chiwapz:
This Muslim people with their thoughts

especially sex related issues

But it's selfish if you reach climax and you left your lady in the cold.

GAZZUZZ:
so sex is primarily for reproduction?

Reason why some states in northern nigeria are over run with homless children.

Well a ewe will always be a ewe.

The primary aim of sex is reproduction all others are secondary. God forbid if you are looking for the fruit of the womb sex becomes a chore after awhile.

This is not even a matter of feminism or not..but her post has got to be the dumbest in 2017. So she's saying sex is purely for reproduction? No wonder some northerners give birth to so many kids.

eTECTIVe:
Some of dis ppl self.. Jus dis morning I was reading an Islamic scholar claiming beardless men put ideas in other men's head and I was like WTF!! How perverted can some of dis ppl b?

WTF!... Perversion no be small one.
So, how do the women folk put ideas in other women's heads na?

Ol boy! See long comments for this post sha.

I talk am before, this girl must ready for massacre!

Some people dey binu. Let me just start reading comments now.

GAZZUZZ:
so sex is primarily for reproduction?

Reason why some states in northern nigeria are over run with homless children.

Well a ewe will always be a ewe.

Wish I could like thus your post a million times. So sensible. Others are busy saying feminists won't like this. I guess she posted that to get plenty likes.

silly Arrow, we have come a long way from lie down and think of england

anyway

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2017/jul/16/muslimah-sex-manual--halal-sex-guide-muslim-women-seeking-fulfilling-love-lives

I put an emphasis on having sex only with your spouse, but having the full range of sexual experiences with that spouse. Islamically, there’s an emphasis on enjoying physical relationships within the context of marriage, not just for procreation. It is the wife’s right that her husband satisfy her sexually.”

Muladhat said she felt compelled to write the book after she discovered women were entering into a lifelong commitment with little knowledge about sex other than snippets gleaned from the back of guides to marriage, with an emphasis on what was forbidden, rather than what was allowed, and with little from the perspective of women.

Many misconceptions that the book deals with stem from cultural attitudes that decent women don’t enjoy sex and should “lie back and think of morning prayers”. Gohir said: “Guilt associated with sex is drummed into women from childhood. It’s portrayed as something dirty where women’s sexuality is often controlled. This does result in women going into marriages not having the confidence to say ‘I am not enjoying this’ or ‘I want this’. It’s time this topic is spoken about more openly.”
Muladhat also found that confusion about what sex acts were permissible in Islam was inhibiting women from experimenting in the bedroom. “Outside the house, culture varies a lot. Inside the bedroom, the concerns and desires of Muslim women from around the world were strikingly similar,” she said.

I’ve had dozens of emails from men asking if I had plans for a companion book to teach them how to please their wives
Umm Muladhat

After holding informal workshops, she set up a website to ascertain interest in a book. Such was the response, that Muladhat is already considering a follow-up, after being inundated with emails from men also looking for advice. “I didn’t find any guides to sex aimed at Muslims, women or otherwise. There are plenty of books already on marriage, but spicing up a Muslim’s sex life while staying halal? There’s nothing.

“I’ve received dozens of emails from men asking if I had any plans to write a companion book to teach them how to please their wives in bed. I’ve taken that into consideration and plan to write a follow-up if this book is successful.”

The author chose to stay anonymous, partly for fear of a backlash but also because she didn’t want to be known in her tight-knit community as the “sex book aunty”. “Initially, I thought my real name would add credibility, but it’s a sensitive topic,” said Muladhat. “Whether it’s ethnicity, socioeconomic status or religiosity, people who want to attack the book will invariably do so by attacking the author. By separating my real self from the book, people are forced to deal with the content.”

bigass:


The primary aim of sex is reproduction all others are secondary. God forbid if you are looking for the fruit of the womb sex becomes a chore after awhile.

Sorry I don't agree with you. To Africans the primary aim of marriage is to give birth or reproduction. When you say the main reason for sex is reproduction what do you say then when teenagers and unmarried persons engage in sex.

emorse:
Rejoice o ye one minute men!!

