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Re: Missmossy And Friends Crib¤¤¤ by Lero15(m): 5:56pm On Mar 28, 2015
Missmossy:

Hmm you have been reading my diary i know

Good evening

Did you vote today?
Lol.... Hmmm...

I do sing too... smiley

Didn't vote.

Where have you been sef angry
Re: Missmossy And Friends Crib¤¤¤ by zyzxx(m): 5:57pm On Mar 28, 2015
Signor11 and babe2sure nice discussion
I like if we can be sharing our views about something here.
Signor11 I try to understand ur point that Not every one desire power but to my view babe2sure is right, we all aspire to be great in life.
it quite unfortunate dat power as make many people atrocious in our country
Re: Missmossy And Friends Crib¤¤¤ by Missmossy(f): 6:04pm On Mar 28, 2015
Youngsage:


Hehehe... Yeah, been a while missy mossy! Glad 2 be back cheesy

Missed y'all smiley smiley

Missed you too

Whats up
Re: Missmossy And Friends Crib¤¤¤ by Missmossy(f): 6:05pm On Mar 28, 2015
signor11:
Am here
Missed you guys though you didn't miss me but a few like my bro zyzxx
And madam missmossy
And the rest
I dey vex for una
Lol

Don't vex ooo
Re: Missmossy And Friends Crib¤¤¤ by Missmossy(f): 6:06pm On Mar 28, 2015
zyzxx:
I don't mind her jare


Missmossy Gud morning
Whats up
Re: Missmossy And Friends Crib¤¤¤ by Missmossy(f): 6:07pm On Mar 28, 2015
Youngsage:
Missmossy mismossy where are you? You voting or indoors? Pls keep alert & stay safe oh smiley smiley


Hello peeps smiley
Thanks for the concern

I didn't register sef grin
Re: Missmossy And Friends Crib¤¤¤ by Missmossy(f): 6:08pm On Mar 28, 2015
richommie:
am back.


missmossy?

any lady in here?

. . .babe2sure ....caught u viewing

howdy?
Hmm welcome back
Re: Missmossy And Friends Crib¤¤¤ by Missmossy(f): 6:14pm On Mar 28, 2015
Lero15:

Lol.... Hmmm...

I do sing too... smiley

Didn't vote.

Where have you been sef angry
Hmmm you sing.. I see tongue


Been so busy, cooking, clean up et al

Why the face huh?

Re: Missmossy And Friends Crib¤¤¤ by Missmossy(f): 6:15pm On Mar 28, 2015
Babe2sure:


I am gud.
Back from where? The polling booth?
Hi hun

Did you vote?
Re: Missmossy And Friends Crib¤¤¤ by Lero15(m): 6:23pm On Mar 28, 2015
Missmossy:

Hmmm you sing.. I see tongue
Why the face Yes, I do. cool play some instruments too.


Been so busy, cooking, clean up et al
E ku ise ooo grin

Why the face huh?
you've been away since yesternight... embarassed
Re: Missmossy And Friends Crib¤¤¤ by Missmossy(f): 6:28pm On Mar 28, 2015
[quote author=Lero15 post=32106648][/quote]
Ese oooo

Had to go to bed early but I didn't eventually

Its needed most times you know

Which instruments do you play?
Re: Missmossy And Friends Crib¤¤¤ by Babe2sure(f): 6:29pm On Mar 28, 2015
zyzxx:
Signor11 and babe2sure nice discussion
I like if we can be sharing our views about something here.
Signor11 I try to understand ur point that Not every one desire power but to my view babe2sure is right, we all aspire to be great in life.
it quite unfortunate dat power as make many people atrocious in our country

Thanks much.
Yes, it's a good idea. We can be sharing life issues.
Re: Missmossy And Friends Crib¤¤¤ by Babe2sure(f): 6:31pm On Mar 28, 2015
Missmossy:

Hi hun

Did you vote?

No, I didn't.
I have been home all day. Browsing and sleeping.
What about you?
Re: Missmossy And Friends Crib¤¤¤ by Nobody: 6:46pm On Mar 28, 2015
Babe2sure:


Nice write-up!

But I disagree with some of your points.

My dear, everyone wants power, either overtly or covertly. It might not be vying for top-most positions. But power starts from being Head of department, Manager, supervisor etc. All these people also exercise power over their subordinates. Nobody would pray to be surbodinate all his or her life.

Okay. Let us look at it from this angle, you may say some people do not want power, that would probably be because they are shy, illiterate or not outspoken etc. That is why I said intially that, 'power is the ability to act'. Those people do not want to, because they lack the ability. There is no gainsaying the fact that they admire such people in such positions. For them to admire them, they wish to be there. So what are we talking about. 'EVERYONE WANTS POWER'.

You said you don't want power for instance, but you contradicted yourself when you said,'power is cool, wanted it for long'
And you are probably a phlegmatic kind of person- they are shy to take leadership positions, they don't like confrontation.

