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Re: Would You Be Comfortable Having The Sex Talk With Your Kids? by excess4luv: 11:51pm On Jan 05, 2018 |
delishpot: I guess you are an Engineer. |
Re: Would You Be Comfortable Having The Sex Talk With Your Kids? by jaxxy(m): 11:54pm On Jan 05, 2018 |
mhisbliss: Bt yet sm African parents can hv sex infront of their 2/3 year old kids not realizing he/she is learning the motions and mimicking them innocently |
Re: Would You Be Comfortable Having The Sex Talk With Your Kids? by ademi87(m): 12:11am On Jan 06, 2018 |
I was small i used to think children were born Tru the anus so wen one of my classmates told me it's true vj I became confused nd I decided to ask my granma.. Bad move, the kind slap wey she give me.... I nearly blind 1 Like |
Re: Would You Be Comfortable Having The Sex Talk With Your Kids? by Dcholeric: 1:08am On Jan 06, 2018 |
I definitely won't be comfortable but I guess it is a must at some point especially to my female (unborn) child. |
Re: Would You Be Comfortable Having The Sex Talk With Your Kids? by Dollabiz: 1:23am On Jan 06, 2018 |
Yes |
Re: Would You Be Comfortable Having The Sex Talk With Your Kids? by AreaFada2: 1:46am On Jan 06, 2018 |
In my time the only sex education we had was by our teacher during Integrated Science class in secondary. The European lady was quite good explaining the basic stuff. But no such education at home. God help you if the "devil should push you" to ask parents questions about sex. The real education though was watching porn films as teenagers! Cinemas used to illegally screen porn films after showing James Bond and such films. Although they kicked out kids before screening, taller teenagers like us managed to hoodwink them. These days with smartphones and internet everywhere, sex education should start early. Before they access sex stuff online on their own. Countries where sex education begins early have the lowest teenage pregnancy rates. Like The Netherlands. Kids ask questions these day. So just answer them in a sensitive and educative way. The common questions include: where do babies come from? How do babies get into the belly? A little girl may ask why she has no willy but her brother has. And so on. Telling them Father Christmas brings babies will not wash. Now gay marriages have complicated things a bit. |
Re: Would You Be Comfortable Having The Sex Talk With Your Kids? by AreaFada2: 1:51am On Jan 06, 2018 |
jaxxy: That is a no-no. Above 6 to 9 months, do not try such. Babies are far more intelligent than we think. The amount of development and learning that occur in that phase of childhood are enormous. Just imagine how kids begin to speak by just hearing grown ups do it. |
Re: Would You Be Comfortable Having The Sex Talk With Your Kids? by Nobody: 2:47am On Jan 06, 2018 |
I fully understood about sex in my 20s. Wait till they get to their teens before you bring such up. |
Re: Would You Be Comfortable Having The Sex Talk With Your Kids? by makky555(f): 4:54am On Jan 06, 2018 |
sirBLUNT: The one we got from our mothers when we started seeing our menses is "if any boy touches you on your breast or bumbum you'll get pregnant |
Re: Would You Be Comfortable Having The Sex Talk With Your Kids? by makky555(f): 4:59am On Jan 06, 2018 |
Well for me I'd not be comfortable telling them but I'll try my best to do so because it'll prevent or at least minimize the of getting molested or raped by paedophiles ... I'm referring to both gender here though.. 1 Like |
Re: Would You Be Comfortable Having The Sex Talk With Your Kids? by makky555(f): 5:05am On Jan 06, 2018 |
mhisbliss: For real Your own worse oo... I used to thinks mothers pooped babies out of the anus... But when I heard twas from the private part I got scared and I swore never to get pregnant in my life again ...well until now |
Re: Would You Be Comfortable Having The Sex Talk With Your Kids? by luvme0702: 6:24am On Jan 06, 2018 |
It's important to educate them about sex or else, someone else might. |
Re: Would You Be Comfortable Having The Sex Talk With Your Kids? by jmichael259(m): 6:28am On Jan 06, 2018 |
The scriptures themselves said "TRAIN UP a child in the way he is to go" Please never try to wait for your kids to reach any so called rightful age. Start sex and other education very young! As soon as they can ask and hear. |
Re: Would You Be Comfortable Having The Sex Talk With Your Kids? by Nobody: 6:29am On Jan 06, 2018 |
The kids who can openly talk about it cannot be defiled. And if they do, the perpetrator will surely be caught and punished because the child can say what happened in clear terms. The other kids won't tell their parents, if they do they can't speak for themselves and help authorities get the pervert. And the parent is to blame for raising a dumb kid And after teaching them, don't allow anybody else who isn't their parent to have permission to punish, send them for errands etc - 2 Likes |
Re: Would You Be Comfortable Having The Sex Talk With Your Kids? by encryptjay(m): 6:53am On Jan 06, 2018 |
Why not? If you don't tell them about sex education, they'll get it from somewhere else. |
Re: Would You Be Comfortable Having The Sex Talk With Your Kids? by RALPHOW(m): 6:57am On Jan 06, 2018 |
delishpot: AT WHAT AGE PLEASE? |
Re: Would You Be Comfortable Having The Sex Talk With Your Kids? by RALPHOW(m): 6:57am On Jan 06, 2018 |
delishpot: AT WHAT AGE PLEASE? encryptjay: |
Re: Would You Be Comfortable Having The Sex Talk With Your Kids? by Talkwell: 6:58am On Jan 06, 2018 |
luvme0702: Exactly !!! |
