Although your husband isn't a kid but an adult, but one way to curb this shameless attitude is to have him not renew is internet data bundle plan for a while, since most porn are downloaded. Good for you if his job won't rely on being connected 24/7.

Also, you can never underestimate the power of a praying wife.

Wait wait wait so in your tiny little mind you think you are more knowledgeable than me



ignorance is a disease. Ok let me expose some of your Ignorance. Have you ever in your entire life heard of low sperm count? I know you haven't.



Hmnnn those are some of the repercussions of your terrible habits if you persist and look for members to join you. Oniranu alagbere omo

bookface:


This logic is so silly it makes me want to cry. You should be embarrassed for making such a flawed logic.

You wouldn't do it publicly because it involves the use of your private organs duh!!!....Just the same way you wouldn't (hopefully) have sex in front of your parents. They will be horrified.

Beyond the nonsensical & idiotic view of "w@nking away your destiny" ...by medical grounds, i think you will ( and should, as i am clearly more knowledgeable than you ) agree with me that m@sturbating is a perfectly healthy thing to do.

Wait wait wait so in your tiny little mind you think you are more knowledgeable than me



ignorance is a disease. Ok let me expose some of your Ignorance. Have you ever in your entire life heard of low sperm count? I know you haven't.



Hmnnn those are some of the repercussions of your shameless habits if you persist and look for members to join you. Oniranu alagbere omo

bookface:


This logic is so silly it makes me want to cry. You should be embarrassed for making such a flawed logic.

You wouldn't do it publicly because it involves the use of your private organs duh!!!....Just the same way you wouldn't (hopefully) have sex in front of your parents. They will be horrified.

Beyond the nonsensical & idiotic view of "w@nking away your destiny" ...by medical grounds, i think you will ( and should, as i am clearly more knowledgeable than you ) agree with me that m@sturbating is a perfectly healthy thing to do.

SAMBARRY:
Wait wait wait so in your tiny little mind you think you are more knowledgeable than me

ignorance is a disease. Ok let me expose some of your Ignorance. Have you ever in your entire life heard of low sperm count? I know you haven't.
Hmnnn those are some of the repercussions of your shameless habits if you persist and look for members to join you. Oniranu alagbere omo

Please, stop this rubbish!

M@sturbation does NOT lead to a low sperm count. This is terrible. You are so ignorant. In the very least, if you don't have a clue about a subject, ask your doctor, don't just peddle the first rubbish that comes out of your mind.

There are people that are reading this forums to get informed, your types are a blight to the collective knowledge base by presenting what you thought is true as facts without first verifying them.

Stop being idiotic and just go away.

Here's a post from the UK's nhs...

Does m@sturbation affect sperm count?
M@sturbating will not affect a man's ability to produce sperm. Men will not run out of sperm, as they produce it continuously. After a man has ej@culated, it will take some time before he can ej@culate again. This is normal and doesn't mean there is anything wrong with his sperm.

You're still denying the obvious, you don't want to accept the truth because it is a bitter pill for you to swallow abi


accept that I am wiser than you in every way

bookface:


Please, stop this rubbish!

M@sturbation does NOT lead to a low sperm count. This is terrible. You are so ignorant. In the very least, if you don't have a clue about a subject, ask your doctor, don't just peddle the first rubbish that comes out of your mind.

There are people that are reading this forums to get informed, your types are a blight to the collective knowledge base by presenting what you thought is true as facts without first verifying them

@Sambarry

Is that you in the first picture?

Are you educated? You look like one of the "i travel go yankee" types. I am starting to wonder if i have simply been wasting my time debating with you as it appears you have nothing cognitively stimulating to offer besides outrageous innuendos!

bookface:
@Sambarry

Is that you in the first picture?

Are you educated? You look like one of the "i travel go yankee" types. I am starting to wonder if i have simply been wasting my time debating with you as it appears you have nothing cognitively stimulating to offer besides outrageous innuendos!

what is "I travel go Yankee types".?Mr man if you are not ready to accept the truth then continue doing what you know how to do best but don't say i didn't warn you earlier and please don't mislead impressionable teenagers to believe wanking is normal, IT IS NOT NORMAL






GOOD NIGHT!

It is time to run to God,

Addictions can be very difficult to Let go.

marmee:
Hey nairalanders i've been an adamant follower of this forum especially the family and romance section and I must really commend the likes of cc, rokiatu and co......well I got married a couple of months ago and about two months into my marriage I discovered that my husband is a chronic addict to porn and masturbation. We had 'the talk' about it and he promised to change but honestly I fear he's just getting worse. I've done practically everything possible to help him but all efforts are not yielding any results. We're presently trying for a baby and I also fear that might be a contributing factor to the delay. I'm an off and on wife ie not fully with him because I run some things in a different state but I make it a point of duty to come home every two weeks, although i've been with him for say two months on a stretch now and this period only confirmed my fears and no he never told me while dating.....found out it has been his long term secret. I don't know what to do and I need very matured advice....thanks.

my dear, you need not worry about his porn 'addiction' as you call it. People need to understand that porn is to men as telenovela is to women. Watching porn has got no negative effect on anyone really. First, you need to ask yourself what your problem is with porn. Could it be all of the ignorance and stereotypes and myths we have surrounding it in our conservative society?

