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Family: Why Is It That 90 Percent Prefer Their Mothers by kanaleke(m): 6:15pm On Aug 26, 2015
Fathers are the head and mostly the bread winners of the family.They work so hard that most of them stay out for almost a year before returning home in a bid to put food on the table and take care of the family's welfare.....despite all these troubles and struggles,the children,both young and adults prefer and love Their mothers the most...including me too.I know mothers care for us a lot but why is it that fathers are less cared and loved for
Re: Family: Why Is It That 90 Percent Prefer Their Mothers by eleojo23: 6:18pm On Aug 26, 2015
Showing love is more than providing money.

There is a kind of warmth and emotional support that mothers give which fathers usually can't provide. The mother seems to understand the children's deeper needs.

In most cases, while the father is away looking for bread for the family, the only person around to listen to the children's complains, and help them through the challenges they face daily is the mother.
That little pat on the back, the little encouraging words and little expressions of love always add up to the children liking their mum's more than the father.
(The above is not true in all cases though. Some people grew up with only their father and he had to learn to care for them the way a mother would. Hats off to such fathers!
And some people also, for some reason, love their dads more even with their mums present)

As for me, I don't joke with issues that concern my mum. I love her because she has been very supportive in every way. If i am to be born a second time, I will still choose her to be my mum.

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Re: Family: Why Is It That 90 Percent Prefer Their Mothers by BeeBeeOoh(m): 6:22pm On Aug 26, 2015
Because they are the ones that cuddles when papa must have weeped ur ass
Re: Family: Why Is It That 90 Percent Prefer Their Mothers by killercute16(m): 6:23pm On Aug 26, 2015
A topic that should be taken seriously

Cc:Lalasticlala,Ishilove
Re: Family: Why Is It That 90 Percent Prefer Their Mothers by Nobody: 6:29pm On Aug 26, 2015
without my Dad i' will be nothing in this world

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Re: Family: Why Is It That 90 Percent Prefer Their Mothers by Vivalavida99(f): 6:37pm On Aug 26, 2015
Or rather why is it that a larger % of the females love their dad more and the male child their mom? undecided
Re: Family: Why Is It That 90 Percent Prefer Their Mothers by Nobody: 6:44pm On Aug 26, 2015
Vivalavida99:
Or rather why is it that a larger % of the females love their dad more and the male child their mom? undecided
Unlike poles attract undecided


Op, because mothers provide more emotional support... Not in all cases though. .

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Re: Family: Why Is It That 90 Percent Prefer Their Mothers by Vivalavida99(f): 6:47pm On Aug 26, 2015
MarvellousGod:
Unlike poles attract undecided


Op, because mothers provide more emotional support... Not in all cases though. .

True that.
Re: Family: Why Is It That 90 Percent Prefer Their Mothers by kanaleke(m): 6:57pm On Aug 26, 2015
eleojo23:
Showing love is more than providing money.

There is a kind of warmth and emotional support that mothers give that fathers usually can't provide. The mother seems to understand the children's deeper needs.

In most cases, while the father is away looking for bread for the family, the only person around to listen to the children's complains, and help them through the challenges they face daily is the mother.
That little pat on the back, the little encouraging words and little expression of love always add up to the children liking their mum's more than the father.
(The above is not in all cases though. Some people grew up with only their father and he had to learn to care for them the way a mother would. Hats off to such fathers!)

As for me, I don't joke with issues that concern my mum. I love her because she has been very supportive in every way. If i am to be born a second time, I will still choose her to be my mum.
fathers are greatly devalued.

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Re: Family: Why Is It That 90 Percent Prefer Their Mothers by eleojo23: 7:03pm On Aug 26, 2015
kanaleke:
fathers are greatly devalued.
Like I said, it's not in all cases.
Actually, it wont be totally correct to say that children love mothers more than fathers. It would be wrong generalisation to argue in that line. Men and women bring different attributes to parenting.
Re: Family: Why Is It That 90 Percent Prefer Their Mothers by mekzyjoe(m): 7:13pm On Aug 26, 2015
Re: Family: Why Is It That 90 Percent Prefer Their Mothers by Trypa(f): 8:10pm On Aug 26, 2015
They's dis special bond we share with our mum more dan the fathers
Re: Family: Why Is It That 90 Percent Prefer Their Mothers by Yustash001(m): 8:33pm On Aug 26, 2015
The pain she went through during patruition is enough for me to love her more...

