Aurelius1:
Don't say what you are not sure of. I am a waffarian. A typical warri guy would have sent this woman packing after finding out she's cheating on him.

i hear ya bro. may be i stereotyped a lil bit. i think the OP paid like 10,000 dollars for bride price so he reckons he has to yansh 1000 times before he leaves so he can use up all his bride price. this why he hasnt left yet. maybe he is on the 500th yanshing. why else will any sane man still be hanging around this demonic diabolic satanic devilish insane daughter of the serpent ?

End time marriage....dnt u think dat is because u dnt beat her dat while,as a cultists n a runs gal dey need a man dat is very hard.bros,find ur way o.

Where are those anti-divorce marriage protectors on NL. Make Una come preach to this man to stay, protect his marriage and build his home in the face of violence and infidelity.
Suddenly so silent?

TV01.
And crew.

How old are you?

cococandy:
Where are those anti-divorce marriage protectors on NL. Make Una come preach to this man to stay, protect his marriage and build his home in the face of violence and infidelity.
Suddenly so silent?

TV01.
And crew.

Enduring, fasting and praying in the mountain of fire, because divorce is a sin is always applicable to women only If it were a woman they would ask her to kneel down and beg,
Or they would demand to know what wrong she is doing

Now it's a man, they are hiding lol

If you are not familiar with this forums double standards

tell me about it.

And those giving the woman reasonable advice to leave with her life intact will be the agents of the devil that he's using to destroy family values all over the world.

I still haven't seen one such post advising this Oga to 'fight for his home'.

Miami11:


Enduring, fasting and praying in the mountain of fire, because divorce is a sin is always applicable to women only If it were a woman they would ask her to kneel down and beg,
Or they would demand to know what wrong she is doing

Now it's a man, they are hiding lol

If you are not familiar with this forums double standards

Miami11:


Enduring, fasting and praying in the mountain of fire, because divorce is a sin is always applicable to women only If it were a woman they would ask her to kneel down and beg,
Or they would demand to know what wrong she is doing

Now it's a man, they are hiding lol

If you are not familiar with this forums double standards

God bless you! You are so on point

samocholi:

Greetings to u all,please I need a candid advise because am fed up and confused at same time.It all started in 2011 when I met my wife through my collegue in the bank. I used to work in operations and hardly have time to truly search for a wife that is what I thought back then.so I had this collegue of mind who appears responsible and is also a church worker in a responsible church,not all these money making churchs.so I confided in him , so one day he came to me that he has this lady where he normally goes to worship atimes that he will take me to meet her ,that she is God fearing ,a church worker and her father is
My dear brothers and sisters in the house especially the married ones I frankly need ur candid advise as I am tired of her ,her bad and unrepentant character and her evil ways but am only looking at the term Christian marriage in terms of divorce as I ultimately want to make heaven just as every one.

Thank u for taking ur time to go through my ordeal.

I didn't read all the stuff, I don't have to as I quickly got the gist of the matter. You're unhappy and a specific person is causing you to be unhappy.

Sir, please remove this person, totally and completely, from you life with immediate effect.

Man, this is your life. It's not a trial run, this is it, the only chance. Carpe diem Sir, wake up and live.

KTBTTC, now! Thank me later.

PS: Hopefully I don't get banned for suggesting that a Nairalander removes someone from his life

Being a graduat is one thing having common sense is another. Op Biko kam juo gi ajuju, ibu ewu? How can you stay in such a hailish reletionship? You been cheated threatened with nife made to loose job prevented to have more babies and lied to still you are still waiting for what? I guess your dead body is it.

As I type now run to registry quick quick and get you decree absolute ASAP else you are a dead man. The blessings of God does not come with sorrow at all.

I got goose pimples when I read'he always tells our daughter I'll injure you which the child has copied too,ran out with pant and bra,hit u n ur car,tore all ur clothes',mehn you are the Job of our generation.
I pray you find peace and comfort in life again,yes marriage can be blissful.

