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Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by cococandy(f): 10:17pm On Oct 12, 2016
And the USA have the highest divorce rates? Pfft.


Btw what area is igando in? I'm sure that one has 50,000 in 9 months.

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Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by Nobody: 10:17pm On Oct 12, 2016
This is Athletic!!!! He struggles to lift the weight but I got watermelon to keep me in shape
Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by zexzy(f): 10:18pm On Oct 12, 2016
If you are a new couple just stay far from Badagry.

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Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by edoziebobbyyahoocom(m): 10:23pm On Oct 12, 2016
The trend was set by the whites now our nigerian people has emulated them......too sad, sad
Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by Femich18(m): 10:25pm On Oct 12, 2016
ajebuter:
l am not surprised..

Reasons?

1. Most Badagry men (l didn't say all) are illiterate fishermen

2. Most are lazy and don't like working because their women work as fisherwomen and fish sellers..

3. Most Badagry men enjoy drinking ogogoro even early momo..and you find ogogoro joint everywhere probably because they are close to Benin Republic border and smuggled drinks get to them easily

4. Most badagry women are hard workers and provide for their husbands who boast of having four wives who are working and falling over each other to cater to his needs... they say that openly l swear..

4 Most badagry men love juju and their sangbeto masquerade to a fault and illiteracy is high among them and the witchcraft of their women eh?

Finally..they born pikin like kilode...

That doesn't men all Badagry men and women are what l described above sha

Abi? all those Semasa.. Senami...Semanu...Senayon. Olorunwa...Suru.... ( na their names be that)

How l take know all these?

Every graduate of LASU know them like the back of our hands..

Abi l lie? ( dodging blows)
Nah pure nonsense be wetin you talk..
Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by Oyimeoyimemua(f): 10:25pm On Oct 12, 2016
An wa ohh,I am not surprised anyway
Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by chidozieikeji2: 10:34pm On Oct 12, 2016
The end result of change zombies u pple have seen what buharis obsolete economic policies have caused in ur place
Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by kinibigdeal(m): 10:35pm On Oct 12, 2016
What is terrible about this
Missmossy:
Eww!! Terrible.
Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by nyabinghi(m): 10:36pm On Oct 12, 2016
How many families they the area self. The op is high on pussywater. If that value is correct make I break neck for bed.
Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by lanreni: 10:40pm On Oct 12, 2016
coollabman:
More than 30,000 broken and failed marriages were recorded in Badagry area of Lagos State between January and September 2016, an NGO, Family Reloaded Organisation, said on Wednesday.

The organisation’s Coordinator, Mrs Sesi Sebinun, told the News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) in Badagry, Lagos, that the major cause of broken homes in the area was negligence of duties from both parties.

“There are so many broken homes in Badagry and the number is going to increase if urgent steps are not taken to address the situation.
“The husband fails to see that he is the man of the house while the wife isn’t submissive and these cause friction in the house.
“The children suffer this because of the psychological effect on them, so, both parties must learn that building a home takes team work by both parties,’’ she said.

She noted that violence in marriages was due to impatience from the two parties.
“Impatience and lack of understanding between both parties are the major causes of violence in marriages because they do not have the will to tolerate each other.
“We must learn each other’s flaws and tolerate them instead of getting angry at little things,’’ she said.

She advised people to make use of social welfare services to address issues in their marriages. “Many people are not aware that there are organisations that provide services to people whose marriages are in trouble.
“You don’t have to wait till when things are damaged beyond repair before seeking help from social welfare service and customary courts to rectify things,’’ she noted.
She advised couples to pray regularly for their marriages.

http://m.guardian.ng/news/lagos-community-records-30000-failed-marriages-in-9-months/

JESU! The purpose of marraige is being eroded. failed marraiges produce unbalanced children and unbalanced children add to the failure of grown adults in the society. this indeed calls for an emergency. it is clear that 'love', attraction, romance, money, connections, cars, house, influence, beauty, sexology, cohabitaion, height, complexion, etc counts for absolutely nothing. A sense of deep committment and understanding seems to be the only thing that matters at the end of the day. intending couples, please watch and pray well o!

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Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by yedidiah(m): 10:42pm On Oct 12, 2016
We need to declare a state of emergency in the marriage sector too. We need to enrol more couples and intended couples in marriage counseling.

#istandwithfamily
#fathermotherandchildren
#completefamily
#everychilddeservesone
Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by ezechueze(m): 10:48pm On Oct 12, 2016
Hmm
Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by Princy13: 10:58pm On Oct 12, 2016
What a disturbing exerggeration! The media sure knows how to delude and control the majority of the people by pulling out misleading statistics as this.Would take this with a pinch of salt.So much to make people disregard marriage.

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Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by Ugoeze2016: 11:01pm On Oct 12, 2016
CHANGE
Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by bettercreature(m): 11:03pm On Oct 12, 2016
mgbedianya:
lies
Pure lies! divide 30.000 by 9months you will realise it's a cooked story
Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by 19naia(m): 11:09pm On Oct 12, 2016
Its the pastors in that area. Thy are the ones knacking wives and diluting the integrity of marraige relationships. Nigeria and the hyper relgious state in wide spread corruption. Nothing is stable in Nigeria, not economy, not politics and not marriages.

