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Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by jieta: 8:08am On Jun 28, 2017
tuscani:
You are such a fool. It is people that cheats that are most suspicious. She must have cheated on her own husband, mtchew
you are the bigger fool, you can drive your point without insulting me.

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Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by oweniwe(m): 10:28am On Jun 28, 2017
Ishilove:
Jokingly tell her to back the fvck off your stuff tongue

How do you use joke tell old man/woman that he/she shouldn't touch your stuffs?

Even if you use comedy tell them, they will take it as insult.
Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by drunkpunk(m): 4:50pm On Jun 28, 2017
badaoyeyemi:
see As I Dey Look You...Re U Married
That smile.... Priceless!!!

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Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by drunkpunk(m): 4:53pm On Jun 28, 2017
cococandy:
Her attitude is so disrespectful. Tell her point blank to stop it. You don't want to be afraid of disrespecting her when she's already disrespecting you.
Also talk to your wife about it.
This is wrong on many levels.
It needs to stop!
If you have to reduce the smiling and familiarity to get it to stop, so be it.
You're very correct but don't forget that a few Nigerians were brought up not to challenge or question the actions of parents... He should just device new means of having his privacy cos at some point the wife may take sides with her mother.
Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by badaoyeyemi(f): 4:56pm On Jun 28, 2017
drunkpunk:
That smile.... Priceless!!!
kiss
drunkpunk:
That smile.... Priceless!!!
Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by drunkpunk(m): 6:10pm On Jun 28, 2017
badaoyeyemi:
kiss
What will it cost me to see such a smile daily, 7 days a week, 4 weeks a month, 12 months a year

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Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by Nobody: 10:42pm On Jun 28, 2017
so you can't open your mouth to tell her to stop it?

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Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by Nobody: 10:43pm On Jun 28, 2017
if am u ..i will walk up straight to her and give her a stern warning not to snoop around my phone ..and be readdyy for the storm coming
Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by erico2k2(m): 10:47pm On Jun 28, 2017
kekakuz:
Having a cool mother in-laws is something most people would like but its turning to something else for me.
When ever she is around, she picks my phone and immediately enters my WhatsApp messages.at first I felt she make a mistake but last night makes it the 5th time it's happening.

yesterday, I slept off in the living room and by the time I woke around 12am, I discovered my phone was not by my side. I searched for it everywhere and when I still could not find it, I proceeded to my wife's room to pick my wife's phone and call my line, to my amazement, I saw my mother in-laws on my phone.

I was angry at first but I had to control myself i collected the phone and I discovered she was in my email and Facebook messaged and she even knows my unlock pattern.

am tired of this but I don't want to disrespect her. how do I deal with this.
My friend sharaaaaaaaap there, i say sharaaaapp why do losers like you claim aor crave attention, don you get enough in your own enclave
who wrote this?
https://www.nairaland.com/3834748/girlfriend-7-years-pregnant

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Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by whizzyleejr(m): 10:49pm On Jun 28, 2017
Start putting your phone in your pocket and change your p-word to numerical 'cause they are not easy to get, use finger print unlocking scanner
Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by Nobody: 10:50pm On Jun 28, 2017
What is she doing in your home, if I may ask ?

Looks like you have made yourself too familiar with her, smiling at her jokes and laughing with her and now she considers you one of her sons.

Anytime a mother-inlaw starts calling his inlaw... 'My son', ..'my son' ...it's a matter of time before she treats you like her son.


Now this is what you need to do:

There is no point locking your phone, it is yours and you choose how you want your phone to be. Do not even complain to your wife, because that is where friction begins. Just buy her send off items and find a nice way to send her to her home.

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Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by Burgerlomo: 10:50pm On Jun 28, 2017
The truth there is that your mother in law is hitting on you, but abeg no chop am o because she is a forbidden fruit grin
Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by celebgistsng: 10:52pm On Jun 28, 2017
jieta:
you are the bigger fool, you can drive your point without insulting me.
I tire o

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Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by vertueptime: 10:52pm On Jun 28, 2017
Send her packing or rather open the door when shes in the bathroom

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Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by Nobody: 10:54pm On Jun 28, 2017
dingbang:
Mr Husband you are making me laugh ...


First your MIL enters your bedroom when you both are sleeping ... Don't u lock the door?


Second she knows your lock pattern... Are you telling us now that you dont know how to change it?





don't lock the door wen ur sleeping. It's for ur own safety.
Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by celebgistsng: 10:54pm On Jun 28, 2017
Every night just remove the battery and leave the phone.make sure the battery is not kept anywhere near reach.she go tire

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Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by Skelewudprince: 10:55pm On Jun 28, 2017
kekakuz:
Having a cool mother in-laws is something most people would like but its turning to something else for me.
When ever she is around, she picks my phone and immediately enters my WhatsApp messages.at first I felt she make a mistake but last night makes it the 5th time it's happening.

yesterday, I slept off in the living room and by the time I woke around 12am, I discovered my phone was not by my side. I searched for it everywhere and when I still could not find it, I proceeded to my wife's room to pick my wife's phone and call my line, to my amazement, I saw my mother in-laws on my phone.

