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Re: The Culture Of Wedding Ring And Its Meaning In Nigeria by winodey(m): 11:13pm On Jul 11, 2015
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Re: The Culture Of Wedding Ring And Its Meaning In Nigeria by aspirebig: 11:20pm On Jul 11, 2015
Really, in NYSC camp those days, many babes remove their ring and started following other men.

Bunch of hypocrites is all I see everywhere.

Only a God fearing partner is a good marriage material, not by wearing ring ooo.
Re: The Culture Of Wedding Ring And Its Meaning In Nigeria by Brytawon(m): 11:23pm On Jul 11, 2015
Wedding is hungry me o...
Re: The Culture Of Wedding Ring And Its Meaning In Nigeria by jaycool1970: 11:25pm On Jul 11, 2015
Jamean:


What research hypothesis did you test before coming up with this conclusion?
Before you ask God for a faithful partner do change your views about these things.

Meanwhile, wedding ring is a symbol of ownership, love and commitment. Even the....

Why u no finish? Shebi your time don finish?
Re: The Culture Of Wedding Ring And Its Meaning In Nigeria by harry509: 11:26pm On Jul 11, 2015
amakoro:
Wedding ring signifies bond, everlasting love, togetherness till death do you part. It is the gift couple present to each other to bind their vows.

Most couples cherish the instant when they slip a ring on their partner. They look into each other eyes, knowing the fact they will be together from that day on. What most people don’t know is that this has been taking place for years and revolves around the giving of wedding rings. The implication and symbolization behind wedding rings is enormous and as complication as its own love story. I decide to write on this so that couples understand exactly why they exchange wedding rings.

The circle form which means forever, eternity, with no beginning or end, not only to Nigerians, but many other ancient cultures. The hole in the center of the ring also has its own meaning. It wasn’t just considered a space, but rather a gate way or door, leading to things and events both known and unknown. To a give woman a ring signifies never-ending and immortal love.

In Nigeria the culture of exchanging wedding rings was introduced by the missionaries. Our traditional marriages even till today do not recognize the wedding ring as a symbol of forever love. No wonder some religious group especially deeper life bible church etc do not use wedding rings. They use the bible as the gift they exchange with each other instead of a wedding ring. Their reason is based on the fact that the culture of wedding is pagan in nature and is not biblical inclined – According to then God almighty do not recognized it.

HISTORY OF WEDDING RING AND THE MEANING

As we all know the circle has always been significance from ancient culture to the present as a symbol of wholeness and perfection. Its endlessness is the perfect symbol of oneness and unity, no beginning, no end – what more could couple need than the unclouded wish to spend all time together? Some can go as far engraving romantic phrase within their wedding rings.

Early on, the caveman bound himself to his mate with a cord of woven rushes as a symbol that their spirits were one.

Ancient European Northern believed that a lover’s knot was a symbol of love, faith, and friendship. The knot was formed out of the hair of the beloved, woven into a knot that was then worn as a ring.

The roman’s also eventually adopted this tradition but with own twist. Rather than offering a ring to a woman as a symbol of love, they awarded them as a symbol of ownership. Roman men would claim their woman with the giving of a ring. Roman betrothal rings were later made of iron and called “Anulus pronubus’’.

Wedding ring came into use in Christian ceremonies about 870; even then, it was not the simple plain band as we know it today. It usually was highly decorated with engraved doves, lyres, or two linked hands. The church discouraged such ring as 'heathenish' - Believing on other gods. Around the 13th to 16th century, wedding and betrothal rings were considerably simplified, and given a more spiritual look which was very aptly expressed by a Bishop when he dubbed “symbol of the union of hearts.”

The habit of wearing the wedding ring on the fourth finger of the left hand is based upon a Grecian fable that the artery from that finger flows directly to the heart.

The wedding ring was also used as a symbol in Egyptian culture. The wedding band is mentioned in the hieroglyphics on walls of tombs interpreted by archeologists. Egyptian bands are usually heavy metal, encrusted with precious or semi-precious stones. In contrast, the average Roman citizen is reputed to have found “ugly metal bands” to suffice.

IN CONCLUSION there is a saying that says “The more expensive the material, the more love shown to the receiver; the value of the ring also demonstrated the wealth of the giver”.

You are free to add to this article..your comments are welcome.
http://amarachia..com/2015/07/the-culture-of-wedding-ring-and-its.html

ok oooh. I wil put mine on sum day.
Re: The Culture Of Wedding Ring And Its Meaning In Nigeria by Nobody: 11:30pm On Jul 11, 2015
Ya rite

aspirebig:
Really, in NYSC camp those days, many babes remove their ring and started following other men.