Op,

What you have described about your wife is beyond character flaws. She is suffering from acute mental disorder. Mental issues do not always end people on the streets like mad men.

A mentally sound person especially woman will not seek to hurt her baby. She believes everybody is against her life, hence her resort go herbalist. She is having personality and behavioral disorders.

No matter the involvement of her parents, she wouldn't change not because she doesn't want to but because she is incapable of rational thought at the moment. This mental illness may have come from her past with the cultist. That is not the point here anyway but for you to know that she needs urgent medical help.

She will never agree she has mental issues, it is for you to seek help on her behalf.

What to do... Vist a psychiatrist, narrate this story to him. I am sure he will take it up from there. There will be significant changes once she starts treatment.

However, you need serious prayers and fastings as she already opened doors for principalities to your home by her actions.

I assure you that if she gets medical help, this will be a thing of the past coupled with prayers.

It is well with you bro.. May God open doors for you in the new year.

O boy, I no know if na dull you dull abi she don use juju cover your brain....you dey inside fire wey dey burn wan consume you and you dey blog dey ask for advise?

My guy you fall my hand. From the look of things, it appears you do not value your existence, but for the seek of that your little kid and your parents, run for your dear life and take that little kid from her.

@ OP, First and Foremost, I most say that you don't take your life to be precious. You know deep down you that your wife is evil yet you're still allowing your pastor's and parent's opinion to keep you in the hell you find yourself. It is well.

Well op,SORRY is your name!Nairaland men,learn from him.I always tell my friends that the so called born again ladies that don't miss church,tell u no sex before marriage,always smiling,don't wear makeup,wear mary amaka skirt(very long and roomy) etc are the deadliest!Its when you marry them into your home you will get the full picture!Na those of us when dey wear makeup,dress well and drink alcohol nai dey be like devil for una eye.The fact that a girl looks homely and spiritual is not enough to wife her,many can pretend for africa just to get the ring..That's why I recommend at least 2 yrs of dating,to get to know urselves well enough!You men are easily decieved walahi!She woke up by 4 to sweep and you just said "this is my wife"! Oga op,u are acting under the influence of serious jazz.For a man to know that his wife does runs,tearing all your clothes,pulling a knife on you etc,and not leave the marriage is a clear indication that you have been locked in a spiritual cup. You don't need Angel Gabriel to appear to you in a halo telling you to leave her na.This is a good time to separate yourself from her.Look for a good friend to squat with while u clear your head(that's if her craze has not rendered you friendless)!Pray and go for deliverance.Please stop going to your pastor,because he is not helping in any way.While you are at it, get a divorce attorney and do the needful.Man up before you die because of woman!

Op,is better you press the 'Eject button' o.Eject urself from the marriage and eject that witch,runsgurl,cultist,idol worshipper from ur life before she takes ur life. Cant u c her juju is nt only working on u bt on other members of the family? But Op,u ar a man oo,I MUST SAY! Lastly,wen u won re-marry,do d research of ur new wife urself.sorry abt d lost job.Bt dis one pass Nollywood movie oo.

It's either this is a make belief story or you are already bewitched, no doubt you are already, my advise to you is to quickly seek deliverance if you do belief in that though. Your parents also are sleeping. That you are still in that hell you called a marriage is to say the least unbelievable. Whichever church you claim to attend is not doing you any good. You were so dumb to have allowed your wife made you lose your job and now you are nothing but a tool in her hand. I pray your parents would intensify prayers before She sends you back to them as a body bag. Wake up brother and smell the coffee.

bellong:
Op,

What you have described about your wife is beyond character flaws. She is suffering from acute mental disorder. Mental issues do not always end people on the streets like mad men.

A mentally sound person especially woman will not seek to hurt her baby. She believes everybody is against her life, hence her resort go herbalist. She is having personality and behavioral disorders.

