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Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by drtee247(m): 6:08am On Mar 19, 2017 |
Cutehector: The stance on sex-before-marriage is signed-stamped&sealed..there is nothing that can change that..let the man Go and look for treatment.. 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by mustybaba55(m): 6:13am On Mar 19, 2017 |
Complicated. may God help them and bless they married. and provide me my own beautiful wife immediately I graduate this year |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by es144000: 6:14am On Mar 19, 2017 |
Vega 100 works but if it fails contact porigho@gmail.com, there are other solutions |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by supereagle(m): 6:19am On Mar 19, 2017 |
Acidosis:It is possible to have erection and lose when you insert. It's called erectile dysfunction. The man should check his cholesterol and PSA level these two can affect blood flow to penis. Main while they should look for Maca and ginseng supplement, they help. But if he offended someone before marriage, he could be afflicted, this Africa. |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by iSufferFools: 6:19am On Mar 19, 2017 |
mineANDurs:I said "I believe" cos belief is not always based on facts, but on experience as the case may be as it relate to my own personal experience. So, I'm curious to know what our mothers endured? I for one know wife battering and infidelity are things I didn't see or even hear during that time. Not that it wasn't happening, but it wasn't on the increase as we have now. If you say marriage isn't by force, feel free to leave it when, rather if your husband physically abuse you. It's all a matter of choice. |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by thunderbabs: 6:22am On Mar 19, 2017 |
Carry ur sis hubby go meet Apostle Suleiman....he will return hiz strong thing.... |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by khadaffi(m): 6:24am On Mar 19, 2017 |
@ FortuneTeller you said they went for medical test before marriage and everything was ok. The guy might be a virgin. Yes this problem sometimes happens to guys who haven't have sex before and the solution is usually enough fore play and even at that your sis should help him insert his penis in the right place before he loses the erection. The erection is usually lost when the guy is trying to locate the right hole. Also the guy should avoid excessive alcohol, drinks like pepsi, coke, mirinda. He should also take blended bitter leaf once daily. And blended moringa leaf at night after supper for proper digestion of the meal. If the problem is weak erection, unripe plantain, honey and ginger will do the magic. If you are interested in how to prepare it quote me, cause I want to believe someone has already told you this solution since its almost 8 pages |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by nightingalee: 6:32am On Mar 19, 2017 |
alexialin:Lwkm ... Would I ever tire of reading your last sentence? Your sense of humor is second to none. 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by sylve11: 6:39am On Mar 19, 2017 |
Certitude:gad damn it! |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Tedassie(m): 6:54am On Mar 19, 2017 |
Ishilove:Viagra with known adverse effects?? |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by crunchyg: 7:02am On Mar 19, 2017 |
Shossie:It's not good stop encouraging evil |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Shossie(f): 7:09am On Mar 19, 2017 |
crunchyg:please, how is it evil, do what you want to do, its your business, please don't quote me again. |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Fx55(m): 7:09am On Mar 19, 2017 |
PaperLace: Are you a doctor or something |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Almod957(m): 7:10am On Mar 19, 2017 |
The problem may be with your sister. She might have been laced with some traditional anti rape jaz by a bitter rival. If the jaz is programmed against any intruder, nobody can penetrate her except the man who put the Jaz on her or any one who knows the antidote. She needs a traditional approach or effective prayer session. |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by helpforever: 7:15am On Mar 19, 2017 |
I also have this issue and its really bothering me for over 5 years. Mine is complicated and I think its spiritual. It all started in 2011 when I was 20 and was ready to have sex. I went to a popular brothel in Lagos with a friend to try it out. Though I was very nervous because I was a virgin and my heart was beating very fast. We actually went in and two women approached us. A young woman of about 28 and one of about 40. I am my other virgin friend had eye on the one of about 28 cause she was very beautiful. My friend immediately held on to her. The other one of 40 now held on to me that I should carry her lets go do it. I angrily said "You be my mama mate na", she got angry and left. Then the younger one said, if I and my friend wants, we can take turns with her. We left for her room. I entered first and was very nervous and sluggish even in removing my cloth. She said, "e be like say u be virgin...so na me go disvrigin" you. She started touching my di*k, but it didn't get hard. Time started to waste and I got tired and asked her to refund my money. She started shouting that its not possible, that the fact that my dick did not rise is none of her business. I asked that my friend should use the money and attempt, she said no. that he must bring his own money. We left the building and started the arguments outside. Other prostitutes came to her aid and started asking what was wrong. She explained to them that I tried to have sex with her and my thing did not rise and now I want my money back, they started shouting