andromida:


A comprehensive list of do's and don'ts.

African or not no woman wants an abusive spouse whats the fun in being tied to a disturbed soul? there is nothing wrong in having a man who can do great se.x with money and status but its simply isn't enough. African women need more than this and you know it.

Folks are not fronting they want emotionally healthy men.

SirShymex:


Lol, but with the way African women never leave their rich abusive spouses, you have to question if they actually care if their spouses are abusive or not. And African women love se.x, though they hide behind pseudo-conservatism lol. Smash an African pum to smithereens and she will come back the next day acting like ya wife looool.

aisha2:
God forbid. Please limit this to yourself. African men are not inconsiderate spoilt babies needing 24 hours tending. African men are great husband, good providers and wonderful fathers. Go and look for real men and learn how to be a real african husband rather than spread your insecurities as standards for all

Missy89:


You should be hanged, drawn and quartered

pickabeau1:


Is this literal or

I thought you were advocating a blend of traditional values with a modern tint

Benbisco:


Mehn! You do well as you help us cancel am sef.

SirShymex:


Dayuum!

I'm scared of the new you!

You are starting to sound like a bad combo of naij ritualists and zombie the flesh eater! Lool

Sophyrocks:

The colours are for emphasis. Lol. Make the post 4 dey attractive to women. Hehehehe. U no see as e dey blow fire and brimestone since morning. This guy fit kill im wife or tell am to kneel down hands up and close eyes if she disobey. E be like say girls don show am pepper.

UjSizzle:

Lol! Did you read the things on that list? Heh guys really want super women


And yes, very literal diapers. At least the OP just described men as big cuddly babies

SirShymex:


Lol, but with the way African women never leave their rich abusive spouses, you have to question if they actually care if their spouses are abusive or not. And African women love se.x, though they hide behind pseudo-conservatism lol. Smash an African pum to smithereens and she will come back the next day acting like ya wife looool.

Folks just front on here. The loudest ones are always the ones in messed up relationships or out there begging men to marry them. There are so many desperate women out there these days...so it is hard to take these folks seriously. Just go to Churches and see for yourself. Even on the road, you will see all kinds of women giving you fliers to come to their Church and singles night. They are everywhere. Women who will cook for you and tell you they want to have ya kids lol

cut007:
My man, for your own good, run out of this thread. From the way things are going, something tells me this thread will get to the wuuwuuwuu stage! You know that stage when a woman places her palm on her lips and taps it repeatedly to make the wuuwuuwuu sound and say things like ole! Oloshi! Women can NEVER be rationale on issues like this.

kmcutez:
@op, I'm searching for a husband that can follow all this rules you have stated. It seems I have finally found one in you. Please pm me, let's get the ball rolling.

Do you women even know the psyche of a male child

Come to think of it, do you think Oyedepo or Adeboye will put up with 1% of the nonsense that some men put up with from their women ??

Why do you think that the Asian and Chinese families abroad are an economic power house that is sending fears down the spine of their oyinbo hosts

Missy89:


Why do guys feel like they are the only ones that can use sex to determine future events in the relationship? smashing stuffs to smithereens can go either way u know? Guys usually come back begging as well.

Just saying

2CatWoman:


Who told you about the bolded part? Do you gate crash bridal showers dressed in drag or something? Interesting

SirShymex:


Lol, but with the way African women never leave their rich abusive spouses, you have to question if they actually care if their spouses are abusive or not. And African women love se.x, though they hide behind pseudo-conservatism lol. Smash an African pum to smithereens and she will come back the next day acting like ya wife looool.

Folks just front on here. The loudest ones are always the ones in messed up relationships or out there begging men to marry them. There are so many desperate women out there these days...so it is hard to take these folks seriously. Just go to Churches and see for yourself. Even on the road, you will see all kinds of women giving you fliers to come to their Church and singles night. They are everywhere. Women who will cook for you and tell you they want to have ya kids lol

Chillisauce:


That kin person go dey fear woman real life. I mean, seriously who takes his time to compose such a fantasy , and then color marks them in blue and red.

Definitely a weirdo

50calibre:


I tell ya!! The shi*t being spewed here by some of these chics doesn't reflect the reality in the real world.

African women are desperately searching for husbands, once they start approaching 30, they go into crises mode, jumping from one spiritual house to the other, fasting & praying for weeks un-ending

I've been invited to a singles night before in Redeem church, damn!! I can authoritatively say that is the only social gathering I see females outnumber males.

Kachisbarbie:
Is this life imprisonment in a maximum security prison ?
OP please what is your full name?

I wanna make sure my younger sisters avoid men with a combination/permutation of your name
___not because your assertion is wrong, but the way you spelt them out...hmm, shows you would be very rigid.

aisha2:
God forbid. Please limit this to yourself. African men are not inconsiderate spoilt babies needing 24 hours tending. African men are great husband, good providers and wonderful fathers. Go and look for real men and learn how to be a real african husband rather than spread your insecurities as standards for all

SirShymex:


Lol, are you trying to do that? Lool

The last chic who did that was screaming all over the house. Women run their mouths too much.

Only ny.mphos or chics with psychologically scars who are addicted to se.x like Sharon Leal's character in "addicted" can smash guys to smithereens. As long as you are not abnormal, you are just another loud mouthed one that will end up screaming everywhere loool.

Ilekokonit:

Actually the rules are meant for you. They are not actually rules they are tips to keeping you man loving towards you if you married or are intending to marry a proper African man.

5minsmadness:
I have to say, I couldn't see a single point to disagree against Spot on OP! Is this your original work?
In fact lemme share it so I can refer to it later in solving the barrage of marital problems on this site!

Ilekokonit:


Actually the rules are meant for you. They are not actually rules they are tips to keeping you man loving towards you if you married or are intending to marry a proper African man.

Look at the list critically, none of it is enslaving in any way. for example what is bad in advicing a lady not to pull her man down in front of his kids especially male ones.

Do you women even know the psyche of a male child

But then again i know that a lot of nigeriaqns don't like reading for themselves and they just jump on the bandwagon without scrutinising an article but i9f it were to be a charlartan pastor who publishes a book titled "105 Tips To Keeping A Good African Man", the hordes of spinsters in his church will spend their last kobio to buy the book containing the very same points i pointed on above.

Come to think of it, do you think Oyedepo or Adeboye will put up with 1% of the nonsense that some men put up with from their women ?? I think not !!!

Why do you think that the Asian and Chinese families abroad are an economic power house that is sending fears down the spine of their oyinbo hosts

Its simply because of the unity and lack of combative competitiveness in their marriages which is the hall mark of most Naija women abroad.

This cancer is creeping back home which is why I advise any 20 someting yr old naija lady i meet to grab their copy fast as the time is imminent where young eligible Naija bachelors will shun marriage in droves until they find the right person.

Wait and see and like someone mentioned above, ladies, bookmark this post as it will come in useful to calm the stormy waters of your marriage in future if you are married to a "proper" African man.

andromida:

Many African men don't leave their rich abusive spouses either anyway its not an African thing many people world over do not leave abusive spouses because of benefits they get from the relationship.

Lol lol lol @ bolded

So women inviting you to churches and singles night makes them desperate maybe they just doing normal church things you really need to tame your imagination.
A woman cooking for you, allowing you to smash her pum is in order if she asks you to wife her after all she is already doing the wifely duties you just didn't put a ring on it so can't see how you quarrel with this. She likes you and wants to have your kids whats wrong with this afterall if you like her you want her to be the mother of your kids so no problems here. She is just voicing out how can that be desperation?