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Re: Please Help Shape Tehn’s 2014 End Of Year Charity Flight by r231(m): 5:48pm On Sep 16, 2014
MadCow1:


R231..

The reason given is a bit worrisome.. Late Folakes case should not stop the group from undertaking cases of medical needs..

yes you are right...we will review that and get back to you guys.

Basically we are trying to take up cases in which we will be able to see to the end and come out with successful results. Going through the history of TeHN withing the past 3years, we have had at least 3 medical cases which 2 of them did not make it back alive so we decided as a group to pulse on medical cases for now and try to go back to the drawing board to see how best we can handle such in future.

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Re: Please Help Shape Tehn’s 2014 End Of Year Charity Flight by Dygeasy(m): 5:50pm On Sep 16, 2014
My question is this, Is the focus of where the charity flight will reach on a specific region of the country or anywhere a volunteer is and willing to visit and verify in Nigeria?
Re: Please Help Shape Tehn’s 2014 End Of Year Charity Flight by r231(m): 5:53pm On Sep 16, 2014
Dygeasy: My question is this, Is the focus of where the charity flight will reach on a specific region of the country or anywhere a volunteer is and willing to visit and verify in Nigeria?

Anywhere!

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Re: Please Help Shape Tehn’s 2014 End Of Year Charity Flight by Dygeasy(m): 5:54pm On Sep 16, 2014
r231:

Anywhere!
Thank you.
Re: Please Help Shape Tehn’s 2014 End Of Year Charity Flight by MadCow1: 6:04pm On Sep 16, 2014
OAM4J:

Let me start by saying TeHN came to be not because some group of people just wanted to set up a charity organisation. TeHN was born out of a need for volunteers who can sacrifice their time and money to attend to a story on Nairaland about 3/4 yrs ago on a family that was living under the bridge in Lagos at a time. Many wished something can be done while other wished to help them but they dont know how. A few of us then decided to get some members who can visit this family, verify the story, report back to Nairalanders after which we raised fund to relocate and settle them.

After the 1st case was carried out, we decided to put a structure and process in place to be able to handle future cases better.



Presently we have: R231, OAM4J, TGIRL4REAL, MYND44, JARUS, CHAIRCOVER, JAYBEE, BIOLABEE & BENINGIRL(All Nairalanders spread all over the world. We only meet to discuss and deliberate online)



many were nominated, but of course they all have to volunteer to do the job.



There is no fixed time. They remain for as long as they are still willing to volunteer their time. Some of the executive members that started TeHN have left Nairaland and some resigned. When we become short of manpower we always request for new volunteers.



Anyone interested in being part of the exco should simply volunteer by sending us a mail... But acceptance is always base on arising need after we are convinced that such person's character/personality on NL is not questionable.



Every single penny/kobo received and spent is published. We are opened to queries and verification by anyone or group. If you have any suggestion or idea on how we can be better transparent with our activities, please let us know, preferably on our main thread as we will prefer this thread to focus on the subject matter.

Thank you.


Boss of life.. cool

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Re: Please Help Shape Tehn’s 2014 End Of Year Charity Flight by olu4life(m): 6:08pm On Sep 16, 2014
Guess I gotta forget been helped by TEHN. Life continues..
Re: Please Help Shape Tehn’s 2014 End Of Year Charity Flight by MadCow1: 6:10pm On Sep 16, 2014
olu4life: Guess I gotta forget been helped by TEHN. Life continues..


Your friends case is being reviewed.. Keep calm...




I will await r231's comment and then make a decision. I pray it sails through..
Re: Please Help Shape Tehn’s 2014 End Of Year Charity Flight by OAM4J: 6:24pm On Sep 16, 2014
Nairalanders we still need your ideas and suggestions on how to reach out to our elders. We can work with elderly homes and elderly individuals.

Thanks for your anticipated suggestions.

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Re: Please Help Shape Tehn’s 2014 End Of Year Charity Flight by jaybee3(m): 6:38pm On Sep 16, 2014
MadCow1:


Your friends case is being reviewed.. Keep calm...




