I couldn't disagree more with all these points. If you meet a Nigerian man that genuinely wants to be with you then all these points are not true. However, if you force yourself on a Nigerian man by trying to "tie him down" then...

If you are a lady reading this don't believe any of the points listed they are pure lies.

... my husband is a Nigeria and he treats me like a queen far better than any suppose foreigner. He ff me to d salon at all times, takes me out for dinner and vacations with d kids, he doesn't smoke nor drinks. He loves my opinion in d home and he doesn't treat me like a nanny. And also assist me in kitchen sometimes.

Am enjoying d best of marriage with my Nigerian husband

u've said all u've got in mind sha
waiting for the counter-thread "reasons why you shouldn't marry a Nigerian woman"

While true for most Nigerian men, there are a few good lovely ones.

Sorry, where u from? Let's start frm there.

That word "marriage" sha

teasel:
Look at them. Already displaying their useless unintelligent nature.

This was not necessary.

PreciousGem:
If you are a lady reading this don't believe any of the points listed they are pure lies.

... my husband is a Nigeria and he treats me like a queen far better than any suppose foreigner. He ff me to d salon at all times, takes me out for dinner and vacations with d kids, he doesn't smoke nor drinks. He loves my opinion in d home and he doesn't treat me like a nanny. And also assist me in kitchen sometimes.

Am enjoying d best of marriage with my Nigerian husband

mama God go bless you
see the kind women we dey find here!
I'm sure the op is just trying to tell us the things her hubby/boyfriend cannot do for her buh she made a mistake by generalising it.

ivyT:


single women &divorced women?u shld b flogged for mentioning them


u fit get belle,enter labor,kon give birth?

lol.....defender of the masses
oya: U fit give persin belle U think say eh dey easy

cococandy:
yes Na. See question
I've dated many like that.

Hmmm "Many". Are u a cheerful giver.

If God gives me life, I will campaign for Owelle free in 2023 as President

PreciousGem:
If you are a lady reading this don't believe any of the points listed they are pure lies.

... my husband is a Nigeria and he treats me like a queen far better than any suppose foreigner. He ff me to d salon at all times, takes me out for dinner and vacations with d kids, he doesn't smoke nor drinks. He loves my opinion in d home and he doesn't treat me like a nanny. And also assist me in kitchen sometimes.

Am enjoying d best of marriage with my Nigerian husband

wow

but he is not the rule

Lol. Pls marry us oooooo..

If you don't marry us you know how many side chicks will be unemployed.

Let naija women rely less on men nd come to marriage wit prospect. Most women goes to marriage wit empty hand if av to buy buy nd buy , she has no tangible vocation u can help develop all she has is beauty nd no brain. Dem dey become liability instead of adding value to ur life.

babygirlfl:
While true for most Nigerian men, there are a few good lovely ones.

Lol

Call that the honeymoon phase.

Thats because you've not met someone as passionate as me.

Anyway Op, If you ever get married or date a Nigerian man, then you are the greatest hypocrite ever liveth. And the thunder wey go fire you still Dey Gym.

babamajor:
Let naija women rely less on men nd come to marriage wit prospect. Most women goes to marriage wit empty hand if av to buy buy nd buy , she has no tangible vocation u can help develop all she has is beauty nd no brain. Dem dey become liability instead of adding value to ur life.

They will all turn lesbo. Better they remain broke so we can fix them.

It's mutual tho. We complement each other.

einsteino:


Best reply. instead of her to just come clean and tell us her mum was abused by her father, she dey here dey misyarn. Many people are not living their dreams because they are living their fears. i don't listen to all the trash of no perfect woman.. am like oh yeah my wife aint gon be a perfect woman, she is going to be a female martian in that case... eh gals of nowadays have a heart of stone, am like oh yeah her heart would be the finest gem i ever picked then.

for me, most of life's curses could be gifts if we are determined. to keep living your fears

Best post I read on this thread. Thumbs up.

