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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Nobody: 4:47am On May 14, 2022
Fearlez:
hairy beast with massive toto



As big as that of your mother that refused to a.bort a use.less son like you. So you peep your mum while she's bathing to know her toto is that big shocked shocked
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Nobody: 7:17am On May 14, 2022
Fearlez:
Stop trying to diss....your line is as weak as your Papa penile efforts.

Your mama na una village Guliani Buffon when dey catch random dick for Una village gate.....clean sheet grin

Na your drunkard, lazy father forced her into early retirement by planting a human travesty like you in her womb that has served as the community dumpster.

Single bang -and-go mother!



I no dey read your meaningless paragraphs...son of a witch and bitch. Come make I mother you well cus your mother did a bad job. Son of a wizard and efulelefu.

I have your time very well. Go and wash your stained scrotu.m
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Nobody: 7:24am On May 14, 2022
Fearlez:
Frustrated angry beast..... How is your little bastard doing?

Anytime you look at that child, I want you to realise it is the product of your disease: Vulver Itching disorder (VID)

Big toto



Your good bye message is in your May's post. USELESS AND IRRESPONSIBLE BOY LOOKING FOR RELEVANCE ON NAIRALAND. CONTINUE YOUR YAHOO PLUS.
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Nobody: 7:26am On May 14, 2022
Fearlez:
Ninisun the massive big toto single mother has run out of the front page to quote me in a dead thread?

What are you afraid of?



Drop your WhatsApp number if u no dey fear.
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Nobody: 7:27am On May 14, 2022
Fearlez:
Frustrated angry beast..... How is your little bastard doing?

Anytime you look at that child, I want you to realise it is the product of your disease: Vulver Itching disorder (VID)

Big toto



YOUR MOTHER DID BAD JOB ON YOU. USELESS SON.
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by UncleKoboko: 8:44am On May 14, 2022
HajiaNotu:


And a mans sexual purity is tied to what ? Assistant Jesus..

I wasnt trained to insult people online especially when they air their views on a topic,, if not eehnn kiss
You for collect...
Mumu
Go collect training nau
The stupid mentality in you people's head .... You want to compete... You want to argue... You want to tell me that we're Equal grin
It's the feminist era bullshǐt

Men and women are not the same.
We are not equal and will NEVER be equal till they kingdom come. Even God DID NOT CREATE US EQUALLY.
KNOW THAT AND KNOW PEACE.

Sexual between us is different. You're the one that can be examined whether you're a virgin or your private parts have become public parts. There's absolutely nothing in the world that can be used to check or test a man. Men even start ejaculations during puberty (wet dreams) without sexual experiences.
But for you, if we check your DNA now, we can still see the first person's sperm DNA that ever ejaculated into your public hole. IT WILL BE THERE FOREVER.
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by HajiaNotu: 1:49pm On May 14, 2022
[quote author=UncleKoboko post=112816123]
Mumu
Go collect training nau
The stupid mentality in you people's head .... You want to compete... You want to argue... You want to tell me that we're Equal grin
It's the feminist era bullshǐt

Men and women are not the same.
We are not equal and will NEVER be equal till they kingdom come. Even God DID NOT CREATE US EQUALLY.
KNOW THAT AND KNOW PEACE.

Sexual between us is different. You're the one that can be examined whether you're a virgin or your private parts have become public parts. There's absolutely nothing in the world that can be used to check or test a man. Men even start ejaculations during puberty (wet dreams) without sexual experiences.
But for you, if we check your DNA now, we can still see the first person's sperm DNA that ever ejaculated into your public hole. IT WILL BE THERE FOREVER.[/quote

Men and Women are equal!!!!!!!!!


Comman beat me... grin

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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by blovesther(f): 1:56pm On May 14, 2022
Toktee:
Just Bleep her and run.... anything she tell you as a reason for her been single is lies.





They are sadist.


They are really bittered.


They are manner less


They are wayward.


Most of them just take a break from active prostitution.
hmmmm are you for real?
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Prosperity4All: 10:43am On Jun 03, 2022
MistarT:
Please candid opinions will be appreciated. Thanks.

Itwill do humanity great good, if we hear from marriage counsellors with wide range of experiences, thanks.

