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Re: 8 Challenges To Face Your 1st Year Of Marriage by adonbilivit: 8:50pm On Nov 14, 2014 |
braine:see coded correction. thanks for being diplomatic but i doubt if she got ur actual "point"..."patience" not patient |
Re: 8 Challenges To Face Your 1st Year Of Marriage by M4gunners: 9:37pm On Nov 14, 2014 |
Good job Op. |
Re: 8 Challenges To Face Your 1st Year Of Marriage by Honestagbons(m): 9:41pm On Nov 14, 2014 |
In married,understanding,matters alot,and put everything in God hand. |
Re: 8 Challenges To Face Your 1st Year Of Marriage by braine(m): 9:44pm On Nov 14, 2014 |
adonbilivit: Lol. I didn't mean it like that. I didn't even see it. |
Re: 8 Challenges To Face Your 1st Year Of Marriage by bukatyne(f): 9:48pm On Nov 14, 2014 |
@OP If the couple got their indices right during courtship. Their first year will not be filled with conflicts |
Re: 8 Challenges To Face Your 1st Year Of Marriage by Nobody: 9:49pm On Nov 14, 2014 |
justcallbuki:who no well? |
Re: 8 Challenges To Face Your 1st Year Of Marriage by Kanwulia: 9:52pm On Nov 14, 2014 |
Having to choose between THE CHILD/CHILDREN and YOUR SPOUSE!!!! Women always choose THE KIDS! Men. . . . Choose OTHER WOMEN! Marriage don scatter be dat! 4 Likes |
Re: 8 Challenges To Face Your 1st Year Of Marriage by canalily(m): 9:55pm On Nov 14, 2014 |
God pls help us build a happy home...how can i have issues with my partner when the wisdom, compatibility and understanding are there for us....? |
Re: 8 Challenges To Face Your 1st Year Of Marriage by piagetskinner(m): 9:56pm On Nov 14, 2014 |
Marriage is an institution one never gets to graduate from,"till death do us part"...one learns every day- forbearing one another even till old age#hmmmm |
Re: 8 Challenges To Face Your 1st Year Of Marriage by Raxxye(m): 10:25pm On Nov 14, 2014 |
Interesting thread for prospecting husbands like myself. I'm sure I'll need it for reference in future. Bookmarked! |
Re: 8 Challenges To Face Your 1st Year Of Marriage by Nobody: 11:07pm On Nov 14, 2014 |
If no be me beg that man(husband) your eye for done finish by now.... You too get big eye... justcallbuki: |
Re: 8 Challenges To Face Your 1st Year Of Marriage by 2muchopoTBdope(m): 11:08pm On Nov 14, 2014 |
justcallbuki:Lol, Na Prison U dey |
Re: 8 Challenges To Face Your 1st Year Of Marriage by Ebenezerk2: 11:36pm On Nov 14, 2014 |
You are on points but remove parental influence, only if you want to allow that, I almost experienced all of them except parental influence |
Re: 8 Challenges To Face Your 1st Year Of Marriage by pizzaboi55(m): 12:02am On Nov 15, 2014 |
Re: 8 Challenges To Face Your 1st Year Of Marriage by ugotex85: 12:13am On Nov 15, 2014 |
8 challenges cha? Was that why my friend defined marriage as public toilet, while those outside are in a haste to rush in, those inside are in a hurry to rush out? Hmmm, God help us o.. 1 Like |
Re: 8 Challenges To Face Your 1st Year Of Marriage by TDstarr: 1:50am On Nov 15, 2014 |
No 1 is not a problem, she will do all d house work |
Re: 8 Challenges To Face Your 1st Year Of Marriage by omoiseselagba: 3:46am On Nov 15, 2014 |
datguru:nkan nse e |
Re: 8 Challenges To Face Your 1st Year Of Marriage by aboki2000(m): 5:31am On Nov 15, 2014 |
braine:only for Nigerians marriage ! Westerns will pass this stages during BF/GF stages |
Re: 8 Challenges To Face Your 1st Year Of Marriage by wordbank(m): 5:36am On Nov 15, 2014 |
till then... right now its business all d way |
Re: 8 Challenges To Face Your 1st Year Of Marriage by Sanguine(f): 6:13am On Nov 15, 2014 |
Now, the question is ''why did you get married''??. All the same, whatever it is...never ever leave your partner, even in a fire... especially in a fire. PEACE!! |
Re: 8 Challenges To Face Your 1st Year Of Marriage by ogene70: 6:31am On Nov 15, 2014 |
