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Re: Something Really Urgent To Ponder On..... by maverickdude(m): 9:16am On Jul 27, 2015
touching
Re: Something Really Urgent To Ponder On..... by NotNairalandi(m): 9:16am On Jul 27, 2015
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Re: Something Really Urgent To Ponder On..... by stexsy(m): 9:16am On Jul 27, 2015
i bargain a lot. Even in supermarkets before paying money for d goods, i tell them my mind at least its beta than pretending all is well....
Re: Something Really Urgent To Ponder On..... by DankemzI(m): 9:17am On Jul 27, 2015
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Re: Something Really Urgent To Ponder On..... by Nobody: 9:17am On Jul 27, 2015
MarvellousGod:
So true. . cry


But I can't help but bargain, I'm kinda used to it... embarassed .

People bargain because you wouldn't be happy if your friend buys same time you buy at #900 for #500...It's more painful if both of you buy from same shop..... No matter how rich we're, nobody wants to be 'wasting' money....

I think they should also have fixed prices for goods.. some of them do that already.. There will be no room for bargaining, the price is this and that's it.. people that will buy the goods will buy....
It will be hard for small vendors to fix price for their goods love... Only the likes of Shoprite can do such. You know they get their products in different ways especially fruit sellers and live stocks....
Re: Something Really Urgent To Ponder On..... by missKiffy(f): 9:17am On Jul 27, 2015
We don hear
Re: Something Really Urgent To Ponder On..... by undisputedgbola(m): 9:18am On Jul 27, 2015
Touching tho! Buh how can one ascertain the truth behind this claim, most people do extort, and buyers won't like to fall cheap. A Yoruba adage says "enia buruku lo b'enia rere je" (A person with bad character has contaminated the one with good character)

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Re: Something Really Urgent To Ponder On..... by henryobinna(m): 9:18am On Jul 27, 2015
me I don't bargain much,I just leave if I can't pay the price.
Re: Something Really Urgent To Ponder On..... by gragraboy: 9:18am On Jul 27, 2015
As typical of Nigerians, some of the small vendors take advantage of that to reap unrealistic profit on top our head I guess that's why we no longer feel guilty when bargaining with them.
Re: Something Really Urgent To Ponder On..... by chichriso: 9:19am On Jul 27, 2015
This is really nice
Re: Something Really Urgent To Ponder On..... by MEK14(m): 9:20am On Jul 27, 2015
I've been on d street hawkin before God help out of the street... I don't like bargainin wit petty traders and those selling on the street. May God help us. this is ma best topic so far on Nairaland

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Re: Something Really Urgent To Ponder On..... by mencade5(m): 9:20am On Jul 27, 2015
men no dey price at all. na women dey price with their last blood as if the world will end that day.


women reduce this habit please



if i buy sometin when returning back from work my spouse will quizzed me to know if i was cheated or not. i tire ooo

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Re: Something Really Urgent To Ponder On..... by peedeeasobie(m): 9:20am On Jul 27, 2015
very touching!
Re: Something Really Urgent To Ponder On..... by Blackkie: 9:20am On Jul 27, 2015
poverty and everything related to it is rejected.
Re: Something Really Urgent To Ponder On..... by Equiano: 9:22am On Jul 27, 2015
Food for thought. Henceforth, no bargaining wt petty traders, I ll even tip them too.
Re: Something Really Urgent To Ponder On..... by undisputedgbola(m): 9:22am On Jul 27, 2015
stexsy:
i bargain a lot. Even in supermarkets before paying money for d goods, i tell them my mind at least its beta than pretending all is well....
[size=8pt][/size] Buh u'll stl end up buying it @ d fixed price naa
Re: Something Really Urgent To Ponder On..... by chynergy1(m): 9:22am On Jul 27, 2015
honestly, this kind of products are not the type i bargain fiercely.
i buy them if i like them. they are not the reason why i am not yet a multi millionaire grin grin grin
but in any way, you made a case.

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Re: Something Really Urgent To Ponder On..... by jlouis212: 9:23am On Jul 27, 2015
CountKeanu:
Some of them are out to exploit though
[/color][color=#990000]you have a bad thinking and negative thought flows in your blood you need spiritual touch
Re: Something Really Urgent To Ponder On..... by Hammefeez: 9:23am On Jul 27, 2015
With this........... I remember Sikiru Ayinde Barrister song. The album is tittled "Aye" try to buy and listen you will understand better.
Re: Something Really Urgent To Ponder On..... by Idowuogbo(f): 9:24am On Jul 27, 2015
Hian! This is sad. But, I can't buy meat without bargaining ooo...those ones just call figures anyhow like say the meat na name brand.
Re: Something Really Urgent To Ponder On..... by Abbey2sam(m): 9:24am On Jul 27, 2015
delishpot:
Aww, touching. This life sha.

