LOBATAN!

Hello house......am Azubuike. Hope to meet some1 here.

wow

Hmmm,ds thread still dey exist. You can easily know frm d tone of some posts y some women remain single @ 40. I pity them, they can never learn.

lolu20:
what do u know about love.I followed my heart.and u don't av d right to me whether I am in luv or not.how can u open ur mouth and say my luv is selfish. if I find luv in a married woman,so be it.all d single ladies doesn't appreciate a gud man.moreover,they r not legally married. it was just introduction, no kids whatsoever. d girl denied d ring when I asked her about it.she told me I can still come and marry her if I am ready now. but I just decide to avoid violence.

lolu for the first time,i just saw your post today and after going back to the begining,i saw this post and i must say you are the one confusing us and eveen yourself...

The lady in question is not married and i wonder why you kept referring to her as marrid...IF IT IS TRUE THAT ONLY INTRO WAS DONE..then she is not a married lady and if you truly want each other then she should leaave the guy and stick with you...Stop complicating things for yourself referring to her as married and I ONLY HOPE SHE IS SAYING THE TRUTH COS MANY LADIES LI A LOT.

Adeolaolumide:
Hmmm,ds thread still dey exist. You can easily know frm d tone of some posts y some women remain single @ 40. I pity them, they can never learn.

Yeah the thread is still on and lets try to be modest in the way we writ...im learning to be modest too.. a lady or guy been single at 40 often times has nada to do with their personality just that this love affair thingy is too complex to decipher..

Do you know that the older one gets the more difficult it becomes to settle down?

This is because it bcomes a bigger risk to just settle for one person as there is no more time for courtship and you now want to be extra careful and by so doing,one will just realize that years havee gone so pleease leets stop mocking single people who are of advanced age..marriage is a serious matter and one cant just plunge in.

Toks2008:


Yeah the thread is still on and lets try to be modest in the way we writ...im learning to be modest too.. a lady or guy been single at 40 often times has nada to do with their personality just that this love affair thingy is too complex to decipher..

Do you know that the older one gets the more difficult it becomes to settle down?

This is because it bcomes a bigger risk to just settle for one person as there is no more time for courtship and you now want to be extra careful and by so doing,one will just realize that years havee gone so pleease leets stop mocking single people who are of advanced age..marriage is a serious matter and one cant just plunge in.

Love is not complex, it's people that are complex. I can tell you from all I've read so far why certain people are still single including u sef.

Adeolaolumide:


Love is not complex, it's people that are complex. I can tell you from all I've read so far why certain people are still single including u sef.

LOBATAN

though i dont know your age or how experienced you are but as an objctive person please can you let me into why you think im still single?...who knows there just might be something you see that needs adjustment by me.

Toks2008:


LOBATAN

though i dont know your age or how experienced you are but as an objctive person please can you let me into why you think im still single?...who knows there just might be something you see that needs adjustment by me.

You talk too much. Women don't like talkatives and a nagging husband.

Adeolaolumide:

You talk too much. Women don't like talkatives and a nagging husband.

Lol.. Easy

Toks2008:


lolu for the first time,i just saw your post today and after going back to the begining,i saw this post and i must say you are the one confusing us and eveen yourself...

The lady in question is not married and i wonder why you kept referring to her as marrid...IF IT IS TRUE THAT ONLY INTRO WAS DONE..then she is not a married lady and if you truly want each other then she should leaave the guy and stick with you...Stop complicating things for yourself referring to her as married and I ONLY HOPE SHE IS SAYING THE TRUTH COS MANY LADIES LI A LOT.

bro,thanks. I left her a year ago.I didn't let her know,I was leaving cos I was via with my service year den.u know d Igbo tradition is different from d Yoruba tradition. d IBO pple don't recognize introduction like d way d Yoruba pple take it.d IBO pple respect marriage a lot and d bride price.d Yoruba believe dat u r good to go so long u av kids,and I've down introduction. dat is where I am confused. so sad,I can't hold her again. forever mine

