I have been married to my wife for six year now, we re living together. We have one child. Lately , I noticed some strange behaviour from wife, her libido has increased to an alarming stage. Anytime I come home from work tired she kept disturbing for sex which I find very disturbing. Until yesterday I was looking for something in my room, I came across a VIBRATOR. I am really confused.
The question is. .should I allow her continue using it as a substitute or I should stop her before she gets use to using it ( my wife is a full time house wife)
Pls I need mature advice

stop her before its late. She resolved to using the pleasure machine due to your negligence. Try relaxing and stressing yourself less @ work, then try satisfying her the best way you can in bed.
And mind you, try not to say no again whenever she is ready. it is her matrimonial right!

ubanDoma1:
I have been married to my wife for six year now, we re living together. We have one child. Lately , I noticed some strange behaviour from wife, her libido has increased to an alarming stage. Anytime I come home from work tired she kept disturbing for sex which I find very disturbing. Until yesterday I was looking for something in my room, I came across a VIBRATOR. I am really confused.
The question is. .should I allow her continue using it as a substitute or I should stop her before she gets use to using it ( my wife is a full time house wife)
Pls I need mature advice

As it stands bro, you already have a rival. If you are not giving her the much needed sex, then you are on a long thing. It doesn't hurt you to take a break at work for some days and teach her a lesson on bed. Don't leave her begging for sex. Na serious wahala o

you can never stop her from using it
whenever you are not around she will make use of it
only way is to get her occupied with something else so she has less time for it, and gradually she will forget about it.

Get her a job. Try do ur best to satisfy her. Also talk to her, vib rators can be addictive.

ubanDoma1:
I have been married to my wife for six year now, we re living together. We have one child. Lately , I noticed some strange behaviour from wife, her libido has increased to an alarming stage. Anytime I come home from work tired she kept disturbing for sex which I find very disturbing. Until yesterday I was looking for something in my room, I came across a VIBRATOR. I am really confused.
The question is. .should I allow her continue using it as a substitute or I should stop her before she gets use to using it ( my wife is a full time house wife)
Pls I need mature advice

what an hypocrite... you dont want to attend to your wife's sexual needs, but you also dont want her to satisfy her own self (due to your lack in bedroom game). she wouldnt need a v1brator if YOU were doing your job right!

OP I don't want to say you aren't doing it right but truth remains, she isn't satisfied with what you give, plus having a lot of spare time(depends on what she does at home though) will definitely make it harder to keep her mind off sex.

You both need to have a talk to figure it out.

@OP look 4 a job for ur wife or start a bussiness 4 her, dat way her mind will be occupied with business issues, dnt allow continue with the love machine and make sure u always give her sex when she demands it even though ure tired, just make her happy.

vibrator always hits the spot.
please allow her to continue using it thank you...

Any married woman having a intimacy gadget means he got 0/10 in sexology course

That should tell you that you are a failure so go and retake your course before another person helps you to retake the course and mind you you you don't know the kinds of men that she meets where she buys the intimacy gadget

meanwhile this your story is synonymous to a mother who is a restaurant owner and the child is begging for food from strangers

I pity you. Don't get back to work. Kontunu lamenting.boyalomo pe no be only you sabi better thing
You should be ashamed that an ordinary toy is doing a better work than you a human being that doesn't use batteries
next

Kanwuliajara oya come and put mouth o

ubanDoma1:
I have been married to my wife for six year now, we re living together. We have one child. Lately , I noticed some strange behaviour from wife, her libido has increased to an alarming stage. Anytime I come home from work tired she kept disturbing for sex which I find very disturbing. Until yesterday I was looking for something in my room, I came across a VIBRATOR. I am really confused.
The question is. .should I allow her continue using it as a substitute or I should stop her before she gets use to using it ( my wife is a full time house wife)
Pls I need mature advice

You better start performing ur sexual duties or else na your landlord or gate man go hammer ur wife everyday.

MRBrownJ:


what an hypocrite... you dont want to attend to your wife's sexual needs, but you also dont want her to satisfy her own self (due to your lack in bedroom game). she wouldnt need a v1brator if YOU were doing your job right!

exactly my sentiments.and na them go dey do baba counsellor for church.

Shiooorrrr

peeparty:
vibrator always hits the spot.

please allow her to continue using it thank you...

Are you ok

You are not doing it well

Dragonking:


You better start performing ur sexual duties or else na your landlord or gate man go hammer ur wife everyday.

SAMBARRY:
exactly my sentiments.and na them go dey do baba counsellor for church.