Re: Would You Be Comfortable Having The Sex Talk With Your Kids? by encryptjay(m): 7:05am On Jan 06, 2018 |
RALPHOW:Age 4, 5 or when the issue is brought up. It's pertinent they start acquiring such knowledge as early as possible. You can't really protect them from such info even if the house is on lockdown. |
Re: Would You Be Comfortable Having The Sex Talk With Your Kids? by Talkwell: 7:09am On Jan 06, 2018 |
sacluxisback: That's a hugeee NO,if you see what bad parenting cost so many of my primary school class mates ehn. You go change your mentality ASAP I remember when people de go toilet go check the latest inscription on the wall,bro it was disturbing You know the worse part,EVERY kid in the primary school got EDUCATED the street way all thanks to some kids parents. Secondary school was even worse !!! Desire to Know what in the world sex was became stronger both in males and females,I remember females scrambling for some sex book Porn was everywhere by JSS3. When we were in SS3 nearly all of them had had sex,they were now watching porn while class was going on (High definition porn by the way ) They knew the various local concoctions to mix and use as contraceptives. I can go on listing 1 Like |
Re: Would You Be Comfortable Having The Sex Talk With Your Kids? by swiz123(m): 7:32am On Jan 06, 2018 |
I used to think babies just fall out of the stomach. |
Re: Would You Be Comfortable Having The Sex Talk With Your Kids? by sirBLUNT: 7:36am On Jan 06, 2018 |
makky555:alot of african girls were told thesame thing just to scare them, but i dont think that is best because if you meet someone that convince you that you will surely not get pregnant trust me you may fall for that easily because you dont know anything so it's best they know everything from their parent |
Re: Would You Be Comfortable Having The Sex Talk With Your Kids? by Efewestern: 7:40am On Jan 06, 2018 |
delishpot: lol.. this is too much for them.. but I like your parenting skills. |
Re: Would You Be Comfortable Having The Sex Talk With Your Kids? by mhisbliss(f): 7:53am On Jan 06, 2018 |
makky555:lmao the baby stays with poo? Ignorance is cute and adorable in kids this is so funny |
Re: Would You Be Comfortable Having The Sex Talk With Your Kids? by mhisbliss(f): 7:55am On Jan 06, 2018 |
jaxxy:maybe all those parents who live in one or two room apartments kids learn fast |
Re: Would You Be Comfortable Having The Sex Talk With Your Kids? by FRANKOSKI(m): 9:33am On Jan 06, 2018 |
yes and their schools will also.... |
Re: Would You Be Comfortable Having The Sex Talk With Your Kids? by flashlink(m): 9:38am On Jan 06, 2018 |
It is highly demonic to have sex talk or sex education with your children. The devil has used UNICEF and other "humanitarian" institutions to deceive us. The increase in moral decadence in the society is as a result of this (showing children what they aren't supposed to see or hear) |
Re: Would You Be Comfortable Having The Sex Talk With Your Kids? by Nobody: 9:40am On Jan 06, 2018 |
Lol..ur kids are now wild,u will take dem to a naming ceremony one day and dey will tell d couple in front of everybody,'sir u put ur peepee inside ur wife's vig dats y u now hv a baby'..abeg i dnt tink i can follow dis ur advice o.....d only tin i can do at dat young age of thiers is tell dem no1 shud touch their private parts,dey shudnt expose dem because its very dangerous,dey should ask any question on anything they found new..until dey are 10 to 12....i wont open their eye,u kn how curious little kids can b..dey will statr doing experiment in school toilet delishpot: |
Re: Would You Be Comfortable Having The Sex Talk With Your Kids? by Zanders(m): 9:45am On Jan 06, 2018 |
Wow! I've learnt a lot from this thread. |
Re: Would You Be Comfortable Having The Sex Talk With Your Kids? by NigerianScholar: 9:55am On Jan 06, 2018 |
mhisbliss: Ill have it. But it will be procedural and casual Wont just sit them down and tell them girls will give them hiv or dont stick your penis anywhere Week a. Show them a picture of bobrisky. Reject homosexualism Week b. Make them read a girls story with hiv. Or teenage pregnancy. Etc |
Re: Would You Be Comfortable Having The Sex Talk With Your Kids? by rossychik(f): 9:58am On Jan 06, 2018 |
mhisbliss:From d hospital, laughing my ass off |
Re: Would You Be Comfortable Having The Sex Talk With Your Kids? by delishpot: 10:02am On Jan 06, 2018 |
Simplep: If yours are curious like that, then filter the knowledge but don't deny them. Mine are not the type they even don't appreciate someone seeing their privates when they pee at school and they complain if a fellow kid shows them their bumbum as a form of joke. They believe those parts are private and should not be shared with anyone. Even if you jokingly spank their bums they come home and report toe how you invaded their privacy. Maybe because I made sure to correct them anytime I feel like they want to play rough. I will not say there were not days of fascination and rough play like pulling each other's pants down as a form of punishment for maybe snatching toys or stealing songs but every mistake was an opportunity to seriously remind them how sacred our bodies are to only us. I can't say it is easy, but as parents we do our best to guide and when we must we yell or spank. It is done done like people think it(sit them down and talk) no, it is a life long process a lifestyle and every opportunity do it comes bit by bit one knowledge today, another tomorrow and on and on it goes. It was never a one moment thing. |
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