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Re: Coulpes Passwording Their Fones:wright Or Wrong by Wendy13(f): 10:02pm On Jun 11, 2015
it doesn't really mean anything.......they might be locking it because of their children.......to me their is nothing wrong in locking my phone and give my password to my partner
Re: Coulpes Passwording Their Fones:wright Or Wrong by Nobody: 10:02pm On Jun 11, 2015
germainediva:
Pls want to know your take on this: Hubby insisted dat we should password our fones and not tell eachother d password so we can have some privacy so for like 2yrs or so its been like dat but a Pastor friend of mine insisted dat its a sin...... ......tho me am indifferent.

reading your post,I just feel like slapping you spiritually,I can't just understand how someone will have to seekthe counsel of a pastor first,before the person sees the decisions as right or wrong...I mean we both discussed something privately,you going ahead to seek the counsel of your so called pastor,that is cheating....

The day my wife will uter the word,pastor say...

That day she is going to become the pastors wife...lubbish..

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Re: Coulpes Passwording Their Fones:wright Or Wrong by feminineA: 10:03pm On Jun 11, 2015
its not healthy for the marriage.
" Naked but not Ashamed"

Insist on no secret or password
Re: Coulpes Passwording Their Fones:wright Or Wrong by Bamz(m): 10:10pm On Jun 11, 2015
First off,

germainediva,

Learn to spell right, there's nothing sexier than a girl with good diction.

A phone isn't a shared device unless it's a table top phone or something of that sort. My dad won't just pick up my mom's phone and be scrolling through.

A mobile phone is a personal device, you can do whatever you so wish with it whether you're in a relationship or not. I'm in a relationship with a person not their objects. The moment we delineate the purpose of objects as against the person, life will be smoother.

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Re: Coulpes Passwording Their Fones:wright Or Wrong by starlight101(m): 10:10pm On Jun 11, 2015
majidyusuf:
sometimes you gaz motivate ppl
yea man
Re: Coulpes Passwording Their Fones:wright Or Wrong by stigman(m): 10:15pm On Jun 11, 2015
germainediva:
Pls want to know your take on this: Hubby insisted dat we should password our fones and not tell eachother d password so we can have some privacy so for like 2yrs or so its been like dat but a Pastor friend of mine insisted dat its a sin...... ......tho me am indifferent.

You don't want to allow the sleeping Dog to be abi, after receiving stu.pid advice here you will go home to battle your husband, you are fetching wood full of ants but you don't know it, wait until you see lizards then you will know better

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Re: Coulpes Passwording Their Fones:wright Or Wrong by Nobody: 10:17pm On Jun 11, 2015
Aprime:
Putting my self in your shoes -
If my wife should suggest this to me;

1. I
2. Will
3. Get
4. An
5. Immediate
6. Divorce.

Well there — dusted, divorced and alone, she can have all the privacy she needs. I don't care. Fúcking Bítch.

grin grin

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Re: Coulpes Passwording Their Fones:wright Or Wrong by magicminister: 10:18pm On Jun 11, 2015
I lock my phone but not from my girlfriend.
She has my password and i also have her password.
We have alot of crazy pix and we are only locking the world away!!
Re: Coulpes Passwording Their Fones:wright Or Wrong by Missmossy(f): 10:18pm On Jun 11, 2015
Its really absurd! I really won't like that,there is nothing sweeter than being so free with your hubby's phone and vice versa.
Re: Coulpes Passwording Their Fones:wright Or Wrong by bdbest1(m): 10:20pm On Jun 11, 2015
this is vry wrng.... They are one... so no secrets..

For your OTG Smartphones flash drive.... Please check my signature.

Re: Coulpes Passwording Their Fones:wright Or Wrong by innobarca(m): 10:23pm On Jun 11, 2015
Which place in de bible did u see PUSSY SUCKING?is it good? Ur conscience is there to guide u ooo...too much rubbish going on in marriages nowadays.. it is a capital SIN if u know the meaning of MARRIAGE
Re: Coulpes Passwording Their Fones:wright Or Wrong by Jennifer89(f): 10:25pm On Jun 11, 2015
Op what you don't know will not kill you. if thats wat ur hubby want then its oky. Stop searching for what will give u HBP.
Re: Coulpes Passwording Their Fones:wright Or Wrong by Exceptionalkeil(m): 10:34pm On Jun 11, 2015
Your pastor is right, what happened to...
And the two shall become one ?
oneness in every every
Re: Coulpes Passwording Their Fones:wright Or Wrong by kukuruku156(f): 10:35pm On Jun 11, 2015
I think the fact that you even opened this thread suggests that you're not comfortable with the arrangement. If so, then you let him know how you feel and set the pace by unlocking your own phone.
Re: Coulpes Passwording Their Fones:wright Or Wrong by jeffizy(m): 10:35pm On Jun 11, 2015
It's not a sin as your pastor insinuated , but it is a bold definition of MISTRUST.
It is unhealthy in a marital environment.
Re: Coulpes Passwording Their Fones:wright Or Wrong by mikkyword(m): 10:40pm On Jun 11, 2015
it is definitely not a sin. But something is fishy, there is skeleton in the cupboard u are ignorant of.
Re: Coulpes Passwording Their Fones:wright Or Wrong by Nobody: 10:42pm On Jun 11, 2015
blakky97:

