The way I munch ice block eeh.m
Lawd hv mercy
Na so I dey give smallie to munch forgetting we are not d same.
Now, dude is down with serious cold.
Which kain mum be this?
Baaaad mum

ifyalways:


Trust all the ladies in the house are doing great. I lost one of my foster child yesterday. He was due to see Dr Kaplan of Hennepin county medical center for a cardio surgery, but unfortuantely, died yeeterday. I'm so pained but in all things,God knows best.

Oh no!

My condolences Ify. And RIP to him.

Sooo painful. Take heart, Ify. Doh. (ndo)...

Thanks Efe,Moca, Chili. He has been in so much pains,I'm comforted now that hes in a better place, no pains.

Moca, a ghotarokwam ajuju gi ofuma but I volunteer(my time most especially) for about 3 orphanages. Once in a while, as the spirit leads and when possible,a nam foster some of the kids. Fostering basically makes u the childs parent so you take care of the childs every needs kama the child will not live with you. Ufodu oge, two or more couple come together to foster a child. To foster, you wont need to contact social welfare services ,its between you and the home,not legally binding unlike complete adoption.

ifyalways:
Thanks Efe,Moca, Chili. He has been in so much pains,I'm comforted now that hes in a better place, no pains.

Moca, a ghotarokwam ajuju gi ofuma but I volunteer(my time most especially) for about 3 orphanages. Once in a while, as the spirit leads and when possible,a nam foster some of the kids. Fostering basically makes u the childs parent so you take care of the childs every needs kama the child will not live with you. Ufodu oge, two or more couple come together to foster a child. To foster, you wont need to contact social welfare services ,its between you and the home,not legally binding unlike complete adoption.

Ok thank u Ify for the explanation.
I want to adopt.
I heard the process is very long and tedious.
2 yrs plus.
infact, I won't be able to meet up.
Wish I had started earlier.

It's this hubby of mine. He want me to give birth first.
Meen!

Ify, can I meet up in one yr?
So that I will start d process as soon as I put to bed.

Hmmmmm. U sure say we no de same house?lol. I understood your post perfectly

moca:
Gaddam!
Hmm....
Oluwa thank u.
I fought one big hovering battle and won.

Never knew it was this big. I know something is not right somewhere but never knew it was very deep.
Marriage,na waaaaaaaa o!
And this my hubby just dey cover and patch d thing. Anytime I became curious and tell him, he will dismiss it or give excuse or tell me not to allow such worry me.
Isorait.

He is a great man. He stood by me and even defended me maturely.

I thank God for that man in my life.
He has never taken advantage of me in any way.

Pls,parents, abeg don't be partial in loving ur children. Try and show equal love. It destroys family.
If u don't really love child A as child B,n it will rob off on d spouses.
I just wanna rant.

lovinam:
Hmmmmm. U sure say we no de same house?lol. I understood your post perfectly

Nne, ur mind dey there

Lol.the experience is exactly "how not to train your kids". Lol

moca:


Nne, ur mind dey there

moca:

Ok thank u Ify for the explanation.
I want to adopt.
I heard the process is very long and tedious.
2 yrs plus.
infact, I won't be able to meet up.
Wish I had started earlier.

It's this hubby of mine. He want me to give birth first.
Meen!

Ify, can I meet up in one yr?
So that I will start d process as soon as I put to bed.

Why?

What's the rush? You already have a little one and are about to have another. Don't you think adopting right now will be a bit too much for you?

EfemenaXY:


Why?

What's the rush? You already have a little one and are about to have another. Don't you think adopting right now will be a bit too much for you?

See my sis is worried
Left alone,i would hv adopted b4 popping.
I have a very limited time. If I can't do it now and raise all together,then I won't be able to do it again.

I just don't know,d urge to adopt is more than d urge to make money.
Weird isn't it?

moca:

See my sis is worried
Left alone,i would hv adopted b4 popping.
I have a very limited time. If I can't do it now and raise all together,then I won't be able to do it again.

I just don't know,d urge to adopt is more than d urge to make money.
Weird isn't it?

Not weird. Unwise.

Moca and ifyalways pls come and adopt me .

Moca how are you?

EfemenaXY:


Not weird. Unwise.

Is something wrong with adoption?
Even though u will have ur own children?

.

Chillisauce:
Moca and ifyalways pls come and adopt me .