and said its not possible that we should better get out of her. At one corner, the older woman of about 40 that I earlier rejected started giving me the "ntoor" look and was saying "You see your life" I got very scared and left for home immediately. I tried to watch porn to see if it will get up, I can't really remember if it did. Long and short, I have not been able to have sex since then. I have not even had sex in my life. I have never tried to have sex with a real girl before, so I won't embarrass myself. I have never had a girlfriend. Though girls keep flocking around me, since I am doing well both academically and business wise, but I never attempt to have sex with them and they keep wondering whats wrong with me. One of the unilag girls that seduced me and I did nothing concluded that I was impotent because she feels no man in the world would have resisted her seduction since she was very hot. I have tried to have sex 3 more times, with prostitutes, but still same thing happens. No erection In 2012, I spent the whole year going to church everyday. Nothing happened. I have stopped now and accepted my fate. Only my best friend knows about this, he keeps saying its not a spiritual condition but medical condition due to the fact that I started masturbating right since I was 17. He says I might have had the issue right before the prostitute encounter. Sometimes he says that it is a psychological condition. But the thing is, how can a young boy of 20 then have Erectile dysfunction due to masturbation. Many young boys masturbate and nothing happened to them. I was sad for a while, but now it seems I have accepted my fate. This issue have made me focus on my studies and business and now, at 26. I have finished my BSC, and my MSC Whenever I am Hot, I masturbate and I think that has worsened my issue. I have been masturbating since 2011 when this happened Lots of order thing happens in between that confuses me. Like 2 years after the prostitute encounter, when I was in my 3rd year, one beautiful edo girl who really loved me was making out with me and flirting around me and I got a rock solid erection 100%. Very hard. Also, in 2014. A girl who liked me came to my house and she was fliting with me, though she didn't plan on having sex with me. Only the flirting alone made me hard. The erection was 70% hard. But then, those are the only occurencies. Whenever I watch porn, I get semi erection - say about 60% hard. Whenever I jerk my joystick, it gets hard - about 80% and within minutes, it deflates again. Lot of different things have happened along the line which is too much to type. Long and short, I don't get erections when I wakeup again. I used to before all this issues. Or is it the excess sugar I take, or the belly fat I have gotten due to the way I eat carelessly and spend on myself. (Since I don't have any woman to cater for) that is the cause. Is it spiritual, medical or psychological? Is it due to masturbation? Is it an infection? Because I can remember in late 2012 or early 2013. When I tried to urinate, I had and felt a sharp pain. I happened for about 2 days and stopped by itself. I am getting older and my mother is already reminding me about marriage. I don't think I will marry until this issue is resolved. I can't subject any woman to emotional pain. At some point, I thought I was gay, but I am in no way attracted to men. But I am attracted to women. I tried watch transgender porn to confirm if I was gay (since I couldn't stand real gay porn). I actually got aroused and had a mild erection. But come one, transgenders are women who just have a joystick. I have put up my issues on a foreign site (because other people who have put up their problems on nairaland gets abused, mocked, insulted and bullied) and I was advised by the whites to see a doctor and counselor. They didn't even understand what I meant by spiritual issue. But they have been very concerned and helpful I don't need to see any counselor because my case would confuse who ever I tell. I have been living in frustration. No sex life and no real social life. I keep falling out with female friend because I don't make any move towards them. I keep falling out with male friends, because they keep wondering "why this their guy no dey nack woman like them". They feel I am weird because they 100% know I am not gay and wonder why a normal guy will be avoiding women like this. I hope my issue is resolved. But if its not, I would live the rest of my life like this. Probabaly keep on masturbating and never get married. It might actually be my excessive masturbation that might be the cause of this. I don't really know. Only God knows. I am depressed. But suicide is not an option for me. God forbid. |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by CHARLOE(m): 7:16am On Mar 19, 2017 |
FortuneTeller:Your bro Inlaw is not impotent if he can have an errction but loses it just b4 penetration, it could b any of 2 reasons: 1.psychological 2.std . This is a prob a lot of young men face n surpassed (urs sinerely inclusive) while In their teenage to 20s n even 30s. 1st thing I'd advise: let him do a lab test to confirm presence/absence of bacteria/viral infection. If present, he shld treat with Orthodox method n follow up with any good bitters or agbo, cos some Infection cld be stubbornn they usually cause ED. Next, he can tackle d psychological prob by taking libido boosting drug like Re-youth Root (Chinese herbal product). I(i recommend herbal products with no side effects.) This will ensure he has hard erection b4 n during d act, he can stop using it when his confidence returns. Pls help ur bro Inlaw, its not a big deal, it will only be if he has never had an erection in d past.. Don't advice ur sis to live her marriage, pass this info to her let her pass on to her hubby, u guys shld help him, cheers. Let me also add this: let him run away from sugar! No soft drink/beer, no sugar in tea/garri etc. Sugar causes weak erection n also creates an enabling environment for bacteria/virus to thrive n multiply exponentially. He shld also take lots of fruits like: water Mellon, cucumber, banana, lemon, groundnut etc |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by confirmbushman: 7:21am On Mar 19, 2017 |
