SirShymexx:


I don't think the guy is weak - he doesn't look it. Certain things just come with the territorial and the need to follow what's contemporary, with the noise about women empowerment everywhere. Ol'boy just got carried away and in the process, he lost his manhood. Also, you can't rule out the voodoo angle cos that's what he's screaming everywhere.

That's basically why I laugh at these stupid nyggahs who think you need to put women on a big pedestal and start worshipping whatever they step on. As a guy, you just have to be able to maintain control and not give them too much space. Else you'll lose ya manhood and end up like this guy. Women are very cunning and once you give them an inch, it's over. And manhood is all a guy has and a guy who has lost his manhood is no different from an eunuch. You just gotta do background checks on these chics and go for chics you can maintain a level of dominion over.

I'm sure Jay Z is going through the same shyte this guy is going through. Especially after seeing how his camel lips got slapped in the elevator. But he's a hustler and the money is great right now. Once the money starts going down, don't be surprised when Jigga starts ranting everywhere like this nyggah. That's what women can do to a nyggah.

Regardless, depression is a biitch and having suicidal thoughts doesn't make you weak. Weakness is judged based on how you handle it.

sukkot:
lolz you know it doesnt always have to be like dat if he is a real man. a woman can have more money and still respect you. but it takes a special kinda man to command respect despite having less money than his wife. only few men can pull that off and to pull that off you gotta be a very principled strong classy suave debonair Casanova. its very possible but only a few can pull it off. jus sayin. tee billz happen to be one of the niggaz who cant pull it off lolz

sukkot:
On point too. only few women can pull it off naturally but all women can be made to pull it off if they meet the man who i described earlier.

sukkot:
lolz you know it doesnt always have to be like dat if he is a real man. a woman can have more money and still respect you. but it takes a special kinda man to command respect despite having less money than his wife. only few men can pull that off and to pull that off you gotta be a very principled strong classy suave debonair Casanova. its very possible but only a few can pull it off. jus sayin. tee billz happen to be one of the niggaz who cant pull it off lolz

Ruq:


You should add extremely few, and no matter how good whoever it is can pull it off one day something is gon spark a debate on WHO IS IN CHARGE HERE!. Left to me it's best you stick to the natural roles of woman marry up, and man down with respect in between. It's not worth trying to think you can pull it off.

Olukologia:
Which father wan teach people? What most father between age 55&70 re doing isn't worth emulation. My dad is an example.

modath:



I wish I could agree with you, I sincerely do but i've never seen one situation where the woman makes more than the man & the man's ball didn't eventually creep into the lady's handbag!! Not one, even the supposed church faithfuls... if the going is still smooth now, sooner rather than later, something will snap.

It's biology, women are nurturers, men are providers, anything that tips the balance never ends well... yours truly has her head screw up tight but I know for sure I would go crazy if I had the purse strings in my hands!!

We can pretend all we can but women aren't wired right when it comes to managing a man that has less than!!




Sirshymexx ..me feel the guy has been so debased that he has decided to take the brand down with him!! He is depressed for real..

freecocoa:
Hi SirShymexx, if you don't mind, I'd like to know why you think women should be feared, especially as regards this thread.

modath:



I wish I could agree with you, I sincerely do but i've never seen one situation where the woman makes more than the man & the man's ball didn't eventually creep into the lady's handbag!! Not one, even the supposed church faithfuls... if the going is still smooth now, sooner rather than later, something will snap.

It's biology, women are nurturers, men are providers, anything that tips the balance never ends well... yours truly has her head screw up tight but I know for sure I would go crazy if I had the purse strings in my hands!!

We can pretend all we can but women aren't wired right when it comes to managing a man that has less than!!




Sirshymexx ..me feel the guy has been so debased that he has decided to take the brand down with him!! He is depressed for real..

adepeter26:

U funny eh

sukkot:
i have seen a few. you think men like general idiagbon and buharis wives will disobey them because they earn less ? study those two men - very strong and principled and carry themselves with dignity and have an aura of authority and seriousness about them. you think because one uselesss woman has a few more dollars than them she will have the balls to talk anyhow to idiagbon and buhari ? so like i said - a man has to be very dignified and upright and strong and principled and no woman even if she earns more will disrespect you. see the problem is yall meeting weak men who you can boss around.

dare2differ:
That is not true. When a woman with a means of power acts, people often use her erx to either blame her or praise her. They wouldn't see a case human behaviour with arrogance that enjoys misuse of power. They forget that this is what some women go through everyday when their husband is the breadwinner.

In relationships, it is more complicated.

freecocoa:
Assuming this story is true, I blame Tiwa for marrying this pvssy of a man.

Tiwa is not an olosho btw, she has some talent, just say many a time,so many naija women can sabi jonse.

keepingmum:
First he blames Tiwa for his misfortune
Then he blames Tiwa's mum for his misfortune
Then he blames his own father for his misfortune

Mr Teebilz? Where is your sense of responsibility in any of these? I know for a fact this isnt a publicity stunt as they have both been silent on each others grams for a couple weeks. I also know they have been separated for a while.