No matter the involvement of her parents, she wouldn't change not because she doesn't want to but because she is incapable of rational thought at the moment. This mental illness may have come from her past with the cultist. That is not the point here anyway but for you to know that she needs urgent medical help.

She will never agree she has mental issues, it is for you to seek help on her behalf.

What to do... Vist a psychiatrist, narrate this story to him. I am sure he will take it up from there. There will be significant changes once she starts treatment.

However, you need serious prayers and fastings as she already opened doors for principalities to your home by her actions.

I assure you that if she gets medical help, this will be a thing of the past coupled with prayers.

It is well with you bro.. May God open doors for you in the new year.

Are you a psychiatrist?You sound like one.I have encountered women worse than op's wife during my mediation sessions,so please this is not a pyschological issue.The woman has bad character,clear and simple!I hv encountered a client who told me his wife came to his work place,stripped naked and started laying curses on him with her hand placed on her vag.ina.That one is just one instance,there are so many cases I have even forgotten now!My point is,she has a clear mind.She was lucid enough to pretend to have a good attitude so he could marry her.There are lots of women like that out there,so its beyond all what u said.

My brother run for your life

OP your time here on earth is limited the game is almost over for you....if you fail to run away

I just put myself in your shoes... I can't take half of what you've gone through. HELL NO!. You're a good man.




But brother don't wait for her to cut your life short before you take necessary actions.. She might infect you with some deadly disease or strangle you one night or even poison you and then the same pastor you are reporting to will come and say "The Lord has given and HE has taken"...God forbid!. Man take your daughter away from her. It is quite obvious your wife is possessed with the most wicked demons from hades. You and your daughter stay way from her for your own good and pray she finds herself eventually.











So many demons hiding under sister Mary and brother Johnson Skin in churches this days. Lord help us. Lord help the OP. Peace

queenfav:
Are you a psychiatrist?You sound like one.I have encountered women worse than op's wife during my mediation sessions,so please this is not a pyschological issue.The woman has bad character,clear and simple!I hv encountered a client who told me his wife came to his work place,stripped naked and started laying curses on him with her hand placed on her vag.ina.That one is just one instance,there are so many cases I have even forgotten now!My point is,she has a clear mind.She was lucid enough to pretend to have a good attitude so he could marry her.There are lots of women like that out there,so its beyond all what u said.

You said it all...she's doing all with her clear eyes...she knows well what she is doing. she no dey mental.

She has not gotten over her past life. She might even be on some sort of revenge mission for her dead capon boyfriend.

I just pity the OP. Make God no allow person see bad tin

queenfav:
Are you a psychiatrist?You sound like one.I have encountered women worse than op's wife during my mediation sessions,so please this is not a pyschological issue.The woman has bad character,clear and simple!I hv encountered a client who told me his wife came to his work place,stripped naked and started laying curses on him with her hand placed on her vag.ina.That one is just one instance,there are so many cases I have even forgotten now!My point is,she has a clear mind.She was lucid enough to pretend to have a good attitude so he could marry her.There are lots of women like that out there,so its beyond all what u said.

Did you or anyone conduct a psychiatric evaluation on all those people before dismissing they are not mental health patients?

A simple logical analysis will tell you that there is something wrong somewhere. You obviously know little or nothing about mental health illness.

I'm not making an authoritative statement on the state of her mind but giving the guy possible situation based on his narration.

There are millions of unevaluated mental patients roaming freely as free on the streets because of our ignorance. Most people believe it is until you run mad on the street that you have mental sickness. While many who have mental illness cannot go for treatment because of stigmatisation which is also an acute ignorance from people who think they are knowledgeable.

In summary, in as much as you or anyone else is yet to conduct a psychiatric examination of her, you can't dismiss it with boldness it is not a mental health case.

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There is no need blaming the OP.

After all, he who the gods want to kill, they first make mad.

May be the OP has finished his purpose on this earth...and it is a matter of time before the wife sends him yonder.