We are in our first year but nothing in this write up is worrying me more than our baby's sleepless nights which is making me visit nairaland this early ...not easy at all.God bless our parents for their love and care. |
Re: 8 Challenges To Face Your 1st Year Of Marriage by UTEWUOJO: 7:49am On Nov 15, 2014 |
Dat's true |
Re: 8 Challenges To Face Your 1st Year Of Marriage by KLand(m): 9:05am On Nov 15, 2014 |
First year was very challenging for my wife and I. But we overcame the issues..... With over 3 years in marriage now, its been going on well. God is helping us. For new couples, stay committed to each other no matter the shock you experience in the first year. Don't leave God out in your marriage. He doesn't intrude, so if you don't invite Him in to help you He will not come in. With love and patience, you will pass the first year test. I did! 1 Like |
Re: 8 Challenges To Face Your 1st Year Of Marriage by cutextowsen(f): 10:01am On Nov 15, 2014 |
[quote author=Wealthycharles post=28019278]Points are well articulated.I'm 8 months old in marriage,with a pregnant wife one really need to b very understanding,tolerant and patient. My wife confessed I kill her temperament with lovin kindness and positive attitude and it makes her melt in love @ d sound of my voice....may God continue to endow us with wisdom and understanding IJN Amen, marriage is all about patience and understanding and also standing in d gap 4 1 anoder, wen 1 partner is down or misbehaves the other has to be patient and understanding. If only wishes were horses I would have love to change smtins in my partner cos if we both get married with both our temperaments( we share d same temperament) den the marriage will not work out.*sighs* it is well.... |
Re: 8 Challenges To Face Your 1st Year Of Marriage by vivor: 10:09am On Nov 15, 2014 |
[quote author=Pamcrest post=28018357]Op, I don't agree with some of your points. If d couple had a reasonable courtship period, they wd have faced some of these challenges n mastered how to deal with them even before they get married. Don't be surprised that some of d challenges may even surface after many years of marriage....that's why u see marriages of 6,10, 14yrs breaking up n leading to divorce. ure wrg,I hav seen couples dat dated en courted 4 up 2 5-10 years but r divorced within 2-5 years of marriage,d secret 2 marriage is God,patience,love faithfulnes etc.d lenght or width of courtship and dating has no influeuce on hw sucessful ur marriage is.most of our parents didn't indulge in long dating en d hav stayed 2geda 4 up 2 50years in marriage |
Re: 8 Challenges To Face Your 1st Year Of Marriage by jamesbridget13(f): 10:31am On Nov 15, 2014 |
i think am ready to join d train next easter |
Re: 8 Challenges To Face Your 1st Year Of Marriage by zinny2049: 11:03am On Nov 15, 2014 |
braine:I can't share my money with my future spouse he has to borrow and pay back. House chores is not add but don't force me to do things only God can change me and why should I impress my inlaws am I married to them |
Re: 8 Challenges To Face Your 1st Year Of Marriage by cpatra(f): 11:36am On Nov 15, 2014 |
After the first year experience, one should become wiser and device means to save for the new car. After all experience is the best teacher |
Re: 8 Challenges To Face Your 1st Year Of Marriage by braine(m): 12:02pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
zinny2049: We have to let our singlehood selfish character after marriage!! Especially you the ladies, coz you would be no longer alone; especially when kids start rolling in! Nobody likes been forced to do anything, but then you'd seem lazy which I think your future husband won't like. When you marry a man, you marry his family too!! You should know this by now. And you most definitely don't want to be on their bad side! |
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