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Should You Make A Move, When He Seemsinterested But Too Shy? by liljboy(m): 7:27pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
I believe that many of the traditional roles of men and women are valid and essential to creating and preserving the right dynamics in a relationship, and some of us are too quick to dismiss those customs that have been established over many centuries or even thousands of years, and which made the relationships between men and women work much better before than they do today. Therefore, when it come to initiating a contact and making a move on someone you are attracted to and would like to meet and potentially date, it’s ultimately a man’s job to be the initiator and to make that first move. This is one of the qualities that makes a guy come across as both strong and attractive to a woman who he is approaching – her seeing that he is capable of doing that and also her realizing that he doesn’t wait for things to happen; he takes his life into his own hands, and he creates his own opportunities, despite the risks of failure involved in making that move. However, many women face the frustrating situation with guys who don’t show initiative even thought these men appear to be interested. This could be someone as close as your school mate or a colleague who you see and talk to every day, amd who flirts with you and asks you personal questions about your dating life and your views on dating in general, but who doesn’t seem to able to take it to the next level and ask you out. Or, it could be an employee of a store you frequent at, who is always extra friendly with you and tries to have a conversation with you when you come in without actually asking you out. You almost expect him to finally invite you for coffee or a movie, and yet he never gets there. And sometimes, it’s a neighbor who clearly stares at you when he sees you as long as your are in his view, but he never approaches you to introduce himself or have a normal conversation with you to get to know you a little better. He might even make you feel uncomfortable by staring at you , but all he is really doing is admiring what he sees. All these guys have one thing in common – they don’t make a move because they are either shy or don’t know what to say, or they are afraid you might not be available. It’s also possible that they have been brainwashed with all the advice about the importance of being a challenge with women and are therefore playing hard to get – not because they want to but because they have been told that that’s the right way to be. So, if you are interested in getting to know that guy, you have a choice: either waiting for him to actually make a move and ask you out one day or be proactive yourself. Which way are you going to go? |
Re: Should You Make A Move, When He Seemsinterested But Too Shy? by TRADELYN: 7:34pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
Nooo...! He'll surely find a way to tell her if he's truly interested. Today, there are over 1,001 means to express yourself. |
Re: Should You Make A Move, When He Seemsinterested But Too Shy? by Nobody: 7:56pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
NO. |
Re: Should You Make A Move, When He Seemsinterested But Too Shy? by liljboy(m): 8:05pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
TRADELYN:can you mention em |
Re: Should You Make A Move, When He Seemsinterested But Too Shy? by liljboy(m): 8:05pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
Yields:why |
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