CONS:
You will be starting marriage as a Father. Because her baby is now yours. So you have to be financially ready for child upkeep also, not only wife.
Which is good in the sense that, if you find that you are not ready for kids, then you better zip up.
PROS:
1. Tested. You know she's a layer LOL. In some rare cases there women who have a 1st child but having another becomes difficult. But you get what I mean.
2. Good woman. She didn't want to commit an abortion that's the reason this thread is open. Do you prefer marrying a lady with no child but long abortion history or one with a child but zero abortion.
3. She deals with her mistakes than try to cover it by all means. You can trust her.

Note: This is coming from someone with over 15yrs of marital experience
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by kamtrix(m): 4:43pm On Jun 09, 2022
McDuncan:


Well, I'll have you know that she was betrothed and in the Jewish tradition being betrothed is considered married.

If you want biblical proof, I'll supply you. But don't mistake me for a good Christian, I'm not. I have so many weaknesses, chief among them is 'an eye for an eye.'
you can become a good Christian. That's why Jesus came to pay for these your flaws you've mentioned.

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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by TheCongo2: 3:27pm On Jun 10, 2022
Prosperity4All:


CONS:
You will be starting marriage as a Father. Because her baby is now yours. So you have to be financially ready for child upkeep also, not only wife.
Which is good in the sense that, if you find that you are not ready for kids, then you better zip up.
PROS:
1. Tested. You know she's a layer LOL. In some rare cases there women who have a 1st child but having another becomes difficult. But you get what I mean.
2 . Good woman. She didn't want to commit an abortion that's the reason this thread is open. Do you prefer marrying a lady with no child but long abortion history or one with a child but zero abortion.
3. She deals with her mistakes than try to cover it by all means. You can trust her.

Note: This is coming from someone with over 15yrs of marital experience

Being a single mother doesn’t necessarily mean the woman didn’t want to commit an abotion.

It could also mean that she had tried to commit one but the process failed.
Or she wanted to commit one but became too afraid to do it.
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by TheCongo2: 3:37pm On Jun 10, 2022
Dimaya:
There's a problem with single mothers which most men who have dated them constantly report.

If she's in a new relationship, and the babyfather returns on his knees, begging to have her back. She will end the new relationship in a heartbeat.

I have counselled several who have confided that they don't love their husbands. They still miss their babaydaddy and would return in a jiffy.

This doesn’t apply to single moms only.
This apply to people who have exes.
Most people end up marrying partners who turn out not to be their first choice of their love life
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by essentialone(m): 5:44am On Mar 02
Only an extremely stupid man, ends up marrying a Single Mother.

Women are extremely demonic and manipulative. She wants you to accept and care for her previous child or children unconditionally.

Reverse the table in your mind, and glimpse at what would have happened if you were to bring to her, a child born to you, by another lady. You will then realise that you married a Monster. No matter how close I get to a lady or ladies, I never get fooled by who they truly are: Manipulative Monsters!
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by essentialone(m): 5:50am On Mar 02
Toktee:
I don't understand... Single mother as in widow r single mother as in unmarried lady with a kid?

What school did you graduate from?

If it was not Free Education, then you need a Refund. A Widow is not a Single Mother. A Divorcee is not a Mother. "Single", means a Never-married mother. Just wondering what they teach you kids in school these days.
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Toktee(m): 11:59pm On May 10
essentialone:


What school did you graduate from?

If it was not Free Education, then you need a Refund. A Widow is not a Single Mother. A Divorcee is not a Mother. "Single", means a Never-married mother. Just wondering what they teach you kids in school these days.
Look at this mofo forming intelligent.
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Toktee(m): 12:02am On May 11
essentialone:


What school did you graduate from?

If it was not Free Education, then you need a Refund. A Widow is not a Single Mother. A Divorcee is not a Mother. "Single", means a Never-married mother. Just wondering what they teach you kids in school these days.
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Toktee(m): 12:03am On May 11
grin[quote author=Toktee post=129892076][/quote] grin
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by essentialone(m): 5:10am On May 11
Toktee:
Look at this mofo forming intelligent.

Mofo grin

Ode still dey use slang. 😂

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