Yes, the desire to get to the apex at all cost, is the root cause of evils perpetrated by man against another, which is dangerous. That was why I said initially that it shouldn't be a do or die affair.

I don't agree with- power should not be desired. Like I said earlier, it is inherent in every human. Ordinarily, you don't wait till when it is bestowed before you can indicate interest. It starts from good people wanting to take on the baton of leadership or else, if everybody has aparthy towards it, you will leave it for miscreants to take over(people who have nothing to offer).

Unhmm
Nice points also but I am sure of what am saying
Though I respect your views I don't buy them
I wanted power for long but no no longer do so
I grew up knowing people call me president because when others say they'll like to become doctors layers bankers etc I'd say I want to be a president. But after holding that position in a few places I understood what power can do. Power is different from influence and authority in my context the power people creave for when they hold leadership position is destructive. Albert einstine was offered the presidency of isreal but he declined he had influence in that je wrote the letter to the then president of USA that brought the likes of fermi and oppehnhimer together to build the atomic bomb. He was instrumental to the creation of the isreali state, mandela wanted justice equity better life foe his people but not power he would have ruled for live like the likes of iyadema, kanyata, ghadafi, putin, hussien etc but after 4 years he stepped down the desire to lead, to effect change and to bring people to their best places in life don't require power.

I don't believe in the temprament stuff you said am ...... And people have called me melanco whatever and choleric but I always laugh I never held a position in my life I qualified for or went out to get it always came as a shock. And I have something and someone to thanks for that. I don't want power NEVER will. Wanted to move ahead in life isn't desire for power. Abiola wanted power and died in the process he already had influence, he was touching lives, he was popular but if you know what power does it makes you say no one moves around in the nation today and no one does..... THe powerful person sometimes may be drunk with selfish desires and wants , personal stuffs that are unusual etc. When you say you want power you want to be the president of america after having as much as warren buffet, you want to rule mmexico when your as rich as calos slim. To creave to be at the top or to want to make impact is different from wanting power when you look at leaders you be able to isolate the power driven and the leader, the manager and the leader, the shy and the proactive, the intellectual and the dictator. You've made wonderful points but I beg to differ on the creave for power stuff. And also the temprament stuff. And also my former views stuff. I think we should try to be impactful without being powerful, I believe in the spirit controlled temprament, I would make impact as I have done in the past but I won't do so on the platform of "power" even when the position gives me much of it I'd play my game with tact and not ............ The dirt that surrounds the power driven guys.

We should talk more you seem to be a. B 1

Please mind my errors
Re: Missmossy And Friends Crib¤¤¤ by Nobody: 6:48pm On Mar 28, 2015
Missmossy:

Lol

Don't vex ooo

I don vex
You no dey make us talk well
Re: Missmossy And Friends Crib¤¤¤ by zyzxx(m): 6:49pm On Mar 28, 2015
Missmossy:

Whats up
nothing much ooo
voting continues tommorow
Re: Missmossy And Friends Crib¤¤¤ by zyzxx(m): 6:54pm On Mar 28, 2015
Babe2sure:


Thanks much.
Yes, it's a good idea. We can be sharing life issues.
yea
Re: Missmossy And Friends Crib¤¤¤ by Nobody: 6:55pm On Mar 28, 2015
zyzxx:
Signor11 and babe2sure nice discussion
I like if we can be sharing our views about something here.
Signor11 I try to understand ur point that Not every one desire power but to my view babe2sure is right, we all aspire to be great in life.
it quite unfortunate dat power as make many people atrocious in our country

Nice bro
So people who don't want to be presidents are shy @babe2sure
No people become managers without killing for it like some do. The power driven ones are the ones that put juju on the managers chair so they can take His/ place. The desire to get to the top in your career is ok but if you kill people to get there and then become a dictator when you get there then your a mishap ............ John maxwell so differntiate betwenn both. Either way a healthy desire for power is cool but I don't want either healthy or unhealthy. I have my reasons

How your side zyzxx
Re: Missmossy And Friends Crib¤¤¤ by zyzxx(m): 7:02pm On Mar 28, 2015
Signor11, Gud point
But u still hold some power in one place or d other, coz u are still a leader to some people not until u become a president or governor, u just choose not to execute your power.
Re: Missmossy And Friends Crib¤¤¤ by zyzxx(m): 7:12pm On Mar 28, 2015
signor11:


Nice bro
So people who don't want to be presidents are shy @babe2sure
No people become managers without killing for it like some do. The power driven ones are the ones that put juju on the managers chair so they can take His/ place. The desire to get to the top in your career is ok but if you kill people to get there and then become a dictator when you get there then your a mishap ............ John maxwell so differntiate betwenn both. Either way a healthy desire for power is cool but I don't want either healthy or unhealthy. I have my reasons

How your side zyzxx
fine oo and u sir?

Sir believe me, I think there is bit of you In me
I don't want power, I don't desire for all dis position or even I don't like anytin politics
But I found myself holding some position outside
In school, church etc
I av power to decide, but I hardly make decision or give order, but I must still approve it.