I will await r231's comment and then make a decision. I pray it sails through..
This was the official response to his request:

Thanks for your email. We’ve now had the chance to deliberate on your request as a group and our official response is that we wouldn’t be able to provide any assistance with this case at this time.

We are currently in the project closure phase of a case that we’ve been involved in since last year July (Ms Folake). The thread is on NL, the lady lived with a goitre around her neck for close to 16 years up until we stepped in and managed to finance her surgery through donations from Nlers.

Unfortunately, this lady died of complications 4 days after having had a successful surgery and our stance since then is not to take on any more health related cases that we can’t really guarantee success since we are at the mercy of both incompetent health service workers and dilapidated health system as a whole in Nigeria. We are aware that the plan is to have the surgery done in India but our verification process involves us having to get expert opinion on health related cases.

As you can imagine, this has been a traumatic period for every one of us involved with this woman’s case so taking up another risky case would be a step too far at this time.

Sorry we are unable to help but be rest assured you will be in our prayers

All the best



The rationale:
1) Timing - No matter how much effort and time we put into these cases, one thing that shouldn't be forgotting is our emotional investment. As you can imagine the bond we shared with Ms Folake (may her soul rest in perfect peace) all through the 20+ months we were involved with her case. It was a wrong time to take on board a case as delicate as that knowing fully well how the previous medical case went. We are human and thus expected to be a lil emotional with these sort of cases considering the close relationships our field workers establish with our recipients.
As much as we do not to cherry pick cases, we as a group can only move forward/evolve using lessons learnt so as to be the best we can be as well as serving our stakeholders as expected.

2) Policy - I did mention that we were in the closure phase of Ms Folake's project and thus we couldn't really take on new cases at the time. I duly apologise for not elaborating if this point wasn't made clear. We are now revieiwing our policy to allow us work on concurrent cases.

3) complexity of the case - The case looked complex on the surface and since we couldn't really make an informed decision using an expert advice at the time as well as not having the luxury of time to carry out due diligence as expected, we just felt it was best to give it a pass at the time.

We have never promised to accept all cases as we simply cant due to obvious reasons. Our promise is that all cases received will be looked into before making a decision to either accept or reject.

Regards

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Re: Please Help Shape Tehn’s 2014 End Of Year Charity Flight by Ishilove: 6:58pm On Sep 16, 2014
barcanista: You can still make it real kiss tongue grin
How? kiss
Re: Please Help Shape Tehn’s 2014 End Of Year Charity Flight by Tgirl4real(f): 6:59pm On Sep 16, 2014
olu4life: Guess I gotta forget been helped by TEHN. Life continues..

Please, don't take things personally. I am a mother and I still remember how I felt when I read the request. If we had what it takes when it came on board, we would have jumped right at it. But we all know a lot of process go into these things. For the reasons jaybee stated above, we all decided to pass.

We are also not rigid. Let's all hope for the best.
Re: Please Help Shape Tehn’s 2014 End Of Year Charity Flight by MadCow1: 7:03pm On Sep 16, 2014
jaybee3:
This was the official response to his request:

Thanks for your email. We’ve now had the chance to deliberate on your request as a group and our official response is that we wouldn’t be able to provide any assistance with this case at this time.

We are currently in the project closure phase of a case that we’ve been involved in since last year July (Ms Folake). The thread is on NL, the lady lived with a goitre around her neck for close to 16 years up until we stepped in and managed to finance her surgery through donations from Nlers.

Unfortunately, this lady died of complications 4 days after having had a successful surgery and our stance since then is not to take on any more health related cases that we can’t really guarantee success since we are at the mercy of both incompetent health service workers and dilapidated health system as a whole in Nigeria. We are aware that the plan is to have the surgery done in India but our verification process involves us having to get expert opinion on health related cases.

As you can imagine, this has been a traumatic period for every one of us involved with this woman’s case so taking up another risky case would be a step too far at this time.