Good morning,house! Been a while I been here,travel things jare. Hope y'all doing gud. Its sanitation saturday,hope everyone is doing some cleaning? Please try o.
@Lolu,still trying to get your standpoint. I actually ddnt save your number when you reached out to me via whatsapp,lost the message else I wld hav tried calling. Honestly I'm also a bit confused by ur writeup as Toks said. And you seem bitter like a lady hurt you bad! Pls be calm o and dnt let anger mak u do regretable things. Just let it go.
Making reference to someone's single status and why such person isn't married for me is subtle mockery(to put it kindly)and words can produce negative effects on pple o @adeolaolumide(I hope you also don't attack me verbally for this post,lol)
Have a great weekend all!

Adeolaolumide:


You talk too much. Women don't like talkatives and a nagging husband.

Wow...how judgemental some people can be.

Well taken but even if you guessed right though the nagging thing is a total miss for you i would advice that next time its better you present your notion in a more appropriate manner by writting..."i think you talk too much..." the reason is because we have never met or even talked before.

And yes i love to talk because communicating is my passion but trust me, if you hear me speak you will not want me to stop...

So Apparently im not that type of talkative you have in your mind and if you come closer you will realize that im not the yap yap type and i dont even enjoy chatting but i love writing so much and if that is what you tag as talking too much then too bad.

And lastly i would like you to understand that in Nigeria expecially for most women,that a man is even a monster is not a deterrent and all that matters is money so dearrie the principal reason why you see many guys single at overipe age is because they are either not interested in having a lady to themselves since they have enough money to sleep with as many as possible or they do not have enough money to be seen as adorable by most naija babes who value money above all the presumed reasons you bliv is a deterrent.

lolu20:
bro,thanks. I left her a year ago.I didn't let her know,I was leaving cos I was via with my service year den.u know d Igbo tradition is different from d Yoruba tradition. d IBO pple don't recognize introduction like d way d Yoruba pple take it.d IBO pple respect marriage a lot and d bride price.d Yoruba believe dat u r good to go so long u av kids,and I've down introduction. dat is where I am confused. so sad,I can't hold her again. forever mine

Lolu sorry to ask but how old ar you.

lolu20:
what do u know about love.I followed my heart.and u don't av d right to me whether I am in luv or not.how can u open ur mouth and say my luv is selfish. if I find luv in a married woman,so be it.all d single ladies doesn't appreciate a gud man.moreover,they r not legally married. it was just introduction, no kids whatsoever. d girl denied d ring when I asked her about it.she told me I can still come and marry her if I am ready now. but I just decide to avoid violence.

Sorry Siamia, let me just throw this in;
the heart can always mislead, only God will not fail you. This your heart is one kind, please, my guy, follow God's directive not this your kind of heart. A girl that can deny her ring is not even worth it.
And lastly sir, I never opened my mouth. I TYPED.

TheFatOne:



Lol.. Easy

Lol please allow am o...im so used to dirct attack and as a politician i handle such attacts so well...the only funny thing is that i dont think i have ever mt him or talk to him or her before.

Btw if the pics on your profile page is yours then your user id is not ideal cos you aree not fat..

And please if you meet the criteria to be part of the thread,lets meet you.

Adeolaolumide:


You talk too much. Women don't like talkatives and a nagging husband.

My guy, you must be a high jumper. Lol.
It is your opinion and I respect it. But how can you just jump to conclusion like that? For a fact, there is a lot of difference between talking too much and loving to talk. Toks sure loves to talk but most times, he shares opinions, experiences and educative thoughts in a liberal manner. Folks learn from many of his posts. He loves to interact with others. I don't think he talks too much.
You said he talks too much. Then you concluded that he's a talkative. AND A NAGGING HUSBAND! LOL! Where did you deduce that from?!

Judgemental peeps taking over.

I'll keep observing so I don't get labelled offensive.

Morning everyone.

