marmee:
I've done that a countless time and he usually doesn't have anything to say other than he's sorry and will try to change. I never ever deny him sex.....i give it to him whenever and however he wants it.]

marmee:
@menix he's close to God and very religious but I'll try the approach of making him understand how much he's hurting God by his actions. 2ndly what do I do concerning my job as regards the off and on issue? 3rdly as funny as it may sound he doesn't have any saved video on his phone, he watches them on net and again I ask how do I tackle that? My thoughts exactly on d porn being the trigger to self-service. Thanks all the same.

tonywirelex:
would u have preferred him sleeping around with other ladies?

bookface:
@OP: You need to ask yourself the question - Why are you concerned by his m@sturbation habits?

a) You think it will lead to difficulties with Child bearing!

This is a myth, m@asturbation has no adverse effect on reproduction, quite the contrary, the fresher the sperm sample is, the more it is likely to be accepted by the female reproductive tract and result in a fertilized embryo. Male masturbation is a natural way to shed old sperm and make room for new, fitter sperm.

b) You are concerned that this is a spiritual problem!

You are entitled to your spiritual views, but in my view, this is a myth and another in a long list of perfect nonsense that requires only a paradigm shift in the way people think in order to overcome. The urge to have sex is a natural thing. We all have sexual hormones flowing through our body. We are all sexually wired, although in different ways.

c) You have problems when having sex with him

M@sturbation often leads to loss of interest in real sex. Sometimes, it may led to delayed ej@culation! If this a real problem, the most practical thing to do is to work with him to reduce the frequency. You could for example, jerk him off, or watch the porn together..etc. It might even spice up your sex life, you never know.

Reporting him (to who?) for m@sturbating, is childish and stvpid! It will amount to humiliation! It will be the best way to damage your marriage.

Your should educate yourself more about his behavior and identify why you aren't happy with it.

SAMBARRY:
When I thought I have read the most bizarre post ever, another fellow masturbation practitioner brings in another weird reason why his filthy self damaging habits should be left alone




op for your Information any bad habit your partner has doesn't just destroy himself. It destroys you too so you better be mindful of taking advice from weirdos

bookface:


My post was not to meant justify anything - you only speak of justifying something when the rights and wrong of it are debatable - my intention was to educate the poster - and i guess the likes of you! It will be a shame if you ran around with so much ignorance.

First - what a man does with his own di*k in his privacy is REALLY nobody's business - the wife has a right to question the motives, but questioning the act itself is almost as ridiculous as someone questioning you if you choose to shave your own privates!

second - there's nothing filthy or self damaging about the act itself - the dude enjoys it and no one is harmed in the process, where's the filthy or self damaging part coming from? 90% of men m@sturbate, what's big deal?

Third - the man benefits from immediate sexual satisfaction without having to pay for it (via a prostitute) or wait for his partner - It dosen't affect sperm production either - it is really no different from having sex regularly -getting a bj or a handjob. Cut the dude some slack, the wife is not even at home all the time

So why does Sambarry get a heartache? Could it be because pastor/daddy/grandpa/...(fill in the gap) told him/her it's a really naughty thing to do? LOL!!! Nigerians have some really weird perspectives.

SAMBARRY:
Like seriously

you cleverly painted why it is good to self-service and how nobody will be affected

Google search engine is your friend and if in case you have not heard of it or know how to use it just type www.google. com and do the needful. Ignorance isn't bliss

that you wanc doesn't mean other men do, speak for yourself except you do group wancking where all of you men will be in one room wanking your destinies away and spilling your akamu on each other to drink

Abeg let me stop here before you read more your eyes don't bargain for

bookface:



You haven't said anything new, besides your failed logic of - this thing is filthy & self damaging, i know it, but i don't know why - i find those who debate ignorantly and naively to be most amusing.

Sometimes, a man has got to do what a man's got to do - no harm done! you get off the stress and calm down the big boy when the Mrs is not around. My hand, My di*k, My business....fap fap fap!!!

SAMBARRY:
If you don't know how to use Google to search for more information on the implications of wanking then your case is a hopeless one. I give up on your matter
continue wanking. The thing wey you sabi chop go belleful you

5minsmadness:
Lol, so many different interesting comments. It's easy to see those who watch porn and those who don't.

bookface:


No, your case is the hopeless one. You are ignorant and your ignorance spreads misinformation.

There are no proven implications of w@nking -so long as it dosen't stop the man from having regular sex with his spouse. As i have said before more than 90% of men m@sturbate, the 10% who claim they don't are mostly terrible liars or simply asexuals. No healthy man on earth can resist an org@sm! Most males - more than 80% - experienced their first ej@culation from m@sturbation, a smaller percentage, from wet dreams. A healthy male must ej@culate at a bare minimum of once every two weeks - a perfectly healthy male, at least 6 times in a week!


And for the upteenth time, you donut, it's a natural healthy process, your body gets rid of built up seminal fluid. It has nothing to do with the flawed idiotic nonsense of w@nking away your destiny.

@Parents in the house

If you find your son m@sturbating, you must teach him about it and let him understand that this is a natural process...taking him to a pastor for fasting and prayer or scolding him for such is frankly out of order. He is not doing anything wrong, it will not affect his destiny as some stvipd half educated ignorant fvcks claim. You should learn about it and not cause psychological problems.

Think about it this way: Every male starts having frequent erecti0ns at about age 12 or 13, which feels different from erecti0ns he might have had before. Every male is going to touch his erecti0n at some point, probably within a few weeks of having those kind of erecti0ns. Then he's going to find it feels good to touch it. Within a few weeks -- perhaps years, in some cases -- he's going to touch it to the point of having an org@sm. At that point, he's counted among the legions of males who m@sturbate. Then he will do it again and again.

SAMBARRY:
The more you post the more clownish you sound. Please tell me you're arguing for the sake of argument

if wankeen is normal and natural like you claim, why don't you do it publicly. Like wanking in the sitting room in the presence of your parents or visitors . continue arguing blindly, clown