I believe am still wu I am coz I still don't count all those position as something to exact power.
But the fact is it still power.

power can be poisonous sometimes

My opinion thou
Re: Missmossy And Friends Crib¤¤¤ by Nobody: 7:18pm On Mar 28, 2015
zyzxx:
fine oo and u sir?

Sir believe me, I think there is bit of you In me
I don't want power, I don't desire for all dis position or even I don't like anytin politics
But I found myself holding some position outside
In school, church etc
I av power to decide, but I hardly make decision or give order, but I must still approve it.

I believe am still wu I am coz I still don't count all those position as something to exact power.
But the fact is it still power.

power can be poison sometimes

My opinion thou

Unhmm
That's true we share a lot
You still don't get it
They wanted to make a elder brother King her ran (Jesus)
When your a leader and you exact power its differnt fron geting reults on the platform of influence and outstanding leadership.

Position and exercise of power are differnt to me
When you see people who are power driven you'd get what am saying
Re: Missmossy And Friends Crib¤¤¤ by zyzxx(m): 7:24pm On Mar 28, 2015
signor11:


Unhmm
That's true we share a lot
You still don't get it
They wanted to make a elder brother King her ran (Jesus)
When your a leader and you exact power its differnt fron geting reults on the platform of influence and outstanding leadership.

Position and exercise of power are differnt to me
When you see people who are power driven you'd get what am saying
Ok. I get ur point sir
I agree wit u.
If not dat I'm too lazy to type, I can back up ur point in many ways to show u are right sir.

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Re: Missmossy And Friends Crib¤¤¤ by Missmossy(f): 7:26pm On Mar 28, 2015
Babe2sure:


No, I didn't.
I have been home all day. Browsing and sleeping.
What about you?
Cooking,clèan up and watching movies cheesy
Re: Missmossy And Friends Crib¤¤¤ by Lero15(m): 7:28pm On Mar 28, 2015
Missmossy:

Ese oooo

Had to go to bed early but I didn't eventually

Its needed most times you know

Which instruments do you play?
Percussions, esp drum set, konga, etc

Guitar... Not pro yet smiley
Re: Missmossy And Friends Crib¤¤¤ by Nobody: 7:34pm On Mar 28, 2015
zyzxx:
Ok. I get ur point sir
I agree wit u.
If not dat I'm too lazy to type, I can back up ur point in many ways to show u are right sir.


Your rock sire

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Re: Missmossy And Friends Crib¤¤¤ by Missmossy(f): 7:36pm On Mar 28, 2015
signor11:


I don vex
You no dey make us talk well
Lol...no vex i will change i promise cheesy
Re: Missmossy And Friends Crib¤¤¤ by Missmossy(f): 7:39pm On Mar 28, 2015
zyzxx:
nothing much ooo
voting continues tommorow
shocked If i hear
Re: Missmossy And Friends Crib¤¤¤ by zyzxx(m): 7:45pm On Mar 28, 2015
Missmossy:

shocked If i hear
abi ooo
So we may not knw our president till monday
Re: Missmossy And Friends Crib¤¤¤ by Missmossy(f): 7:45pm On Mar 28, 2015
Lero15:

Percussions, esp drum set, konga, etc

Guitar... Not pro yet smiley
Thats cool

Are you an undergradùate?
Re: Missmossy And Friends Crib¤¤¤ by Missmossy(f): 7:48pm On Mar 28, 2015
Lero15:

Percussions, esp drum set, konga, etc

Guitar... Not pro yet smiley
Thats cool

Are you an undergrádùate?
Re: Missmossy And Friends Crib¤¤¤ by Missmossy(f): 7:54pm On Mar 28, 2015
zyzxx:
abi ooo
So we may not knw our president till monday
Lol
Re: Missmossy And Friends Crib¤¤¤ by Babe2sure(f): 8:05pm On Mar 28, 2015
zyzxx:
Signor11, Gud point
But u still hold some power in one place or d other, coz u are still a leader to some people not until u become a president or governor, u just choose not to execute your power.

Spot on!
Signor11 is only looking at it from the standpoint of being president or governor. Power is hierchical. Apart from that, there are different types, you seems to be harping on political power only. If you are a manager in your work place, you are in position of power, you have the right to hire and fire. If you give query to your surbodinate, it is because you are in a powerful position in that company. And that is called, legitimate/position/offical power.

Power and influence are intertwined. They go together. One cannot function without the other. Power emanates from position of authority, which can influence people both positively or negatively.
When you are in position to influence decision it is power.

With all I have analysed. Signor11, can you answer this question sincerely? Do you wish to be a low level worker all your life where you are working? Do you want to tell me you don't wish to be promoted to a bigger and better position there?
Provided you want to be in a bigger position, that means you want to influence people, have impact on them. It is still the same with 'Everyone wants power'. tongue



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