Shiooorrrr

to most men, a v1brator is a threat, because that tool can achieve what they selfishly decided to ignore/disregard

Big deal..

Mtchew.

People making problems for themselves when they actually have none.
You're not happy it's not the neighbor instead of the vibratorr.?

Good question @Dragonking.

should I allow her continue using it as a
substitute or I should stop her before she gets use to using it?op ask this question above.

I can wrap my head around this..I mean a full grown man with Big balls asking this?
Sir it is so obvious his not performing his duty.

@OP, what do u want her to do? You caused it, kindly live with the situation.

peeparty:
Good question @Dragonking.

should I allow her continue using it as a
substitute or I should stop her before she gets use to using it?op ask this question above.

I can wrap my head around this..I mean a full grown man with Big balls asking this?
Sir it is so obvious his not performing his duty.

Why won't the wife go for intimacy gadgets when the husband isn't living up to his duties.
This isn't an issue......The op should perform his roles as the sexual partner or another man or object will do it for him....Simple.

The question should have been " should you allow her to continue using it as a substitute or she should get help from outside?". In my opinion, since it is obvious you can't satisfy her libido and she's not seeing another man outside, you should allow her ease herself with the machine if that is doing the work for her after all you still have her loyalty. On the other hand you also try and work on yourself.

ubanDoma1:
I have been married to my wife for six year now, we re living together. We have one child. Lately , I noticed some strange behaviour from wife, her libido has increased to an alarming stage. Anytime I come home from work tired she kept disturbing for sex which I find very disturbing. Until yesterday I was looking for something in my room, I came across a VIBRATOR. I am really confused.
The question is. .should I allow her continue using it as a substitute or I should stop her before she gets use to using it ( my wife is a full time house wife)
Pls I need mature advice

if it were possible to exchange wife,I would hve said we should exchange. You type of wife is the kind I would prefer marrying.my wife is zero when it comes sex. sometimes we hardly hve sex twice in 2 months.

cococandy:
Mtchew.

People making problems for themselves when they actually have none.
You're not happy it's not neighbor instead of the vibratorr.?

bottom line, he was meant to b d one doin d 'thrusting' not a machine. She cheated, neighbor or no neighbor. If i was d one, way too disapntd, i tut she cud talk to me, she's my wife for God's sake.

Omo ur own critical

Ebi4life:
if it were possible to exchange wife,I would hve said we should exchange. You type of wife is the kind I would prefer marrying.my wife is zero when it comes sex. sometimes we hardly hve sex twice in 2 months.

There is something you are obviously not doing well/right.

Dont confront your wife, stage a surprise night, get and light scented candles, wear your sexxy boxers , groom your down below, prop the pillows and hide the v1brator somewhere handy. Once your wife gets in bed, seduce her, get the groove on and encourage her to use the v1brator so you can WATCH AND LEARN how to do it right.

And oh, the boxers must be red. Red works always.

^^^i think it is too late and now this guy has to work with this side "tool", to enhance their lovemaking, FOREVER. she has already tasted the forbidden fruit and she LIKED IT!

Brymo:
bottom line, he was meant to b d one doin d 'thrusting' not a machine. She cheated, neighbor or no neighbor. If i was d one, way too disapntd, i tut she cud talk to me, she's my wife for God's sake.

bro, she did talk to him... she demanded sex (which the husband viewed as "disturbance" ) and he denied her what is supposedly her marital right, under the pretense that he was "tired".

yes, it can be viewed as cheating to some people but she was forced into the act.

Your points are ok, no doubt

MRBrownJ:
^^^i think it is too late and now this guy has to work with this side "tool", to enhance their lovemaking, FOREVER. she has already tasted the forbidden fruit and she LIKED IT!



bro, she did talk to him... she demanded sex (which the husband viewed as "disturbance" ) and he denied her what is supposedly her marital right, under the pretense that he was "tired".

yes, it can be viewed as cheating to some people but she was forced into the act.

but nothin can justify a wrong doing, negligence isn't even good enough.

Brymo:
Just points are balance, no doubtbut nothin can justify a wrong doing, negligence isn't even good enough.

you are absolutely right but they BOTH did wrong...

Dragonking:
Why won't the wife go for intimacy gadgets when the husband isn't living up to his duties.
This isn't an issue......The op should perform his roles as the sexual partner or another man or object will do it for him....Simple.

We are actually on the same page..maybe you seems not to understand me...

Nothing wrong with a woman owning a vilbrator


Many married women have it