As far as his watching porn isn't making him to behave in an abnormal or improper way, then i think it is ok.

And no, masturbation does not lead to infertility. That's like saying that the more a man has sex, the less likely he is to get a woman pregnant.

The only consequence of masturbating is that over time, the fluid he releases becomes reduced in volume and the same thing also happens in actual seexx too. Now, that's not a problem very much because if he stays away from it for sometime, the volume of the fluid will pick up again.

However, if you both are having problems with having a child, you may consider seeing a doctor.

Best solution i guess is the hubby should give one or two cut to the joystick with razor to creat minor injury and whenever he tries to get in the mood the wound would'nt allow him to stroke the stick and before the wound get healed 2 weeks are gone. This is only if he could do it.

How often does he do such when ever you are at home with him? Have you been able to tame him with good sex all round when ever you are with him at home ? If this answers are yes then his yoke broken is in your hands ma, you either resign from that job or go get a posting to be with oga, my wife can over satisfy me so I had to stop that , infact I now run away from my hubby coz I no wan die of sex b4 my time !so no more isshhh! . TheN let him get more close to god and fast more.

marmee:
@menix get he's close to God and very religious but I'll try the approach of making him understand how much he's hurting God by his actions. 2ndly what do I do concerning my job as regards the off and on issue? 3rdly as funny as it may sound he doesn't have any saved video on his phone, he watches them on net and again I ask how do I tackle that? My thoughts exactly on d porn being the trigger to self-service. Thanks all the same.

craziebone:


People need to understand that porn is to men as telenovela is to women.

Epic!

marmee:
Hey nairalanders i've been an adamant follower of this forum especially the family and romance section and I must really commend the likes of cc, rokiatu and co......well I got married a couple of months ago and about two months into my marriage I discovered that my husband is a chronic addict to porn and masturbation. We had 'the talk' about it and he promised to change but honestly I fear he's just getting worse. I've done practically everything possible to help him but all efforts are not yielding any results. We're presently trying for a baby and I also fear that might be a contributing factor to the delay. I'm an off and on wife ie not fully with him because I run some things in a different state but I make it a point of duty to come home every two weeks, although i've been with him for say two months on a stretch now and this period only confirmed my fears and no he never told me while dating.....found out it has been his long term secret. I don't know what to do and I need very matured advice....thanks.

Sorry you are going through this. I will advise you take him for deliverance. It not ordinary. There are spiritual powers behind that thing. They got him. He needs deliverance to get away from it. He is not himself.

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Ha ha ha... men and their porn addiction!

Well, my dear OP, I'm afraid to say it but there's no way you can stop him unless he really wants to stop it. No amount of threats, prayers, will make him stop unless he really wants to.

Why?

Because, porn addiction is a thing of the mind. He just has to fulfill those fantasies, in one way or the other.

Are you in doubts? Think I don't know what I'm saying?

Alright, now listen to this:

"Give a man a va-ga-ina and he will shpichs for a day. Teach a man to use his hand as a va-ga-ina, and he will shpichs for a lifetime!" - General Aladeen, The Dictator

Ma'am, in this situation u need to be more prayerful.This has nothing to do with u been attractive or how good you are on bed,d truth is he's been addicted already.And make sure u are always around him do not give chance for him to be alone.Pray with him,talk to him,do not report him to anybody because I know someone with similar issues,the mistake she made was to report her husband to he's family thinking there would be solution. I know God will deliver him.Do not loose hope on him,And your child will come at the right time IJN.Bless u Sis.

marmee:
@mrval i've done alot of thorough thinking and will still do and make changes if need be. 2ndly am aware that most men watch porn but like u said the frequency is what am really worried about.....sometimes two or three times or more in a day. He tries to hide it sometimes and other times he just does it but Ofcoz within the house. I've talked, begged, prayed and even threatened to report him but there's still no positive change. Guess i'll just give him more time but will that work?

lol has he stopped?

Your husband might have some secret fantasies he fulfills by watching p0rn.eg, he might be a B'D'SM freak- he could be a sub but trying to feign Dom just cos of what the closed minded Nigerian society would say. Try and tallk to him and get him open up about his fantasies. But you must first assure him that you can keep his secrets without blowing it to the public. I am sure if you can get to his secret fantasies and satisfy them, you will have your man back.

Most Nigerian ladies are clueless about what guys want. Those who are able to identify their husband's wildest fantasies capitalize on them to enjoy their marriages, while others run helter skelter complaining that their hubbies are cheating and bla bla bla. FYI, men cheat with ladies who have been able to strike the right cord to identify what the men desire.