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His Siblings Versus Our Marriage: Is This The End Of My Marriage? / End of Part 1 / Is This The End Of Sex As We Know It? (2) (3) (4)
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Re: End of story. by misspicy(f): 10:50am On Oct 15, 2015 |
Dongreat:Lol...are you the author? |
Re: End of story. by TonyeBarcanista(m): 10:55am On Oct 15, 2015 |
@Scantee make you go siddon jare. You wey I de vex 4. If you be say you be my guy I for find confirm Star bottle take shave your bia-bia . But calm down, make you take things easy sha. @HopeAtHand: Why you de cast me? Since them nominate your oga as minister your body just de sweet you. Make you carry me along o! |
Re: End of story. by Nobody: 11:12am On Oct 15, 2015 |
scantee:That is just one of the tricks she is using on you, you better end the relationship if you want to have rest of mind in your marriage. 3 Likes |
Re: End of story. by qhutetomsel(f): 11:28am On Oct 15, 2015 |
scantee:I think you should take things easy, fine you want to break up with her buh get ur facts correctly jst like misspicy said. ask her Lodge mates about her movements lately, monitor her, stop d flow of money for now,try to win your big sis over to ur side,she could be of help. do all these just so you know you re not making a mistake. you never can tell she might not be cheating on u even though her movement is suspicious. It is well bro. |
Re: End of story. by Dongreat(m): 11:36am On Oct 15, 2015 |
Yes my dear. Lol. It's a quote by Dr Great Atagana. Long before tiwa use it. Never mind u are forgiven. This once oh. misspicy: |
Re: End of story. by scantee(m): 12:15pm On Oct 15, 2015 |
qhutetomsel:thanks dear, the truth is that everybody in her school i asked seem to be siding her claiming the same thing she claimed, i don't even know who to believe, but i have lost the trust i have for her as it stands now. |
Re: End of story. by scantee(m): 12:16pm On Oct 15, 2015 |
TonyeBarcanista:abeg bro no vex, me and u still get unfinished business na haba! |
Re: End of story. by scantee(m): 12:23pm On Oct 15, 2015 |
baggy4luv:bro the major reasons i asked her that is because most @times her frnds/course mates is always in her apartment, so to avoid some private talks on phone while shez with people who could figure out our discussion through responses, so i always try to make sure she is a beta placed to talk to me, so is not really about doubting her.. |
Re: End of story. by scantee(m): 12:40pm On Oct 15, 2015 |
jaxxy:thanx a lot bro, i comfirmed about the guy identity he happend to be her gf brother truely, their school was conducting post ume on the said date, the guy choose to stay back and read so he could attend another post ume exam which comes up the upper in another uni in the same state, my main problem about the guy staying back was that a state from SS to SE is not far and the fare would'nt be more than 1k compare to the feeding expenses as he stays back, 2. She never told me about it until i found out myself. Sharing the same bed with guy on excuse of is raining seanson that one can't use the floor is uncalled for. Concerning the last issue we had, she claimed network was bad, bt i could hear everyting very clear, i have spent quality times with her anytime i am on leave, @ times she spends weeks with my parents if i am not in town, she still maintain that she has never cheated on me even till 2day. |
Re: End of story. by qhutetomsel(f): 12:51pm On Oct 15, 2015 |
scantee:I still think you should give her the benefits of doubt. Trust nd love her with your eyes open while you try to get ur facts. its not easy buh jst do this for ur happiness she might be jst d one for you. You can end the relationship when you have concrete evidences trust me everyone 'll be by your side then. have a nice day! |
Re: End of story. by ekundayoalo(m): 12:56pm On Oct 15, 2015 |
MarvellousGod:why are u taking this issue personal? hmmm.... i dey smell something, are u related to her? did u even read what d op wrote up there? read again and comment pls 1 Like |
Re: End of story. by ekundayoalo(m): 12:58pm On Oct 15, 2015 |
qhutetomsel:lovely 1 Like |
Re: End of story. by jaxxy(m): 1:22pm On Oct 15, 2015 |
