Dyt:


She must stay

Yes she must...big whinner....upon all the advice

Dyt:
YOU AINT GOING NO WHERE WOMAN

YOU STAYING!!!!

SHE IS GOING SOMEWHERE WOMAN



SHE IS GOING!!!!

FirstCounsel:
Very well then. It's your decision

please can I have your number...i can't access my mail..

ahnie:

this bae z emotionally not sound?

That's why she must stay

ambient:


Yes she must...big whinner....upon all the advice

That's why she must stay
She wants to be married by Force abi
She has to stay

Funjosh:




SHE IS GOING SOMEWHERE WOMAN



SHE IS GOING!!!!

She's not going anywhere

go for separation and seek the face of God. Don't divorce

Maaamaaa:


please can I have your number...i can't access my mail..

**0817**814**3111***

I was just bout to cc you.. toh!!

Dyt:
YOU AINT GOING NO WHERE WOMAN

YOU STAYING!!!!

Mimzyy:
I was just bout to cc you.. toh!!

No dia she go dey till old age ooo
Now she says she's having premature labor

SMH

I remember how she abused us

Dyt:


No dia she go dey till old age ooo
Now she says she's having premature labor

SMH

I remember how she abused us

Babes, cut her some slacks . They say the dog that refuses to listen to the hunter's whistle does so at its own peril. Na to pacify remain now...She has over learnt her lesson. It's shameful enough that she came back to give feedback that we told her so! Biko forgive her insults. She got a really raw deal. May God help her resolve her issues and help us take care of our own too. It is well.

ambient:


Yes she must...big whinner....upon all the advice

Ambient...I love the meaning of the name. Oya show some ambiance now It's scary to imagine her life right now. Whew!

Dyt:


She must stay

Yes o
She has to.
Like I said the other time,aja t'oba maa sonu ko ni gbo fere Olode.

My dear you really need to stop putting your life details online. Believe me it will haunt you one day. How would you feel if your kid grows up to see all this? The internet never forgets.

I wish you the best

Maamaa, I don't know what's going on with you presently but I do hope you see this. We've been concerned about your absence from the pregnancy thread,hope you are good and your LO too? Take care.

jazzyjazz:
My dear you really need to stop putting your life details online. Believe me it will haunt you one day. How would you feel if your kid grows up to see all this? The internet never forgets.

I wish you the best

How would they know she's the one?
This is a faceless forum.

Yada yada!

I went through ur previous posts and I was able to conclude that u are not too ok mentally(no offense intended)

Inspite of wat u have passed tru with dis man, all ur wailing on nairaland, above all, the advices dat nairsanders gave u not to marry dat opportunist, u still went ahead and marry him and now u are here crying for divorce like a mad cow.
Anyway, dos wu consoling u, na dem get time.

Lubbish

Dahyormine:
I went through ur previous posts and I was able to conclude that u are not too ok mentally(no offense intended)

Inspite of wat u have passed tru with dis man, all ur wailing on nairaland, above all, the advices dat nairsanders gave u not to marry dat opportunist, u still went ahead and marry him and now u are here crying for divorce like a mad cow.
Anyway, dos wu consoling u, na dem get time.

Lubbish

I remember her now. . . She was advised yet she refused n instead turned against us. U think divorce is easy. Shebi them warn u. Na ur cross. ., carry am. As young as you are

SMH

omogemi:




I remember her now. . . She was advised yet she refused n instead turned against us. U think divorce is easy. Shebi them warn u. Na ur cross. ., carry am. As young as you are

SMH

Please give me the link

Maaamaaa:
please, how do I go about this?

Must it be in the court where I got married?

How long will the process take?

How do I get a lawyer? I don't know any chamber

I have an unborn baby, will this have any effect?

what is the first step?


thank you as I await useful responses...

Haaa, aunty so you still went ahead??

You agreed that what I wrote was the hard truth BUT you still went ahead and got married to this man who doesn't love you? Aunty, why? Why did you resist good counsel?? Do you think marriage is a child' play? Were you not warned?

I remember telling you that love is blind but na inside marriage eye dey clear. Now you have gotten 'married' and your body don come don. Eye don clear. Sense don enter.

