my husband and i are young couple who just got married last week, my husband is an official member of a leading Pentecostal church and he takes his religion seriously – so much so that he always recoils at the idea of having MouthAction. he says it’s against the teachings of the Bible. This makes me sad. I am a Christian myself and I go to a reputable church from time to time. his attitude really upset me, I know a lot of our religious friends who are happy in fulfilling sexual relationships, why should our situation be different? At times I even wonder if he not hiding something from me. I asked him to reach some sort of compromise by allowing me to give him MouthAction but he says it is against his religious beliefs . It seems as if he is using his religion as excuses, What can I do? should i end the marriage ?

hmmm

If he says so, let it go...for now, give him time. U thinking of ending marriage cos of that is a bit funny.

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There is nothing to debate about this. If your husband said No to mouthAction pls respect it belief. Atleast he is not denying you of sex.

BTW, you are a woman and i dont expect this to bother you, mostly it is men that beg ladies for mouth action not you the lady begging him you want to give him mouthAction.

Unless you are so use to this in your past relationship with your guys before marriage i see nothing special joor.

Just enjoy the sex and the love making and let him demand for it himself if at all he will. Dont use this as an excuse to have side husband

Happy married life.

yvelch:
If he says so, let it go...for now, give him time. U thinking of ending marriage cos of that is a bit funny.

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are there ladies going through? the same problem?

This lady is a cork sucker


too mad u married a man that cant give u heads
life my dear would be boring...... best advice is you walk out now things are fresh
or you look for a side guy, that can fulfill your sexual fantasy.....

"Should I End The Marriage" End It Na because of mouth action?

Hildalicious:


are there ladies going through? the same problem?

Welcome to marriage. Advise-compromise shld be your watch word

yvelch:

Welcome to marriage. Advise-compromise shld be your watch word

for how long?

You are a woman. You must ease him into this. Understand that his decision is not a deliberate act to not satisfy you sexually, he only puts God before you.

You must therefore become his God. Do not bring up the issue for sometime. Make him a nice meal after one of his lengthy evening services. Pour some anointing oil on him and give him a sensual massage. Tease him in bed. Make him sweat for it. Wound him. Climb him, rub him, 4k his balls off, let him know you're his lady, his Mary, let your holy spirit flow into his soul. electrify his fleshy sword, move him in the name of jizzus..









will be back with more advice.

Hildalicious:
my husband and i are young couple who just got married last week, my husband is an official member of a leading Pentecostal church and he takes his religion seriously – so much so that he always recoils at the idea of having MouthAction. he says it’s against the teachings of the Bible. This makes me sad. I am a Christian myself and I go to a reputable church from time to time. his attitude really upset me, I know a lot of our religious friends who are happy in fulfilling sexual relationships, why should our situation be different? At times I even wonder if he not hiding something from me. I asked him to reach some sort of compromise by allowing me to give him MouthAction but he says it is against his religious beliefs . It seems as if he is using his religion as excuses, What can I do? should i end the marriage ?

Story sounds very fake to me

Annunaki:



Story sounds very fake to me

No spoil market.

Chai,
Indeed one man's meat is another man's poison.
Who rejects "cool offers" of that nature from his wife?
Tell ur husband to read and re read Songs of Solomon, I am sure he has been deliberately avoiding that part of the Holy Bible.

Hildalicious:


for how long?

Let peace reign in ur home so therefore, for as long as it takes.

No be God fearing man you been dey pray for? Kikikikiki #fakestory

Walhalla dey oh!

Madam, please tell me what joy you derive in sucking pen1s? Your husband said he does not want his d1ck to be sucked, then respect his wish and erase the thoughts completely from yiurgead.

Get yourself a lollypop if you must suck something.

Hildalicious:
my husband and i are young couple who just got married last week, my husband is an official member of a leading Pentecostal church and he takes his religion seriously – so much so that he always recoils at the idea of having MouthAction. he says it’s against the teachings of the Bible. This makes me sad. I am a Christian myself and I go to a reputable church from time to time. his attitude really upset me, I know a lot of our religious friends who are happy in fulfilling sexual relationships, why should our situation be different? At times I even wonder if he not hiding something from me. I asked him to reach some sort of compromise by allowing me to give him MouthAction but he says it is against his religious beliefs . It seems as if he is using his religion as excuses, What can I do? should i end the marriage ?

Yes end the marriage and while at that make sure that you get the right courts and lawyers to do it officially before its too late....

MosakuAW:
There is nothing to debate about this. If your husband said No to mouthAction pls respect it belief. Atleast he is not denying you of sex.

BTW, you are a woman and i dont expect this to bother you, mostly it is men that beg ladies for mouth action not you the lady begging him you want to give him mouthAction.