Na toto kari me com here o make una vex

halexito:

Sorry Siamia, let me just throw this in;
the heart can always mislead, only God will not fail you. This your heart is one kind, please, my guy, follow God's directive not this your kind of heart. A girl that can deny her ring is not even worth it.
And lastly sir, I never opened my mouth. I TYPED.

nor vex o.

Toks2008:

Lolu sorry to ask but how old ar you.

30

lolu20:
30

Good...

There are good ladies as well as bad ones but most times we tend to close our eyes to the good ones and will end up with the bad ones.

As i wrote on this thread...https://www.nairaland.com/2516804/10-reasons-why-serious-minded,if you really want a lady that will be serious about marriage and will not be too keen on hinging her love for a man on money or material stuffs then ladies of 26years and above will be the best bet because at this age, some form of reality will be setting in even when we know that some will still hold on to illusion of geting a "financially ok" guy while those in the younger age mostly will still want to play around and will not be ready for commitment.

Hey this is really true and see it will work for you too..

If U were born on the 1st, 10th, 19th, 28th of any month U r number 1….
If U were born on the 2nd, 11th, 20th, 29th of any month then U r number 2…
If U were born on the 3rd, 12th, 21st, 30th of any month then U r number 3…
If U were born on the 4th, 13th, 22nd, 31st of any month then U r number 4…
If U were born on the 5th, 14th, 23rd of any month then U r number 5…
If U were born on the 6th, 15th, 24th of any month then U r number 6…
If U were born on the 7th, 16th, 25th of any month then U r number 7…
If U were born on the 8th,17th,26th of any month then U r number 8…
If U were born on the 9th,18th,27th of any month then U r number 9

Number 1
You are smart, straight talking, funny, stubborn, hardworking, honest,Jealous on competing basis, kind hearted, angry, friendly, authorities, Famous person… always want to be and regarded as first on people position, they are often like to be independent, will never be under others, self confident people!
You are most likely to fall in love in the younger age, but will get marry when you mature! You are likely to have problems with people who have opposite views
And you are most likely to take revenge over your enemies in a long time basis. You are a spender, but you will have a good profession in the future.
If you are guy you will be very popular that everybody will have mental attraction and respect at you. You can go anywhere from the local shop to the heart of the parliament because you are positive and well talented in numerous issues!! But in your life you will always have some people who will work hard to bring you & your name down. This is undercover!! Coz of your smart behavior you will be hated by some people too…
Your family life is very cool, you will have a very nice partner & wonderful children… You are pioneer, independent & original…
Your best match is 4,6,8 good match is 3,5,7 !!!

Number 2
No matter what, you will be loved by every one coz your ruler is the moon and every one loves the Moon. Well.. You are a person who day dream a lot, you have very low-self confidence, you need back up for every move in your life, you are very much unpredictable. Means you do change according to time and circumstances, kind a selfish, have a very strong sense of musical, artistic talent, verbal communication.
Your attitudes are like the Moon, comes to gloom and fade away so everybody can expect changes in you. You can be a next Mahatma Gandhi who does peace love or you can be a Hitler who wants to destroy the man kind and peace (I mean in the community and your own home).
If you really have a deep thought about your own believe in God you can feel the difference which will make you stronger! Most of the time your words are a kind of would be happening true! So without any knowledge you can predict the situation. You will become poets, writers, any Artistic business people!
You are not strong in love, so you will be there and here till you get marry.. If U r a girl you will be a responsible woman in the whole family. If U r a man you will involve in fights & arguments in the family or Vice-versa. Means you will sacrifice your life for the goodness sake of Your family…You are gentle , intuitive with a broad vision, a power behind the scenes, well balanced People!!!
Your best match is 2 ,5 ,9 no other people can put up with you !!!