What we have here is a classic case of a boy child who has refused to grow into a man. He will rather blame everyone for his problems than accept responsibility

This is a guy with 2 kids prior to his marriage with Tiwa. Why couldnt those relationships work? He blames his father
Why couldnt his relationship with Tiwa work? He blames his mother in law

Even to the point of saying she hasnt asked him what he will eat in 3 years? Seriously Yet in the same sentence says she has been the breadwinner. Please the food you eat who provides it? The money you spend to eat out who provides it? What have you done, Mr "I am the husband and Lord of the House" to remedy the situation? They have been married for 2years and if she didnt cook for you in 3 yrs then clearly you have nothing to complain about cos she had been doing that pre marriage so wetin con be the problem?

This is what Linda Ikeji said when she wrote that often times, ,when men have nothing to say they body shame a woman by saying she is sleeping around. Maybe she did sleep with these men but is it also possible all these happened whilst she was dating these single men?

Is Teebilz going to say he didnt sleep with any lady before marrying Tiwa.

Boy you need to growwwwww the efff up and face up to your responsibilities. You are crying online because your wife no give you food chop. This guy married Tiwa cause she was an upgrade from his babymamas!!! Classic gold digger who is now crying fowl because sugarmama stopped his monthly stipends.

Take alook at the "romance" section of nairaland and you ll see a whole generation of self entitled boy childs "reporting" their other halves for not doing whatever.

May GOD help these generation of men that think its okay for a woman to be the breadwinner

sukkot:
i have seen a few. you think men like general idiagbon and buharis wives will disobey them because they earn less ? study those two men - very strong and principled and carry themselves with dignity and have an aura of authority and seriousness about them. you think because one uselesss woman has a few more dollars than them she will have the balls to talk anyhow to idiagbon and buhari ? so like i said - a man has to be very dignified and upright and strong and principled and no woman even if she earns more will disrespect you. see the problem is yall meeting weak men who you can boss around.

sukkot:
i have seen a few. you think men like general idiagbon and buharis wives will disobey them because they earn less ? study those two men - very strong and principled and carry themselves with dignity and have an aura of authority and seriousness about them. you think because one uselesss woman has a few more dollars than them she will have the balls to talk anyhow to idiagbon and buhari ? so like i said - a man has to be very dignified and upright and strong and principled and no woman even if she earns more will disrespect you. see the problem is yall meeting weak men who you can boss around.

sukkot:
i have seen a few. you think men like general idiagbon and buharis wives will disobey them because they earn less ? study those two men - very strong and principled and carry themselves with dignity and have an aura of authority and seriousness about them. you think because one uselesss woman has a few more dollars than them she will have the balls to talk anyhow to idiagbon and buhari ? so like i said - a man has to be very dignified and upright and strong and principled and no woman even if she earns more will disrespect you. see the problem is yall meeting weak men who you can boss around.

modath:

I wish I could agree with you, I sincerely do but i've never seen one situation where the woman makes more than the man & the man's ball didn't eventually creep into the lady's handbag!! Not one, even the supposed church faithfuls... if the going is still smooth now, sooner rather than later, something will snap.

It's biology, women are nurturers, men are providers, anything that tips the balance never ends well... yours truly has her head screw up tight but I know for sure I would go crazy if I had the purse strings in my hands!!

We can pretend all we can but women aren't wired right when it comes to managing a man that has less than!!

Sirshymexx ..me feel the guy has been so debased that he has decided to take the brand down with him!! He is depressed for real..

dare2differ:



I am still going to disagree with you. To agree with you, you will have to answer my question.

Why do men who also earn far higher than their wives abuse their partners?

Note though, I am not saying women are always the victim. I know better than to agree to that stereotype.

sukkot:
i hear ya but stuff happens. you know like marrying her when she was poorer than you and then she wins the lottery or inherits money while you are married and then she becomes richer. you cant control all circumstances, you can only deal with them as they come, and to be able to deal with all circumstances thrown at you- you have to carry yourself a certain way with dignity at all times.

sukkot:
very few do. most men are happy to provide for their wives or girlfriends. many boys send their girlfriends to uni and pay her tuition. i see many cases on NL

Ruq:


Ok that's true, but in a scenario like this I think the woman should be able to pull it off since its most likely she would be from a humble background.
But look at our society everyone expects the man to be the provider, as matter of fact to me that's the only reason you can claim you have balls, yes you can help out with other stuff in the home but nigga our balls is wired to providing and not just providing, providing the higher share.

Even for the woman who contributes the larger chunk, it's not because she can't pull off being cool but because somehow she starts thinking and seeing in her mind that she's doing the 'man's job' according to society. So that's were the guys balls starts shrinking because she can call all the shots without him. I'm a witness to this kind of ish.
Imagine if science could help men get pregnant and deliver babies, wouldn't that downplay a woman's role in child bearing, then soon men would grow ovaries and say to hell with women I can deliver my own child.

keepingmum:

What we have here is a classic case of a boy child who has refused to grow into a man. He will rather blame everyone for his problems than accept responsibility.

Take alook at the "romance" section of nairaland and you ll see a whole generation of self entitled boy childs "reporting" their other halves for not doing whatever.

sukkot:
very few do. most men are happy to provide for their wives or girlfriends.

SleekAboki:
A man who can't take care of his family is not a REAL man. It ain't worth it going into marriage and becoming a pussy to your wife and mother inlaw.

It's a pity father's nolonger teach the younger ones what it means to be a MAN!