EfemenaXY:


It's new aged. For young Nigerian boys like acidosis struggling with metamorphism

One thing I must give these young boys, they have taken opportunism to a whole new level.
Let them find their perfect match: brainless, helpless, insecure women who will raise some dvmb babies.

EfemenaXY:


A man who leaves his "territory" open to destruction is not worth fighting over.

What you fail to understand is this: a woman with class won't get her fingers soiled with vermin.

Let the host deal with it.

You need to study the frustration-agression theory. It is not rocket science... A woman with class may not use acid, hot oil or water... but I can assure you, she won't ignore.


Only those who believe in the war room theory would try to ignore.

Mindfulness:


One thing I must give these young boys, they have taken opportunism to a whole new level.
Let them find their perfect match: brainless, helpless, insecure women who will raise some dvmb babies.

Oh well, it's clear he's watched too many episodes of Xena, the warrior princess.

Acidosis:


Lol, smh.
Don't even try to compare male with female here. We can't act in the same manner. I don't have a pvssy so I don't know what it feels like to allow a dog work on it. I know women do it a lot, so women are in the best position to deal with that.

If you don't like the comparison, we can use your sisters as examples (you brought them to this thread after all).

Tell them to fight their husbands' prostitutes and later open their legs to infected dicks that dug the holes of ashawos a few hours before and who still smell of the other b.itch.

This way they will build homes full of love, appreciation and respect and they will live together happily ever after.

Truly worth fighting for, especially when you have nothing else to do.

EfemenaXY:


Oh well, it's clear he's watched too many episodes of Xena, the warrior princess.

I didn't know the series could affect people that much.

Acidosis:


You need to study the frustration-agression theory. It is not rocket science... A woman with class may not use acid, hot oil or water... but I can assure you, she won't ignore.


Only those who believe in the war room theory would try to ignore.

I never said ignore.

I said she should play her cards close by getting herself a good lawyer and fleecing the bàrstàdó for every penny he's got before walking out of the joke of a union.

That way she keeps her dignity intact + a health bank account, while the man keeps his side chick(s).

It's a win-win situation.

A time will come when I'll stop posting on Nairaland. Its hard really trying to deal with people who run away from reality.


I can imagine them walking away from the same home they've built for years because of one hungry side chick; walking away from the man they love sooo much.


Welcome to Nairaland

Acidosis:
A time will come when I'll stop posting on Nairaland. Its hard really trying to deal with people who run away from reality.


I can imagine them walking away from the same home they've built for years because of one hungry side chick; walking away from the man they love sooo much.

Welcome to Nairaland

The wife didn't walk away.

The man did. Into the arms of his side chick. Why should wifey stop him? Or infringe upon his freedom??

So you would not walk away from a wife who has a dude or dudes on the side? To the point of the the guy being bold enough to insult you with derogatory things your wife told him about you.

Be honest.

Acidosis:
A time will come when I'll stop posting on Nairaland. Its hard really trying to deal with people who run away from reality.


I can imagine them walking away from the same home they've built for years because of one hungry side chick; walking away from the man they love sooo much.


Welcome to Nairaland

Acidosis:
A time will come when I'll stop posting on Nairaland. Its hard really trying to deal with people who run away from reality.


I can imagine them walking away from the same home they've built for years because of one hungry side chick; walking away from the man they love sooo much.


Welcome to Nairaland

Reality? What reality?

Have you considered what can happen to a person who engages in a fight?

What if the mistress beats the sh.it out of the wife and the wife loses some teeth in the course of the fight, ends up in a wheelchair or dies?

What if the wife is actually stronger and hurts the mistress severely?

Physical injury is punishable by law. And the law does not excuse it on grounds of jealousy - on the contrary. You can even end up in prison for causing harm to other people and if the person dies by any unfortunate chance, you can end up in prison serving a life sentence.

What will the children do then? Visit mama in prison? Because daddy is a damn cheater who does not know how to respect his family?

Nonsense!

cococandy:
So you would not walk away from a wife who has a dude or dudes on the side? To the point of the the guy being bold enough to insult you with derogatory things your wife told him about you.