Sorry we are unable to help but be rest assured you will be in our prayers

All the best



The rationale:
1) Timing - No matter how much effort and time we put into these cases, one thing that shouldn't be forgotting is our emotional investment. As you can imagine the bond we shared with Ms Folake (may her soul rest in perfect peace) all through the 20+ months we were involved with her case. It was a wrong time to take on board a case as delicate as that knowing fully well how the previous medical case went. We are human and thus expected to be a lil emotional with these sort of cases considering the close relationships our field workers establish with our recipients.
As much as we do not to cherry pick cases, we as a group can only move forward/evolve using lessons learnt so as to be the best we can be as well as serving our stakeholders as expected.

2) Policy - I did mention that we were in the closure phase of Ms Folake's project and thus we couldn't really take on new cases at the time. I duly apologise for not elaborating if this point wasn't made clear. We are now revieiwing our policy to allow us work on concurrent cases.

3) complexity of the case - The case looked complex on the surface and since we couldn't really make an informed decision using an expert advice at the time as well as not having the luxury of time to carry out due diligence as expected, we just felt it was best to give it a pass at the time.

We have never promised to accept all cases as we simply cant due to obvious reasons. Our promise is that all cases received will be looked into before making a decision to either accept or reject.

Regards


Compelling I must say..


Is there a way for TeHN to verify this case and make a comment on the thread started by the Guy who brought the matter so we can be convinced of its veracity as most of us have come to rely on TeHNs credibility.

This would encourage people to actually donate to the case independent of TEHN.

If this can be done, it would be really helpful. Please look into this request as nobody wants to be suckered out of their monies.

Thanks..
Re: Please Help Shape Tehn’s 2014 End Of Year Charity Flight by Nobody: 7:24pm On Sep 16, 2014
Ishilove:
How? kiss
I live in a house....come over kiss tongue grin
Re: Please Help Shape Tehn’s 2014 End Of Year Charity Flight by Ishilove: 7:28pm On Sep 16, 2014
barcanista: I live in a house....come over kiss tongue grin
You want to tear my netherparts apart, abi? No be me and you tongue grin

Stop derailing and get set to go to Bornu. The elderly ones need our help there.
Re: Please Help Shape Tehn’s 2014 End Of Year Charity Flight by Idowuogbo(f): 7:36pm On Sep 16, 2014
Ishilove:
You want to tear my netherparts apart, abi? No be me and you tongue grin
Bia Bia BiA! Dis na serious thread mehn...no flirting angry

Barcanista, i see your question and answer session oo.Ou far na? U go volunteer go represent for Borno?

@TeHn
Well done guys! Jah bless kiss

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Re: Please Help Shape Tehn’s 2014 End Of Year Charity Flight by Ishilove: 7:41pm On Sep 16, 2014
Idowuogbo:
Bia Bia BiA! Dis na serious thread mehn...no flirting angry

Barcanista, i see your question and answer session oo.Ou far na? U go volunteer go represent for Borno?

@TeHn
Well done guys! Jah bless kiss
angry embarassed cheesy cheesy
Re: Please Help Shape Tehn’s 2014 End Of Year Charity Flight by Nobody: 7:54pm On Sep 16, 2014
@jaybee3 and all

You guys are doing well. I will avail myself to contribute in kind to this TeHN Project. I am looking @ where to fit in.
Re: Please Help Shape Tehn’s 2014 End Of Year Charity Flight by Nobody: 7:59pm On Sep 16, 2014
Idowuogbo:
Bia Bia BiA! Dis na serious thread mehn...no flirting angry

Barcanista, i see your question and answer session oo.Ou far na? U go volunteer go represent for Borno?

