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Family Cries Out As Their Daughter's Oyinbo Husband Cremates Her Without Notice. by Adudavidlee(m): 9:37am On Jan 17, 2017
According to News Express, one of late Sholly's cousins identified as Bunmi Jasmine Omeke, released a statement saying:

“The news of the death of Oluwashola Atunrayo Gaska (nee Adefolalu) fondly known as ‘Sholly’ came as a rude shock to her family and friends back home in Nigeria. More devastating was the effect of the report of her cremation by her husband, just a few days after her death, to the eldest sister of the deceased, Mrs. Bola ‘Salt Essien-Nelson.”

According to the statement, nobody from Sholly's family was given the chance to see or pay their last respects to her. When asked, Jakub said he was fulfilling his wife's 'wishes.

Sholly's elder sister Essien- Nelson, said she had received a call about her sister's death around 11:00am on December 28, 2016, and that she had spoken with her sister earlier on December 24. She also said her sister had not mentioned any health issues or anything that could have led to her death.
Essien said:

“To date, the only proof of Sholly’s death is a scanned copy of the death certificate with the alleged cause of death being secondary anaemia and ‘tumour on the uterus.”

Meanwhile, Jakub said his late wife had taken ill on the morning of December 28, and was rushed to the hospital, where he sent his sister to take care of her so that he could return to work. He claimed to have been at work when he was called and informed of his wife's death.

Essien had been planning to travel to Poland with her husband, to see her sister's body and possibly plan her burial, when she was told by Jakub that she had already been cremated (as she allegedly wished) on January 2, 2017. He however admitted that Sholly had asked for her sister to be allowed to see her body before she was cremated (which didn't happen eventually).

Jakub also reportedly went ahead to bury her ashes on January 7, without her family's knowledge, which has caused Sholly's family to suspect foul play in her death.

Essien said:

“We understand Jakub has the final say over the funeral rites for late Sholly and as shocking as the cremation request was, we were willing to honour her ‘supposed’ wishes. What we could not understand was why her husband has deprived our family of the opportunity of paying our last respects to our daughter, sister, niece, cousin and aunt.”

Na wa o! RIP to her!

https://gossip.naij.com/1082891-family-cries-daughters-oyinbo-husband-cremates-informing-them.html

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Re: Family Cries Out As Their Daughter's Oyinbo Husband Cremates Her Without Notice. by Sleekydee(m): 9:40am On Jan 17, 2017
eleyi gidi gaaaaan...

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Re: Family Cries Out As Their Daughter's Oyinbo Husband Cremates Her Without Notice. by XXLDICK(m): 9:47am On Jan 17, 2017
I don't know why Nigerians opt for burial always.

Cremation is the best way and you don't have to waste land space.

I wish to be cremated

But that oyinbo man no try at all, he should be sued

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Re: Family Cries Out As Their Daughter's Oyinbo Husband Cremates Her Without Notice. by kniru: 9:47am On Jan 17, 2017
issorite!!!
Re: Family Cries Out As Their Daughter's Oyinbo Husband Cremates Her Without Notice. by SurePresident: 9:47am On Jan 17, 2017
Ills of interracial marriage.

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Re: Family Cries Out As Their Daughter's Oyinbo Husband Cremates Her Without Notice. by emmabest2000(m): 9:47am On Jan 17, 2017
Culture differences

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Re: Family Cries Out As Their Daughter's Oyinbo Husband Cremates Her Without Notice. by link2ok(m): 9:47am On Jan 17, 2017
Oyibo husband..

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Re: Family Cries Out As Their Daughter's Oyinbo Husband Cremates Her Without Notice. by jjwaterfalls(f): 9:47am On Jan 17, 2017
Wow
Re: Family Cries Out As Their Daughter's Oyinbo Husband Cremates Her Without Notice. by Nobody: 9:48am On Jan 17, 2017
Dude might have killed her and was trying to obscure evidence.

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Re: Family Cries Out As Their Daughter's Oyinbo Husband Cremates Her Without Notice. by flyca: 9:48am On Jan 17, 2017
kniru:
issorite!!!
No, its not alright

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Re: Family Cries Out As Their Daughter's Oyinbo Husband Cremates Her Without Notice. by lonelydora: 9:48am On Jan 17, 2017
That guy should be arrested asap. There's something he's hiding.

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Re: Family Cries Out As Their Daughter's Oyinbo Husband Cremates Her Without Notice. by Ekiseme(m): 9:49am On Jan 17, 2017
This one is strong
Re: Family Cries Out As Their Daughter's Oyinbo Husband Cremates Her Without Notice. by Kingnap(m): 9:49am On Jan 17, 2017
Re: Family Cries Out As Their Daughter's Oyinbo Husband Cremates Her Without Notice. by aljazira: 9:49am On Jan 17, 2017
The way and manner whites treat us black is worrisome.