what about curious women who want to know your account balance and then start dicussing that the chairs in the palour need to be gold and the shoes in her rack needs to be 53?
btw those fine girls on my gallery nkor?
abeg o
Lol
Re: Coulpes Passwording Their Fones:wright Or Wrong by Tobium1(m): 10:44pm On Jun 11, 2015
germainediva:
Pls want to know your take on this: Hubby insisted dat we should password our fones and not tell eachother d password so we can have some privacy so for like 2yrs or so its been like dat but a Pastor friend of mine insisted dat its a sin...... ......tho me am indifferent.
So anytin we do to make life easy and pleasurable for we humans dat's not stated in de bible or koran are now considered sin Some pastors sef, too much religiousness (if dere's any word like dat) is de root of most banal acts in dis naija
Re: Coulpes Passwording Their Fones:wright Or Wrong by Nobody: 10:50pm On Jun 11, 2015
U just can't live with me in the same house with a locked phone. Even if u have other reasons to lock ur phone, u tell me the password sharp sharp.
Re: Coulpes Passwording Their Fones:wright Or Wrong by jasonjude(m): 11:00pm On Jun 11, 2015
if you think its nice to lock your phone,,, keep it up
Re: Coulpes Passwording Their Fones:wright Or Wrong by Nobody: 11:14pm On Jun 11, 2015
germainediva:
Pls want to know your take on this: Hubby insisted dat we should password our fones and not tell eachother d password so we can have some privacy so for like 2yrs or so its been like dat but a Pastor friend of mine insisted dat its a sin...... ......tho me am indifferent.
That pastor needs to shut his piehole
Re: Coulpes Passwording Their Fones:wright Or Wrong by nairalife2013(m): 11:14pm On Jun 11, 2015
mystiqueDZ:
It's a sin grin grin grin?? Pastor my foot!!!!
We both have passwords on the phones....he knows my password...I let him think I don't know his...

Life moves on .
pray u dont marry a husband who really loves privacy and follows his creed to the last letter and has the bucks and spends it in droves and buy u a little carry-all fon that is worth some very plenty coins and the fon to u and yur friends is a machine and has everything but one soul and get himself a metal fon piece that only him knows has two souls and with an eagle-eye-stealth-invader!
Hahaha. I dong laff tire over yur proud and self-satisfied statement: I procure phones for my wife and kids. My own fon has two lives. One is ghost. The other is human. The human has password for som apps. If any intruder touches it without first prompting the "notch" , it snaps the intruder and send the pix immediately to my email. If u steal it, soon as u try to off it, it snaps and send to d same route, yur pix & location. All contacts in stealth mode cannot be seen; calls, msges and every thing from stealth contacts cannot be seen by any1 else except if u know the "prompt sign" and the promt sign change sequentially as set, every 24hr. U can re-arrange any format by email, even when the fon is off, the latest format comes to life as soon as u power on the fon. The other life the phone has, the second soul, is the ghost mode! It only needs yur own phone serial data etc to invade yur phone and suck all yur data including unsaved passwords and all- it stores (in digitally order) all the actions u hav taken on yur phone, as far as yur phone is within the radius range of 10mtrs or bluetooth distance. Itz the second soul that is home to all invisible data. I can move anything there!
Hahaha. The day I showed mywife somthings abt myfon, she was so shocked, there's no word I can use to describe the awe that strck her! ...and dat was just a piece of the iceberg!!!
Re: Coulpes Passwording Their Fones:wright Or Wrong by IYANGBALI: 11:17pm On Jun 11, 2015
What sin?must everything be attached to religion?mtcheeeeeeeeew
Re: Coulpes Passwording Their Fones:wright Or Wrong by peegirl(f): 11:17pm On Jun 11, 2015
germainediva:
Initially when hubby suggested it I refused but when he insisted I give in 4 peace sake......his reason ;in case he carelessly drops it nobody wll b able to access it, so when I demanded d pass word he gave me but after some wks he changed it and refused t give me d password.and said we both nid a little privacy.............but any time he has d opportunity he quickly checks my fone tho I password my fone too.


Babe that husband of yours CHEATS! And that's the only reason he pokes your phone whenever the opportunity arrives.

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Re: Coulpes Passwording Their Fones:wright Or Wrong by mrrock: 11:24pm On Jun 11, 2015
germainediva:
Pls want to know your take on this: Hubby insisted dat we should password our fones and not tell eachother d password so we can have some privacy so for like 2yrs or so its been like dat but a Pastor friend of mine insisted dat its a sin...... ......tho me am indifferent.