scantee: Well seems a bit clear on d 1st incident bt how did u Knw d guy Ws sleeping on d bed? She told u? Then it may be harmless bt on d second issue y d shady attitude? Or maybe it Ws just ur imagination? Well keep ur eyes open and don't look at any woman as a saint bt sm of quiet good. So now let assume she's innocent for now bt not a saint, u Knw her good side bt how about her other sides. To fully Knw a person u must know both gud and bad cos nobody is perfect and then make sure it's balanced. Have u asked her about her previous relationships? Ex? If not u beta. Just for precaution reason. |
Re: End of story. by Nobody: 1:56pm On Oct 15, 2015 |
At OP, Your calls are ignored a total number of 22 times at one instance, even text messages are ignored until the next day. You are not informed of a living arrangement involving a man until a Q & A session is carried out... amongst other things and you are here asking questions. Guy, no dey dull like this na. What does your gut feeling say? 3 Likes |
Re: End of story. by eyinjuege: 2:20pm On Oct 15, 2015 |
scantee: That your girl na actress? Which role has she played in Nollywood abeg? To be honest with you, get ready to be blackmailed everyday of your marriage, and if she doesn't agree with any decision you make in marriage, na fainting galore be that. Are you ready to be rushing her helter skelter to the hospital every time? I dislike hysterical women She's a pretender, and most probably a scammer at that. 3 Likes |
Re: End of story. by qhutetomsel(f): 2:31pm On Oct 15, 2015 |
sihom:To me the girl might not see d need to inform him before d guy came over because he's not living with her perm. jst for the period of the post ume exams,d guy is her friends younger bro which automatically becomes her younger bro,meaning she's older than him nd he's not d one paying her lodge fee so she might be lyk 'Why must I tell him'? come to think of it do u think she will open up just lyk dat if there's anything between them. nd again what if it was an impromptu arrangement lyk d boy being stranded nd d sister knowing she has a friend there called her to allow her bro put up with her for the exam. let's just reason with her also not in support of actions tho. wat I feel scantee should be more concerned about since he has confirmed dat truly d guy is her GF's brother is d fact that he called her 22times nd she didn't pick nd had to hang up on him claiming network ish . lyk I said previously drive it to the point that you will have enough evidences to end d relationship |
Re: End of story. by scantee(m): 2:45pm On Oct 15, 2015 |
qhutetomsel:and u too thanks. |
Re: End of story. by scantee(m): 2:58pm On Oct 15, 2015 |
qhutetomsel:the arrangement was not done out of a rush because they guy came with cloths that he will use for period of two weeks, 2ndly that her so called friend was her friend during their JSS class in secondary school and only got in touch bak through facebook and have not seen for over 8yrs, is her twinsted that told me that the guy is her frnds bro not that i have any other source i got the information. As u said is no need she telling me about the guy temporal stay in her house, if i may ask you, if ur man is housing a gal that is above 22yrs for two weeks and he never told u even when u guys talks on phone often he never told u he has a vistor and u found along the line how would u take it? Ur man sharing the same bed with a gal almost the same age with him for two weeks.. 3 Likes |
Re: End of story. by duduade: 3:01pm On Oct 15, 2015 |
scantee:abeg have u guys had sex.. if so. .. pull on her the hiv positive prank and get her to confess |
Re: End of story. by duduade: 3:03pm On Oct 15, 2015 |
scantee:I have shared a bed with an opposite sex for almost two weeks.. we were on a job... buh cash stripped to get another room.. and believe me nothing of sort happened. . 1 Like |
Re: End of story. by scantee(m): 3:05pm On Oct 15, 2015 |
eyinjuege:lol funny u, i think the fainting of a thing is not today thing, base on what her mum said that anytime she is emotionaly hurt so hard she always have problem of breathing, her BP will rise extraodinary, they are familiar with her on that and always avoid hurting her in a such manner. I was actually with her and the mum the day she fainted while her mum was trying to settle the issues. |
Re: End of story. by omoharry(f): 3:07pm On Oct 15, 2015 |