Lalasticlala please front page biko. This news need to spread and every bit of it is true. Those of us whose parents were petty traders can identify with this struggle.


very correct, we sure can identify with this,
this is a big message and lesson for all Nigerians

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Re: Something Really Urgent To Ponder On..... by afollayan: 9:25am On Jul 27, 2015
Touching.....
Re: Something Really Urgent To Ponder On..... by Emodeee: 9:25am On Jul 27, 2015
This is one of the most sensible posts I've read on nairaland. Abeg, who is not guilty? click share if u r not guilty, click like if u r guilty.

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Re: Something Really Urgent To Ponder On..... by Gboliwe: 9:25am On Jul 27, 2015
Reminds me of a classmate back in our 1st year who asked the departmental woman cashier if she could "price" the amount for departmental fees. Chai! I have seen people who even in these malls will price even though they know there won't be any cut.

Some of these petty traders can be greedy too. If you know the item is N200, why say it's N500? This gives room for serious bargaining. The one that makes me laugh or get mad depending on my mood is the one that will start telling you how much she bought a bag of the item on display the last time she went to the market. Or she'll say "it's because of you that I will sell xyz amount" hello? "Where do you know me ma?" Walk to the next table, you will get the item cheaper than the other table.
Re: Something Really Urgent To Ponder On..... by Nobody: 9:26am On Jul 27, 2015
jlouis212:
[/color][color=#990000]you have a bad thinking and negative thought flows in your blood you need spiritual touch
Thank you smiley
Re: Something Really Urgent To Ponder On..... by handie(m): 9:27am On Jul 27, 2015
This is touching. Really touching but sometimes, these vendors also increase prices cause they feel you won't question whichever price they quote as they tend to judge you on your car, dress, phone and carriage

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Re: Something Really Urgent To Ponder On..... by excusemyfrench(m): 9:27am On Jul 27, 2015
I've always wanted to help others who are not too buoyant like myself. God willing it shall come to pass.
Re: Something Really Urgent To Ponder On..... by PassingShot(m): 9:27am On Jul 27, 2015
CuteMaryJ:
Most times when we walk into big malls, boutiques, supermarkets, we never question their prices. We pay exactly what we see on the price tags and even hand out tips to the staff. But the moment we are out of these shops and want tobuy banana, our bargaining game gets off to the roof.

Poor widow with 12 hungry children at home tells you banana is N100. She even takes out her time to explain how difficult it wasfor her to even buy it, how the economy is so tough. But we insist that if it's not N50, we are not paying. Some of us even step back into our cars and make to drive away.

But because 'half bread is better chin chin', this woman is forced to call you back and sell to you at little or no gain. In her heart, she cries, she's worried about how she'll survive with her children. She silently reassures herself that 'It's well. God will definitely provide.'' While you happily chop the luscious banana.

Take some seconds out and think about this, guys. Please don't bargain hard with small vendors like this. They do business not to buy designer bags, Gucci shoes but to LIVE and EAT!

Love,
Laila Ijeoma

Source: http://www.lailasblog.com/2015/07/something-really-urgent-to-ponder-on.html

Cc: lalasticlala
Your soul is blessed!
Re: Something Really Urgent To Ponder On..... by PrinceEm: 9:28am On Jul 27, 2015
Dnarvaez:
Seriously, I'm touched.
food for thought we should be more discerning on who needs our favour more
Re: Something Really Urgent To Ponder On..... by UnimkeAk(m): 9:29am On Jul 27, 2015
CuteMaryJ:
Most times when we walk into big malls, boutiques, supermarkets, we never question their prices. We pay exactly what we see on the price tags and even hand out tips to the staff. But the moment we are out of these shops and want tobuy banana, our bargaining game gets off to the roof.

Poor widow with 12 hungry children at home tells you banana is N100. She even takes out her time to explain how difficult it wasfor her to even buy it, how the economy is so tough. But we insist that if it's not N50, we are not paying. Some of us even step back into our cars and make to drive away.

But because 'half bread is better chin chin', this woman is forced to call you back and sell to you at little or no gain. In her heart, she cries, she's worried about how she'll survive with her children. She silently reassures herself that 'It's well. God will definitely provide.'' While you happily chop the luscious banana.

Take some seconds out and think about this, guys. Please don't bargain hard with small vendors like this. They do business not to buy designer bags, Gucci shoes but to LIVE and EAT!

Love,
Laila Ijeoma

Source: http://www.lailasblog.com/2015/07/something-really-urgent-to-ponder-on.html

Cc: lalasticlala


Touching ;

But planning is key,
Even rich folks don't have plenty kids
Re: Something Really Urgent To Ponder On..... by abbeycial: 9:30am On Jul 27, 2015
wonderful!

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