sisisioge:


Lordhavemercy! Are you going back into teaching? I hope they are pretty young pupils with simple needs o. It is well.

Give Your Heart A Break Okay, Pls.

If You Understand My Issue You Are Step Closer To Saving A Relationship. Without You Out Here My Aim Cannot Begin. Please Force Me Into Position.

How Old are you OP?

Ur treads and ur mindset.. hasnt changed its status to "Married"

You seem to complain about everything..

Atleast ur MIL behaves nice in front of you..

MIL and DIL has always had problems since d days of Eve...

on a good side.. its better for ur MIL to take care of ur 8 months old baby than a total stranger like Nannies, DayCare et al..

Talk less about ur marriage..

There is NEVER an identical marriage..
Every Union is unique.. even twin marrying twins.. their unions are not d same..
Live with it PLEASE!!!

GoodLuck with ur Union!

BE811APP:
How Old are you OP?

Ur treads and ur mindset.. hasnt changed its status to "Married"

You seem to complain about everything..

Atleast ur MIL behaves nice in front of you..

MIL and DIL has always had problems since d days of Eve...

on a good side.. its better for ur MIL to take care of ur 8 months old baby than a total stranger like Nannies, DayCare et al..

Talk less about ur marriage..

There is NEVER an identical marriage..
Every Union is unique.. even twin marrying twins.. their unions are not d same..
Live with it PLEASE!!!

GoodLuck with ur Union!

Thanks For Your Suggestive Reasoning

airminem:
Well, I am going back to work and my Mother-in-law is here to babysit

So between 22nd and 28th, you have found a new job. Impressive !

airminem:

Realy?

yes really! Weren't u the one who creates a thread saying ur husband money should be "our" money? Now ur mil is saying the baby is "our" child u at getting pissed off..


I really just think u are out there to make trouble where there is none.. U better be careful else u shoot urself on the foot! No take ur hand use spoil ur marriage sha...

airminem:
I Am Only Expressing As I Feel And Many More Women Like Me Out Here. Please I Dont Need To Be Held Back Okay..

You are only expressing yet you are still sugar coating it, why can't you say exactly what is going on? "My mother in law is the nicest person" so if you agree that she is the nicest person when your husband is around then accept her minor faults or spill the beans

I read your post on your hubby using "my" instead of "our" money. Saw your response to people & decided to check your profile, went through other posts and I'm here.

I pray you find solutions to your "problems" but I also prayed that may God never give me a wife like you
why?
1. All your complaints aren't serious
2. They are things you could have solved internally
3. You keep airing issues that should not be
4. It's like you aren't after solutions but rather you crave attention
5. Don't you have close friends and relatives that are married? Must you come to NL to seek advice from people whose identity or integrity you have no idea of?
6. Let your hubby stumble on these posts & you'll understand the value of trust and confidentiality.

DDeliverer:
I'm still trying to understand what the mother-in-law did...

Guy, I saw you in business section... Where you swore that someone will lose his 1.2 million naira...

truthsayer007:


So between 22nd and 28th, you have found a new job. Impressive !

The woman matter tire me. I feel most posts I see on nairaland are cooked up just to make front page.

eezeribe:


Guy, I saw you in business section... Where you swore that someone will lose his 1.2 million naira...

Has he lost the money already?

Woman, you are becoming a contentious and nagging wife. Allow your MIL bond with her grandchild and stick your nose out of her business. Based on your write-up, your MIL hasn't done anything to warrant looking for her trouble. Use your time and energy to do other productive things and leave your MIL alone. A word is enough for the wise. No say dem no warn you o.

Catalin:
The woman matter tire me. I feel most posts I see on nairaland are cooked up just to make front page.

True, but thats not all. I think some people are on payroll by seun to constantly create new users to create fake posts daily. So they can keep the forum with enough content to keep old users coming back.

Trouble maker.. you're opening a thread because your MIL calls your baby "our baby"... smh

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She complains about virtually everything. Twale for you Ma.

I hope your baby is male. The karma should be interesting and poetic.

Chai chineke!!!!! God come nd help ur children oooooooooo,when u people do all dis things,dont ur mind judge u?tell me now,if it's ur mum dat is calling ur babe 'our' boundle of joy,will u find it irritating?because she is ur mother inlaw abi?nd u praY to be one someday,what u wish people might also come to u.d woman is enjoying what she labourd for and u re angry about it.karma dey oooooo.a girl once told me that he loves his finacee so much but d problem is thaat the mother inlaw is still alive.imagine dat statement.hmmmmmmmmm

airminem:
Well, I am going back to work and my Mother-in-law is here to babysit. Ever since she came I am fed up with my mother-in-law. Everything she does annoys me: The way she refers to my child as 'our' little bundle of joy. My husband is the one that warned me on his mom. She was TOO excited when I got pregnant and did the typical mama stuff, telling me how to raise the child. I know she's excited about her first grandchild, but she's frying too much chin-chin in my head..lol. She has to constantly be reminded that I am in charge of my baby I've told my husband how I feel, but he doesn't agree. My Mother-in-law is the nicest person to my face but will talk about me behind my back. She argue my parenting and makes up stories. It's just frustrating to me now knowing i am going to be dealing with a lot.
Anyway, because she is my mother in law doesn't mean she has the right to hurt me.

