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Re: Would You Be Comfortable Having The Sex Talk With Your Kids? by delishpot: 10:19am On Jan 06, 2018 |
RALPHOW: My son age 3 my daughter age 2 with random small talks or when she gets a crush on a cute boy, when she says she wants mom to marry Superman in the cartoon, when they give each other wedgies because it's funny etc. It is not what you must always sit them down to talk. As time goes on tho, you may have to start the talk.... like Marry, do you know what pedophile is? Then you go ahead to explain how you read in the papers a bunch of wicked adults sexually abusing kids and how sometimes they use fellow kids to lure their little friends etc. Then you let the child ask questions and explain accordingly. That alone will open the door to telling the a child how sacred the body is and a unique to only them etc. We do not talk only sex Ed, we talk safety, how to avoid danger, proper road crossing, porn and bad words in movies or cartoons etc. 1 Like |
Re: Would You Be Comfortable Having The Sex Talk With Your Kids? by Nobody: 10:27am On Jan 06, 2018 |
all my mum said was ,"pikin wey dem dey carry for back no dey carry another pikin for back till him strong for im own feet first..no go suffer another man pikin "........stuck with me ever since |
Re: Would You Be Comfortable Having The Sex Talk With Your Kids? by efficiencie(m): 10:30am On Jan 06, 2018 |
The lack of appropriate sex education accounts for much of the sexual psychos, misfits, deviants and failures in our society...we tend to leave sex education to learning by trial and error and this leads to all manner of terrible outcomes! Parents who form holy when it comes to teaching their wards sex are ABOMINABLE HYPOCRITES who did all manner of stuff in their teens and early adulthood and were often scarred by terrible sexual decisions...As for me I am not ashamed to go 101% raw and explicit in teaching my above 13 year old kids about sex! I will start by telling them: SEX IS MADLY SWEET |
Re: Would You Be Comfortable Having The Sex Talk With Your Kids? by delishpot: 10:31am On Jan 06, 2018 |
Simplep: LOL, so? People no know say sex dey produce babies? my little nice said same to us when the wife was pregnant. She said.... I know where your baby will come out from. It entered from the peepee and will come out from the peepee. Wifey said yes, who taught you? You are such a smart girl and I believe now you know how special the peepee is to the creation of little babies. Then her mom called her to leave us alone that also inspired us. She wasn't bad, she just was knowledgeable in my opinion. Like I keep saying, we started the training slowly but early and we do not have friends who are stuff or ignorant or too holly. I wouldn't be caught in a family gathering where the people would be shocked that a child knows such. Our friends would take the opportunity to teach. Maybe environment influences things too who knows. But me o, of a child says such, I smile and ask more questions like did you know that what you just said is reserved for when a man and a woman grow up, fall in love and decide to go to their families and get married? Only after then is the body designed to do that? Or did you know that that part is special only to you? Etc. |
Re: Would You Be Comfortable Having The Sex Talk With Your Kids? by efficiencie(m): 10:52am On Jan 06, 2018 |
delishpot: you might want to be careful though. Because the formation of moral ideals in the mind of a child is usually an unstable process that may go either way - meaning the kid may accept your judgment of what is right or wrong or decide to try out what he or she has learned to form his or her own moral ideals. I believe for children at tender ages below 13, when children are yet to learn the connection between power and responsibility as well as morality, parents should do a lot of shielding to keep their children away from sexual information till their moral foundations are well set and some sense of responsibility has been instilled in the minds of the children! |
Re: Would You Be Comfortable Having The Sex Talk With Your Kids? by delishpot: 10:57am On Jan 06, 2018 |
efficiencie: Thank you. I don't tell what they do not ask about mostly. I can only do my best. I did not open an adult center in my house. I understand you tho. |
Re: Would You Be Comfortable Having The Sex Talk With Your Kids? by Nobody: 12:32pm On Jan 06, 2018 |
mhisbliss: I don't get it , do you teach a 13 year old girl how to have safe sex , is that what you understand by sex education shouldn't you instead teach them how to abstain from sex till they are mature to face the consequences of their action ?. Why do you think it's a crime to have sex with a minor ? The basis of sex education is to teach minors to abstain from sex , consequences of indulging in sex at an early age and not how to avoid pregnancy or have safe sex. |
Re: Would You Be Comfortable Having The Sex Talk With Your Kids? by DonroxyII: 12:50pm On Jan 06, 2018 |
mhisbliss:I will give them and keep giving them sex education till my life time !!! I don't believe there is any aspect of life that should be keep away from kids whether good or bad ..... if you don't tell/expose them and guide them, they will learn it somewhere else and use it as their underdeveloped mindset suggested !!!! |
Re: Would You Be Comfortable Having The Sex Talk With Your Kids? by Nobody: 3:46pm On Jan 06, 2018 |
Talkwell: Well not from that generation bro, gsm was not around when i was in sec school. The only porn mag i knew was playboy which has been there from time memorial. I heard about sex stories but was very naive until i was in my 20s. |
Re: Would You Be Comfortable Having The Sex Talk With Your Kids? by FluffySucre(f): 4:01pm On Jan 06, 2018 |
Yes I will be, already having the talk with my students... |
Re: Would You Be Comfortable Having The Sex Talk With Your Kids? by chubbyG(m): 4:28pm On Jan 06, 2018 |
mhisbliss: yours is better some years back...in ss3 a friend argued with me that babies cone from anus..? I couldn't believe.. after all the reproduction classes ...he still doesn't know. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Would You Be Comfortable Having The Sex Talk With Your Kids? by Nobody: 10:41am On Jan 07, 2018 |
Muafrika2, If I may ask, are you a mother? |
Re: Would You Be Comfortable Having The Sex Talk With Your Kids? by Nobody: 3:03pm On Jan 07, 2018 |
Hati13:Nope, But I handle alot of defiled children in my line of work. |
Re: Would You Be Comfortable Having The Sex Talk With Your Kids? by Nobody: 3:25pm On Jan 07, 2018 |
Muafrika2:So you love children then. My sister also loves children. 1 Like |
Re: Would You Be Comfortable Having The Sex Talk With Your Kids? by Nobody: 3:29pm On Jan 07, 2018 |
Hati13:Of course, 1 Like |
Re: Would You Be Comfortable Having The Sex Talk With Your Kids? by emperorzillion: 4:25pm On Jan 07, 2018 |
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