girl's mother number to contact them in other for u to involve directly into issue that isn't concerned you.

Rich4god:
Continued....

One Saturday, me and another neighbour just came out from our compound, only to be hearing shout from those boys that "we can't do them anything, that we don't have the right to tell them not to stand at the front of our gate, that if we do anyhow, we go see anyhow". We just neglected them and went away.
Later on, I learnt that our caretaker warned the mother to tell her daughter not to be standing at the front of the compound with those guys. So obviously, the girl went and told the guys about it that's why they were raking.

On the on Friday, 22 Dec, I came back home to hear the news that the girl have been arrested in connection to a stolen item and even though the item have been found, it was found in a bad state and the owner is insisting that they pay him for damages before he can withdraw his case. Police are saying that they can only release the girl if we pay the owner the money his requesting for,as the boys claimed the item spoilt at the girls hand, but for the boys, they will be charged for breaking into someone's residence to steal an item.

Now the mother have been begging us to help her raise money to pay the owner of the item as she doesn't have enough. But our caretaker is saying that none of us should donate a penny to her.

I just feel as though we should help her, but all the other neighbours are buying the idea of the caretaker that we should stay out of the case.

Instead of you to mind your business, you wan they form to be a good samaritan.

Lamanii22:
Can you imagine…. What type of mother is that? In life maybe we should just mind out businesses…

I do mind my business.

No give them shishi, even if u do, dat girl will come out and not have sense. Mek d mama find husband to help 'am

Foodqueen:
Mind your business.

I can't imagine that u actually went to say that to her mother. Isn't she aware about what's going on before

No matter how much you try, that girl no go ever look your side, there are some girls that are destined to date bad boys, she's one of them.

U thought cos u are a cool guy, she should av been chilling with you ba

If u like part with your money cos u av the hope that she might start dating you. OYO.

Mind your business before them naked you for that house.

GBAM!

You saw right through the OP's antics.. He was using style to get across to the girl. Girl wey no even notice am.


cc: Rich4god

Rich4god:
Continued....

One Saturday, me and another neighbour just came out from our compound, only to be hearing shout from those boys that "we can't do them anything, that we don't have the right to tell them not to stand at the front of our gate, that if we do anyhow, we go see anyhow". We just neglected them and went away.
Later on, I learnt that our caretaker warned the mother to tell her daughter not to be standing at the front of the compound with those guys. So obviously, the girl went and told the guys about it that's why they were raking.

On the on Friday, 22 Dec, I came back home to hear the news that the girl have been arrested in connection to a stolen item and even though the item have been found, it was found in a bad state and the owner is insisting that they pay him for damages before he can withdraw his case. Police are saying that they can only release the girl if we pay the owner the money his requesting for,as the boys claimed the item spoilt at the girls hand, but for the boys, they will be charged for breaking into someone's residence to steal an item.

Now the mother have been begging us to help her raise money to pay the owner of the item as she doesn't have enough. But our caretaker is saying that none of us should donate a penny to her.

I just feel as though we should help her, but all the other neighbours are buying the idea of the caretaker that we should stay out of the case.

God knows I love this type of rest of mind I'm personally having since we moved into our house and I insist on not building any space for tenant in our compound. Only my family and I

mrjojo:
If you suspect the boys are into fraud or illegal activity, report them to the police/efcc

Learn to mind your business.

Rich4god:


I want to believe that you didn't read my post well before you typed this your reply. I have important things to do than to even think of following a lady. This is one of the problem with you ladies, when a guy shows a geniu concern towards your wellbeing, you automatically think that he's trying to "get you".

So if your neighbour sees a family member of yours following criminals, he should just allow her be because correcting her means he want her to be chilling with him. Uwa mmebi.

Lady, not all men follow things under skirt.

SHAARRAP DIA!!!

You think say na only you wise. You dey use corner eye look the girl and the thing dey pepper you say na those low lives she dey roll with.

Foodqueen don tell you the truth. Mind your business before dem naked you for that compound.

illicit:
The problem u shd have with them is the fact that they obstruct ur entrance to ur compound

Any other thing is pokenosing....

Gbam!

MrDoGood:


Read very well, op is not talking about dating the girl.

I think minding his business will be better because it clearly shows that we read meaning to someone trying to help.

He might just be concerned and don't want her to mix with bad boys. Same thing any good big brother will do.
But almost everyone is telling him the girl won't agree to date him.

Wahala

The young lady is not related to the Rich4god. Let him mind his business on this issue. The girl mama made it clear to him.

Rich4god:
Continued....

One Saturday, me and another neighbour just came out from our compound, only to be hearing shout from those boys that "we can't do them anything, that we don't have the right to tell them not to stand at the front of our gate, that if we do anyhow, we go see anyhow". We just neglected them and went away.
Later on, I learnt that our caretaker warned the mother to tell her daughter not to be standing at the front of the compound with those guys. So obviously, the girl went and told the guys about it that's why they were raking.

On the on Friday, 22 Dec, I came back home to hear the news that the girl have been arrested in connection to a stolen item and even though the item have been found, it was found in a bad state and the owner is insisting that they pay him for damages before he can withdraw his case. Police are saying that they can only release the girl if we pay the owner the money his requesting for,as the boys claimed the item spoilt at the girls hand, but for the boys, they will be charged for breaking into someone's residence to steal an item.

Now the mother have been begging us to help her raise money to pay the owner of the item as she doesn't have enough. But our caretaker is saying that none of us should donate a penny to her.

I just feel as though we should help her, but all the other neighbours are buying the idea of the caretaker that we should stay out of the case.

Don't pay