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Would You Dissolve Your 33year Old Marriage Over This? by Nobody: 8:50am On Mar 10, 2017
You come home one day from service with your wife and she starts crying. You ask her what's wrong and she kneels down begging you to forgive her, that she has being using jazz since to keep you with her but today she surrendered her life to Christ and needs your forgiveness.
That part of the ritual is to wash her privates when she is ovulating and use to cook for you every month.
Another one is she sends some hair of yours To a herbalist for concotion that mixes inside your cream to rub.
...
Edakun please what would you do?
You have 3 girls and a son.
Two of your daughters are married.
The last child a girl is serving now.
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Re: Would You Dissolve Your 33year Old Marriage Over This? by Ahmed0336(m): 8:53am On Mar 10, 2017
Nope,i ll not divorce her one she might probably divorce herself. undecided

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Re: Would You Dissolve Your 33year Old Marriage Over This? by haryodejy(m): 9:00am On Mar 10, 2017
u say wah
Re: Would You Dissolve Your 33year Old Marriage Over This? by Cutehector(m): 9:03am On Mar 10, 2017
Her children will know what she did...



She has to confess to her children as well..

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Re: Would You Dissolve Your 33year Old Marriage Over This? by megareal: 9:13am On Mar 10, 2017
This happened in real life to someone I know. The man divorced his wife. The children too were in support.

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Re: Would You Dissolve Your 33year Old Marriage Over This? by Nobody: 9:14am On Mar 10, 2017
In will not divorce her because, she is more spiritual than me, for me not to know all these years means my life was simply in her hands. She could have done worst to me but she didnt . for the sake of the children I will stay. No one will know about it. It will be a shame that my wife has been controlling me all these years without me knowing. She was kind, caring and loving too. In fact apart of juju I must have come to a point that I love her outside juju. Forgive and forge ahead.

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Re: Would You Dissolve Your 33year Old Marriage Over This? by coolcharm(m): 9:20am On Mar 10, 2017
For what? I'd probably be close to 60 years shey? I'll forgive her, and we will live happily ever after. If her jazz could keep me for 33 years, then Baba God is involved.

Ogbeni, life is too short to be crying over spilled milk.

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Re: Would You Dissolve Your 33year Old Marriage Over This? by Nobody: 9:22am On Mar 10, 2017
sdkalu:
In will not divorce her because, she is more spiritual than me, for me not to know all these years means my life was simply in her hands. She could have done worst to me but she didnt . for the sake of the children I will stay. No one will know about it. It will be a shame that my wife has been controlling me all these years without me knowing. She was kind, caring and loving too. In fact apart of juju I must have come to a point that I love her outside juju. Forgive and forge ahead.

Whoa! You have a big heart.

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Re: Would You Dissolve Your 33year Old Marriage Over This? by Nobody: 9:23am On Mar 10, 2017
coolcharm:
For what? I'd probably be close to 60 years shey? I'll forgive her, and we will live happily ever after. If her jazz could keep me for 33 years, then Baba God is involved.

Ogbeni, life is too short to be crying over spilled milk.

You were eating ovulated eggs for 33yrs oga.
Think about it again
Re: Would You Dissolve Your 33year Old Marriage Over This? by wordbank(m): 9:24am On Mar 10, 2017
Please do that juju again and love me forever else

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Re: Would You Dissolve Your 33year Old Marriage Over This? by Nobody: 9:25am On Mar 10, 2017
Cutehector:
Her children will know what she did...



She has to confess to her children as well..

Don't you think they will loose respect for her?
Re: Would You Dissolve Your 33year Old Marriage Over This? by Nobody: 9:25am On Mar 10, 2017
megareal:
This happened in real life to someone I know. The man divorced his wife. The children too were in support.

The kids supported their mum's eviction?
Re: Would You Dissolve Your 33year Old Marriage Over This? by Nobody: 9:26am On Mar 10, 2017
sdkalu:
In will not divorce her because, she is more spiritual than me, for me not to know all these years means my life was simply in her hands. She could have done worst to me but she didnt . for the sake of the children I will stay. No one will know about it. It will be a shame that my wife has been controlling me all these years without me knowing. She was kind, caring and loving too. In fact apart of juju I must have come to a point that I love her outside juju. Forgive and forge ahead.

Hmmm, matured though.
I'm speechless

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Re: Would You Dissolve Your 33year Old Marriage Over This? by megareal: 9:28am On Mar 10, 2017
Alero3Arubi:


The kids supported their mum's eviction?

Yes o. They really hated the fact that their mother was diabolical. One even refuses to marry for fear of a woman using juju on him.

Unfortunately when the man regained his senses, he also regained the love he had for a certain woman whom he had wanted to marry. He learnt the woman died some years before. He blamed the jazz wife for denying him a life of happiness with his true love.
Re: Would You Dissolve Your 33year Old Marriage Over This? by coolcharm(m): 9:29am On Mar 10, 2017
Alero3Arubi:


You were eating ovulated eggs for 33yrs oga.
Think about it again
hmmm... At least the eggs made it to ovulation. There is nothing about life to be too critical about. No matter how you look at it, you can't get back those wasted years. Soake the best of it.