Is anyone else this annoyed by their mother-in-law? Anyone with any advice please tell me what to do?

Chai chineke!!!!! God come nd help ur children oooooooooo,when u people do all dis things,dont ur mind judge u?tell me now,if it's ur mum dat is calling ur babe 'our' boundle of joy,will u find it irritating?because she is ur mother inlaw abi?nd u praY to be one someday,what u wish people might also come to u.d woman is enjoying what she labourd for and u re angry about it.karma dey oooooo.a girl once told me that he loves his finacee so much but d problem is thaat the mother inlaw is still alive.imagine dat statement.hmmmmmmmmm

kizyalex10:
Chai chineke!!!!! God come nd help ur children oooooooooo,when u people do all dis things,dont ur mind judge u?tell me now,if it's ur mum dat is calling ur babe 'our' boundle of joy,will u find it irritating?because she is ur mother inlaw abi?nd u praY to be one someday,what u wish people might also come to u.d woman is enjoying what she labourd for and u re angry about it.karma dey oooooo.a girl once told me that he loves his finacee so much but d problem is thaat the mother inlaw is still alive.imagine dat statement.hmmmmmmmmm

Though I Stil Love The Mother Of My Husband Ooo.

You are the problem here!

Your MIL has done nothing wrong she is only being overjoyed by the presence of her new status as a grandmother but your oversabi has made ur head to fry chin chin!



Pls change ! U are a bad daughter in law!


For the records! I am being married for 7 yrs with two kids.
#before u advice me to get married

darlenese:
You are the problem here!

Your MIL has done nothing wrong she is only being overjoyed by the presence of her new status as a grandmother but your oversabi has made ur head to fry chin chin!



Pls change ! U are a bad daughter in law!


For the records! I am being married for 7 yrs with two kids.
#before u advice me to get married

Umh! Please Dont Be Condescending To Me. Thanks Sha We Are Geting Along Okay

airminem:


Though I Stil Love The Mother Of My Husband Ooo.

better ooooooooo always remember tomorrow in ur dealings nd also put urself in her shoes

kizyalex10:
better ooooooooo always remember tomorrow in ur dealings nd also put urself in her shoes

Okay

MabraO:
The same op that said she hates it wen her husby calls his money his nd not theirs in her term "our money" is now complaining about her MIL calling her child "our bundle of joy"

I don't just know the adjective o would use to qualify u
Well it is well
One day u would be a MIL too except u don't want to

Hmmm. What Wrong With You?

airminem:


Hmmm. What Wrong With You?

Lmfao

airminem:
Well, I am going back to work and my Mother-in-law is here to babysit. Ever since she came I am fed up with my mother-in-law. Everything she does annoys me: The way she refers to my child as 'our' little bundle of joy. My husband is the one that warned me on his mom. She was TOO excited when I got pregnant and did the typical mama stuff, telling me how to raise the child. I know she's excited about her first grandchild, but she's frying too much chin-chin in my head..lol. She has to constantly be reminded that I am in charge of my baby I've told my husband how I feel, but he doesn't agree. My Mother-in-law is the nicest person to my face but will talk about me behind my back. She argue my parenting and makes up stories. It's just frustrating to me now knowing i am going to be dealing with a lot.
Anyway, because she is my mother in law doesn't mean she has the right to hurt me.

Is anyone else this annoyed by their mother-in-law? Anyone with any advice please tell me what to do?

I understand you perfectly, but to ensure you guys don't get into a fight or an argument, let her be, at your own time, treat your baby the way you want to. I have experienced all you are trying to say but what can you do other than to bear with her, after all, she cannot hurt her own grandchild. Relax and enjoy her presence because once she leaves, you must surely miss her. Chill ok.

ststyreal:

I understand you perfectly, but to ensure you guys don't get into a fight or an argument, let her be, at your own time, treat your baby the way you want to. I have experienced all you are trying to say but what can you do other than to bear with her, after all, she cannot hurt her own grandchild. Relax and enjoy her presence because once she leaves, you must surely miss her. Chill ok.

Its Nice To Know I Am Not Alone On These. Thanks For Your Honesty.

ademoladeji:

Lmfao

WHY NOT LMFDO?

airminem:


Its Nice To Know I Am Not Alone On These. Thanks For Your Honesty.

You are welcome!

airminem:


WHY NOT LMFDO?

Sorry... LYFPO