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Re: Family: Why Is It That 90 Percent Prefer Their Mothers by Yustash001(m): 8:34pm On Aug 26, 2015
BeeBeeOoh:
Because they are the ones that cuddles when papa must have weeped ur ass
Lol...you haven't seen a strict mother...
Re: Family: Why Is It That 90 Percent Prefer Their Mothers by resty4(m): 9:09pm On Aug 26, 2015
Moda-child rlnship starts right frm mamas' womb. grin
Re: Family: Why Is It That 90 Percent Prefer Their Mothers by kiddiezil(f): 1:45pm On Aug 27, 2015
Onijagidijagan:
without my Dad i' will be nothing in this world
u are so in point.... Thumbs up 2 d great father's out dere..

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Re: Family: Why Is It That 90 Percent Prefer Their Mothers by Blade21: 3:38pm On Aug 27, 2015
I dunno abt others but ma dad is de most amazing man ever nd I love him way more dan my mum I always used ma dad as a standard 4 de man I will marry Lol daddies are amazing
Re: Family: Why Is It That 90 Percent Prefer Their Mothers by IamGabby: 9:47pm On Aug 27, 2015
My mum is my "Mode- Machine",She can so so read me like a blak dot on a piece of paper,en would fix me back to the "Me" me.


But I love my Dad more.
Re: Family: Why Is It That 90 Percent Prefer Their Mothers by Domwiz4all(m): 7:07am On Aug 28, 2015
Well, I think i am on d oda side: I luv my dad more.
Re: Family: Why Is It That 90 Percent Prefer Their Mothers by Nobody: 5:06pm On Aug 28, 2015
Who wont prefer their mother?


A mother is a warrior.
In the midst of problem, she is calm.
She provides, she heals, she consoles.
She sacrifices, She gives her all.
She admonishes, she chides, yet, welcomers u back into her bossom with love.



Is only a mother that can laid down her life for her child to live.


Truthfully, i am yet to see a love that's greater than a mother's own. (Apart God's own).



Even if i quarrel with my mother.., she is still d best.



She is my world.
She is everything i have got.



Mothers are GOLD.
Re: Family: Why Is It That 90 Percent Prefer Their Mothers by Pidggin(f): 5:13pm On Aug 28, 2015
I like both, i can't pick who i like more.
Re: Family: Why Is It That 90 Percent Prefer Their Mothers by teddybear007(f): 6:08pm On Aug 28, 2015
In as much as i love both of them, but i will always chose my dad cos he has a better way of understanding me more than my mum.
Re: Family: Why Is It That 90 Percent Prefer Their Mothers by quivah(f): 7:56pm On Aug 28, 2015
typical . .
Re: Family: Why Is It That 90 Percent Prefer Their Mothers by 7footre(m): 10:22am On Aug 29, 2015
Well I guess I belong to the 10%
Re: Family: Why Is It That 90 Percent Prefer Their Mothers by wisdomiskey(m): 1:33pm On Aug 29, 2015
Re: Family: Why Is It That 90 Percent Prefer Their Mothers by maputohq: 10:49pm On Aug 29, 2015
7footre:
Well I guess I belong to the 10%
I Also Blong To The 10%.
Re: Family: Why Is It That 90 Percent Prefer Their Mothers by 7footre(m): 3:21am On Aug 30, 2015
maputohq:

I Also Blong To The 10%.
cool
Re: Family: Why Is It That 90 Percent Prefer Their Mothers by dad007(m): 7:50am On Aug 30, 2015
Few years back,I thougth of so many things I wanted to give to my father,but there was no means to do so.Now that I am ok,he is far away.For me,I love him far more than my mum. He is the best man I ever know....Rest n peace Baba.

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