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Re: Would You Dissolve Your 33year Old Marriage Over This? by Cutehector(m): 9:44am On Mar 10, 2017
Alero3Arubi:


Don't you think they will loose respect for her?
well dats d only way I can forgive her... She doesn't expect me to be like ooooh sweetheart, I love you for casting a spell on me for more Dan 30years... Don't worry its alright. Even her sef will be afraid..


Its better her kids know the kind of woman their mother has been all these years. After all they are all grown up and some of them are already married just as you stipulated so I don't think they would lose respect.. Infact they will beg me to forgive her since we all have come this far. I will forgive her tho but as from that time henceforth, she won't be cooking for me anymore..

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Re: Would You Dissolve Your 33year Old Marriage Over This? by Nobody: 9:55am On Mar 10, 2017
It will be easier to dissolve a 33 year old marriage than a marriage that is still in its honeymoon phase. grin

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Re: Would You Dissolve Your 33year Old Marriage Over This? by Nobody: 10:42am On Mar 10, 2017
megareal:


Yes o. They really hated the fact that their mother was diabolical. One even refuses to marry for fear of a woman using juju on him.

Unfortunately when the man regained his senses, he also regained the love he had for a certain woman whom he had wanted to marry. He learnt the woman died some years before. He blamed the jazz wife for denying him a life of happiness with his true love.

Did they also think about the fact that if she hadn't jazzed their dad they wouldn't have existed?
That man still went looking for his ex?
Would he have married her if she was alive?
Re: Would You Dissolve Your 33year Old Marriage Over This? by Nobody: 10:43am On Mar 10, 2017
Mindfulness:
It will be easier to dissolve a 33 year old marriage than a marriage that is still in its honeymoon phase. grin

You are joking right?
Re: Would You Dissolve Your 33year Old Marriage Over This? by Nobody: 10:52am On Mar 10, 2017
Alero3Arubi:


You are joking right?

No, I am dead serious. angry
Re: Would You Dissolve Your 33year Old Marriage Over This? by Nobody: 12:05pm On Mar 10, 2017
Mindfulness:


No, I am dead serious. angry
Lol I agree

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Re: Would You Dissolve Your 33year Old Marriage Over This? by sexymoma(f): 1:08pm On Mar 10, 2017
All these pple writing "i'll forgive her"
na cos e never hapin reach una caban angry

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Re: Would You Dissolve Your 33year Old Marriage Over This? by Nobody: 1:57pm On Mar 10, 2017
sexymoma:
All these pple writing "i'll forgive her"
na cos e never hapin reach una caban angry

grin grin
Re: Would You Dissolve Your 33year Old Marriage Over This? by Acidosis(m): 2:24pm On Mar 10, 2017
It is easy to forgive without the "sapele water" thing..



Seriously, I would be too scared to continue to live with her. To eat her food will become impossible even if she cooks with holy water and fry plantain with "anointed olive oil."

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Re: Would You Dissolve Your 33year Old Marriage Over This? by Nobody: 2:56pm On Mar 10, 2017
sexymoma:
All these pple writing "i'll forgive her"
na cos e never hapin reach una caban angry
They are romanticizing it that's why. I would divorce it means I can't trust her what if the herbal man deceived her and gave me poison in the disguise of luck charm and I died

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Re: Would You Dissolve Your 33year Old Marriage Over This? by sexymoma(f): 3:18pm On Mar 10, 2017
pcguru1:

They are romanticizing it that's why. I would divorce it means I can't trust her what if the herbal man deceived her and gave me poison in the disguise of luck charm and I died
Don't mind them.. i can't imagine sleeping on the same bed with that kind of person after telling me her atrocities

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Re: Would You Dissolve Your 33year Old Marriage Over This? by Nobody: 3:44pm On Mar 10, 2017
1bkaye:
Lol I agree

smiley
Re: Would You Dissolve Your 33year Old Marriage Over This? by Nobody: 4:28pm On Mar 10, 2017
Tales by moonlight undecided
Re: Would You Dissolve Your 33year Old Marriage Over This? by Ugosample(m): 4:56pm On Mar 11, 2017
sdkalu:
In will not divorce her because, she is more spiritual than me, for me not to know all these years means my life was simply in her hands. She could have done worst to me but she didnt . for the sake of the children I will stay. No one will know about it. It will be a shame that my wife has been controlling me all these years without me knowing. She was kind, caring and loving too. In fact apart of juju I must have come to a point that I love her outside juju. Forgive and forge ahead.


That is an interesting perspective
Re: Would You Dissolve Your 33year Old Marriage Over This? by Richy4(m): 7:46pm On Mar 11, 2017
I will be mad for eating poison for 33years.....How dare she cook with water from there... and claim to love me....

Just Imagine eating Nigerian draw soup prepared with ovulating water.....EWWWWWW!!!!! Disgusting cry

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Re: Would You Dissolve Your 33year Old Marriage Over This? by austine4real(m): 9:58pm On Mar 11, 2017
Alero3Arubi:

You were eating ovulated eggs for 33yrs oga. Think about it again
is that what u av been doin since?
Re: Would You Dissolve Your 33year Old Marriage Over This? by bukatyne(f): 10:39pm On Mar 11, 2017
Ugosample:



That is an interesting perspective

very interesting.

Will I divorce a husband who jazzed me for 33yrs?

Depends.

If the marriage was wonderful and he never took advantage of me, I will reason he did it cos he didn't want to lose me and move on wit the marriage.

If the marriage was bad, omo ... the game is over.

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