Upiantu!
Instead of u to make plans so I will join u in france,u r here talking something else
Abi u think say obodo oyibo no dey hungry me?
I don tire for this naija.
Now we r in fuel scarcity.
No light
No fuel to power gen either.
Everybody is busy looking for what to steal
Me wey no wan be a politician or oti mkpu,i wan port abeg.

Meanwhile nepa bill is still coming.

Chillisauce:
Moca and ifyalways pls come and adopt me .

Good idea. You wey dey send 500 taasan naira every month. I go enjoy tire unto per second billing things. I am ready whenever u are, my big-madam,container loading, rich pikin.

@Moca, I kinda agree with Efe. With young kids, I only adopted grown up kids and that was also because i have been fostering them for years ,there was a need to bring them home finally. It's not easy really on everyone (my own bio kids, hubby, relatives,myself and even themselves) but being that they were all grown, leaving for uni made it an easy process for us all. You might need to pause, think hard and well. I suggest you start with fostering first.

This fuel scarcity dey sweet me for body small. The streets are quiet, no voooom-vooom in the estate to disturb my sweet sleep, no traffic. I wish lagos remains like this.

moca:

Is something wrong with adoption?
Even though u will have ur own children?

There is nothing wrong with adoption.

However, in your case, I think you're planning on taking too much too soon, not to mention the raft of other "issues" you haven't even contended with yet - as per briefly covered in Ify's post. That aside, I think you're struggling (or are on the verge of) with what you've got on your plate now, and you haven't got that much supporting network present. How would you cope emotionally?

If you don't mind my asking, what is the intended age of the child you're looking to adopt?

ifyalways:

Good idea. You wey dey send 500 taasan naira every month. I go enjoy tire unto per second billing things. I am ready whenever u are, my big-madam,container loading, rich pikin.

@Moca, I kinda agree with Efe. With young kids, I only adopted grown up kids and that was also because i have been fostering them for years ,there was a need to bring them home finally. It's not easy really on everyone (my own bio kids, hubby, relatives,myself and even themselves) but being that they were all grown, leaving for uni made it an easy process for us all. You might need to pause, think hard and well. I suggest you start with fostering first.

LMAO! Chilli haff suffa!

ifyalways:
This fuel scarcity dey sweet me for body small. The streets are quiet, no voooom-vooom in the estate to disturb my sweet sleep, no traffic. I wish lagos remains like this.

No traffic? I wasted the small fuel i had between 2nd roundabout and Oando filling station. It was hellish. Make i just dey manage my fuel dey go.

ifyalways:
This fuel scarcity dey sweet me for body small. The streets are quiet, no voooom-vooom in the estate to disturb my sweet sleep, no traffic. I wish lagos remains like this.

aunty..,hafa naa? We need fuel to on generator sef naa cos lite nor dy nd heat many . Abeg make fuel return biko nu. Eku weeknd!

EfemenaXY:


There is nothing wrong with adoption.

However, in your case, I think you're planning on taking too much too soon, not to mention the raft of other "issues" you haven't even contended with yet - as per briefly covered in Ify's post. That aside, I think you're struggling (or are on the verge of) with what you've got on your plate now, and you haven't got that much supporting network present. How would you cope emotionally?

If you don't mind my asking, what is the intended age of the child you're looking to adopt?

U guys have demoralized me I swear.
This is something I hv planned since eons.
Not an adult. Less than 5 yrs so the person can grow with my kids.

Hubby agreed provided we have our own biological kids.

I want a big family and with d way I'm going, I don't thing I can go more than 3 times.
Hubby too want a big family.
D only way I can make up is by adoption.

Had my system been favorable to carrying preggie, I go dey carry or do ivf intentionally to get twins or multiple but only one dey show me pepper.
Anyway, I will see how far.

If it's possible to do in a year and half time,i will do but if not, I will forget it.


@ifyalways,nthannks for the explanation.

ifyalways:
This fuel scarcity dey sweet me for body small. The streets are quiet, no voooom-vooom in the estate to disturb my sweet sleep, no traffic. I wish lagos remains like this.

Ify, where my people r in lekki, it's gen 24/7.
Have never seen light there and they r used to that.
This obodo nigeria eeh.

moca:

U guys have demoralized me I swear.
This is something I hv planned since eons.
Not an adult. Less than 5 yrs so the person can grow with my kids.
Hubby agreed provided we have our own biological kids.
I want a big family and with d way I'm going, I don't thing I can go more than 3 times.
Hubby too want a big family.
D only way I can make up is by adoption.
Had my system been favorable to carrying preggie, I go dey carry or do ivf intentionally to get twins or multiple but only one dey show me pepper.
Anyway, I will see how far.
If it's possible to do in a year and half time,i will do but if not, I will forget it.
@ifyalways,nthannks for the explanation.