Number 3
You are a person of hard hearted, selfish most of the times, religious, loves to climb up in your life. You always tend to have lots of problems within your family in the early stages but you will put up with everything.. You have the strong word power, pretty happy face.. So wherever you go always you have got what you wanted!!! And from the birth always wanted to work hard in order to achieve something.. You will not get anything without hardwork! When you reach a man/ woman age you want other younger once to listen to you because you want younger people to respect people older than them. You do set so many examples to others.
Generally you are not a cool person. It’s not easy thing dealing with you. A tough player you are! But once you like someone’s attitude then here you go, what can I say? It will be a lasting friendship. You always have respect from others.
Your life seems to have lots of worries and problems but sure they won’t be long.. you will always have brilliant kids!!! You love the money a bit too much so temptation will push you to endless trying and trying.. If you are a guy then it’s over. Looking after your family and help friends, so you will spend a life time just being generous and kind (except 21st born men). And number 3s you will
be such an example of how to be in the culture & life!!! If you are girl then you have good character and culture & hardworking attitude. You always follow.
You are a freedom lover, creative, ambition focused, a person who brings beauty , hope & joy to this world!!!
Your best match 6 ,9. Good match 1 ,3 ,5 !!!

Number 4
You are very stubborn too, very hard working but unlucky in important matters in life, very cool, helpful, you have rough word power.. Might put lots of people away from you, you may cause nuisance to others if you are a man, and you often understands others and their problems well. If you are a girl you are very good with studies and arts. If you are a guy you spend most of the time after girl friends (almost) at times, you will have sort of too much fun life with mates & girls. Your friends will spend your time & money and get away with their life and you will become empty handed and don’t know what to do… So be careful!! You love to spend anyway!!!
Your good will is you are always there to help family and friends. Tell you what you people are little gem! s, specially the girls.. You always fall in love in younger age as well. You often live with disappointments, for an example you have got a degree in some thing… but you will be unemployed.. or will do very ordinary jobs.
But you will take care of your family very well…All you need to be careful of people who will take advantage of your kind heart. And beware of your relations too..
You are radical, patient, persistent,a bit old-fashioned, you live with foundation & order…
Your best Match 1, 8. Good match 5 ,6 , 7 !!!

Number 5
You are very popular within the community, you can get things done by just chatting..to even enemies! You have a pretty good business mind, you are often have no-idea what is today is like, or tomorrow is like, you are a person who does anything when your head thinks “lets do this”. You will be famous if you open up a business, get involve in share dealings, music etc.. Very popular with sense of humor ,you are the one your friends and families will always ask for help, and you are the one actually get money on credit and help your friends. You will have more than 1 relationship, but when u get settle down you will be a bit selfish anyway. Coz your other half will have a pretty good amount of control in you, be careful! You tend to go for other relationships! Contacts even you are married at times ‘coz your popularity..
You are someone who get along with anyone coz the number 5 is the middle number.. Changes & freedom lovers you are! You are an explorer with magic on your face. You learn your life through experience and it’s your best teacher!!!
Your best match 1 ,2 ,9. Good match 6 ,8 !!!

Number 6
Ooopppss..you are born to enjoy.. You don’t care about others. I mean you are always want to enjoy your life time, you are a person.. You will be very good in either education or work wise or business management! You are talented, kind (but with only people who you think are nice), very beautiful girls and guys, popular and more than lucky with anything in your lives. All the goodness does come with you. Your mind and body is just made perfect for love.
You are lovable by any other numbers. But if you are a number 6 man, you will experience kind of looks from most girls and will involve in more than few relationships until you get married. If you are girl, most of you will get marry/engaged early. You are a caring person towards your family & friends .
If you miss the half-way mark then you are about to suffer physically and mentally. Generally you will lead a very good inner-home happiness with nothing short of. You are a person of compassion, comfort & fairness, domestic responsibility, good judgment, and after all you can heal this world wounds to make peace for every life coz you have the great power of caring talent to make this world of love one step further…
Your best match 1, 6, 9. Good match 4, 5 !!!

