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Re: 10 Things Every Lady Must Attain Before Age 30 by kalufelix(m): 8:02pm On Sep 10, 2017
I See The Lists Are Back...

Trash + Trash
Re: 10 Things Every Lady Must Attain Before Age 30 by Nobody: 8:03pm On Sep 10, 2017
the patriachy is strong with this one
Re: 10 Things Every Lady Must Attain Before Age 30 by arsenic33(m): 8:03pm On Sep 10, 2017
Female thread. Some guys will still comman comment rubbish now
Re: 10 Things Every Lady Must Attain Before Age 30 by cerowo(f): 8:08pm On Sep 10, 2017
BlaQWolf:



I'm on your side on the issue at hand.... Cerowo you see?
Lol am pratically on her comments sir'.... Women shldnt be seen as lesser or weaker sex.. Let's live our life as it pleases oneself. My 2cent
Re: 10 Things Every Lady Must Attain Before Age 30 by RFaggie: 8:08pm On Sep 10, 2017
Thank God say I get all.
Re: 10 Things Every Lady Must Attain Before Age 30 by BlaQWolf: 8:10pm On Sep 10, 2017
cerowo:

Lol am pratically on her comments sir'....
Women shldnt be seen as lesser or weaker sex..
Let's live our life as it pleases oneself.
My 2cent


You know it just hit me... What's your story? You seem to have experienced gender inequality first hand
Re: 10 Things Every Lady Must Attain Before Age 30 by Dominicah(f): 8:11pm On Sep 10, 2017
At 30 he should married or at least Engaged. Have a job.
Re: 10 Things Every Lady Must Attain Before Age 30 by cerowo(f): 8:12pm On Sep 10, 2017
DjAndroid:
Only #1 is reasonable but will be better put as "career" , others are trash.
Imagine "menstrual attainment" what's that rubbish?
Even the writer is half-baked.
Lol....you really spewed the truth.
Dnt knw wat all of these is all about.
Make women to have peace of ming Biko @op

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Re: 10 Things Every Lady Must Attain Before Age 30 by cerowo(f): 8:15pm On Sep 10, 2017
BlaQWolf:



You know it just hit me... What's your story? You seem to have experienced gender inequality first hand
Lol.... My story!
Dnt think u want to hear about it... Buh u knw what its isnt what u are thinking( gender inequality) far frm that.
Am jst saying wat is left to be said nd also the truth.
So 'unhit' wat 'hit' you. Lol
Re: 10 Things Every Lady Must Attain Before Age 30 by Ngene44: 8:18pm On Sep 10, 2017
julietkcee:
So true..

Nd am working towards them kiss
number 8 is not good for you . stay at home and wait for him
Re: 10 Things Every Lady Must Attain Before Age 30 by pweetiedee(m): 8:19pm On Sep 10, 2017
Narldon:


15 Things every Woman should achieve before 30 cheesy

[b]1. Travel by yourself

Go on at least one trip by yourself. Whether to another state or to another country, when you travel alone you have to step out of your comfort zone, rely on your own instinct and wits and learn to trust yourself.

2. Get your education

While it is never too late to get or further your education, it is a whole lot easier to do it while you are young. Kids, debt, responsibilities and exhaustion seem to distract you even more in your 30s, making staying up all night, sitting through classes and learning new topics even harder.

3. Love the skin you are in

Most people are pretty hard on themselves when it comes to looks. It took me a while to learn to love my own body. I always thought I was too this or too that and never just right. Once I learned to be grateful for a healthy body that can do so many amazing things, I became a lot happier and more confident.

4. Find something you are good at

By the time you are 30 you should know what it is you are good at. It can be something that you can turn into a career, or simply something that you enjoy doing. Painting, dancing, blogging, helping others, solving complicated math problems; whatever it is, find it. Find a way to incorporate it into your life and develop your skill even further.

5. Go dancing

Go dancing as much as you can before you are 30. Once you turn 30 it is like a magic button is pushed and you no longer have the desire to dress up and go out of your house after 10 p.m. Enjoy it while you can.

6. Do something crazy

Have you ever wanted to go sky diving or swim with sharks? There is no better time to do something crazy or scary than while in your 20s. Once you get married and start having kids you feel a different kind of responsibility for life. You have people that need you, love you (besides your parents) and would be lost without you. The desire for fleeting adventure diminishes, so get the urge out beforehand.


7.Date a lot

Date as much as possible. Not only is it fun, but it will give you the opportunity to discover what it is you really want in a potential mate.

8. Figure out what makes you happy

If you haven't found your happy place yet, start looking. It can be a physical place, or even an activity that you do to unwind or that allows you to reconnect with yourself.

9. Learn life skills

It is important to know how to cook, clean, budget and handle adult responsibilities. This will help you throughout your whole life, so better to learn it now than trying to figure it out after you've hit 30.

10. Visit a foreign country

Traveling to another country can be truly eye-opening. It helps you appreciate what you have while valuing what other cultures can teach you. Take the time to travel to at least one other country before you are 30. It can change your perspective on life.