@TeHn
Well done guys! Jah bless kiss
Honestly, I won't minð going to the NE to coordinate if it requires. Wait o, why na me una de recommend for Borno environment instead of Lagos(specifically Banana Island)?
Re: Please Help Shape Tehn’s 2014 End Of Year Charity Flight by Idowuogbo(f): 8:09pm On Sep 16, 2014
barcanista: Honestly, I won't minð going to the NE to coordinate if it requires. Wait o, why na me una de recommend for Borno environment instead of Lagos(specifically Banana Island)?
Hanhan nau....shebi na u raise the suggestion? Me think say u go fit represent na...Abi no be you waka go meet them Politics sec boys wey wan fight gidigbo inside Mr biggs? If you fit waka go report live for we far and away, I trust you to deliver on behalf of TeHn if them route the flight go Borno.Be useful bro! Nigeria needs you smiley

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Re: Please Help Shape Tehn’s 2014 End Of Year Charity Flight by olu4life(m): 9:36pm On Sep 16, 2014
MadCow1:


Your friends case is being reviewed.. Keep calm...




I will await r231's comment and then make a decision. I pray it sails through..
Thanks so much bro. Really grateful
Re: Please Help Shape Tehn’s 2014 End Of Year Charity Flight by Nobody: 7:34am On Sep 17, 2014
Once a month we have a charity dress down day at work and some people bring in cakes & raffle tickets and prizes. A few people go round the building with a bucket collecting £1 from everyone who has dresssed down. The money is counted and the company doubles the money and it is sent to the charity.

No one asks whether the collectors stole the money or no one asks if the company actually sent the money . . WHY? becasue there is trust.

So its very sad to me that some people feel that we "steal" peoples money. The bad eggs have given the good ones a bad name.

Its sad not just for us because our names are being tranished but mainly for the people in need who would have benefitted from help but wont get it because "would be" donors are scared that their money will be mismanaged which is so far from the truth.

I am giving a few examples below (and very few examples indeed) not to hit our chests, but to appeal to people who are sitting on the fence, worrying that if they donate to good causes, that their hard earned money will be mismanaged or stolen.

Every single Tehn member is a decent person and not one of us has mismanaged a single penny. Every single penny spent is challenged and accounted for and in many cases, even where money should be spent, we dont spend it and many of us take money from our own pockets to do things. Not to talk of our time, our commitment and our dedication.

Jarus our accountant, transfers money to accounts and takes the brunt of bank charges - He does not claim that money back.

When late madam Folake was in Hospital, Mynd44 lodged into cheapest hotel in the area to be with her, becasue we were mindful that it was peoples money being spent

How about commitment?
There have been times that our field workers travel and have returned home at midnight after being stuck in traffic.
When Late Folake was in hospital, Mynd didnt eat till night because he didnt want a situation that he would go and eat and that will be the time that the doctors wanted something
There is also no time that those of us who dont stay in Nigera dont get involved when we cone to Nigeria even if it involves travelling and very tight time scheldues;
R321 was onboard the last charity flight and Jaybee, R321 and I were very involved in madam Folakes case when we were in Nigeria.
All Tehn members are very active in the background and discuss and thrash out things online and sometimes we can send up to 30 Emails a day.

So you can imagine my dissapointment when I read comments from people who dont have any idea on how things work and when I first read these comments I was like "how dare anyone try and tarnish my name, I'm leaving!". . but then I reminded myself why I do what I do and so I carry on and I beleive that is so for all of us in Tehn. . . basically we care fullstop.

So please if it is laid on your heart to help us to help the needy then please do so. Forget the horror stories of some Nigerian charitys.

We are not like that. We didnt go into it to get paid or make any money. We are into it because we genuingly care and want to put smiles on peoples faces and to the glory of God that is what we will continue to do.

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Re: Please Help Shape Tehn’s 2014 End Of Year Charity Flight by slimyem: 8:18am On Sep 17, 2014
The posters raising worries about being fleeced out of their money are just an unnecessary distraction to the purpose of this thread...
How much more transparency can anyone ask for than what TeHN has provided?
These same people do not question the pastors they donate their tithes and offerings to nor do they go after the leaders who steal from them day in day out.
I do believe that these thomases have been indulged enough on this thread and should be ignored henceforth....

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Re: Please Help Shape Tehn’s 2014 End Of Year Charity Flight by Jarus(m): 6:02pm On Sep 18, 2014
10k confirmed received from a donor who wants to remain anonymous.