Number 7
You have got the attraction to anyone out there, you are realistic, very confident, happy, such a talented individual with your education, music, arts, singing, and most importantly acting too. You have real problems with bad temper! If you are a girl, you are popular with the subjects listed above.
You give up things for your parents. I mean you value your family status a lot, you will be in the top rank when you reach a certain age. If you are a guy you are popular with girls, you are a very talented too. Most of the number 7s face lots of problems with their marriage life.
Only a very few are happy. You have everything in your life, but still always number 7s have some sort of unfullfilness, such worries all their lifetime.
It’s probably the Lord given you all sort of over the standard humans talents and you are about to suffer in family life. So you need to get ready looking for a partner rather than waiting. If you don’t, then you might end-up single. So take care with this issue, ok?
You are wonderful, friendly, artistic, happy person.. You are born to contribute lots to this world!!!
Your best match is 2. Good matches are 1,4 !!!

Number 8
You are a very strong personality, there’s no one out there will understand you. You are very good at pointing your finger at some thing and say “this is what”.
You are more likely to suffer from the early ages. I mean poverty. If your times are not good you might lose either of your parent and end up looking after your entire family. You often suffer all the way in life.
The problems will not allow you to study further, but you will learn the life in a very practical way. You are the one who will fight for justice and may die in the war too. You are normally very reserved with handful of friends and most of the time live life lonely and always prepared to help others.
Well. once you get married (which is often late) then your bad lucks will go away a bit and you! u become safe. You will face un-expected problems such as :
the error, government, poisonous animals, accidents.
You are some one with great discipline, persistence, courage, strength which will take you to success. You are a great part of a family team. You are a fighter!
Your Best match 1 ,4, 8. Good match 5 !!!

Number 9
Hey…you guys are the incompatibles people in the world. You are so strong, physically and mentally… You are often have big-aims. You will work hard and hard to get there. Normally you suffer in the early age from family problems and generally you will have fighting life.. But when you achieve what you have done, it’s always a big task you have done! You are so much respected in the community, you are a person who can make a challenge and successfully finish the matter off.
You are very naughty in your younger age, often beaten up by your parents and involve in fights and you seemed to have lots of injuries in your life time. But when u grow you become calm and macho type.
Love is not an easy matter for you. You are good in engineering or banking jobs coz people always trust you.
Your family life is very good, but will have worries over your children.
Your such qualities are humanitarian, patient, very wise & compassionate.
You are born to achieve targets and serve every one all equally without any prejudice.
You are totally a role model to anybody in the world for a great inspiration.
Your Best match 3, 5, 6, 9. Good match 2

Its about time o! Really, ought to b such a platform n i hail u,@Siamia, for bringing this up. A lotta rudeness, is usually exibited by some here n a close examination, show such are from teens. We, the matured ones, hav seen stuff, toddlers will need step ladders, afore d sight, such. I hope, it can be arranged,and so, count me in.
Kudos

Bros! First n foremost, "U r who u attract" ......d last time I checked; only an idiot attracts a so-called idiot.... That said, only God can give true peace, u carry so much bitterness n hatred in ur heart. A lady breaks ur heart cud mean u shud thank God for not being trapped in the wrong relationship. And my dear, May God help u experience his total freedom so u can enjoy his everlasting joy, love n peace.

lolu20:
where were u,when dat idiot,I gave 20k in other for her not to suffer,wen she gat accommodation problem in school.and still later broke my heart.I don't blame d guys dat camera u pple naked cos u will Neva see anything Good in a good guy.continue with ur bad attitude.satan

Hi.....happy weekend everyone. Its really been a long week.

Feels good to finally have a day to lazy about in bed all day without rushing out to anywhere......lol

Hope we all had a good, productive week?

Toks, Udysweet, Hooduark (hope i spelt it well), sis siamia and others. I dey hail oooo

Happier weekend dearie.... U can stay as long as u want in bed, rolling from one end to d oda, Enjoy it dear. Its weekend! Av a Fab one!

gratefulme40:
Hi.....happy weekend everyone. Its really been a long week.

