OP go and ask debbie why she is wayward

Lomprico2:
Note that any pastor with wayward children is a fake pastor!! My take!

gbam

Been wayward doesn't have family attachement,it is the kids personality that he grows up to be.I have seen children of wealthy people go wayward, children of presidents go wayward, children of pastors are not exception to this rule.Moreso,you will also see children of wicked people turning philantrpists, children of racists going after the people his family hate alot.If a child of a king can decide to die for a slave child ecen whe he/she knows the lover is a cast say it all.

All depends on different individuals and it has nothinh to do with my dad is a pastor/imam/monk or priest.babalawo.

makydebbie:
Lol sure I'm. Alot happens, I've even created a thread on what pastor kids go through, it's not a bed of roses as people expect it to be. Because dad heals the sick and blah blah. Maybe I should create a thread on why they become rebels using myself as a case study. I turned out to be opposite of what you'll expect from pastor kids and I'm not sad about my decision since it makes me happy.

i have learnt that the more you try to cage people the more freedom you expose them to. In as much as pastors will try to be very strict with their kids, any little opportunity these kids get to "misbehave" they will grab it. This is why even students of Madonna university (the ones i know) are very corrupt compared to those in federal and state uni. I mean that Madonna uni is basically an upgraded boarding sec school. You have to take permission to leave the school but their students are far from decent

Good point Kristen.

kristen12:
They might not be really wayward. People just expect too much from them and they are expected to live according to a standard.

Btw, this topic has been discussed before.

Samsimple:
when dey find out their fathers are hypocrites in real life...

I swallowed ur ideas hook, line and sinker. To be honest, I totally agree with u.

As the child of a pastor,the society placed much onus on you as a role model,because it is assumed that your parent must have inculcate in you,the tenet of Christianity.So,a little mistake from you is judgemental and is considered a misnomer.Having said that,they are also the target of satanic manipulations to distract their parents from propagating the good news

You kinda look like ebony reign. Has anyone ever told you that?

makydebbie:
Lol sure I'm. Alot happens, I've even created a thread on what pastor kids go through, it's not a bed of roses as people expect it to be. Because dad heals the sick and blah blah. Maybe I should create a thread on why they become rebels using myself as a case study. I turned out to be opposite of what you'll expect from pastor kids and I'm not sad about my decision since it makes me happy.

makydebbie:
My dad is a pastor but see what I turned out to be.

so u fuvk so hard, wow

abeeee:
yeah most Pastors children are bad though not all.......but I think it's because the parents put too much attention to the congregation......and so the neglect their parental duty

Point of correction, they put too much attention on making money thereby neglecting their childrens' home training

JerryGeo:


i have learnt that the more you try to cage people the more freedom you expose them to. In as much as pastors will try to be very strict with their kids, any little opportunity these kids get to "misbehave" they will grab it. This is why even students of Madonna university (the ones i know) are very corrupt compared to those in federal and state uni. I mean that Madonna uni is basically an upgraded boarding sec school. You have to take permission to leave the school but their students are far from decent

Exactly bro. Most people think the devil will try to destroy the church using the pastor kids. It may be true but not entirely true. Firstly, they're neglected. Pastors have alot going in their lives and ministries that they always don't take note when their kids are going astray. Infact, I doubt they know what goes home at home. The father figure is mostly nonexistent. If I'm asked what went wrong in my case, I'll say responsibilities were not taken seriously.


When anything happens in our home, my father thinks it's the devil. I remember at the age of nine, I fasted three days dry fasting, no food no water for three days. You know why? I took third position in class that year and my dad was like, "the devil is trying to strike his tent". He didn't bother asking where I went wrong or why I didn't get the usual position, he just concluded it was the devil. And that was how I started fasting lol anytime I remember I just laugh it off. In my house, anything that happens, we fast because it's definitely the devil trying to destroy us sometimes when issues can be solved logically, it's the devil we blame.


I remember three years ago, my dad was having a meeting with his fellow pastors in the house and he asked me to get him something, I told him I was having cramps. My dad said I should get serious with prayers because cramps comes from spirit husbands. THAT WAS WHEN I GAVE UP.

Nowadays, I do what makes me happy even though I know pman isn't happy with me. I still believe in God though.

LadyGoddiva:
You kinda look like ebony reign. Has anyone ever told you that?

Yea I was told that last week but I didn't take the guy serious. We don't look alike aside having the same color or do we?

makydebbie:


Exactly bro. Most people think the devil will try to destroy the church using the pastor kids. It may be true but not entirely true. Firstly, they're neglected. Pastors have alot going in their lives and ministries that they always don't take note when their kids are going astray. Infact, I doubt they know what goes home at home. The father figure is mostly nonexistent. If I'm asked what went wrong in my case, I'll say responsibilities were not taken seriously.