When you factor in behaviour of Jammeh of Gambia and Mugabe of Zimbabwe then you understand what I mean.

We are the problem to our problems.

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Re: Family Cries Out As Their Daughter's Oyinbo Husband Cremates Her Without Notice. by casttlebarbz(m): 9:50am On Jan 17, 2017
God knows best
Re: Family Cries Out As Their Daughter's Oyinbo Husband Cremates Her Without Notice. by money121(m): 9:50am On Jan 17, 2017
Ok
Re: Family Cries Out As Their Daughter's Oyinbo Husband Cremates Her Without Notice. by Daslim180(m): 9:51am On Jan 17, 2017
Una know no say eyinbo mumu before...... Rip

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Re: Family Cries Out As Their Daughter's Oyinbo Husband Cremates Her Without Notice. by Hades2016(m): 9:51am On Jan 17, 2017
The guy need to be held responsible for the death angry what rubbish angry

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Re: Family Cries Out As Their Daughter's Oyinbo Husband Cremates Her Without Notice. by Benbisco(f): 9:51am On Jan 17, 2017
Hmmm!

I smell a rat!

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Re: Family Cries Out As Their Daughter's Oyinbo Husband Cremates Her Without Notice. by HENSEXIE(f): 9:51am On Jan 17, 2017
Hmmmm.I suspect dias sumtin else amidst

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Re: Family Cries Out As Their Daughter's Oyinbo Husband Cremates Her Without Notice. by FearFactor1: 9:52am On Jan 17, 2017
Juju

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Re: Family Cries Out As Their Daughter's Oyinbo Husband Cremates Her Without Notice. by Mimzyy(f): 9:52am On Jan 17, 2017
Are we even sure that she is truly dead?

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Re: Family Cries Out As Their Daughter's Oyinbo Husband Cremates Her Without Notice. by Semper247(m): 9:52am On Jan 17, 2017
Unnecessary things people pay attention to....

He married her legally, paid all her dowries and owned her.

Now he must seek permission before burying or cremating his own wife?

Africans and stupid suspicion.....
.osim "foul play"

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Re: Family Cries Out As Their Daughter's Oyinbo Husband Cremates Her Without Notice. by sisisioge: 9:53am On Jan 17, 2017
Wowzer! It is well o.

Maybe they should petition the police to allow them get info from the doctors that attended to her on her last days to eliminate foul play or just let sleeping dogs be. Oyinbos are the most uncultured ever! The crazzy dude must think she tell from the sky...idi ara!

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Re: Family Cries Out As Their Daughter's Oyinbo Husband Cremates Her Without Notice. by Nobody: 9:53am On Jan 17, 2017
Yesterday, was watching investigation discovery channel....about a man who died, and wife no 2 wanted to cremate his body the following day.

Daughter of the man's late wife no1 got suspicious and stopped the cremation, and asked for autopsy.

Autopsy showed that the man passed on due to poisoning....by wife 2....who got jailed.

Hmmmm.

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Re: Family Cries Out As Their Daughter's Oyinbo Husband Cremates Her Without Notice. by Lexusgs430: 9:54am On Jan 17, 2017
XXLDICK:
I don't know why Nigerians opt for burial always.

Cremation is the best way and you don't have to waste land space.

I wish to be cremated

That XXLDICK, might refuse to burn.......

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Re: Family Cries Out As Their Daughter's Oyinbo Husband Cremates Her Without Notice. by Mikylopez(f): 9:54am On Jan 17, 2017
foul play! nígga played a fast move though.....

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Re: Family Cries Out As Their Daughter's Oyinbo Husband Cremates Her Without Notice. by Bisjosh(f): 9:54am On Jan 17, 2017
Would like to be cremated when i die


But that nigga was up to something

He should have atleast allowed the fam to pay their last respect. Nobody says he shouldnt fulfil the wife's wish to be cremated. angry undecided

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Re: Family Cries Out As Their Daughter's Oyinbo Husband Cremates Her Without Notice. by Nobody: 9:54am On Jan 17, 2017
XXLDICK:
I don't know why Nigerians opt for burial always.

Cremation is the best way and you don't have to waste land space.

I wish to be cremated

Nice one but the point is she was cremated so soon after her death to avoid an autopsy that could reveal the cause of death if it wasn't natural.

This isn't a case of saving space they just want to know what their family member died of so sad

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Re: Family Cries Out As Their Daughter's Oyinbo Husband Cremates Her Without Notice. by Icecomrade: 9:55am On Jan 17, 2017
Naija
Re: Family Cries Out As Their Daughter's Oyinbo Husband Cremates Her Without Notice. by NegeduGrace(f): 9:55am On Jan 17, 2017
marry marry marry..una don see

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