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Re: Please Help Shape Tehn’s 2014 End Of Year Charity Flight by Nobody: 7:25pm On Sep 18, 2014
Jarus: 10k confirmed received from a donor who wants to remain anonymous.

Anonymous Donor thank you very much
May you never lack and may you be favoured in all your endevours

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Re: Please Help Shape Tehn’s 2014 End Of Year Charity Flight by Idowuogbo(f): 3:23am On Sep 19, 2014
chaircover:

Anonymous Donor thank you very much
May you never lack and may you be favoured in all your endevours
AMEN!!!

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Re: Please Help Shape Tehn’s 2014 End Of Year Charity Flight by olu4life(m): 8:29am On Sep 19, 2014
And no one responded on the issue again. Pls can u just verify it and push to the frontpage if TEHN can't be of help to this case? I await ur response. Thanks
Re: Please Help Shape Tehn’s 2014 End Of Year Charity Flight by jaybee3(m): 8:45am On Sep 19, 2014
olu4life: And no one responded on the issue again. Pls can u just verify it and push to the frontpage if TEHN can't be of help to this case? I await ur response. Thanks

As much as we sympathise with the case, we are under no obligation to accept each and every case.
We've already extensively explained the rationale behind our initial decision and as such expect you to exercise some patience.
We agreed to revist the decision process but you need to understand this doesn't guarantee that the initial decision will be overturned.

Our decision process involves anonymous voting among the exec's by which only a returned majority leads to an acceptance.

We will contact you either way once the process is complete

Regards

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Re: Please Help Shape Tehn’s 2014 End Of Year Charity Flight by jaybee3(m): 8:22pm On Sep 19, 2014
olu4life: And no one responded on the issue again. Pls can u just verify it and push to the frontpage if TEHN can't be of help to this case? I await ur response. Thanks

As promised, we’ve reconvened in order to review our initial decision as well as consider other option of limited involvement. I’m afraid to inform you that the majority decision by the group is still a NO. Be rest assured that this wasn’t an easy decision as there is nothing more we would have liked than doing whatever we can to help the child get better

We’ve already extensively explained the rationale behind our decision not to accept the case at this time. This is still the case

In considering the option of limited involvement, we carefully thought this through before deciding against it. The rationale for this is as follows:

1) We are also not comfortable endorsing a cause that we can’t control/monitor and/or influence how the donations received are spent. As a group, we always make sure our primary responsibility is safeguarding all donations by making sure they are used for intended purpose.

2) Our tried and tested verification process requires that we sometime seek second opinion especially on medical cases or physical evidence to validate claims. We wouldn’t be able to confidently substantiate the claim without having to seek a second opinion and considering the fact that it’s a complex medical case that will incur some sort of cost as well as adding unnecessary delay before you can get the much needed help. We feel a little bit unease with endorsing something we can’t confidently provide adequate/sufficient assurance

We understand this isn’t the news you hoped to receive but be rest assured this was carefully thought through before we arrived at the decision.

We will continue praying for the child that God in his infinite mercies provide him with the much needed good health.

Regards
Re: Please Help Shape Tehn’s 2014 End Of Year Charity Flight by olu4life(m): 4:23am On Sep 20, 2014
OK. I take it in good faith. Thanks TEHN
Re: Please Help Shape Tehn’s 2014 End Of Year Charity Flight by Nobody: 11:33am On Sep 24, 2014
I'll suggest OLD PEOPLE's HOME, harbour road, Rivers State

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Re: Please Help Shape Tehn’s 2014 End Of Year Charity Flight by Nobody: 3:48pm On Sep 25, 2014
keppyy: I'll suggest OLD PEOPLE's HOME, harbour road, Rivers State


Thank you for your input
Re: Please Help Shape Tehn’s 2014 End Of Year Charity Flight by r231(m): 4:06pm On Sep 25, 2014
keppyy: I'll suggest OLD PEOPLE's HOME, harbour road, Rivers State

Thanks for the information......

Do you have the full address please.

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