Believe me, if being forced to think long and hard about what you're intending to embark on makes you feel demoralized at the start, it's way better to feel that way now, then later when it might be too late to reverse your decision. Or do the Nigerian adoption laws make provision for you to "return" a child if you feel you can't cope?

You're very close to giving birth. Looking after a newborn is no joke. You've already got an active toddler on your hands. Hubby is hardly ever around (through no fault if his) and you haven't got that extended family network (i.e: female relatives / family members) to help you out. And yet you want to embark on adopting a very young child with all you already have on your plate? That's 3 kids under the age of five? How would you cope Moca when the going gets tough, because it will?

Then you've got your own ambitions, personal goals, and aspirations i.e: running your own business and schooling?

Look, I'm not saying it's impossible, but you really do need to think long and hard about this. Not just from your angle but from every other perspective, including the kids'.

EfemenaXY:


Believe me, if being forced to think long and hard about what you're intending to embark on makes you feel demoralized at the start, it's way better to feel that way now, then later when it might be too late to reverse your decision. Or do the Nigerian adoption laws make provision for you to "return" a child if you feel you can't cope?

You're very close to giving birth. Looking after a newborn is no joke. You've already got an active toddler on your hands. Hubby is hardly ever around (through no fault if his) and you haven't got that extended family network (i.e: female relatives / family members) to help you out. And yet you want to embark on adopting a very young child with all you already have on your plate? That's 3 kids under the age of five? How would you cope Moca when the going gets tough, because it will?

Then you've got your own ambitions, personal goals, and aspirations i.e: running your own business and schooling?

Look, I'm not saying it's impossible, but you really do need to think long and hard about this. Not just from your angle but from every other perspective, including the kids'.

Ok ma
I have hear .


I'm not stubborn o
Hope u all r cool?
Hunger don come. Make I enter kitchen

moca:

Ok ma
I have hear .


I'm not stubborn o
Hope u all r cool?
Hunger don come. Make I enter kitchen

For what it's worth, I think your intentions are admirable, but give it time babes and be patient. Fine things nor dey ever finish for market.

We're all good dear. You and yours?

Good morning.

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No traffic? I wasted the small fuel i had between 2nd roundabout and Oando filling station. It was hellish. Make i just dey manage my fuel dey go.

Lol. I have been indoors since yesterday but I understand where u are coming from. I don't understand what's " special" with that very Oando : furl scarcity or not, people prefer to get fuel from there. The last fuel I personally bought was early this week at Oando Eleganza/Ikota bridge. The queue wasn't much.

It is well.

Moca, na so we see am for Lekki o. However, if it's Lekki proper ie phase 1, I believe most if not all rental comes with generator inclusive/ serviced flats. I don't know when it's Nepa or generator anymore sef.

Efe, who no like better thing? I must adopt Chilli by fire or force. 500 tassan naira is " not a small something"

ifyalways:
Moca, na so we see am for Lekki o. However, if it's Lekki proper ie phase 1, I believe most if not all rental comes with generator inclusive/ serviced flats. I don't know when it's Nepa or generator anymore sef.

Efe, who no like better thing? I must adopt Chilli by fire or force. 500 tassan naira is " not a small something"

ifyalways:

Good idea. You wey dey send 500 taasan naira every month. I go enjoy tire unto per second billing things. I am ready whenever u are, my big-madam,container loading, rich pikin.

@Moca, I kinda agree with Efe. With young kids, I only adopted grown up kids and that was also because i have been fostering them for years ,there was a need to bring them home finally. It's not easy really on everyone (my own bio kids, hubby, relatives,myself and even themselves) but being that they were all grown, leaving for uni made it an easy process for us all. You might need to pause, think hard and well. I suggest you start with fostering first.

U no see as dem wan kidnap me and my mama untop 500 tassan naira

Hmn, these days this thing go dey hungry me but no way.
Body is wackered!
So na like this I go dey look till after 9 months?
At least I try for d other one na
3 times.
Add one month again after delivery.
10 whole months?
I don become virgin now

I will go and buy all those lubi dem.
Team virgin

Chillisauce:


U no see as dem wan kidnap me and my mama untop 500 tassan naira

Don't mind ify

She loves money too much