Unless you are so use to this in your past relationship with your guys before marriage i see nothing special joor.

Just enjoy the sex and the love making and let him demand for it himself if at all he will. Dont use this as an excuse to have side husband

Happy married life.

rubbish!
so she should just enjoy sex?
how about what she want?
this is how women are marginalized in Africa

redcliff:


Yes end the marriage and while at that make sure that you get the right courts and lawyers to do it officially before its too late....

this is the best legal aproach

Iceflox:

rubbish!
so she should just enjoy sex?
how about what she want?
this is how women are marginalized in Africa

Nonsense!!!

So you support her to leave her marriage because of mouth action. Was she not aware of the person she intend getting married to before she did.

And ladies always be like ..."I need a God fearing husband."

And I am always like..."why do girls always desire what they don't need?

Hildalicious:


1 - my husband and i are young couple who just got married last week, my husband is an official member of a leading Pentecostal church and he takes his religion seriously – so much so that he always recoils at the idea of having MouthAction.

2 - he says it’s against the teachings of the Bible. This makes me sad. I am a Christian myself and I go to a reputable church from time to time. his attitude really upset me,

3 - I know a lot of our religious friends who are happy in fulfilling sexual relationships, why should our situation be different? At times I even wonder if he not hiding something from me.


4 - I asked him to reach some sort of compromise by allowing me to give him MouthAction but he says it is against his religious beliefs .


5 - It seems as if he is using his religion as excuses, What can I do? should i end the marriage ?

There're so many things to be talked about here so I have broken down in the order we'll talk about it or I will respond to your quest.

1 - In all, it looks to me as if you guys didn't communicate this issue or subject before marriage hence, the outcome you have now. There're so many things wrong in religion mixed with Christianity. I do not judge your husband but I assume he might be deep in religion without understanding Christianity. That takes me to #2.

2 - Where in scripture (by inference or in plain language) does the bible stipulate how married couples should satisfy themselves if he's saying it is against the teaching of the bible. And people shouldn't be quoting old testament as if we still live under that covenant in Christianity. You both need sit down and look into such verse if there is. Marriage is all about sacrifice and satisfaction - to be enjoyed not endured. Ask your husband to show such scriptures if that's his excuse because I don't know of any instruction for married couples so If he's giving excuses based on scriptures, then you know he's right.

3 - He might not be hiding anything from you. Una women sef, na so una dey think.... . I think you guys probably didn't talk about things like this before marriage so you both know where both of you stand.

4 - Sure, you husband will be sinning if he allows you against his belief but it's something you have to talk about. Someone's belief might be based on false or mis information or knowledge of scriptures as a Christian. Paul said, someone eat meat offered to idol with the knowledge that idol is nothing before God while another eat with the knowledge that meat offered to idol will hurt him....my paraphrase. He then said, whatsoever is done out of faith is sin. So, your husband because of his knowledge will be sinning if he allows them. His compromise will first come if you put in time and scripture based knowledge to let him understand God doesn't stipulate how married couples enjoy themselves in marriage - there's no one size fits all in marriage. Some like it some don't but the big problem here is communication which probably wasn't done before marriage.

5 - Well, like I said, religion is far from Christianity. You need to put in time to work on him to help him take religion out of Christianity. It's too early to think of ending a one week marriage. You haven't even endured nothing yet in your marriage as many things will or might come up. You also need sacrifice too with patience. Sometimes, strategy when and how you talk the issue to him matters....maybe in his happy mood. Little thing as thing should make the decision for you to end your marriage, that will be a selfish and childish thing to do.

Was there no form of courtship before the wedding? You wanna end a one week old marriage because of mouth action? Goodluck with that.

Mznaett, I'm waiting for your reaction on this.

Edipee:
Mznaett, I'm waiting for your reaction on this.

I yam cuming sir!

Abeg,na who head giving and receiving don help for dz world sef?

Well,this one pass me o

But I think this is a serious issue that needs proper treatment to save the young marriage

You don't expect the maker to come down and save your marriage for you..You fix it urself

In as much as I'd love my man to give me head I don't think I'd even like the idea of giving him head in return

For you to even think of backing out of your marriage cuz of "head giving" simply means you wer'nt ready at first

Since head giving is what you want well,I'd advise you find someone who fits in to give you without ur hubby's knowledge o

Mznaett:


I yam cuming sir!

Abeg,na who head giving and receiving don help for dz world sef?