When anything happens in our home, my father thinks it's the devil. I remember at the age of nine, I fasted three days dry fasting, no food no water for three days. You know why? I took third position in class that year and my dad was like, "the devil is trying to strike his tent". He didn't bother asking where I went wrong or why I didn't get the usual position, he just concluded it was the devil. And that was how I started fasting lol anytime I remember I just laugh it off. In my house, anything that happens, we fast because it's definitely the devil trying to destroy us sometimes when issues can be solved logically, it's the devil we blame.


I remember three years ago, my dad was having a meeting with his fellow pastors in the house and he asked me to get him something, I told him I was having cramps. My dad said I should get serious with prayers because cramps comes from spirit husbands. THAT WAS WHEN I GAVE UP.

Nowadays, I do what makes me happy even though I know pman isn't happy with me. I still believe in God though.

Hehehe wonder how many days fasting you would have done if you had taken the last position. You would probably be trying to break Jesus' record

What religion is doing to Africans though...
no one reasons logically again

JerryGeo:


Hehehe wonder how many days fasting you would have done if you had taken the last position. You would probably be trying to break Jesus' record

What religion is doing to Africans though...
no one reasons logically again

Lmao, I'm sure it would've been for a year.

I tell you, no one thinks logically again. Everything is attributed to spirituality.

kristen12:
They might not be really wayward. People just expect too much from them and they are expected to live according to a standard.

Btw, this topic has been discussed before.

Lie. They behave worse than the people that "expect too much from them"

Omooba77:
Please why are children of Pastors and ministers wayward and living in disobedience against God?

Because they know the truth.

Think after casting out demons,witches and wizard.
They won't look for a weak link in the family to posses.
The pastors might be untouchable but the children are not.

makydebbie:
Lmao, I'm sure it would've been for a year.

I tell you, no one thinks logically again. Everything is attributed to spirituality.

...and they will back it up with "the spiritual controls the physical"

achiever12:


Lie. They behave worse than the people that "expect too much from them"

If it's a lie or truth that's your business. It is my opinion, I didn't force it down your throat. Say yours and leave

JerryGeo:


...and they will back it up with "the spiritual controls the physical"

Lmao, you know them so well.

I'll rather remain a bitter old woman than to marry a pastor, I can't deal.

kristen12:


If it's a lie or truth that's your business. It is my opinion, I didn't force it down your throat. Say yours and leave

For your information, this is a public forum. If you don't want people to quote you, then don't post here. Or you can limit your comments to your church's whatsapp group or church noticeboard where people are too pretentious to hit your head with the truth

fogechi:
the devil is always looking for ways to rubbish God's ministers

And God's ministers have a way of opening the door to the devil

achiever12:


For your information, this is a public forum. If you don't want people to quote you, then don't post here. Or you can limit your comments to your church's whatsapp group or church noticeboard where people are too pretentious to hit your head with the truth

How hard is it for you to say your opinion? Do you need to blame someone for your frustration or does this look like your family meeting venue where they'll be rubbing your head?
Run along and get a life

kristen12:


How hard is it for you to say your opinion? Do you need to blame someone for your frustration or does this look like your family meeting venue where they'll be rubbing your head?
Run along and get a life

Your comment shows you are the frustrated one here.

Aside from frustration, you are also suffering from mental dormancy. Looks like recovery is far from you.

I repeat, carry your comment to church noticeboard where people are too pretentious and hypocritical to hit your head with the truth.

daughters of pastors sabi samakwe eh...
same 4 my deeper life sisters

- Hypocrisy at home
- Too much unnecessary restriction
- Parental behavior that is ungodly
- Being forced to go to church or adhere to strict religious principles

makydebbie:
Lmao, you know them so well.

I'll rather remain a bitter old woman than to marry a pastor, I can't deal.

if only your mum knew. Right?

JerryGeo:


if only your mum knew. Right?

Lol.

Because they know religion is a scam...So they are living their life in realness.




One would always wonder why pastor children are mostly wayward.

The answer is they know their father in and out and they also know he is after his pocket.

You just described my dad

makydebbie:


Exactly bro. Most people think the devil will try to destroy the church using the pastor kids. It may be true but not entirely true. Firstly, they're neglected. Pastors have alot going in their lives and ministries that they always don't take note when their kids are going astray. Infact, I doubt they know what goes home at home. The father figure is mostly nonexistent. If I'm asked what went wrong in my case, I'll say responsibilities were not taken seriously.


When anything happens in our home, my father thinks it's the devil. I remember at the age of nine, I fasted three days dry fasting, no food no water for three days. You know why? I took third position in class that year and my dad was like, "the devil is trying to strike his tent". He didn't bother asking where I went wrong or why I didn't get the usual position, he just concluded it was the devil. And that was how I started fasting lol anytime I remember I just laugh it off. In my house, anything that happens, we fast because it's definitely the devil trying to destroy us sometimes when issues can be solved logically, it's the devil we blame.


I remember three years ago, my dad was having a meeting with his fellow pastors in the house and he asked me to get him something, I told him I was having cramps. My dad said I should get serious with prayers because cramps comes from spirit husbands. THAT WAS WHEN I GAVE UP.

Nowadays, I do what makes me happy even though I know pman isn't happy with me. I still believe in God though.