It could be his destiny. And the prophecy comes to pass.

Why the hell do people still get married?
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bellong:


Did you or anyone conduct a psychiatric evaluation on all those people before dismissing they are not mental health patients?

A simple logical analysis will tell you that there is something wrong somewhere. You obviously know little or nothing about mental health illness.

I'm not making an authoritative statement on the state of her mind but giving the guy possible situation based on his narration.

There are millions of unevaluated mental patients roaming freely as free on the streets because of our ignorance. Most people believe it is until you run mad on the street that you have mental sickness. While many who have mental illness cannot go for treatment because of stigmatisation which is also an acute ignorance from people who think they are knowledgeable.

In summary, in as much as you or anyone else is yet to conduct a psychiatric examination of her, you can't dismiss it with boldness it is not a mental health case.

You are looking at this issue from your professional point of view.If I were to do same ,I would not see the op as being under serious spiritual bondage.Afterall,the law doesn't recognise witchcraft/sorcery.I get your point,but every sane human being has a choice to behave in a certain way .She obviously saw that he is not a violent man and milked it.She may be pyschologically disturbed,afterall I am not skilled in tht field.The issue here is op running for his dear life,he has endured enough.The psychiatric evaluation is for her family to take care of!He must not become a matyr in the name of marriage,especially one void of love and happiness.BTW,every one of us has one psychological issue or the other..Some have OCD,paranoia,depression,unusual attachment issues,phobias and many others.We are dealing with the physical here,and op needs to leave for the sake of his own sanity!Or you think he doesn't need to be psycho analyzed for coping with all that crap?

Oluwa joor make u shine ur light make i no go jam the ones wey dey fly for night.
When i see stephine, i been dey see chemistry until one of my homey tell me she dey thief destiny.

[size=24pt]PHEW![/size]

Read your pathetic idiotic story.....turned to my wife....planted a kiss on her...cuddled her and whispered words of gratitude into her ears for being the best wife ever despite my many flaws......wow...am a lucky man walahi.


@op...your matter tire me....pls what on earth are you yapping about??...are u soliciting for help from us or u are telling us what to do??..

Ure def a weak man! Who told u that girl is ur daughter. Just one sumo head buTt,and a send her packing i promise ud have had a peceful 3yrs.

Oh! How i hate abusive marriages. She is diabolic, unfaithful, violent and unnecessarily jealous and you are still living with her. What if she stabs you to death in your sleep?

That a lady is a worker in church doesn't mean she will make a good wife, she has a terrible past and that's why she turned religious.

Op, no hope lost. God will give you another job. It's either you leave the house and relocate elsewhere so you can start all over again or keep listening to her parents plea and risk your life. And look for a way to take your daughter because it's clear she can't take care of her. Btw, is the baby even yours? You need to do a dna.

Above all, pray for God's direction. I hate divorce but in this case, you need a separation badly.

Ijaya123:
Op. You mean you went through all these and you're still asking us for advice?

Probably by the time your dead body is carried out of the house, that should settle it for you.

like he said, he want to make heaven and u cannot make heaven when u are still alive. He want to die before making heaven and that's why he is still there.

Man,

1,You follow your heart when you suppose to seek the face of the lord for marriage.

If she started good, she can still go back to back to how you people started your love.


2,From your third paragraph you said she wake you up at the middle of night holding a knife...
WHAT HAVE YOU DONE TO HER? i can say that you have abuse her emotionally

My advice for you...Please don't divorce her, because he who made you from beginning makes marriage to be ONE

In ur own case OP, Baba God will gladly grant ur divorce nd set u a free man cos marriage is meant to be enjoyed nd nd endured.
Those sentence to life imprisonment wit hard labour aren't going thru d misery that u re passing thru. I knw ur Blood pressure is nt normal again as a resulf of over dose of thinking.
That woman are some of the loads nd baggages that must be left behind wit 2015. U deserve more than this na.
So oga, enter 2016 a free man.