Commit your ways to the Lord and you will not go astray. Woman, leave that toxic environment which you walked into with your eyes wide open and don't wait until high BP kills your enemy.

Your hormones are all over the place so you need a stabilising force. Get the fvck out of that farce you call a marriage, have your baby and get your acts together. The divorce you seek won't be happening anytime soon so wake up seriously and start planning.

Dyt:
YOU AINT GOING NO WHERE WOMAN

YOU STAYING!!!!

Aunty Dyt has spoken.

CASE CLOSED.

jashar:


Aunty Dyt has spoken.

CASE CLOSED.

E be like say she don born ooo

Dyt:


E be like say she don born ooo

It's possible oo... if I remember correctly, she was pregnant when she hook the guy to marry her.

Maaamaaa:
please, how do I go about this?

Must it be in the court where I got married?

How long will the process take?

How do I get a lawyer? I don't know any chamber

I have an unborn baby, will this have any effect?

what is the first step?


thank you as I await useful responses...

madam what God has joined together no man is expected to put asunder. a wise woman builds her home while a foolish woman destroys her home( proverbs 14:1)

The process of divorce results in putting a legal end to a marriage. Although divorce proceedings differ from one state to another, most states follow a specific order:

A divorce will begin with a document called a Petition (or Complaint in some states) that formally notifies the court and the other spouse that he or she wishes to end the marriage. This document also presents an overview of terms, such as child support, custody and visitation rights, spousal support, property and debt division, and last-but-not-least, attorney's fees and costs.

Opposing papers or a response is then filed by the other spouse. In some states, if a spouse does not file opposing papers within a certain window time from when the petition was issued, the spouse can lose the right to have his or her side of the case presented in court.

Next, temporary orders lay down the short-term rules while the case is pending. The discovery, or legal procedure of gathering information about each spouse, can either be quick, or lengthy, costly and time-consuming.

Finally, a case can either be settled by an alternative dispute resolution, or it will need to go to trial. A divorce that goes to trial will typically most emotional and difficult, particularly for the children.

Your best source for divorce information is an experienced attorney. A lawyer can give you divorce information that is relevant to your specific needs. Some lawyers even specialize in divorce for men; and others are familiar with issues pertaining to women and divorce.

Madam, i am a divorce attorney.By virtue of Section 30(1) of the Matrimonial Causes Act, no proceeding for the dissolution of a marriage may be instituted within two years of the marriage.Hence, the law is clear on the grounds for divorce in Nigeria, the first and most important thing is that the marriage
must be at least 2 years old..You have to seek leave of court to file a divorce petition.There must however be strong proof of exceptional and special circumstances to warrant the Court to grant leave to file the petition to dissolve the marriage under the two year window period. In other words, you need to prove to the Court that there are exceptional and pressing reasons why you should be allowed to file a petition for divorce. These exceptional circumstances are
1. Exceptional Hardship
2. Exceptional depravity on the part of the other party. If he was in the habit of hitting you, that's an exceptional circumstance as your safety would be prioritized by Court in considering your application.As it stands, i am yet to see any special circumstances as regards your situation. You are suffering from a bad case of buyers remorse on an item with a torturous return policy.As you rushed in, you can see rushing out isn't so easy. I remember you from your thread last year, i pleaded with you not to marry him. No, you say you wan wear 2 rings, snap pre wedding photos!Anyways,let's not cry over spilled milk.Get an apartment and move out. That divorce you seek is not happening now. No court would dissolve a union based on the fact that he doesn't love you. We deal with cold hard facts! So find a way to move out for your sanity.

Maaamaaa:


so I have to wait for 1year or 2years before I can file for a divorce?

I think my sanity is part of my life, is that enough grounds...

You are funny.. What concerns the court with your sanity as it stands. Is he hitting you? Has he been subjecting you to inhuman treatment?No. You willingly decided to marry a man that told and showed you times without number how he doesn't love you. You say you go manage am. Keep your money, don't waste your time going to Court. Use that money to get yourself an apartment. Move out of his house, focus on your job and caring for your baby.. Whatever it takes to get your "sanity" back.After two years you can file for divorce.