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Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by Koda001: 11:24pm On Oct 12, 2016
[color=#006600][/color]quote author=ajebuter post=50149839]l am not surprised..

Reasons?

1. Most Badagry men (l didn't say all) are illiterate fishermen

2. Most are lazy and don't like working because their women work as fisherwomen and fish sellers..

3. Most Badagry men enjoy drinking ogogoro even early momo..and you find ogogoro joint everywhere probably because they are close to Benin Republic border and smuggled drinks get to them easily

4. Most badagry women are hard workers and provide for their husbands who boast of having four wives who are working and falling over each other to cater to his needs... they say that openly l swear..

4 Most badagry men love juju and their sangbeto masquerade to a fault and illiteracy is high among them and the witchcraft of their women eh?

Finally..they born pikin like kilode...

That doesn't men all Badagry men and women are what l described above sha

Abi? all those Semasa.. Senami...Semanu...Senayon. Olorunwa...Suru.... ( na their names be that)

How l take know all these?

Every graduate of LASU know them like the back of our hands..

Abi l lie? ( dodging blows)[/quote]
Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by Tajbol4splend(m): 11:26pm On Oct 12, 2016
OILSOUP:
Yorubas breaking divorce records since 2000BC. Marriage is just another excuse to throw yet another owanbe.

Just look at ursef shey na only Yoruba dey Lag

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Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by Koda001: 11:38pm On Oct 12, 2016
I don't know where Mrs Sesi got her reported figures from but I wish she could do a lot of clarifications on her work.
My concern is with the alarming numbers..if 30,000 cases of failed marriages were recorded in 9 months, it means over 3,300 cases of failed marriages every months and about 170 failed marriages every week only in Badagry. The second shocker is I live in Badagry and if this is true, at least there would have been about 10 cases conservatively on my street.
I want to use this medium to challenge the authority and authenticity of this report and wish she could send attachments as proofs for her work.
I'm also puzzled at the lack of critical reasoning of majority of Nairalanders in recent times, the manner at which we conclude without verifying the truth in cooked up reports especially when it is statistically based.
@The Lasu lady that made deductions to support this report, I await counter opinion. Always master not personalise issues,ok..
Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by Adolorfaith(m): 11:45pm On Oct 12, 2016
lol you are really funny
Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by Nobody: 12:59am On Oct 13, 2016
There are 2 main reasons this has happened. The first is because marriages are now being documented legally. The second is due to women obtaining education and jobs. In the past women had no choice but to bend to their husbands will, due to lack of money and knowledge. But it does not mean they were happy in their unions. No one wants to be under the foot of another person. Everyone wants to be respected. Today, financial opportunities and education have given women the ability to flee traditional suffocating relationships.

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Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by Nobody: 1:38am On Oct 13, 2016
DickDastardly:
Yoruba demon effect grin wink
They are not Yoruba. They are another tribe entirely. They are Egun (Ogu) people. Don't think they are Yoruba because you saw Lagos. I was in Badagry for more than a year so I can say this post is true about the people there.

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Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by Kingsean(m): 1:58am On Oct 13, 2016
Yoruba ppl are terrible i swear. especially the women. they claim to know too much. they don't even respect their husbands. too much prostitutes. i really respect igbo ppl and Hausa ppl when it comes to marriage.
Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by Taryur3(m): 2:55am On Oct 13, 2016
Lols...Buhari is working."the real changer"
Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by kabrud: 3:30am On Oct 13, 2016
FortuneTeller:
[s]There are 2 main reasons this has happened. The first is because marriages are now being documented legally. The second is due to women obtaining education and jobs. In the past women had no choice but to bend to their husbands will, due to lack of money and knowledge. But it does not mean they were happy in their unions. No one wants to be under the foot of another person. Everyone wants to be respected. Today, financial opportunities and education have given women the ability to flee traditional suffocating relationships.[/s]
Sharrap!
Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by kabrud: 3:35am On Oct 13, 2016
Kingsean:
[s]Yoruba ppl are terrible i swear. especially the women. they claim to know too much. they don't even respect their husbands. too much prostitutes. i really respect igbo ppl and Hausa ppl when it comes to marriage[/s].
Sharrap, the flat headed gworo-worshippers from the yeast are the worst. Do they even know what is marriage? Okonkwo, abeg face front.

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Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by IgboGoat: 3:52am On Oct 13, 2016
Runge:
They are not Yoruba. They are another tribe entirely. They are Egun (Ogu) people. Don't think they are Yoruba because you saw Lagos. I was in Badagry for more than a year so I can say this post is true about the people there.
I think say na yoruba get Lagos.
Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by Nobody: 3:56am On Oct 13, 2016
zexzy:
If you are a new couple just stay far from Badagry.

is it true. there is high rate of divorce in that area apart from this report claim.
Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by kenx1(m): 4:13am On Oct 13, 2016
lay the blame on Telemoudo and Zeeworld grin
Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by cindyrocks(f): 5:18am On Oct 13, 2016
The name checkers went on recess.

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