I have a little baby nt up to 2yrs and I took in again. I and my hubby didn't wnt d bby to come then so I took sm pills. But after takin d pills I still feel like am pregnant so I went to d hospital aftr a scan d doctors discovered dt I was actually carryin twins bt d drug affected only one. The other one is doing well. Now I regret takin d drug am so confused should I leave the pregnancy or ... My hubby suggests we end it bt am rily confused need ur advice

check into a good hospital that can manage this condition.
Your safety and the kids are paramount at this stage.
Hear it, depending on the kind of birth control pills you took, both kids may actually be affected mentally.
You do not want to bring a mentally challenged child to the world.
So, go for further test, get proper advise and please, do not be emotional about your decision.

Do the best thing in the worst circumstance.
Good luck

ZACHIE:
check into a good hospital that can manage this condition.
Your safety and the kids are paramount at this stage.
Hear it, depending on the kind of birth control pills you took, both kids may actually be affected mentally.
You do not want to bring a mentally challenged child to the world.
So, go for further test, get proper advise and please, do not be emotional about your decision.

Do the best thing in the worst circumstance.
Good luck

Thanks

I won't scold you for attempting an abortion cause I don't know the situation you are in. But keep the pregnancy, the other twin should develop normally while the late foetus shrinks. And as the poster above said, what drug did you use so as to know if it had any effect(teratogenic) on the live twin. Do a scan every 2 months at least

I don't know why some married people are so ungrateful. Do u know what those babies will be in future if u let them live. Why would remove what God has blessed u with. There are women who are looking for what u have.

God wll 4giv u&av mercy on u

This is the worst thing i have heard so far

Did you judgemental folks bother to read her story?
Rubbish.

whatever our reason,abortion is a deadly sin against God.married or Single.There is always one million reason to do what is wrong but certainly always one reason to do what is right.
God is calling for repentance today,will you heed? tomorrow might just be too late.

Hi there, I can tell you are very worried and probably scared, take a deep breath ok, no one is perfect. You need to carry out further tests to see if any damage has been done to the remaining fetus, hopefully the tests will turn out fine.

Discuss further with your husband, maybe God knew you would attempt abortion and gave you twins, there's a reason for that. Remember no one knows tomorrow, if the fetus is healthy, please give it a chance to live.

You're a submissive wife, I know and I appreciate that about you. Use your gentleness to plead with your husband, remember a wise woman builds her home, he will listen but please don't quarrel with him.

May God give you the wisdom, strength and patience you need this time. Best of luck

ExpressBooking:
whatever our reason,abortion is a deadly sin against God.married or Single.There is always one million reason to do what is wrong but certainly always one reason to do what is right.
God is calling for repentance today,will you heed? tomorrow might just be too late.

The op asked for matured minds,
And please not everybody is a christian or any kind of believer, if you didn't read what she posted, pls do and stop castigating her.

Jeez!

austine4real:
God wll 4giv u&av mercy on u

If your so callled 'God' is for real, then he's not as wise as you portray him to be.

Do you know the financial situation the op and her husband are going through?
Do you know the plans they have for their future kids?
Do you feed them?
Do they believe in your 'God' ?
People like you are one of the reasons most africans give birth to plenty children with no plans to care for the children, hence some of the children will end up fending for themselves by hawking petty things instead of being in school. Is that the plan your 'God has for them?
Or some of the unplanned but born children will be sent to other peoples homes to become house helps to those who already planned and has kids that are in school being well-fed.

And please the op asked for matured minds, not religious sentimental and judgemental minds.

Thank you.

Oga o!

GogetterMD:
I won't scold you for attempting an abortion cause I don't know the situation you are in. But keep the pregnancy, the other twin should develop normally while the late foetus shrinks. And as the poster above said, what drug did you use so as to know if it had any effect(teratogenic) on the live twin. Do a scan every 2 months at least

This kind of advice is enough to give the op hope that something good will still come out of a bad situation.

All you judgmental and and and annoying religious know it all folks should do some meditation on that book you call a bible, becos it clearly states 'he who hasn't commited a sin should cast the 1st stone' , 'no one is a judge except 'God', and the lords prayer said 'forgive us our tresspasses'. And Jesus in the bible said pray for others and your enemies.

For goodness sakes what kind of people are you!


