Presh9OO:
Me thinks.. He shouldn't break up with her.. Let him acept her back, fvck her for all she's worth and dump her when she clocks an Unmarriable age #Simple

sylvez:



haba de Allah
e nova reach like that na , op did not tell us what gave her power or what is giving her dat kind power to act dat way, may b na d girl buy d motor for him , may b na she dey fund d relationship or something like dat .

Presh9OO:
Oya OP come xplain o

richyblink1:


He actually earns x3 of her salary so there is no way she will be the one funding their affair. The deal is that she is this type that believes everybody are equal and as such she can do as it pleases her.

She can sit doing nothing and asks him to go get her water from the fridge or something like that. Always want to show that she is equal to him and has to do as she wishes.

I once asked her is she is a feminist for telling me to warn my brother about trying to be head or appear as the boss in their relationship. That they are both human with equal right

Richy4:
I believe your brother is dating an independent woman with a diva attitude.(my number one icon Maria Carey got that attitude)...he either take her the way she is, or tell her it was not working for him...FYI, She will not change..just incase you are the prayer warrior type that thinks oh!!!! there's nothing prayer cannot do....it's just the way she is...

And they comes in different packages...most of them got a golden heart when they are not putting up that diva attitude......But A control freak is a control freak any time any day....You can always ask your brother what he wanted....If he can cope with it..if not then they are not compatible ..

richyblink1:


He is actually my younger brother not a friend. Can't equally remember telling you we are praying for her to change. Was only trying to get opinion on how to relate with her as she has been begging and wants me to assist in talking to my younger one to forgive and let go.

Joavid:
These threads on nairaland never cease to amaze me.

Your friend is dating a controlling maniac who is also physically abusive, entitled, rude and you are asking us if it's a red flag?

Are your senses still with you even if your friend has lost his?

There is something called breakup

Some topics just defy logic and common sense

aflyingbird:
A girl gave ur younger bro a black eye and u r here asking us what do to, mcheeeew. She's going to keep injuring him physically or kill him herself, or he's going to die of hypertension 'cus of her. The girl's physically n emotionally abusive. U r the big brother, do the needful n get him to break up with her or break them up urself!!!

sisisioge:


It is shocking that both you and your brother are still wondering what to do! Biko, encourage your brother to reg on Nairaland, marry the chick and continue to bless us with gist about the imminent woes that will betide his shadow. I no dey curse o...Na wetin go happen be that if them marry.

richyblink1:


Never said my younger brother or I are wondering what to do. My younger brother has already cut ties and all form of communication. I am only trying to know how to relate with her to avoid furthe issues

Aqva:
So you and your brother would go back to her if everyone here said so? Una be first class mumu. Gerrout of here. Your brother deserves the slap for being dumb if he doesn't know what to do.

Why i nor dey date this kind girl? I once told a girl to get out of my car in the middle of nowhere for trying to practice the domineering attitude with me. Telling me come and take me home in a commanding and rude way like say she buy fuel for me.

richyblink1:


Never asked if he should go back to her. My concern is on how to relate with her to avoid lashing out on her

richyblink1:


He is actually my younger brother not a friend. Can't equally remember telling you we are praying for her to change. Was only trying to get opinion on how to relate with her as she has been begging and wants me to assist in talking to my younger one to forgive and let go.

richyblink1:


My younger brother is an adult you know, so I can't just go using force on his personal life. Moreover, I never said or asked for help about he continuing with the relationship. Only asked how I should relate with the said lady who is coming over to persuade me to assist in resolving their differences.

My younger brother is not in contact with her hence she is trying to use me to get across to him. The red flag I mentioned has to do with how to relate with her should she come begging

richyblink1:


Never said my younger brother or I are wondering what to do. My younger brother has already cut ties and all form of communication. I am only trying to know how to relate with her to avoid furthe issues

richyblink1:


Never asked if he should go back to her. My concern is on how to relate with her to avoid lashing out on her

aflyingbird:








Don't relate with her, don't pick her calls, don't talk to her, don't answer her anywhere. She go get the message n stop disturbing u and ur bro. Let her know u'r not going to assist her to get ur bro back. Ur bro should move on, find someone else.

Aqva:

Give her a back rub and tell her it'll be fine. My guy stop asking these kind of questions, it's embarrassing.
Tell her you don't interfere in people's relationships, if you are the polite type. If not, tell her she's not the kind of girl you'll want as an inlaw and she should get the f out of your lives.