Bunch of hypocrites is all I see everywhere.

Only a God fearing partner is a good marriage material, not by wearing ring ooo.
Re: The Culture Of Wedding Ring And Its Meaning In Nigeria by NobleG1(m): 11:46pm On Jul 11, 2015
White Wedding (and its ring) is a copied culture from the West.
There's no original Nigerian traditional marriage culture that includes "wedding ring".

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Re: The Culture Of Wedding Ring And Its Meaning In Nigeria by MrDoGood(m): 11:48pm On Jul 11, 2015
Gurgle:
Not interested in wearing it

but I can get my husband one if he wishes
I can read your mind.........
And I know your story
I can see what you're going through
Yea..........
Just sing Celine dion
Re: The Culture Of Wedding Ring And Its Meaning In Nigeria by Gurgle(f): 11:49pm On Jul 11, 2015
MrDoGood:

I can read your mind.........
And I know your story
I can see what you're going through
Yea..........
Just sing Celine dion

for where
Re: The Culture Of Wedding Ring And Its Meaning In Nigeria by KingAdeOluomo1(m): 12:35am On Jul 12, 2015
Jamean:


What research hypothesis did you test before coming up with this conclusion?
Before you ask God for a faithful partner do change your views about these things.

Meanwhile, wedding ring is a symbol of ownership, love and commitment. Even the....
omo mumy @ dp

very lovely picture
Re: The Culture Of Wedding Ring And Its Meaning In Nigeria by edwinkube(m): 12:50am On Jul 12, 2015
Sum gals can't even count d nomba of times they av received weddin ring 4rm diff men...iffa hear u funke, u go talk wetin akindele do u....
Re: The Culture Of Wedding Ring And Its Meaning In Nigeria by misreal(m): 4:02am On Jul 12, 2015
amakoro:
Wedding ring signifies bond, everlasting love, togetherness till death do you part. It is the gift couple present to each other to bind their vows.

Most couples cherish the instant when they slip a ring on their partner. They look into each other eyes, knowing the fact they will be together from that day on. What most people don’t know is that this has been taking place for years and revolves around the giving of wedding rings. The implication and symbolization behind wedding rings is enormous and as complication as its own love story. I decide to write on this so that couples understand exactly why they exchange wedding rings.

The circle form which means forever, eternity, with no beginning or end, not only to Nigerians, but many other ancient cultures. The hole in the center of the ring also has its own meaning. It wasn’t just considered a space, but rather a gate way or door, leading to things and events both known and unknown. To a give woman a ring signifies never-ending and immortal love.

In Nigeria the culture of exchanging wedding rings was introduced by the missionaries. Our traditional marriages even till today do not recognize the wedding ring as a symbol of forever love. No wonder some religious group especially deeper life bible church etc do not use wedding rings. They use the bible as the gift they exchange with each other instead of a wedding ring. Their reason is based on the fact that the culture of wedding is pagan in nature and is not biblical inclined – According to then God almighty do not recognized it.

HISTORY OF WEDDING RING AND THE MEANING

As we all know the circle has always been significance from ancient culture to the present as a symbol of wholeness and perfection. Its endlessness is the perfect symbol of oneness and unity, no beginning, no end – what more could couple need than the unclouded wish to spend all time together? Some can go as far engraving romantic phrase within their wedding rings.

Early on, the caveman bound himself to his mate with a cord of woven rushes as a symbol that their spirits were one.

Ancient European Northern believed that a lover’s knot was a symbol of love, faith, and friendship. The knot was formed out of the hair of the beloved, woven into a knot that was then worn as a ring.

The roman’s also eventually adopted this tradition but with own twist. Rather than offering a ring to a woman as a symbol of love, they awarded them as a symbol of ownership. Roman men would claim their woman with the giving of a ring. Roman betrothal rings were later made of iron and called “Anulus pronubus’’.

Wedding ring came into use in Christian ceremonies about 870; even then, it was not the simple plain band as we know it today. It usually was highly decorated with engraved doves, lyres, or two linked hands. The church discouraged such ring as 'heathenish' - Believing on other gods. Around the 13th to 16th century, wedding and betrothal rings were considerably simplified, and given a more spiritual look which was very aptly expressed by a Bishop when he dubbed “symbol of the union of hearts.”

The habit of wearing the wedding ring on the fourth finger of the left hand is based upon a Grecian fable that the artery from that finger flows directly to the heart.

The wedding ring was also used as a symbol in Egyptian culture. The wedding band is mentioned in the hieroglyphics on walls of tombs interpreted by archeologists. Egyptian bands are usually heavy metal, encrusted with precious or semi-precious stones. In contrast, the average Roman citizen is reputed to have found “ugly metal bands” to suffice.