He man be scared or bothered about the marriage Values. Everyone has a different perspective of Karma and gravity.Since you said the relationship wasn't consummated. He may be bothered about number of ladies he wanted to treat with purity but then the erection came. You mentioned he may have visited a number of prostitutes. If he was impotent, what is he doing with prostitutes ? When you get girls that easy.Ladies may loose purity and soul in one's eyes. It all about perception. Values that the man carries into a marriage is important for self actualization. Maslow emphasized the importance of this factor in Motivation.Don't be surprised when he get's erect your sister shall witness what she shall testify. It all boils down to 'they haven't had sex before marriage' even if its for a short while. Besides medical test has proven them okay. Further research is needed 'on what is your own' ? Source:I know Subscribe to my page https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6FYb60DEEIY |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by kizzoh(m): 7:30am On Mar 19, 2017 |
Op, I feel for your sis. From experience I can only tell you that the guys problem is only psychological. He is not important because like u said he gets erected but loses it at the point of penetration. I really feel for the guy. there is a solution to the problem . Whatsapp me on this number 08033853625. So you can from my experience |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by CHARLOE(m): 7:31am On Mar 19, 2017 |
helpforever:I feel ur pain (I've been there). My advice to u n any young man out there with similar issue is: Don't Hide Your Problem, Else Your Problem Will Hide U! Your problem is not a big deal, its a combination of: psychological, excess sugar, n probably std. First thing first: go to a lab n do a test or better still, see a doctor, he will recommend a lab test. If infection is present treat it asap. Next, cut off sugar entirely, no soft drink, no sugar in ur tea/garri. Take bitthers (eg Ruzu or Beta bitters). To combat d psychological problem, u can take libido boosting drug like Reyouth root (herbal with no side effect). Its not a spiritual prob, I faced same problem b4 I got married, today I am happily married wit 2 kids. (Plz see also advice I gave d op above, cheers) 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Nobody: 7:36am On Mar 19, 2017 |
blkmum700: I have been watching too much of TB Joshua channels lately. |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by katniss(f): 7:36am On Mar 19, 2017 |
Godchild2015: I logged in just to like your comment. There are other ways to find out his potency. You don't actually have to have sex with the guy. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by maasoap(m): 7:38am On Mar 19, 2017 |
sisisioge:You re trying to imply that she was supposed to continue suffering in silence? That marriage is null and void because it was built on deceit . 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Kobicove(m): 7:39am On Mar 19, 2017 |
When they tell you people to 'test' the engine before you buy the car you will not listen |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by helpforever: 7:40am On Mar 19, 2017 |
CHARLOE: It cannot be STD because I have never had sex in my life even before the prostitute encounter. I was a virgin. |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by smoooty11: 7:45am On Mar 19, 2017 |
Tell your sis to give him the small but mighty blue tablet, viagra 100mg and your inlaw will be walking around with an erektion for the next 10hours.Na your sister go run self say the guy wan use preeek kill her infact she go give testimony. |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by gudofuck231: 7:49am On Mar 19, 2017 |
FortuneTeller: Was he financially impotent or no sex before marriage worked really well, dumb bullshit for dummies |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by gudofuck231: 7:53am On Mar 19, 2017 |
FortuneTeller: Then how come your sister is still frying weak dodo |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by AK481(m): 7:54am On Mar 19, 2017 |
EmilyShoton:Mod,please delete every other post and leave this one. If u love your sister and his husband,you have to show him this. This information is worth millions of naira. 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by osuofia2(m): 7:56am On Mar 19, 2017 |
yinkslinks:you be fool..... some one is seeking for solution... you are here making jokes |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by broswilli: 7:59am On Mar 19, 2017 |
Don't rush to draw conclusion. If a man stays without sex for a long time he becomes impotent. So many people that are Christian virgin men marry ladies that are too experienced sexually, and after marriage their wives put them under too much pressure which in turn increases the state of being impotent. If a Virgin man marries a virgin woman, they progress gradually until the man regains his potency. An understanding woman will not put a man who has not experienced sex for a long time into unnecessary pressure because it increases the problem. 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by soromummy(m): 7:59am On Mar 19, 2017 |
Both of them should go to TB jousha for spiritual pray that my advice, try it and thank God now and later. |
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