11. Be healthy

There are lots of future health problems that you can prevent if you start now, before you turn 30. Exercise regularly, learn how to eat healthy and commit to living a healthy lifestyle. Your 30, 40 and even 70-year-old self will thank you.

12. Take a class just for fun

If you already have your college degree, or are still working on it, make sure to take a class just for fun. Don't stop learning just because you received your diploma. Learn a new skill like gourmet cooking or photography. It helps keep your mind fresh and will hopefully be something you continue after you turn 30.

13. Make a bucket list

It is never too early to start a bucket list. Some things you may complete in the next few years, while other things you may not get to until you are retired. But the more things you cross off your list, the more you can add to it later on!

14. Do something that scares you

This doesn't have to be something unsafe or life-threatening, but rather something that takes courage: singing in front of a big crowd, starting a new career or even moving away from where you grew up. It is good to challenge yourself; it helps build character and self-esteem.


15. Learn to like yourself

Do you like spending time with yourself? It is important to learn to like who you are — not just your body or how educated you are, but to actually like the person you are. Take time to work on your soul in order to become the best version of yourself. [/b]

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Re: 10 Things Every Lady Must Attain Before Age 30 by naijaboiy: 8:27pm On Sep 10, 2017
preshdiva:
Hmmmm! Society and obnoxious parameters. Who makes all these rules anyway Its wrong for people to set standards for others... If you don't get mastery in cooking, you're not successful? If you don't have a decent home at 30, you're not successful? Success is relative, and there's no one measuring metre for everyone. Some people are late bloomers and might not achieve their dreams or amount to anything till 40 or later... This life is a pawpaw biko, allow women to live at their own pace.
It's not about success. It simply states that those are some of the things essential for a woman to acquire before she clocks 30.

How strange and surprising it is for a woman or even a man not to be able to prepare a good meal at 30.

It's not success, it's a necessary requirement.
Re: 10 Things Every Lady Must Attain Before Age 30 by BlaQWolf: 8:28pm On Sep 10, 2017
cerowo:

Lol.... My story!
Dnt think u want to hear about it... Buh u knw what its isnt what u are thinking( gender inequality) far frm that.
Am jst saying wat is left to be said nd also the truth.
So 'unhit' wat 'hit' you. Lol

I want to hear it honestly even if it isn't what I'm thinking..
Try me!
Re: 10 Things Every Lady Must Attain Before Age 30 by cerowo(f): 8:30pm On Sep 10, 2017
BlaQWolf:

I want to hear it honestly even if it isn't what I'm thinking.. Try me!
Dnt be inquisitive man. Lol...
Re: 10 Things Every Lady Must Attain Before Age 30 by YelloweWest: 8:32pm On Sep 10, 2017
Stupid people and stupid thread.

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Re: 10 Things Every Lady Must Attain Before Age 30 by lilmax(m): 8:35pm On Sep 10, 2017
pweetiedee:


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from this post on this thread .... it's very easy to know the kind of woman you are

and it's really not a good sight

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Re: 10 Things Every Lady Must Attain Before Age 30 by Nobody: 8:35pm On Sep 10, 2017
Op so true
Re: 10 Things Every Lady Must Attain Before Age 30 by Awoleesu(m): 8:36pm On Sep 10, 2017
sad abeggg
Re: 10 Things Every Lady Must Attain Before Age 30 by lilmax(m): 8:37pm On Sep 10, 2017
naijaboiy:

It's not about success. It simply states that those are some of the things essential for a woman to acquire before she clocks 30.

How strange and surprising it is for a woman or even a man not to be able to prepare a good meal at 30.

It's not success, it's a necessary requirement.
are you really surprised?

those tips op gave are for strong women, not the ones that think life is a fairy tale
Re: 10 Things Every Lady Must Attain Before Age 30 by preshdiva(f): 8:43pm On Sep 10, 2017
oluwasheun94:
so u want to achieve all these before 40 not 30. okay continue to be a late bloomer
That's not the point. Peoples destinies are different. Someone who is destined to achieve success at a later age will feel discouraged by this list. There's no specific age for any achievement. You should take into cognisance the fact that some people go through so many traumatic life experiences that delay them from achieving their goals.

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Re: 10 Things Every Lady Must Attain Before Age 30 by Nobody: 8:47pm On Sep 10, 2017
She should be financially independent.

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Re: 10 Things Every Lady Must Attain Before Age 30 by Chimonie(m): 8:48pm On Sep 10, 2017
What about getting a source of income? Is that not necessary?
Re: 10 Things Every Lady Must Attain Before Age 30 by cochtrane(m): 8:50pm On Sep 10, 2017
Who are you really to begin telling people what they should or shouldn't have done by 30? Damn you! angry
Re: 10 Things Every Lady Must Attain Before Age 30 by saydfact(m): 9:05pm On Sep 10, 2017
nanizle:


There. Fixed it!

Lol.. You're part of the pple who doesn't agree...
Re: 10 Things Every Lady Must Attain Before Age 30 by saydfact(m): 9:08pm On Sep 10, 2017
mccoy47:
Op it's "must attain" not "most attain"

Thanks for the correction..... Appreciated
Re: 10 Things Every Lady Must Attain Before Age 30 by BIXYBABE: 9:35pm On Sep 10, 2017
Narldon:


15 Things every Woman should achieve before 30 cheesy

[b]1. Travel by yourself

Go on at least one trip by yourself. Whether to another state or to another country, when you travel alone you have to step out of your comfort zone, rely on your own instinct and wits and learn to trust yourself.