Feels good to finally have a day to lazy about in bed all day without rushing out to anywhere......lol

Hope we all had a good, productive week?

Toks, Udysweet, Hooduark (hope i spelt it well), sis siamia and others. I dey hail oooo

klassic:

Hey this is really true and see it will work for you too..

If U were born on the 1st, 10th, 19th, 28th of any month U r number 1….
If U were born on the 2nd, 11th, 20th, 29th of any month then U r number 2…
If U were born on the 3rd, 12th, 21st, 30th of any month then U r number 3…
If U were born on the 4th, 13th, 22nd, 31st of any month then U r number 4…
If U were born on the 5th, 14th, 23rd of any month then U r number 5…
If U were born on the 6th, 15th, 24th of any month then U r number 6…
If U were born on the 7th, 16th, 25th of any month then U r number 7…
If U were born on the 8th,17th,26th of any month then U r number 8…
If U were born on the 9th,18th,27th of any month then U r number 9

Number 1
You are smart, straight talking, funny, stubborn, hardworking, honest,Jealous on competing basis, kind hearted, angry, friendly, authorities, Famous person… always want to be and regarded as first on people position, they are often like to be independent, will never be under others, self confident people!
You are most likely to fall in love in the younger age, but will get marry when you mature! You are likely to have problems with people who have opposite views
And you are most likely to take revenge over your enemies in a long time basis. You are a spender, but you will have a good profession in the future.
If you are guy you will be very popular that everybody will have mental attraction and respect at you. You can go anywhere from the local shop to the heart of the parliament because you are positive and well talented in numerous issues!! But in your life you will always have some people who will work hard to bring you & your name down. This is undercover!! Coz of your smart behavior you will be hated by some people too…
Your family life is very cool, you will have a very nice partner & wonderful children… You are pioneer, independent & original…
Your best match is 4,6,8 good match is 3,5,7 !!!

Number 2
No matter what, you will be loved by every one coz your ruler is the moon and every one loves the Moon. Well.. You are a person who day dream a lot, you have very low-self confidence, you need back up for every move in your life, you are very much unpredictable. Means you do change according to time and circumstances, kind a selfish, have a very strong sense of musical, artistic talent, verbal communication.
Your attitudes are like the Moon, comes to gloom and fade away so everybody can expect changes in you. You can be a next Mahatma Gandhi who does peace love or you can be a Hitler who wants to destroy the man kind and peace (I mean in the community and your own home).
If you really have a deep thought about your own believe in God you can feel the difference which will make you stronger! Most of the time your words are a kind of would be happening true! So without any knowledge you can predict the situation. You will become poets, writers, any Artistic business people!
You are not strong in love, so you will be there and here till you get marry.. If U r a girl you will be a responsible woman in the whole family. If U r a man you will involve in fights & arguments in the family or Vice-versa. Means you will sacrifice your life for the goodness sake of Your family…You are gentle , intuitive with a broad vision, a power behind the scenes, well balanced People!!!
Your best match is 2 ,5 ,9 no other people can put up with you !!!

Number 3
You are a person of hard hearted, selfish most of the times, religious, loves to climb up in your life. You always tend to have lots of problems within your family in the early stages but you will put up with everything.. You have the strong word power, pretty happy face.. So wherever you go always you have got what you wanted!!! And from the birth always wanted to work hard in order to achieve something.. You will not get anything without hardwork! When you reach a man/ woman age you want other younger once to listen to you because you want younger people to respect people older than them. You do set so many examples to others.
Generally you are not a cool person. It’s not easy thing dealing with you. A tough player you are! But once you like someone’s attitude then here you go, what can I say? It will be a lasting friendship. You always have respect from others.
Your life seems to have lots of worries and problems but sure they won’t be long.. you will always have brilliant kids!!! You love the money a bit too much so temptation will push you to endless trying and trying.. If you are a guy then it’s over. Looking after your family and help friends, so you will spend a life time just being generous and kind (except 21st born men). And number 3s you will
be such an example of how to be in the culture & life!!! If you are girl then you have good character and culture & hardworking attitude. You always follow.
You are a freedom lover, creative, ambition focused, a person who brings beauty , hope & joy to this world!!!
Your best match 6 ,9. Good match 1 ,3 ,5 !!!