Be honest.

I'll surely walk away, after dude must have lost one of his limbs.

Mindfulness:


Reality? What reality?

Have you considered what can happen to a person who engages in a fight?

What if the mistress beats the sh.it out of the wife and the wife loses some teeth in the course of the fight, ends up in a wheelchair or dies?

What if the wife is actually stronger and hurts the mistress severely?

Physical injury is punishable by law. And the law does not excuse it on grounds of jealousy - on the contrary. You can even end up in prison for causing harm to other people and if the person dies by any unfortunate chance, you can end up in prison serving a life sentence.

What will the children do then? Visit mama in prison? Because daddy is a damn cheater who does not know how to respect his family?

Nonsense!

Precisely.

Only a classless illiterate will descend to gutter levels to fight with countless mistresses, ending up with nothing but broken teeth and bones - when she could earn money from his indiscretions.

Acidosis:


I'll surely walk away, after dude must have lost one of his limbs.

But you will walk away.
From the woman you love sooo much and the home you've built for years because of some hungry side dude.

So why is it unreal for you to believe that others can too? How come they are the ones running from reality but at the same time you'd do same if you were in their shoes.

Mindfulness:


Reality? What reality?

Have you considered what can happen to a person who engages in a fight?

What if the mistress beats the sh.it out of the wife and the wife loses some teeth in the course of the fight, ends up in a wheelchair or dies?

What if the wife is actually stronger and hurts the mistress severely?

Physical injury is punishable by law. And the law does not excuse it on grounds of jealousy - on the contrary. You can even end up in prison for causing harm to other people and if the person dies by any unfortunate chance, you can end up in prison serving a life sentence.

What will the children do then? Visit mama in prison? Because daddy is a damn cheater who does not know how to respect his family?

Nonsense!

If you're scared of the consequences of breaking another man's limb, there are over a million offensive alternatives.

Acidosis:


I'll surely walk away, after dude must have lost one of his limbs.

And how many of such men will you be prepared to fight?

EfemenaXY:


Precisely.

Only a classless illiterate will descend to gutter levels to fight with countless mistresses, ending up with nothing but broken teeth and bones - when she could earn money from his indiscretions.

Even if she is as strong as Xena the warrior princess, people should be aware of the trouble they can get themselves into by fighting other people. For what? And some people want us to think that it is the way to save your 'home' when it is a way to destroy one's entire life.

EfemenaXY:


Precisely.

Only a classless illiterate will descend to gutter levels to fight with countless mistresses, ending up with nothing but broken teeth and bones - when she could earn money from his indiscretions.

Earn money from his indiscretions in Nigeria?


And why are you all scared of dealing with an intruder? Don't you all know the road to a barrack? nawao

Mindfulness:


Even if she is as strong as Xena the warrior princess, people should be aware of the trouble they can get themselves into by fighting other people. For what? And some people want us to think that it is the way to save your 'home' when it is a way to destroy one's entire life.

Consequences:

~ Life imprisionment

~ A criminal record

~ Job loss + never being able to work in a professional capacity

~ Kids taken into care

All because of a side chick.

Acidosis:


If you're scared of the consequences of breaking another man's limb, there are over a million offensive alternatives.

And why should I do it? I am strong enough to walk away without looking back. This breaking of limbs and your 'offensive alternatives' are for people with hurt feelings.

EfemenaXY:


Consequences:

~ Life imprisionment

~ A criminal record

~ Job loss + never being able to work in a professional capacity

~ Kids taken into care

All because of a side chick.

Exactly!

So much for Aciddosis's ways of saving one's 'home'.

cococandy:


But you will walk away.
From the woman you love sooo much and the home you've built for years because of some hungry side dude.

So why is it unreal for you to believe that others can too? How come they are the ones running from reality but at the same time you'd do same if you were in their shoes.

...walk away from the relationship (bond), not a home I built with my money.

You're being unrealistic by making baseless comparison. How many married women can walk away from their matrimonial home because of one single side chick?