2. Get your education

While it is never too late to get or further your education, it is a whole lot easier to do it while you are young. Kids, debt, responsibilities and exhaustion seem to distract you even more in your 30s, making staying up all night, sitting through classes and learning new topics even harder.

3. Love the skin you are in

Most people are pretty hard on themselves when it comes to looks. It took me a while to learn to love my own body. I always thought I was too this or too that and never just right. Once I learned to be grateful for a healthy body that can do so many amazing things, I became a lot happier and more confident.

4. Find something you are good at

By the time you are 30 you should know what it is you are good at. It can be something that you can turn into a career, or simply something that you enjoy doing. Painting, dancing, blogging, helping others, solving complicated math problems; whatever it is, find it. Find a way to incorporate it into your life and develop your skill even further.

5. Go dancing

Go dancing as much as you can before you are 30. Once you turn 30 it is like a magic button is pushed and you no longer have the desire to dress up and go out of your house after 10 p.m. Enjoy it while you can.

6. Do something crazy

Have you ever wanted to go sky diving or swim with sharks? There is no better time to do something crazy or scary than while in your 20s. Once you get married and start having kids you feel a different kind of responsibility for life. You have people that need you, love you (besides your parents) and would be lost without you. The desire for fleeting adventure diminishes, so get the urge out beforehand.


7.Date a lot

Date as much as possible. Not only is it fun, but it will give you the opportunity to discover what it is you really want in a potential mate.

8. Figure out what makes you happy

If you haven't found your happy place yet, start looking. It can be a physical place, or even an activity that you do to unwind or that allows you to reconnect with yourself.

9. Learn life skills

It is important to know how to cook, clean, budget and handle adult responsibilities. This will help you throughout your whole life, so better to learn it now than trying to figure it out after you've hit 30.

10. Visit a foreign country

Traveling to another country can be truly eye-opening. It helps you appreciate what you have while valuing what other cultures can teach you. Take the time to travel to at least one other country before you are 30. It can change your perspective on life.

11. Be healthy

There are lots of future health problems that you can prevent if you start now, before you turn 30. Exercise regularly, learn how to eat healthy and commit to living a healthy lifestyle. Your 30, 40 and even 70-year-old self will thank you.

12. Take a class just for fun

If you already have your college degree, or are still working on it, make sure to take a class just for fun. Don't stop learning just because you received your diploma. Learn a new skill like gourmet cooking or photography. It helps keep your mind fresh and will hopefully be something you continue after you turn 30.

13. Make a bucket list

It is never too early to start a bucket list. Some things you may complete in the next few years, while other things you may not get to until you are retired. But the more things you cross off your list, the more you can add to it later on!

14. Do something that scares you

This doesn't have to be something unsafe or life-threatening, but rather something that takes courage: singing in front of a big crowd, starting a new career or even moving away from where you grew up. It is good to challenge yourself; it helps build character and self-esteem.


15. Learn to like yourself

Do you like spending time with yourself? It is important to learn to like who you are — not just your body or how educated you are, but to actually like the person you are. Take time to work on your soul in order to become the best version of yourself. [/b]
okay
Re: 10 Things Every Lady Must Attain Before Age 30 by mickeymimi: 9:38pm On Sep 10, 2017
to achieve the listed goals ........ the size of your dreams should have exceeded your capacity when you were 19 or 20 yrs old with some sweat and hard work.

after 30... a woman can become downright gorgeous............30 is the new 20 cheesy
Re: 10 Things Every Lady Must Attain Before Age 30 by BlaQWolf: 9:51pm On Sep 10, 2017
cerowo:

Dnt be inquisitive man.
Lol...

I really want to hear... Its ok to talk to someone...you never know what you might uncover or learn.
Re: 10 Things Every Lady Must Attain Before Age 30 by naijaboiy: 10:25pm On Sep 10, 2017
lilmax:
are you really surprised?

those tips op gave are for strong women, not the ones that think life is a fairy tale
Lool..was just trying to correct her notion about the whole idea of success and necessary requirements. grin
Re: 10 Things Every Lady Must Attain Before Age 30 by Emeka71(m): 10:26pm On Sep 10, 2017
saydfact:
Incase you missed the earlier post: 10 THINGS EVERY MAN SHOULD ACHIEVE BY AGE 30 >> http://m.af1234.com/Af1234/details/10-things-every-man-should-achieve-by-age-30
I didn't miss that one.

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Re: 10 Things Every Lady Must Attain Before Age 30 by sonofoluku: 10:36pm On Sep 10, 2017
julietkcee:
So true..
Nd am working towards them kiss
Good to know.Let me know when u av attained them all.U can PM me by then.
Re: 10 Things Every Lady Must Attain Before Age 30 by Nobody: 10:39pm On Sep 10, 2017
Dopeyomi:


What a nice DP you've got grin
thank you smiley have a great week

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