Number 4
You are very stubborn too, very hard working but unlucky in important matters in life, very cool, helpful, you have rough word power.. Might put lots of people away from you, you may cause nuisance to others if you are a man, and you often understands others and their problems well. If you are a girl you are very good with studies and arts. If you are a guy you spend most of the time after girl friends (almost) at times, you will have sort of too much fun life with mates & girls. Your friends will spend your time & money and get away with their life and you will become empty handed and don’t know what to do… So be careful!! You love to spend anyway!!!
Your good will is you are always there to help family and friends. Tell you what you people are little gem! s, specially the girls.. You always fall in love in younger age as well. You often live with disappointments, for an example you have got a degree in some thing… but you will be unemployed.. or will do very ordinary jobs.
But you will take care of your family very well…All you need to be careful of people who will take advantage of your kind heart. And beware of your relations too..
You are radical, patient, persistent,a bit old-fashioned, you live with foundation & order…
Your best Match 1, 8. Good match 5 ,6 , 7 !!!

Number 5
You are very popular within the community, you can get things done by just chatting..to even enemies! You have a pretty good business mind, you are often have no-idea what is today is like, or tomorrow is like, you are a person who does anything when your head thinks “lets do this”. You will be famous if you open up a business, get involve in share dealings, music etc.. Very popular with sense of humor ,you are the one your friends and families will always ask for help, and you are the one actually get money on credit and help your friends. You will have more than 1 relationship, but when u get settle down you will be a bit selfish anyway. Coz your other half will have a pretty good amount of control in you, be careful! You tend to go for other relationships! Contacts even you are married at times ‘coz your popularity..
You are someone who get along with anyone coz the number 5 is the middle number.. Changes & freedom lovers you are! You are an explorer with magic on your face. You learn your life through experience and it’s your best teacher!!!
Your best match 1 ,2 ,9. Good match 6 ,8 !!!

Number 6
Ooopppss..you are born to enjoy.. You don’t care about others. I mean you are always want to enjoy your life time, you are a person.. You will be very good in either education or work wise or business management! You are talented, kind (but with only people who you think are nice), very beautiful girls and guys, popular and more than lucky with anything in your lives. All the goodness does come with you. Your mind and body is just made perfect for love.
You are lovable by any other numbers. But if you are a number 6 man, you will experience kind of looks from most girls and will involve in more than few relationships until you get married. If you are girl, most of you will get marry/engaged early. You are a caring person towards your family & friends .
If you miss the half-way mark then you are about to suffer physically and mentally. Generally you will lead a very good inner-home happiness with nothing short of. You are a person of compassion, comfort & fairness, domestic responsibility, good judgment, and after all you can heal this world wounds to make peace for every life coz you have the great power of caring talent to make this world of love one step further…
Your best match 1, 6, 9. Good match 4, 5 !!!

Number 7
You have got the attraction to anyone out there, you are realistic, very confident, happy, such a talented individual with your education, music, arts, singing, and most importantly acting too. You have real problems with bad temper! If you are a girl, you are popular with the subjects listed above.
You give up things for your parents. I mean you value your family status a lot, you will be in the top rank when you reach a certain age. If you are a guy you are popular with girls, you are a very talented too. Most of the number 7s face lots of problems with their marriage life.
Only a very few are happy. You have everything in your life, but still always number 7s have some sort of unfullfilness, such worries all their lifetime.
It’s probably the Lord given you all sort of over the standard humans talents and you are about to suffer in family life. So you need to get ready looking for a partner rather than waiting. If you don’t, then you might end-up single. So take care with this issue, ok?
You are wonderful, friendly, artistic, happy person.. You are born to contribute lots to this world!!!
Your best match is 2. Good matches are 1,4 !!!