Unfortunately, some lady is going to come here, read this up and go home to start ruining an almost perfect relationship/marriage cos it doesn`t checkout 10/10 with the OP`s list.
You`ve got to realize at some point that there`s lots of frustrated people online (same old monikers on this thread for example) and swallowing everything you read hook, line and sinker especially from nairaland to apply in your personal life almost always spells disaster. The world is full of gross imperfections, you`ve just gotta make the best of what you`ve got and quietly carve out your haven amidst the chaos and live the life you`ve always dreamed of.

Wetin concern us wey dey nairaland. If the op want, make she go marry Oyinbo, Jewish, Italian, Mexican.

You are bitter and jealous. Stop generalising and face your demons to find a solution to ur situation.

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Lol

Call that the honeymoon phase.

Yes dear. My honeymoon phase must have lasted over a half a decade then

Raiders:

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Is this how your father treat your mother? Just because your father treats your mom like a slave and badly, doesn't mean all Nigerian men will treat their wives badly

No doubt!



This most be exactly how his father treats his mother!

Na d reason y some of you can't get married because you don't wnt laid low for ur husband, even if u make a wrong choice ur husband opposed it u go hell wide, or think u r less important dat home

Stillfire:
The chauvinist point has disqualified 99.999999% of Nigerian men for marriage.
Their husband material quality is analogous to a dirty rag.



Rotflmao!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Op deep down because uv seen a lot of naija-girl-bashing-threads,so u felt u hav to post nonsense and now uv come up with pure lies,go to america its their women dat feed and house 75% of their men,because dia men are lazy and too ganster-living,bit come to naija on 9% ul see,cos we are all out to hustle to feed our girls and wives,even botswanans,SAans togolese women confesses we are the sweetest,4 the cheating part Naija women are the most unfaithful in the world,so pls keep ur ideas to urself ose

blesszzy:


Hmmm "Many". Are u a cheerful giver.

na you sabi

Another silly thread...

babygirlfl:


Yes dear. My honeymoon phase must have lasted over a half a decade then

Tell `em joor!

I thought the OP said many; Why the uproar?

Funny How everyone seems to discredit the OP...

However, they will consider a husband doing Those things as wrong.

Most Nigerian men, change o!

I personally think There are a number of good Nigerian men and as another poster said, a man in genuine love would do Those things/learn to do them or things that their partners cherish.

I would also say That Some of our sisters might not cherish all these 'serenre'. Beautiful home, good kids and a lots of loose money would do. Some like the beating and tough love part too.

Everyone should find a spouse who complements them.

babygirlfl:


Yes dear. My honeymoon phase must have lasted over a half a decade then

Congratulations sweetie.

Some of us men can do the long haul.

My boo is on cloud 9 90% of the time too and I'm no saint.

skylane:
Op deep down because uv seen a lot of naija-girl-bashing-threads,so u felt u hav to post nonsense and now uv come up with pure lies,go to america its their women dat feed and house 75% of their men,because dia men are lazy and too ganster-living,bit come to naija on 9% ul see,cos we are all out to hustle to feed our girls and wives,even botswanans,SAans togolese women confesses we are the sweetest,4 the cheating part Naija women are the most unfaithful in the world,so pls keep ur ideas to urself ose

While Some of us appreciate the hustling part, it is not the only quality needed.

bukatyne:
I thought the OP said many; Why the uproar?

Funny How everyone seems to discredit the OP...

However, they will consider a husband doing Those things as wrong.

Most Nigerian men, change o!

I personally think There are a number of good Nigerian men and as another poster said, a man in genuine love would do Those things/learn to do them or things that their partners cherish.

I would also say That Some of our sisters might not cherish all these 'serenre'. Beautiful home, good kids and a lots of loose money would do. Some like the beating and tough love part too.

Everyone should find a spouse who complements them.

Women that like getting beat or think that's normal don't deserve a good man. They should just marry a panel beater with 7 years experience.