Well,this one pass me o

But I think this is a serious issue that needs proper treatment to save the young marriage

You don't expect the maker to come down and save your marriage for you..You fix it urself

In as much as I'd love my man to give me head I don't think I'd even like the idea of giving him head in return

For you to even think of backing out of your marriage cuz of "head giving" simply means you wer'nt ready at first

Since head giving is what you want well,I'd advise you find someone who fits in to give you without ur hubby's knowledge o

Good reaction. Though you appear selfish about not giving back; I admire one thing in you- 'Frankness.'

may be you have big and sharp teeth and your husband is afraid to lose his junior • 《am sorry you need go welder go cut your teeth》 b4 he denies you even common kiss......¿

Mznaett:


I yam cuming sir!

Abeg,na who head giving and receiving don help for dz world sef?

Well,this one pass me o

But I think this is a serious issue that needs proper treatment to save the young marriage

You don't expect the maker to come down and save your marriage for you..You fix it urself

In as much as I'd love my man to give me head I don't think I'd even like the idea of giving him head in return

For you to even think of backing out of your marriage cuz of "head giving" simply means you wer'nt ready at first

Since head giving is what you want well,I'd advise you find someone who fits in to give you without ur hubby's knowledge o

'well,I'd advise you find someone who fits in to give you without ur hubby's knowledge o' hey, how did I skip this part? I sincerely disagree with you here. Dat is adultery na, haba. Would you do that if you were in her shoe?

Hildalicious:
my husband and i are young couple who just got married last week, my husband is an official member of a leading Pentecostal church and he takes his religion seriously – so much so that he always recoils at the idea of having MouthAction. he says it’s against the teachings of the Bible. This makes me sad. I am a Christian myself and I go to a reputable church from time to time. his attitude really upset me, I know a lot of our religious friends who are happy in fulfilling sexual relationships, why should our situation be different? At times I even wonder if he not hiding something from me. I asked him to reach some sort of compromise by allowing me to give him MouthAction but he says it is against his religious beliefs . It seems as if he is using his religion as excuses, What can I do? should i end the marriage ?

This is why you should have lots of sex before marriage. At least you would know what you are getting into. Leave him of stay unhappy.

MouthAction is sexual perversion; it's not something true Christians should be involved in. The mouth is meant for eating, talking and praising God and shouldn't be defiled for any reason....Do not listen to the serpent seeds telling you that "it doesn't matter"! It's perversion and completely out of God's will! Sex is for procreation; and yes, it's meant to be enjoyed in marriage and at the same time not to be perverted!

Be reasonable; you shouldn't be upset about something like this.

This is what you get when you let your so called man of god dictate what ought and what ought not to be practised in the bedroom. A lot of unhappy marriages out there based solely on sexual inhibitions on either one of the parties involved.

Goshen360:


There're so many things to be talked about here so I have broken down in the order we'll talk about it or I will respond to your quest.

1 - In all, it looks to me as if you guys didn't communicate this issue or subject before marriage hence, the outcome you have now. There're so many things wrong in religion mixed with Christianity. I do not judge your husband but I assume he might be deep in religion without understanding Christianity. That takes me to #2.

2 - Where in scripture (by inference or in plain language) does the bible stipulate how married couples should satisfy themselves if he's saying it is against the teaching of the bible. And people shouldn't be quoting old testament as if we still live under that covenant in Christianity. You both need sit down and look into such verse if there is. Marriage is all about sacrifice and satisfaction - to be enjoyed not endured. Ask your husband to show such scriptures if that's his excuse because I don't know of any instruction for married couples so If he's giving excuses based on scriptures, then you know he's right.

3 - He might not be hiding anything from you. Una women sef, na so una dey think.... . I think you guys probably didn't talk about things like this before marriage so you both know where both of you stand.

4 - Sure, you husband will be sinning if he allows you against his belief but it's something you have to talk about. Someone's belief might be based on false or mis information or knowledge of scriptures as a Christian. Paul said, someone eat meat offered to idol with the knowledge that idol is nothing before God while another eat with the knowledge that meat offered to idol will hurt him....my paraphrase. He then said, whatsoever is done out of faith is sin. So, your husband because of his knowledge will be sinning if he allows them. His compromise will first come if you put in time and scripture based knowledge to let him understand God doesn't stipulate how married couples enjoy themselves in marriage - there's no one size fits all in marriage. Some like it some don't but the big problem here is communication which probably wasn't done before marriage.

5 - Well, like I said, religion is far from Christianity. You need to put in time to work on him to help him take religion out of Christianity. It's too early to think of ending a one week marriage. You haven't even endured nothing yet in your marriage as many things will or might come up. You also need sacrifice too with patience. Sometimes, strategy when and how you talk the issue to him matters....maybe in his happy mood. Little thing as thing should make the decision for you to end your marriage, that will be a selfish and childish thing to do.

to be sincere i am not enjoying my marriage,
everything is so boring,
no fun,
i thought if i marry a godly man he will make me happy.