Gogetter you're cool. Lol

andyallor:


Gogetter you're cool. Lol

Thank you

But OP, your story doesn't add up considering you opened this thread just 2 weeks ago
https://www.nairaland.com/1984789/urgent-answers-matured-mind-please

I want to thank all d matured minds that hav givn me sm piece of advice I appreciate. And those of u who had used d opportunity to castigate me I pray u dnt find urself in my shoes or worse situation than mine. I jus wanted to run another test bfor makin any further comment. The other baby is doing perfectly well and am happy that God secured him for me. I and my husband hv decided to keep the baby. Aside d doctor's advice I alredy decided to keep it. Ur advice pulled me through,I am strong n happy cnt wait to hav my bby. I hop to inform u all when it finally arrives.

xcelsia:
Hi there, I can tell you are very worried and probably scared, take a deep breath ok, no one is perfect. You need to carry out further tests to see if any damage has been done to the remaining fetus, hopefully the tests will turn out fine.

Discuss further with your husband, maybe God knew you would attempt abortion and gave you twins, there's a reason for that. Remember no one knows tomorrow, if the fetus is healthy, please give it a chance to live.

You're a submissive wife, I know and I appreciate that about you. Use your gentleness to plead with your husband, remember a wise woman builds her home, he will listen but please don't quarrel with him.

May God give you the wisdom, strength and patience you need this time. Best of luck

thank you

ZACHIE:
check into a good hospital that can manage this condition.
Your safety and the kids are paramount at this stage.
Hear it, depending on the kind of birth control pills you took, both kids may actually be affected mentally.
You do not want to bring a mentally challenged child to the world.
So, go for further test, get proper advise and please, do not be emotional about your decision.

Do the best thing in the worst circumstance.
Good luck

thank you

GogetterMD:
I won't scold you for attempting an abortion cause I don't know the situation you are in. But keep the pregnancy, the other twin should develop normally while the late foetus shrinks. And as the poster above said, what drug did you use so as to know if it had any effect(teratogenic) on the live twin. Do a scan every 2 months at least

thank u

GogetterMD:
But OP, your story doesn't add up considering you opened this thread just 2 weeks ago
https://www.nairaland.com/1984789/urgent-answers-matured-mind-please

dnt b confused I had my first bby bfor I did my white wedding dis year.Did my traditional marriage bck when I was still schooling. Had to elaborate more because of d kind of comments I got bk then and because I needed advice.

andyallor:


If your so callled 'God' is for real, then he's not as wise as you portray him to be.

Do you know the financial situation the op and her husband are going through?
Do you know the plans they have for their future kids?
Do you feed them?
Do they believe in your 'God' ?
People like you are one of the reasons most africans give birth to plenty children with no plans to care for the children, hence some of the children will end up fending for themselves by hawking petty things instead of being in school. Is that the plan your 'God has for them?
Or some of the unplanned but born children will be sent to other peoples homes to become house helps to those who already planned and has kids that are in school being well-fed.

And please the op asked for matured minds, not religious sentimental and judgemental minds.

Thank you.

Oga o!

i ddnt blame her 4 abortion try& get me ryt& wot she dd was morally wrong& i knw u'v bin abortin 2 daz y u'r sayn dz

[quote author=austine4real post=28189668] i ddnt blame her 4 abortion try& get me ryt& wot she dd was morally wrong& i knw u'v bin abortin 2 daz y u'r sayn dz[/quote

Me aborting..... Am only going to reply once - Never done it before. And I will do it if am not prepared to catar for the child because I don't want the child to suffer what I am suffering.
Morrally! Oh pulease we all have a sence of what is right and wrong. Am not a religious person, I'm just a realistic person. Aborting should not be encouraged but incase where it has to be administered for future of the child n medically, financially , E.T.C reasons then it should be done.
Abeg religion hasn't done very much but for little wisdoms that's all

[quote author=andyallor post=28191501][/quote]may God teach you the truth,in this life time,Amen.

[quote author=andyallor post=28191501][/quote] ok noted hw u dey?

ExpressBooking:
may God teach you the truth,in this life time,Amen.

If he exist, ok Amen, if not may your mindset not lead anybody in depressed states to commit suicide or worse . AMEN!

austine4real:
ok noted hw u dey?

I de ok thank you and you?

andyallor:


I de ok thank you and you?

same&hw was work?

[quote author=austine4real post=28197192] same&hw was work?[/quote

Works good
Urs?

[quote author=andyallor post=28197660][/quote]kul&ur area?

austine4real:
kul&ur area?

Lol
We don de derail thread hia
My area is fine and I believe yours is cool as well.
Ciao

andyallor:

Lol
We don de derail thread hia
My area is fine and I believe yours is cool as well.
Ciao

nawti u!! I wnt use style chyke u

andyallor:

Lol
We don de derail thread hia
My area is fine and I believe yours is cool as well.
Ciao

nawti u!! I wnt use style chyke u...gud9t