IN CONCLUSION there is a saying that says “The more expensive the material, the more love shown to the receiver; the value of the ring also demonstrated the wealth of the giver”.

You are free to add to this article..your comments are welcome.
http://amarachia..com/2015/07/the-culture-of-wedding-ring-and-its.html

please show me a verse in the bible that says a person must wear a ring on his hand before he can be termed as married.this is an example of Christians adopting pagan customs into her circle..if what you wrote is the true history of wedding rings,then I don't advice any sane person to wear it..if u can't show me a verse in the bible,please don't quote me..

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Re: The Culture Of Wedding Ring And Its Meaning In Nigeria by Lilimax(f): 5:38am On Jul 12, 2015
Adesiji77:
The wedding ring is an outward indication that the wearer is a married person... cool
True although it doesnt stop promiscuity. smiley
Re: The Culture Of Wedding Ring And Its Meaning In Nigeria by agitator: 6:12am On Jul 12, 2015
misreal:
please show me a verse in the bible that says a person must wear a ring on his hand before he can be termed as married.[/b]this is an example of Christians adopting pagan customs into her circle..if what you wrote is the true history of wedding rings,then I don't advice any sane person to wear it..[b]if u can't show me a verse in the bible,please don't quote me..

You have comprehension problem and complex issues

The OP clearly stated it in the write-up. undecided undecided undecided

amakoro:
Wedding ring signifies bond, everlasting love, togetherness till death do you part. It is the gift couple present to each other to bind their vows.

Wedding ring came into use in Christian ceremonies about 870 AD; even then, it was not the simple plain band as we know it today. It usually was highly decorated with engraved doves, lyres, or two linked hands. The church discouraged such ring as 'heathenish' - Believing on other gods. Around the 13th to 16th century, wedding and betrothal rings were considerably simplified, and given a more spiritual look which was very aptly expressed by a Bishop when he dubbed “symbol of the union of hearts.”

misrea[b]l[/b]d cry cry cry

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Re: The Culture Of Wedding Ring And Its Meaning In Nigeria by kenoz(m): 6:22am On Jul 12, 2015
Okay
Re: The Culture Of Wedding Ring And Its Meaning In Nigeria by Nobody: 6:28am On Jul 12, 2015
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Re: The Culture Of Wedding Ring And Its Meaning In Nigeria by Nobody: 6:53am On Jul 12, 2015
I wish people respect the ring though because if it's a symbol of Love, why do people still have broken homes after wearing rings of plenty thousands or millions
Re: The Culture Of Wedding Ring And Its Meaning In Nigeria by millhouse: 7:28am On Jul 12, 2015
Kul
Re: The Culture Of Wedding Ring And Its Meaning In Nigeria by misreal(m): 7:38am On Jul 12, 2015
agitator:


You have comprehension problem and complex issues

The OP clearly stated it in the write-up. undecided undecided undecided



misrea[b]l[/b]d cry cry cry
so where is the verse in the bible??..you think abusing me will stop the truth from being true.don't tell me what a bishop said or agreed upon,tell me what the bible said..if you can't,don't quote me.
Re: The Culture Of Wedding Ring And Its Meaning In Nigeria by Blaqsmith(m): 7:48am On Jul 12, 2015
airsaylongcon:


this is a Nigerian phenomenon. the engagement ring is traditionally worn on the ring finger of The lefthand.why Nigerians decided to migrate to the middle finger is something I don't know

also certain cultures particularly in eastern Europe (eg d Greeks) wear the wedding band on the right hand.

It isnt any Nigeria phenomenon. You need to read the post carefully before misleading an ignoramus.
Re: The Culture Of Wedding Ring And Its Meaning In Nigeria by Jamean(f): 7:50am On Jul 12, 2015
KingAdeOluomo1:
omo mumy @ dp
very lovely picture
Thanks smiley
Re: The Culture Of Wedding Ring And Its Meaning In Nigeria by Blaqsmith(m): 7:51am On Jul 12, 2015
Lizabeth25:
I wish people respect the ring though because if it's a symbol of Love, why do people still have broken homes after wearing rings of plenty thousands or millions

it's something in the heard. What a ring signifies is immaterial and flimsy. Just like a poster aforesaid, "...where I am, it is a bottle opener,keyholder etc."
Re: The Culture Of Wedding Ring And Its Meaning In Nigeria by Blaqsmith(m): 7:52am On Jul 12, 2015
Lizabeth25:
I wish people respect the ring though because if it's a symbol of Love, why do people still have broken homes after wearing rings of plenty thousands or millions

it's something in the heart. What a ring signifies is immaterial and flimsy. Just like a poster aforesaid, "...where I am, it is a bottle opener,keyholder etc."
Re: The Culture Of Wedding Ring And Its Meaning In Nigeria by refreshrate: 7:59am On Jul 12, 2015
Geesarki:
That's down South or to the Christians. As for us Muslims in the North, it's a fashion that even kids wear. How can be marriage centered on ring cool.