Common sense should tell you there's something your husband don't want you to know. This's the only logical reason to that.
Re: Coulpes Passwording Their Fones:wright Or Wrong by emzila(m): 11:25pm On Jun 11, 2015
germainediva:
Pls want to know your take on this: Hubby insisted dat we should password our fones and not tell eachother d password so we can have some privacy so for like 2yrs or so its been like dat but a Pastor friend of mine insisted dat its a sin...... ......tho me am indifferent.
sister, if it had been ok in ur marriage life with d passwords on, pls kindly leave it like dat o. Ask the pastor friend to tell u d verse of the bible that says it is a sin. What did Abraham tell d wife he was going to do when he was going to sacrificed their only son? If d man God give u is taking good care of u, and u have no notice of suspicious movements, pls keep ur family out of third party called pastor friends. So ladies/men can be funny, sending series of msg to ur phone even wen they know ur marital status, such massages are better not seen by some ladies/men rather than explaining how the send got the number.
Re: Coulpes Passwording Their Fones:wright Or Wrong by wisestman(m): 11:30pm On Jun 11, 2015
I'm really sorry if I'm going to sound too blunt but any couple dt does dat needs to hv their head checked. Both of u shd go n read dis book " no more two but one" by gbile akinni so u can understand wat it is to be one no longer two. Tired of all dis trying to modernise d institution of marriage. angry

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Re: Coulpes Passwording Their Fones:wright Or Wrong by Meldrick(m): 11:34pm On Jun 11, 2015
nairalife2013:
pray u dont marry a husband who really loves privacy and follows his creed to the last letter and has the bucks and spends it in droves and buy u a little carry-all fon that is worth some very plenty coins and the fon to u and yur friends is a machine and has everything but one soul and get himself a metal fon piece that only him knows has two souls and with an eagle-eye-stealth-invader!
Hahaha. I dong laff tire over yur proud and self-satisfied statement: I procure phones for my wife and kids. My own fon has two lives. One is ghost. The other is human. The human has password for som apps. If any intruder touches it without first prompting the "notch" , it snaps the intruder and send the pix immediately to my email. If u steal it, soon as u try to off it, it snaps and send to d same route, yur pix & location. All contacts in stealth mode cannot be seen; calls, msges and every thing from stealth contacts cannot be seen by any1 else except if u know the "prompt sign" and the promt sign change sequentially as set, every 24hr. U can re-arrange any format by email, even when the fon is off, the latest format comes to life as soon as u power on the fon. The other life the phone has, the second soul, is the ghost mode! It only needs yur own phone serial data etc to invade yur phone and suck all yur data including unsaved passwords and all- it stores (in digitally order) all the actions u hav taken on yur phone, as far as yur phone is within the radius range of 10mtrs or bluetooth distance. Itz the second soul that is home to all invisible data. I can move anything there!
Hahaha. The day I showed mywife somthings abt myfon, she was so shocked, there's no word I can use to describe the awe that strck her! ...and dat was just a piece of the iceberg!!!

Man we need to talk abeg. I gat the app that codes my messages and leaves my valuable documents in ghost mode but i don't know the one that sucks phone within radius. Meaning can I know everything about my wife's activity on her phone.
Re: Coulpes Passwording Their Fones:wright Or Wrong by peegirl(f): 11:38pm On Jun 11, 2015
dollarlander:
I don't even check my wife's phone for any reason. If she misbehave, I have told her, she gives me opportunity to be very free. LOL.
I know madam MrsOJ and Dyt may not like me for this, but I beg you to allow me to express myself.

I will not follow up on any woman if she is keeping any secrete or not, because I don't have such time. But the day she is found guilty of any bad behaviour, she is on her own from that moment and I live my life the way I desire. If she wants to stay with me she is free, I will not send her away, but she has lost every right to question my authority because she has lost the ground.

That's my opinion.
Correct guy.
Re: Coulpes Passwording Their Fones:wright Or Wrong by 400billionman: 11:55pm On Jun 11, 2015
Kimoni:
Did the Pastor really say it's a sin shocked shocked shocked or you misinterpreted him?

It's not a sin but it's very unhealthy for marriage. Couples must be open to each other as much as possible. I will suspect any hubby that brings up that idea. The probability that he has a skeleton in his cupboard is very very high.

How much is skeleton now ?

And how much is cupboard ?
Re: Coulpes Passwording Their Fones:wright Or Wrong by dammytosh: 12:15am On Jun 12, 2015
germainediva:
Pls want to know your take on this: Hubby insisted dat we should password our fones and not tell eachother d password so we can have some privacy so for like 2yrs or so its been like dat but a Pastor friend of mine insisted dat its a sin...... ......tho me am indifferent.

My dear it is not a sin but hubby is a serial cheat.

He trusted you and knows you will never cheat that is why he adopted lets password it scope cos he knows you have nothing to hide.

You can choose to live with it and remain happy having access to that fone might break ur marriage.

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