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Should I Leave Or Stay? by Nobody: 1:53pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
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Re: Should I Leave Or Stay? by biacan(f): 1:55pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
Oga don't put all the blame on her 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Leave Or Stay? by LadySarah: 1:58pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
Biko,better separate now tgat it isnt marriage yet,not because of the things she did but to save us the drama in future when we'll see a thread captioned'I need a divorce lawyer'!. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Leave Or Stay? by pryme(m): 2:00pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
ZubbyGodson: You guys need a break 1 Like |
Re: Should I Leave Or Stay? by Nobody: 3:35pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
biacan:I'm not. Just want to be sure I'm not putting my eggs in a wrong basket 1 Like |
Re: Should I Leave Or Stay? by Nobody: 3:38pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
LadySarah:Funny. |
Re: Should I Leave Or Stay? by izaray(f): 3:50pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
Re: Should I Leave Or Stay? by TheArchangel(f): 4:08pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
ZubbyGodson:She does not flaunt you bro.....hehehehe...you must be one hell of fugly man or a broke a.rse. Arranged marriage, perhaps? 1 Like |
Re: Should I Leave Or Stay? by Nobody: 4:28pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
TheArchangel:Smiles. I'm not ugly per se. Not much buoyant too on the other hand. We ain't married yet, still dating |
Re: Should I Leave Or Stay? by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:41pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
ZubbyGodson: but the important question would BE.... as much as this is the negative side of her, what is actually great/positive about this woman that you would even want to be with her?!?!?! |
Re: Should I Leave Or Stay? by Nobody: 4:59pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
You should fly away from such relationship 1 Like |
Re: Should I Leave Or Stay? by biacan(f): 5:02pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
ZubbyGodson:but don't cheat on her |
Re: Should I Leave Or Stay? by coolcatty: 6:49pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
Walk away bro..... Trust me She will get worse with time. Take a very long walk and don't look back.... With time u will meet that woman that meets at least 80% of ur criteria. |
Re: Should I Leave Or Stay? by Nobody: 6:58pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
MrBrownJay1:I appreciate your comment. The issue is that I do love her. I really have to stop the love but don't know how |
Re: Should I Leave Or Stay? by Nobody: 7:00pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
coolcatty:Even if it's 70%,I won't mind provided she's putting up efforts to be better each day. I really have to walk away |
Re: Should I Leave Or Stay? by Nobody: 7:00pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
biacan:I'm already planning to |
Re: Should I Leave Or Stay? by biacan(f): 7:32pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
ZubbyGodson:be faithful ok 1 Like |
Re: Should I Leave Or Stay? by MrBrownJay1(m): 7:44pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
ZubbyGodson: what do you actually LOVE about her?! |
Re: Should I Leave Or Stay? by toksbisola: 8:06pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
@Op; to love some one is a beautiful thing. When one is in a relationship that they think would lead to marriage, there are certain factors you need to consider before taking the “I DO” step. The factors are; Love, Compatibility, Respect and Friendship. During courtship is a time to decide whether you can tolerate your partners' attitude or not. If you know that you can’t endure a particular attitude during courtship, then address it there and then as it has a tendency to probably get worse when you marry. Now let me give you some quotes below to ponder over; here we go; When a relationship becomes one you are enduring; it’s time to walk away When a relationship becomes a violet one; it’s time to walk away When a relationship becomes a selfish one;it’s time to walk away When a relationship makes you unhappy; it’s time to walk away When you become afraid of your partner in a relationship; it’s time to walk away When in a relationship and the apologies comes from only one side; it’s time to walk away When you walk on egg-shells in a relationship; it’s time to walk away Note my words above and be sure to be married to someone who you see as one you can spend the rest of your life with in happiness, love and unity. We are not perfect but we can still make adjustments in our attitude towards our fellow human. It would be in your best interest to TO AVOID PROLONGING THIS MATTER ANY LONGER as she's a woman whose biological clock is ticking and if you honestly would not be able to look beyond the “PROBLEM AREAS” you’ve mentioned above; PLEASE FREE HER AND FREE YOURSELF. Don’t have a selfish attitude (No offence hope none taken) where you want to have your cake and eat it by keeping her and STILL HAVING THESE NAGGING DOUBTS/ISSUES THAT YOU CAN’T OVERLOOK. Take note, 1) Never marry anyone out of pity simply because you have been with them for a long time and you don’t want them or you to lose out. 2) Marry for true love so that when the challenges start occurring in the marital bond (and best believe challenges would arise) the love both of you have built up would be able to withstand the ups and downs that would occur; take note that MARRIAGE IS NOT A BED OF ROSES. On a final note, the decision is yours entirely whether to carry on with her or let her be as only you wear the shoes and only you know where it pinches; hence, no one else can decide for you whether you’ll carry on with the courtship or call it quits. It'll be totally out of a selfish interest to allow her to chase other men away (one man’s meat is another man’s poison) with her knowledge that she has met her husband; meanwhile her man is in doubt if he has met his wife; as that’s the way it looks at the moment from your write-up. Owing to the fact that you haven't said anything positive and acceptable about her, you're better off taking your time to find the right woman at the initial stage to avoid stories that hurt. All the best. I rest my case 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Leave Or Stay? by Nobody: 8:16pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
MrBrownJay1:Intelligence and Physique |
Re: Should I Leave Or Stay? by womanofsteel: 9:17pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
Op,its up to you if you want to leave or stay. You're finding it difficult because you're a broke ass nigga. How will a girl be proud of you and respect you when you're broke, ugly and so thin with body/armpit odour and immature by coming to nairaland to seek advice on our relationship Please do me a favour and leave for good. Finally you've seen the writing on the wall |
Re: Should I Leave Or Stay? by pryme(m): 10:01pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
womanofsteel: Wait are you the girl the OP is talking about? |
Re: Should I Leave Or Stay? by Nobody: 10:54pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
toksbisola:Thank You Very Much |
Re: Should I Leave Or Stay? by Nobody: 10:59pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
womanofsteel:I'm trying so hard to figure out what your problem is. You smoked something? |
Re: Should I Leave Or Stay? by Nobody: 11:00pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
pryme:I hope the pig will answer |
Re: Should I Leave Or Stay? by womanofsteel: 11:18pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
ZubbyGodson: Lol I was just teasing Op |
Re: Should I Leave Or Stay? by womanofsteel: 11:22pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
quote author=ZubbyGodson post=62627866]I hope the pig will answer [/quote] it takes a pig to identity another. So congratulations!!! |
Re: Should I Leave Or Stay? by womanofsteel: 11:29pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
pryme: No I'm not. I was only teasing him o but he took me serious. |
Re: Should I Leave Or Stay? by womanofsteel: 11:31pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
ZubbyGodson:Zubby, I'm very sorry for writing all that garbage. Forgive me please. |
Re: Should I Leave Or Stay? by Nobody: 6:57am On Nov 23, 2017 |
womanofsteel: womanofsteel:issorait |
Re: Should I Leave Or Stay? by Nobody: 7:02am On Nov 23, 2017 |
womanofsteel:Didn't really take it seriously, I would have reciprocated the abuse if I did. Fear and shock catch me as I read am. I come dey reason who I provoke. Meanwhile, what's your say? |
Re: Should I Leave Or Stay? by Nobody: 7:05am On Nov 23, 2017 |
womanofsteel:# Peace. You are forgiven |
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