Nigerian gay activist, Bisi Alimi, has written an epistle telling Nigerians that it is not their responsibility to take care of their parents, neither is it the right of their parents. According to him, a child owes his/her parent nothing, as he/she never begged them to have sex.

He went further to disclose that a child, is not an old age pension scheme. He went further to tell Nigerians not to succumb to emotional blackmail from their parents, or they will milk them dry.

Here's what he wrote;

"Nigerians, doomed financial vicious circle is when your parents brought you up so you can be their cow to milk, while you look forward to doing same to your children.
I understand that the system is bleeped, pension money is being embezzled by stupid greedy politicians, the same ones you worship and bow to, and there is no guarantee for old age, but Bleep, the system won't fix itself. If you don't resist, you will be consumed.


The idea that it is the responsibility of the struggling young to take care of the struggling old is a myth sold to you by the corrupt politicians who have stolen the resources of your commonwealth.


Remember, one rich man among 100 poor men will eventually end up being poor.
You only have two commitments in life; yourself and your children and that's until they are old enough to be kicked out of the house.

You do not, I repeat, you do not owe your parents any pay back unless you are still living with them, which means get the Bleep out or start paying rent and bills.

Remember, you didn't beg them to have sex, they wanted to have children, it's their choice, you should not be their old age pension scheme.
Only do it if you can and have the resources to, but even with that, know the limit or they will emotionally blackmail you and milk you dry."

This dude is officially mad.

Pls, over there. Carry this werey oshi go there..

That place , na where dem dey keep all the chronic mad people..

How i wish i can do that, but i cant...this type of character he is emphasizing was adopted from the western..

Every parent should have a plan for their old age and not rely on their children, for their children are also human and can always disappoint you at any time.
Raise your children right, do your best for them, but also have a retirement plan, and not rely on them. Invest in yourself and your old age. Have only the no of children you can afford to raise, and at the same time save for your old age.
Some children will support their parents, some won't. Some parents will still continue to support their children who are married depending on the size of their pockets, No size fits all. Family dynamics differ.

Cristiano Ronaldo wishes he has a dad, cos now he has money but doesn't have a dad. You don't value what you have until you want to/lose them.
I WILL DO ANYTHING FOR MY MOTHER.let him know he'll be forgotten also by his children

Only a prodigal and cursed child will have this mentality.

So if your parents are suffering and you are financially buoyant, you will tell them this?

I am sure people insulting him didn't read his write up_they read only the heading, but it's normal for Nairalanders .

Truth is bitter, very bitter...
He was a bit hard, went off at some point but he made some sense.

Modified: Before insulting, take your time to read the post without bias. Forget he is gay, sieve out his message_then comment. If you still don't get the message, then you need to walk in the shoes of some Nigerian first sons/daughters.

This set of people labour for years training their younger ones(that may number up to 4) and helping out their parents too. The guys most times would keep on struggling to please his family, pausing his own life. He might finally get married and start his own family in his mid-late 30s.
The ladies sometimes move on to get married, the innocent son-inlaw might end up carrying unnecessary expenses.

Everyone should make plans for his/her retirement. Don't be overly dependent on your kids. Some kids will give, some might not even have to give, some will totally disappoint you...it happens.
It's clearly stated that if you have _give, just don't fall for emotional blackmails aimed at ripping you off. But then _the black man doesn't read.

Rich parents do not rely on their kids for survival.

The OP is right to have asked everyone to work out their retirement plans. The vicious cycle of poverty is the main reason some children slash their salaries in order to take care of a 60 year old man or woman. Such a child will grow old believing it is RIGHT to turn their own children into PENSION schemes. That's why some parents are already having ideas of duplex and cars they want their son to get for them - most times, these sons haven't even found any meaningful job that can cater the luxury of a motorcycle. They push these children into deep depression, illegal businesses and sometimes suicide.

Everyone should work and strive to raise a retirement plan.

He should speak for himself. Only an ingrate would have this mentality towards his/her parents.

Wow! What an ungrateful cretin! No wonder, he's just not alright. May God bless us with good children o. Whew!

binsh its not ur responsibility to tell us that
in as .much as u remain GAY ur opinion in naija is useless

American wannabe..

So Nigerians should leave their aged parents in the hands of a government which he even admitted doesn't pay pensions...what a smart cookie this ar.sewipe is. Later he will say he went to school...

He must have thought he just discovered clean efficient energy by telling us Nigerian government doesn't work. We didn't know!
Typical Nigerian simpleton - expert at detecting problems without offering any solutions.

Not as if I don't plan to take care of my parents in their old age, but to an extent he's right.

OfficialNNB:
Nigerian gay activist, Bisi Alimi, has written an epistle telling Nigerians that it is not their responsibility to take care of their parents, neither is it the right of their parents. According to him, a child owes his/her parent nothing, as he/she never begged them to have sex.