Number 8
You are a very strong personality, there’s no one out there will understand you. You are very good at pointing your finger at some thing and say “this is what”.
You are more likely to suffer from the early ages. I mean poverty. If your times are not good you might lose either of your parent and end up looking after your entire family. You often suffer all the way in life.
The problems will not allow you to study further, but you will learn the life in a very practical way. You are the one who will fight for justice and may die in the war too. You are normally very reserved with handful of friends and most of the time live life lonely and always prepared to help others.
Well. once you get married (which is often late) then your bad lucks will go away a bit and you! u become safe. You will face un-expected problems such as :
the error, government, poisonous animals, accidents.
You are some one with great discipline, persistence, courage, strength which will take you to success. You are a great part of a family team. You are a fighter!
Your Best match 1 ,4, 8. Good match 5 !!!

Number 9
Hey…you guys are the incompatibles people in the world. You are so strong, physically and mentally… You are often have big-aims. You will work hard and hard to get there. Normally you suffer in the early age from family problems and generally you will have fighting life.. But when you achieve what you have done, it’s always a big task you have done! You are so much respected in the community, you are a person who can make a challenge and successfully finish the matter off.
You are very naughty in your younger age, often beaten up by your parents and involve in fights and you seemed to have lots of injuries in your life time. But when u grow you become calm and macho type.
Love is not an easy matter for you. You are good in engineering or banking jobs coz people always trust you.
Your family life is very good, but will have worries over your children.
Your such qualities are humanitarian, patient, very wise & compassionate.
You are born to achieve targets and serve every one all equally without any prejudice.
You are totally a role model to anybody in the world for a great inspiration.
Your Best match 3, 5, 6, 9. Good match 2

oh girl! You got me right there,everything about number 3 says all about me except having a hardened heart.

Hmmmmm your right.

siamia:
If u are 30 plus and single, we shd have our own thread to meet and talk.
Some of us are single, educated and ably employed. We are mature, responsible, gainfully employed, christian and godfearing. Some of us have kids that we are training and bringing up. We are involved in church, in impacting the lives of others, and contribute to the wellbeing of the society, But for one reason or the other, we are still single.
I have a lot of respect for nairaland, and I think its Nigeria's version of facebook, only better.
So if ur 30 and above, let's talk and see if the sparks will fly!
Pls note: no rude comments. Respect attracts respect. Nairalanders are great people.

I will like to join the group.

Toks2008:


Wow...how judgemental some people can be.

Well taken but even if you guessed right though the nagging thing is a total miss for you i would advice that next time its better you present your notion in a more appropriate manner by writting..."i think you talk too much..." the reason is because we have never met or even talked before.

I haven't judged you, I just find it easy to predict people a d reading through there minds though I may be wrong sometimes. I'm sorry if you feel insulted.

udysweet:

Making reference to someone's single status and why such person isn't married for me is subtle mockery(to put it kindly)and words can produce negative effects on pple o @adeolaolumide(I hope you also don't attack me verbally for this post,lol)
Have a great weekend all!

I never came here to attack or mock anyone o. I am single too just because I don't av money to get my taste. So am working hard to get there. There's a reason we are single, and I try to predict based on my thoughts. Should I guess y u are single?

You just gotta be happy. They say you don't find love, love finds you & whether you believe it or not, eros will surely fire her arrow of love to melt your stoney heart. Quite funny right? But you know, you not a believer, you ve never believed in it. But suddenly you are caught in the web. You meet someone and u care for her , can't stop thinking about her. You just take time to ask why me? Whats love got to do with this friendship?
Truth, you ain't got no answer. You is in love baby. You realise, you is a God damn grown ass man who gotta take some responsibility. Often wonder why they say" love is like a wave but different on every shore"? Some fill you up and others erodes you. You is just gonna use ya head and do some grown ass motherfucking thinking, you know.
Just some grown ass loud thoughts. #another night in Soweto.