Being centered means thats what its about
Being a symbol means it represents to show.

TWO DIFFERENT THINGS

Guy slow down before hitting keypad na
Re: The Culture Of Wedding Ring And Its Meaning In Nigeria by refreshrate: 8:09am On Jul 12, 2015
misreal:
please show me a verse in the bible that says a person must wear a ring on his hand before he can be termed as married.this is an example of Christians adopting pagan customs into her circle..if what you wrote is the true history of wedding rings,then I don't advice any sane person to wear it..if u can't show me a verse in the bible,please don't quote me..

If only i could find a part in the bible that says its ok to eat eba
..or drive to work
...subscribe to dstv
...log on to Nairaland
...wear socks with my shoes
...use mosquito net
...buy injoo phone
...use tablet instead of laptop
...watch NTA
...wish to be like Alejandro in Telemondo
...wear brown socks with brown belt
...not use suspenders with belt
...apply for visa before going to jand

Too many pagan customs
Re: The Culture Of Wedding Ring And Its Meaning In Nigeria by daresimon(m): 8:26am On Jul 12, 2015
braimeddy:
OP why is the engagement ring mostly worn in the middle finger?


Go back and read the peace again
Re: The Culture Of Wedding Ring And Its Meaning In Nigeria by misreal(m): 8:27am On Jul 12, 2015
refreshrate:


If only i could find a part in the bible that says its ok to eat eba
..or drive to work
...subscribe to dstv
...log on to Nairaland
...wear socks with my shoes
...use mosquito net
...buy injoo phone
...use tablet instead of laptop
...watch NTA
...wish to be like Alejandro in Telemondo
...wear brown socks with brown belt
...not use suspenders with belt
...apply for visa before going to jand

Too many pagan customs
mtchwwww..u don't have an arguement sir..do you even know that marriage was created by God, and therefore every activity in marriage should be prescribed by God.if you still don't have a verse from the holy Scriptures.please don't quote me......do me a favour...like my comment and move on... grin
Re: The Culture Of Wedding Ring And Its Meaning In Nigeria by pinky1974: 8:44am On Jul 12, 2015
Huh wedding ring, is it a bond or FASHION?
Re: The Culture Of Wedding Ring And Its Meaning In Nigeria by refreshrate: 8:46am On Jul 12, 2015
misreal:
mtchwwww..u don't have an arguement sir..do you even know that marriage was created by God, and therefore every activity in marriage should be prescribed by God.if you still don't have a verse from the holy Scriptures.please don't quote me......do me a favour...like my comment and move on... grin

Justify my previous post in line with your thinking then come back to raise this issue of yours. Your prior post wasnt about marriage it was about wearing a ring. Two different things.

You really should learn how to get your points across.

First rule of an argument, stick to the issue or point raised, to do otherwise is to make you look unwise.
Re: The Culture Of Wedding Ring And Its Meaning In Nigeria by misreal(m): 8:54am On Jul 12, 2015
refreshrate:


Justify my previous post in line with your thinking then come back to raise this issue of yours. Your prior post wasnt about marriage it was about wearing a ring. Two different things.

You really should learn how to get your points across.

First rule of an argument, stick to the issue or point raised, to do otherwise is to make you look unwise.
please don't quote me again,since you think wearing a ring has nothing to do with wedding/marriage..
Re: The Culture Of Wedding Ring And Its Meaning In Nigeria by refreshrate: 9:02am On Jul 12, 2015
misreal:
please don't quote me again,since you think wearing a ring has nothing to do with wedding/marriage..

Let me help you gain wisdom as a Nigerian before you further embarrass yourself or even worse disgrace us internationally. you know amongst other things Nigerians are known to be very intelligent, it wont be nice to drop from that ranking cos of you.

I never said wearing a ring has nothing to do with marriage oga it was you who said to bring up a verse in the bible that supports this. I then took upon myself to show how baseless your line of reasoning was...just like your post above.

Now you dont get to quote me and ask me not to quote you. Not going to happen ahswear.
Re: The Culture Of Wedding Ring And Its Meaning In Nigeria by Nobody: 9:05am On Jul 12, 2015
You are right though!

Blaqsmith:

it's something in the heart. What a ring signifies is immaterial and flimsy. Just like a poster aforesaid, "...where I am, it is a bottle opener,keyholder etc."

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