Their comfort is come through this angel

kaybams1:


What has religion got to do with this? Can't you make a valid point without disparaging other people's sacred beliefs. Professor of human sexuality.

You got me at sacred beliefs.

Most religious beliefs are simply ret.arded.

Is there anything called mutual satisfaction?

SweetPuffPuff:
ok. Let her reproduce with minute men while the rest of us enjoy

Abi o.... We should enjoy together.

beautyhd:


Sorry I don't agree with you. To Africans the primary aim of marriage is to give birth or reproduction. When you say the main reason for sex is reproduction what do you say then when teenagers and unmarried persons engage in sex.

Wonder why Nigerians have no known invention than bearing children and more children
If one decides never to have a kid, one is seen as abnormal

Sebi seex is for reproduction alone. Since na only two children I want, I better do it only twice in my very long life...ndi iranu

9tailskid:


WTF!... Perversion no be small one.
So, how do the women folk put ideas in other women's heads na?

by growing beards like queen okafor

Fatherofdragons:
by growing beards like queen okafor

Lol. You no well...

pocohantas:


The post I highlighted was what I was addressing and on that, continue to console yourself. Women want and love to enjoy sex. Except in some cases of FGM, it's quite normal she begins to resent sex and do it only for procreation or money when she isn't getting maximum satisfaction from it.

As if una done give the non-circumcised ones orgasm finish.
No wonder deeldo dey sell like pure water now, women have decided to work that pusee themselves

you go dey fvck wellu wellu

Hhenryy:


This is not a matter of consolation, it is a fact that holds for majority of African women. Majority of them have been circumcised, so they cannot enjoy sex like their white counterparts, no matter how hard the man tries.

But like I said, it still doesn't matter because men/male species are the main driving force of reproduction which is the primary aim of sex as far as nature is concerned and since the sexuality of men (the driving force) has not been messed up like that of women through Female genital mutilation, nature doesn't care.

Planting the seed is the most important, getting a soil (woman) can be easy with the right amount and other material compensation as i have mentioned earlier. It doesn't matter if she enjoys it or not, as far as the seed is planted, nature has succeeded.

"Majority of African women have been circumsied

What the hell did I just read? Oh my Lord

LadyMarionette:
Lmao!!! @feminists won't like this.... I wonder how many sleepless nights guys have over the feminist issue.

I don't believe that feminists are an unreasonable bunch, and this Muslim woman has just stated a biological fact that cannot be argued with: the male orgasm is necessary in order to make a man reproductively useful, while a woman can be efficient even on an off day. But people don't just engage in sex for reproduction. More often than not, babies are even a by-product of sex; pleasure is the goal. And if a woman cannot get sexual pleasure, what's the point? If she wants to have only four kids in her life time, what's she gonna hump around for?

hmmmmmm....you want to climax each time you gboolaga

enemyofprogress:
Oyinda1599 come and see something o,you that is always fighting me for being a one minute man,this was wroted by a Muslim lady like you o,one minute shuke shuke sex is the best,no wasting of time and energy

one min peere ,sure u no get shame,Nurudeen dey do me 40mins him Neva stop.

Hhenryy:


This is not a matter of consolation, it is a fact that holds for majority of African women. Majority of them have been circumcised, so they cannot enjoy sex like their white counterparts, no matter how hard the man tries.

But like I said, it still doesn't matter because men/male species are the main driving force of reproduction which is the primary aim of sex as far as nature is concerned and since the sexuality of men (the driving force) has not been messed up like that of women through Female genital mutilation, nature doesn't care.

Planting the seed is the most important, getting a soil (woman) can be easy with the right amount and other material compensation as i have mentioned earlier. It doesn't matter if she enjoys it or not, as far as the seed is planted, nature has succeeded.

"Majority of African women have been circumcised"? Pls dnt use ur village women to judge the rest of Africa aiibeg!!

Safiaaa:
What the hell did I just read? Oh my Lord

you didn't like it...because you like enjoying banging to climax

enemyofprogress:
especially sex related issues

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