I was angry at first but I had to control myself i collected the phone and I discovered she was in my email and Facebook messaged and she even knows my unlock pattern.

am tired of this but I don't want to disrespect her. how do I deal with this.


You failed to tell us that your MIL is the one paying all your bills. She actually bought the phone for you.

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Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by sprado(m): 10:55pm On Jun 28, 2017
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Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by brightalo17: 10:56pm On Jun 28, 2017
Op so na everything we go solve for you? Is either you're lying or dumb, if not you'll simply change the lock patten which is not 100% secured to password which is more secured .

We still have a lot in our plate to deal with

Evans the Kidnapper

Kanu the agitator

Herdsmen the legitimate killers without boundary

The quit notice of the jews.

Bokoharam senior brothers to Herdsmen.

Our missing President
E.t.c
Now you're brining mother inlaw problem , Haba.

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Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by kekakuz(m): 10:59pm On Jun 28, 2017
erico2k2:

My friend sharaaaaaaaap there, i say sharaaaapp why do losers like you claim aor crave attention, don you get enough in your own enclave
who wrote this?
https://www.nairaland.com/3834748/girlfriend-7-years-pregnant

a friend
Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by Gofwane(m): 11:02pm On Jun 28, 2017
kekakuz:
Having a cool mother in-laws is something most people would like but its turning to something else for me.
When ever she is around, she picks my phone and immediately enters my WhatsApp messages.at first I felt she make a mistake but last night makes it the 5th time it's happening.

yesterday, I slept off in the living room and by the time I woke around 12am, I discovered my phone was not by my side. I searched for it everywhere and when I still could not find it, I proceeded to my wife's room to pick my wife's phone and call my line, to my amazement, I saw my mother in-laws on my phone.

I was angry at first but I had to control myself i collected the phone and I discovered she was in my email and Facebook messaged and she even knows my unlock pattern.t

am tired of this but I don't want to disrespect her. how do I deal with this.
you are married to her daughter, not her. so better tell her to carry her ghana-must-go bag and vamoose to the village.

thank God we are in the raining period. she should go and farm cool
Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by Nobody: 11:02pm On Jun 28, 2017
lol. � � � �.... . she loves you, just ask her out
Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by LesbianBoy(m): 11:05pm On Jun 28, 2017
Did I just read "my wife's room" WTF! Wait...so you and your wife don't sleep in the same room and on the same bed? And you allowed that! shocked what kind of men do we have in Nigeria these days bikonu angry

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Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by basictutor: 11:05pm On Jun 28, 2017
Begin using a worthless phone.
Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by grandstar(m): 11:05pm On Jun 28, 2017
If you don't have any sin hidden in the phone, no problem.

It is said that, "The weak seek revenge, the strong forgive and the intelligent ignore".

Which one are you? Which one should you pick and stick to ? The best choice should be up to you

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Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by israelmao(m): 11:06pm On Jun 28, 2017
Simply password it or keep it away from her.

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Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by Markikus: 11:07pm On Jun 28, 2017
op please change your name to LASTMUMU..
Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by Markikus: 11:09pm On Jun 28, 2017
brightalo17:
Op so na everything we go solve for you? Is either you're lying or dumb, if not you'll simply change the lock patten which is not 100% secured to password which is more secured .

We still have a lot in our plate to deal with

Evans the Kidnapper

Kanu the agitator

Herdsmen the legitimate killers without boundary

The quit notice of the jews.

Bokoharam senior brothers to Herdsmen.

Our missing President
E.t.c
Now you're brining mother inlaw problem , Haba.

Badoo the skull breaker
Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by debspauly(f): 11:10pm On Jun 28, 2017
even if you want to please her that doesn't mean you should loose your self respect ...stand your grounds and tell her to stop touching your phone and respect your privacy ... and always open up stop hiding anything that is wrong just because you wanna please her ....talk to your wife and if she does nothing stand your ground....you are the man of the house for Christ sake.
Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by bigfather(m): 11:10pm On Jun 28, 2017
kekakuz:
Having a cool mother in-laws is something most people would like but its turning to something else for me.
When ever she is around, she picks my phone and immediately enters my WhatsApp messages.at first I felt she make a mistake but last night makes it the 5th time it's happening.

yesterday, I slept off in the living room and by the time I woke around 12am, I discovered my phone was not by my side. I searched for it everywhere and when I still could not find it, I proceeded to my wife's room to pick my wife's phone and call my line, to my amazement, I saw my mother in-laws on my phone.

I was angry at first but I had to control myself i collected the phone and I discovered she was in my email and Facebook messaged and she even knows my unlock pattern.

am tired of this but I don't want to disrespect her. how do I deal with this.

That's nonsense. Mke u sef dey lock ya phone anyti she's around naa.

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Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by enemyofprogress: 11:10pm On Jun 28, 2017
Tell your wife about it or password your phone
Re: My Mother In-Law Checks My Phone, How Do I Stop Her? by enemyofprogress: 11:12pm On Jun 28, 2017
grandstar:
If you don't have any sin hidden in the phone, no problem.

It is said that, "The weak seek revenge, the strong forgive and the intelligent ignore".

Which one are you? Which one should you pick and stick to ? The best choice should be up to you
na WA for you o

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