RALPHOW:



AT WHAT AGE PLEASE?

My son age 3 my daughter age 2 with random small talks or when she gets a crush on a cute boy, when she says she wants mom to marry Superman in the cartoon, when they give each other wedgies because it's funny etc. It is not what you must always sit them down to talk. As time goes on tho, you may have to start the talk.... like Marry, do you know what pedophile is? Then you go ahead to explain how you read in the papers a bunch of wicked adults sexually abusing kids and how sometimes they use fellow kids to lure their little friends etc. Then you let the child ask questions and explain accordingly. That alone will open the door to telling the a child how sacred the body is and a unique to only them etc. We do not talk only sex Ed, we talk safety, how to avoid danger, proper road crossing, porn and bad words in movies or cartoons etc.

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my mum said was ,"pikin wey dem dey carry for back no dey carry another pikin for back till him strong for im own feet first..no go suffer another man pikin "........stuck with me ever since

The lack of appropriate sex education accounts for much of the sexual psychos, misfits, deviants and failures in our society...we tend to leave sex education to learning by trial and error and this leads to all manner of terrible outcomes! Parents who form holy when it comes to teaching their wards sex are ABOMINABLE HYPOCRITES who did all manner of stuff in their teens and early adulthood and were often scarred by terrible sexual decisions...As for me I am not ashamed to go 101% raw and explicit in teaching my above 13 year old kids about sex!

I will start by telling them: SEX IS MADLY SWEET

Simplep:
Lol..ur kids are now wild,u will take dem to a naming ceremony one day and dey will tell d couple in front of everybody,'sir u put ur peepee inside ur wife's vig dats y u now hv a baby'..abeg i dnt tink i can follow dis ur advice o.....d only tin i can do at dat young age of thiers is tell dem no1 shud touch their private parts,dey shudnt expose dem because its very dangerous,dey should ask any question on anything they found new..until dey are 10 to 12....i wont open their eye,u kn how curious little kids can b..dey will statr doing experiment in school toilet

LOL, so? People no know say sex dey produce babies? my little nice said same to us when the wife was pregnant. She said.... I know where your baby will come out from. It entered from the peepee and will come out from the peepee. Wifey said yes, who taught you? You are such a smart girl and I believe now you know how special the peepee is to the creation of little babies. Then her mom called her to leave us alone that also inspired us. She wasn't bad, she just was knowledgeable in my opinion.
Like I keep saying, we started the training slowly but early and we do not have friends who are stuff or ignorant or too holly. I wouldn't be caught in a family gathering where the people would be shocked that a child knows such. Our friends would take the opportunity to teach. Maybe environment influences things too who knows. But me o, of a child says such, I smile and ask more questions like did you know that what you just said is reserved for when a man and a woman grow up, fall in love and decide to go to their families and get married? Only after then is the body designed to do that? Or did you know that that part is special only to you? Etc.

delishpot:


My son age 3 my daughter age 2 with random small talks or when she gets a crush on a cute boy, when she says she wants mom to marry Superman in the cartoon, when they give each other wedgies because it's funny etc. It is not what you must always sit them down to talk. As time goes on tho, you may have to start the talk.... like Marry, do you know what pedophile is? Then you go ahead to explain how you read in the papers a bunch of wicked adults sexually abusing kids and how sometimes they use fellow kids to lure their little friends etc. Then you let the child ask questions and explain accordingly. That alone will open the door to telling the a child how sacred the body is and a unique to only them etc. We do not talk only sex Ed, we talk safety, how to avoid danger, proper road crossing, porn and bad words in movies or cartoons etc.

you might want to be careful though. Because the formation of moral ideals in the mind of a child is usually an unstable process that may go either way - meaning the kid may accept your judgment of what is right or wrong or decide to try out what he or she has learned to form his or her own moral ideals. I believe for children at tender ages below 13, when children are yet to learn the connection between power and responsibility as well as morality, parents should do a lot of shielding to keep their children away from sexual information till their moral foundations are well set and some sense of responsibility has been instilled in the minds of the children!

efficiencie:


you might want to be careful though. Because the formation of moral ideals in the mind of a child is usually an unstable process that may go either way - meaning the kid may accept your judgment of what is right or wrong or decide to try out what he or she has learned to form his or her own moral ideals. I believe for children at tender ages below 13, when children are yet to learn the connection between power and responsibility as well as morality, parents should do a lot of shielding to keep their children away from sexual information till their moral foundations are well set and some sense of responsibility has been instilled in the minds of the children!

Thank you. I don't tell what they do not ask about mostly. I can only do my best. I did not open an adult center in my house. I understand you tho.

mhisbliss:
looking them in the eye and telling them how to have safe sex and avoid pregnancy and do funny stuff is so unafrican and uncomfortable, jeez

I don't get it , do you teach a 13 year old girl how to have safe sex , is that what you understand by sex education shouldn't you instead teach them how to abstain from sex till they are mature to face the consequences of their action ?. Why do you think it's a crime to have sex with a minor ? The basis of sex education is to teach minors to abstain from sex , consequences of indulging in sex at an early age and not how to avoid pregnancy or have safe sex.

mhisbliss:
Most parents don't talk about sex in front of their kids because they think it might corrupt them or they might try it, while others do, but the kids who never had sex education often grow curious and ignorant and the price of ignorance is costly on the long run, I don't think sex education is doing more harm than good

what do you think about sex education?

I will give them and keep giving them sex education till my life time !!!
I don't believe there is any aspect of life that should be keep away from kids whether good or bad ..... if you don't tell/expose them and guide them, they will learn it somewhere else and use it as their underdeveloped mindset suggested !!!!

Talkwell:


That's a hugeee NO,if you see what bad parenting cost so many of my primary school class mates ehn.

You go change your mentality ASAP

I remember when people de go toilet go check the latest inscription on the wall,bro it was disturbing

You know the worse part,EVERY kid in the primary school got EDUCATED the street way all thanks to some kids parents.

Secondary school was even worse !!!
Desire to Know what in the world sex was became stronger both in males and females,I remember females scrambling for some sex book

Porn was everywhere by JSS3.

When we were in SS3 nearly all of them had had sex,they were now watching porn while class was going on (High definition porn by the way )

They knew the various local concoctions to mix and use as contraceptives.

I can go on listing

Well not from that generation bro, gsm was not around when i was in sec school. The only porn mag i knew was playboy which has been there from time memorial. I heard about sex stories but was very naive until i was in my 20s.

Yes I will be, already having the talk with my students...

mhisbliss:
oh my God you guys are rare kind of parents, like you aint nigerian, I'd faint before I say it to an innocent kid lol, until I was 12 I used to believe babies were bought from the hospital

yours is better
some years back...in ss3 a friend argued with me that babies cone from anus..?
I couldn't believe..
after all the reproduction classes ...he still doesn't know.

Muafrika2,

If I may ask, are you a mother?

Hati13:
Muafrika2,

If I may ask, are you a mother?

Nope,

But I handle alot of defiled children in my line of work.

Muafrika2:

Nope,

But I handle alot of defiled children in my line of work.

So you love children then. My sister also loves children.

Hati13:

So you love children then. My sister also loves children.

Of course,

thickminaj:
I'll try to do that it won't be easy but I'll jst hv to and I'll be honest no lies lyk "if a boy touch you you'll be pregnant" ..

That very lie is too comon oo just to make girls avoid guys lolzz ... anyway check my signature and ur pm #Godbless