He went further to disclose that a child, is not an old age pension scheme. He went further to tell Nigerians not to succumb to emotional blackmail from their parents, or they will milk them dry.

Here's what he wrote;

"Nigerians, doomed financial vicious circle is when your parents brought you up so you can be their cow to milk, while you look forward to doing same to your children.
I understand that the system is bleeped, pension money is being embezzled by stupid greedy politicians, the same ones you worship and bow to, and there is no guarantee for old age, but Bleep, the system won't fix itself. If you don't resist, you will be consumed.


The idea that it is the responsibility of the struggling young to take care of the struggling old is a myth sold to you by the corrupt politicians who have stolen the resources of your commonwealth.


Remember, one rich man among 100 poor men will eventually end up being poor.
You only have two commitments in life; yourself and your children and that's until they are old enough to be kicked out of the house.

You do not, I repeat, you do not owe your parents any pay back unless you are still living with them, which means get the Bleep out or start paying rent and bills.

Remember, you didn't beg them to have sex, they wanted to have children, it's their choice, you should not be their old age pension scheme.
Only do it if you can and have the resources to, but even with that, know the limit or they will emotionally blackmail you and milk you dry."

I agree %5000000 Absolutely! correct!

But it is their responsibility to take care of you till you've grown too big to return the favour when they're old abi..........the climax of stupidity.

OfficialNNB:
"Remember, you didn't beg them to have sex, they wanted to have children, it's their choice, you should not be their old age pension scheme.
Only do it if you can and have the resources to, but even with that, know the limit or they will emotionally blackmail you and milk you dry."

Of course he's entitled to his opinion

Although it's a bit ironic that without his parents, he wouldn't be around to say this...

OMO ALE JATI JATI

wonders

Absolute Nonsense! Your pride as a child is your ability to care for your parents in old age!

Speak for yourself



You're going to have no child to take care of you that's why

werey

I will take care of my mother

u can go fvck urself

Nigerian gay activist, Bisi Alimi, has written an epistle telling Nigerians that it is not their responsibility to take care of their parents, neither is it the right of their parents. According to him, a child owes his/her parent nothing, as he/she never begged them to have sex.

Proverbs 23:22 “Listen to your father who gave you life, and do not despise your mother when she is old.”



Morafucking gay looking monkey called Bisi Alimi or what ever fucck off

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That's totally wrong

No matter what, the onus is on you to take care of your Aged parent it they took proper care of you while developing.

Shut the Bleep up you fucking gay! You can let your parents suffer. We'll take care of ours!

Olofo.. It's my responsibility my parent can afford all the Good things of life but I still get them things just to let them know mama ain't raise no fool like u.. Anyways my people do u know u can get a plot of land in ibeju lekki for 600k and u can pay for 3months.. Chk my page

Is he useful to the society!

OfficialNNB:
Nigerian gay activist, Bisi Alimi, has written an epistle telling Nigerians that it is not their responsibility to take care of their parents, neither is it the right of their parents. According to him, a child owes his/her parent nothing, as he/she never begged them to have sex.

He went further to disclose that a child, is not an old age pension scheme. He went further to tell Nigerians not to succumb to emotional blackmail from their parents, or they will milk them dry.

Here's what he wrote;

"Nigerians, doomed financial vicious circle is when your parents brought you up so you can be their cow to milk, while you look forward to doing same to your children.
I understand that the system is bleeped, pension money is being embezzled by stupid greedy politicians, the same ones you worship and bow to, and there is no guarantee for old age, but Bleep, the system won't fix itself. If you don't resist, you will be consumed.


The idea that it is the responsibility of the struggling young to take care of the struggling old is a myth sold to you by the corrupt politicians who have stolen the resources of your commonwealth.


Remember, one rich man among 100 poor men will eventually end up being poor.
You only have two commitments in life; yourself and your children and that's until they are old enough to be kicked out of the house.

You do not, I repeat, you do not owe your parents any pay back unless you are still living with them, which means get the Bleep out or start paying rent and bills.

Remember, you didn't beg them to have sex, they wanted to have children, it's their choice, you should not be their old age pension scheme.
Only do it if you can and have the resources to, but even with that, know the limit or they will emotionally blackmail you and milk you dry."

gay man trying to justify his chosen path of damnation.

bisi alimi need to be flogged

I don't care if he is homosexual as far as it doesn't effect my life in anyway..he can live his life as he please.


Well I have seen young people ruin their lifes in a bid to please their parents, so to an extent I understand where he is coming from. But I owe my parents everything so I'm going to spoil them silly. Not because they demand it from me but as a show of my gratitude and affection.they took care of me when I was a baby and showed me immense love.it only right i spoil them with the same love and care they gave me.heck they brought me to this world..who am I before them