scantee:You are still in denial and defending her action that she is not cheating on you..I am a woman...no woman would drop off her boo''s calls except she is writing an exam or in a class of which the phone will be off...you love her, dont you?....now get the fact...she does not love you as much as you love her.A world is enough for the wise. Don't go and marry and later come on Nairaland to tell us of how this chic turned wife is now cheating on you.move on. 4 Likes |
Re: End of story. by scantee(m): 3:12pm On Oct 15, 2015 |
omoharry:my dear am not defending her at all, she said she decided not to pick my calls because she knows that anytime i got upset nothing she would say that i will believe, she was waiting for my mood to calm down before she can explain things, she has sent me more than 20 text sms since today explaining and pleading... |
Re: End of story. by babysophie(f): 3:15pm On Oct 15, 2015 |
scantee:Leave dt one bros,we know ashawos used to come to d ship for business na,abi u dey tie ur eyes wen dey come? |
Re: End of story. by babysophie(f): 3:20pm On Oct 15, 2015 |
D gal is young n has to flex all nw abi is it wen she is married dt she wil b regretting d fins she didnt do as a gal,besides u dnt stay around. Dt gal wil only use ur money to flex. 1 Like |
Re: End of story. by scantee(m): 3:27pm On Oct 15, 2015 |
jaxxy:ya i asked her about where the guy use to sleep, she told me that they share the same bed on the ground that is raining seasons and rains almost everyday, so she does not have the heart to tell the guy to be sleeping on the floor, though she claim her bed is very wide and can accommodate up to four people, i have not been in her room before so i would'nt know, on the issue of her past r/ship, ya she told me everytn abt it, she said only dated one guy from SS3 - First year in Uni, you know she was born and brought up in Lag, her family stays in lag, she happend to got admission in SE while the guy is schooling somewhere in the west, i met her in first semester 200L, she broke up with d guy on many ground which best known to them, but they were still dating as of the time we met and i told her my intention of getting married to her. So she broke with d guy some weeks after, they guy was even threatning her then, he was using her fb account then to blackmail her, i have to intervane by hacking the account and change password and block off the guy. That has been her only ex.. |
Re: End of story. by babysophie(f): 3:29pm On Oct 15, 2015 |
scantee:U already v answers to defend ur gal den y r u hre? U r one afraid of breakup n d gal already knw dt n u r nt her kind of man. I dnt blame though . 3 Likes |
Re: End of story. by scantee(m): 3:31pm On Oct 15, 2015 |
babysophie:well all men are not the same, last time i check i can remember our ship taken any ashawo frm naija here to France, spain...etc maybe u should ask ppl |
Re: End of story. by omoharry(f): 3:32pm On Oct 15, 2015 |
scantee:lol....Mr Man...you so much love her that is why you are sympathetic to her excuses for not picking your calls....were u expecting her to tell u that she has another man in her life who is is serving a particular purpose in her life. from all the instances you have told us..it is only obvious that she has a distraction and she does not want to loose you either in other to secure both side...follow you instinct and not you heart...right now you heart cannot distinguish btw truth and lies from you love one.Anyway i pray you have the wisdom to settle this issue without getting hurt at the end. 1 Like |
Re: End of story. by babysophie(f): 3:33pm On Oct 15, 2015 |
scantee:U shld v told us u wanted us to beg her for u na. 1 Like |
Re: End of story. by scantee(m): 3:49pm On Oct 15, 2015 |
babysophie:ok |
Re: End of story. by scantee(m): 3:57pm On Oct 15, 2015 |
babysophie:the advice i seek is not about breaking up rather about not setting the two families into some internal disputes. I am not looking 4 a gf or niether are my bad market, i believe in myself and i believe i have what it takes to date any gal i wish, but as a human i don't like hurting people, i love to have a mutual understanding with people around me, you don't expect me to send the gal parking in an ungentle man way, i rather make her understands her crime so she would have herself to blame rather than tagging me a heartbreaker. Thanx though for ur input 1 Like |
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