most of our naija men are fond of putting their siblings as their next of kin thereby leaving the wife to suffer if he dies before her, not even when she has been very submissive like most of you are obsessed with. they also forgets that they have children that the wife would now be left with the burden of taking care of them alone

why!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Seriously? Eya

lilmax:
Seriously? Eya

is that for the dead man

You too are looking for the married men

When will the obsession with married men end on this forum

First it was looking for the happy ones, then the faithful ones, the contented ones, now those with Next of Kin

Post
Next of Kin should be someone you believe can handle your affairs in the event of your demise
That should be a wife for a married man
But some are blessed with end time wives in end time marriages so they resort to other people
Other forget to update their information upon marriage

Nonso23:


How many married men hang around here anymore?
The women on here have 'nagged' them away.
I'm sure it's the scarcity of married me that is inspiring these threads.
This section exemplifies proverbs 21:9.

It is better to dwell in a
corner of the housetop, than with a brawling
woman in a wide house.

Aggression is the order of the day.

O.p I don't know.

pickabeau1 nonso23, seriously u guys don't have anything important to contribute to this thread, stop filling it up with unnecessary statements

Last i checked, it was a free world
why dont u open ur eyes and read S L O W L Y for once

AfricanApple:
[s]pickabeau1 nonso23, seriously u guys don't have anything important to contribute to this thread, stop filling it up with unnecessary statements [/s]

Stop generalizing it, it is not all married men who Are guilty of this.

Please kindly elucidate on what end time wife and end time marriages mean

pickabeau1:
You too are looking for the married men

When will the obsession with married men end on this forum

First it was looking for the happy ones, then the faithful ones, the contented ones, now those with Next of Kin

Post
Next of Kin should be someone you believe can handle your affairs in the event of your demise
That should be a wife for a married man
But some are blessed with end time wives in end time marriages so they resort to other people
Other forget to update their information upon marriage

LOL

Simply.........A marriage like one you would rather be out of..

SAMBARRY:
Please kindly elucidate on what end time wife and end time marriages mean

AfricanApple:
most of our naija men are fond of putting their siblings as their next of kin thereby leaving the wife to suffer if he dies before her, not even when she has been very submissive like most of you are obsessed with. they also forgets that they have children that the wife would now be left with the burden of taking care of them alone

why!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Honestly, I don't know

Lets correct the next of kin impression.
Next of kin doesn't automatically mean the person gets to inherit the property.
If the deceased died without a will the spouse can get a letter of administration from the court and based on how they got married legally or traditionally the assets can be shared.

If you married legally all the better but if its only traditionally then you know the customs of your spouses people when it comes to asset sharing and it be shared accordingly.

This is why court marriage is encouraged because some traditions may be unfavorable to widows and some may be unfairly bent to suit some interested parties

pickabeau1:
LOL

Simply.........A marriage like one you would rather be out of..

shed more light on the above

SAMBARRY:
shed more light on the above

I don't have any more battery for my torchlight

Ok maybe my oyinbo is to big for you that you don't understand



let me reduce the hinglish



expantiate more

pickabeau1:


I don't have any more battery for my torchlight

SAMBARRY:
Ok maybe my oyinbo is to big for you that you don't understand



let me reduce the hinglish



expantiate more

You know say Na night school I go...
I can't expatiate further

Oya let me reduce the hingrish.expantiate means explain more. If after this hingrish I explain and you don't understand then you be olodo

pickabeau1:


You know say Na night school I go...
I can't expatiate further

nor blame them women can be dubious poisoning the man over misunderstanding knowing they are the next of kin, attitude changes e.t.c.

Any 1 he is ok with

For me, it will be my brother.

Girlfriend

As the acting president of Nairaland. I would like to announce to all space bookers to start preparing their christmas levy. This levy will be used to put together a mind blowing end of the year party. The minimum amount z #500, take note

As a single man u use ur Brother...wen married u can change or start using ur son or daughter.. Using ur wife is bullshit in Africa..bsides in dis part of d world we dnt want to accept d ideology of prompt death..(nobody thinks he would die early)

I am not married

But I and my girlfriend are so close to each other, that the only difference between us and a regular 'married couple', is that we have not done those ceremonies that married people do


So, by virtue of my being 'married by implication', I can authoritatively say that she will undoubtedly be my next of kin, just as she is my 'next of skin'....

Na thunder go fire that sibling wey go wan displace my girlfriend/ wifey

who is faithful?

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son.
the wife can kill me tomorrow and marry another man to spend the money with.

Dats y we should at least vote for Buhari, he'll educate us about it.

Am not married

He can use anybody he likes,he gat his money...moral lesson wife should also work hard 4 her money so wen d so called husband dies, she doesnt suffer