For a man, shame won't allow him accept the philandering woman. Even the woman won't want to stay (out of shame) whether the husband forgives or not. You can't compare

Acidosis:


Earn money from his indiscretions in Nigeria?


And why are you all scared of dealing with an intruder? Don't you all know the road to a barrack? nawao

To do what at the barracks?

Who will pay for that project? The man or the side chick?

raumdeuter:


What does the quoted mean? Are the kids not hers also? Give her body? Is he not giving his body as well?

I thought I was the only one who finds that statement irritating....more like she is bargaining with her body, I.e her body for whatever the hell she wants,e.g loyalty, security or whatever.

Mindfulness:


And why should I do it? I am strong enough to walk away without looking back. This breaking of limbs and your 'offensive alternatives' are for people with hurt feelings.

Have you ever fallen in love ?

Acidosis:




Have you ever fallen in love ?

No, I am a robot.

Acidosis:


...walk away from the relationship (bond), not a home I built with my money.

You're being unrealistic by making baseless comparison. How many married women can walk away from their matrimonial home because of one single side chick?

For a man, shame won't allow him accept the philandering woman. Even the woman won't want to stay (out of shame) whether the husband forgives or not. You can't compare

Oh and here we are.
It's different when it's the woman.
But acceptable when it's the man.
The crux of the matter.

You are Oblivious to how sexism has colored your perspective. Suddenly the love and the years put into the marriage doesn't matter anymore.
Now the shame conquers right? Oh the man can forget the love and years put into the marriage but when it's the woman it's unheard of.

Ridiculous and Pathetic. Who can take this seriously? You can't even stand by your words. No integrity.

What happens if they built the house together? Versus the man building it with 'his money?'

And who are you to speak for women if they want to stay or not after having cheated. You're the one imagining they would be too ashamed to stay.
Why does this shame not apply to the man.

Can you now see how ridiculous your posts all along have been?

Mindfulness:

No, I am a robot.

I thought as much

Acidosis:




Have you ever fallen in love ?

What does the love matter?

The shame conquers isn't it so?

Acidosis:


...walk away from the relationship (bond), not a home I built with my money.

You're being unrealistic by making baseless comparison.

There's nothing unrealistic about the comparison. What's good for the goose is just as good for the gander.

How many married women can walk away from their matrimonial home because of one single side chick?

A lot more than you know.

A man isn't the be-all-and-end-all of a woman's life. Besides AIDS is real.

For a man, shame won't allow him accept the philandering woman. Even the woman won't want to stay (out of shame) whether the husband forgives or not. You can't compare

Really?

Breathtaking hypocrisy.

cococandy:


Oh and here we are.
It's different when it's the woman.
But acceptable when it's the man.
The crux of the matter.

You are Oblivious to how sexism has colored your perspective. Suddenly the love and the years put into the marriage doesn't matter anymore.
Now the shame conquers right? Oh the man can forget the live and years put into the marriage but when it's the woman it's unheard of.

Ridiculous and Pathetic. Who can take this seriously? You can't even stand by your words. No integrity.

I'm a realist.. You're the same lady who said you'll rather quench than solicit funds from an ex.

It shows you have self-respect and dignity.

Now let me ask you:

If your in-laws, hubby and the whole world stumble on you in bed with a lover boy, would you remain in the marriage, even when your hubby is ready to let go?

EfemenaXY:


There's nothing unrealistic about the comparison. What's good for the goose is just as good for the gander.



A lot more than you know.

A man isn't the be-all-and-end-all of a woman's life. Besides AIDS is real.



Really?

Breathtaking hypocrisy.

@bold tell me about it.

Sometimes I've to pause and gasp to catch my breath again.

Like how can one be so hypocritical and not even realize it?

cococandy:


@bold tell me about it.

Sometimes I've to pause and gasp to catch my breath again.

Like how can one be so hypocritical and not even realize it?

Yes, the same hypocrisy that gave a man a dck and a woman a pzzzy, instead of a dck for a man and a dck for a woman.

I call it divine hypocrisy.