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Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by depezee(m): 11:11pm On Oct 06, 2018
OkaNaUbe:
What in the world


They know better. Their family, their marriage.

Her kpekus, her marriage. grin grin grin
Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by lexy2014: 11:11pm On Oct 06, 2018
GoTV:
sad As a born again Christian, I'm ashamed people still attend this man's church or seek marital counselling in his church despite his failed marriage. The bible says in the book of Psalms that a man shall leave his parents and stick to any amount of women he desires. Yet this man heads a church and he couldn't resolve his marital crisis to the extent that his Ex wife doesn't deem it fit to attend their daughters marriage yet this unforgiving pretenders sold millions of copies of Rhapsody of realities to millions of gullible Christians. Even if he was a chronic womanizer as alleged by the bitter wife, they couldn't shield their swords for their daughter's sake I'm sometimes ashamed to be a Christian. Hate them or not Muslims are better than we Christians cos they practice what they preach :(
u have to have a vast knowledge of d koran b4 u conclude that Muslims practice what they preach

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Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by GavelSlam: 11:12pm On Oct 06, 2018
She cannot live with the lie she and her husband lived and he still does.

She knows they've been lying to the public and as much as she loves her daughter, it is simply something her conscience wouldn't let her condone.

Africans must be enlightened.

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Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by Nobody: 11:12pm On Oct 06, 2018
GoTV:
sad As a born again Christian, I'm ashamed people still attend this man's church or seek marital counselling in his church despite his failed marriage. The bible says in the book of Psalms that a man shall leave his parents and stick to any amount of women he desires. Yet this man heads a church and he couldn't resolve his marital crisis to the extent that his Ex wife doesn't deem it fit to attend their daughters marriage yet this unforgiving pretenders sold millions of copies of Rhapsody of realities to millions of gullible Christians. Even if he was a chronic womanizer as alleged by the bitter wife, they couldn't shield their swords for their daughter's sake I'm sometimes ashamed to be a Christian. Hate them or not Muslims are better than we Christians cos they practice what they preach sad
Rapsody of reality is given for free worldwide. You being ashamed of Christianity can and will never stop those who are Christians from holding on to their falth, and it can never stop the sun from setting when it wants to. Your opinion is inconsequential. So if the wife wanted divorce and because he's a pastor who has a public image to put off, should be hold her ransome against her wish? Some of you don't know that these pastors are humans too, and could err.

And hey, we all know you're not a Christian.

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Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by Shelumiel: 11:13pm On Oct 06, 2018
Yewandequeen:
is her family for the world? She is doing it cos of her daughter. Even if she won't talk to her husband, she should at least grace the occasion. The daughter isn't the culprit is she?
My dear, this woman is sending out a message that she is not happy : she is feeling the pains of the hypocrisy and lies Pastor Chris has spoon-fed the world . So should she continue living a lie just for the sake of her daughter's happiness? Should she?

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Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by whiteeyes: 11:13pm On Oct 06, 2018
Shelumiel:
My dear , have you read the articles relating to the infidelity issues Pastor Chris and Anita were having? Please if you have not , then Google it up and take the time to digest it
My dearest, you see, what I'm trying to convey is that, such vices are subject to serious and thorough "from the horses mouth" sort of response before a finger is pointed. You get my point?
Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by neonly: 11:13pm On Oct 06, 2018
GoTV:
sad As a born again Christian, I'm ashamed people still attend this man's church or seek marital counselling in his church despite his failed marriage. The bible says in the book of Psalms that a man shall leave his parents and stick to any amount of women he desires. Yet this man heads a church and he couldn't resolve his marital crisis to the extent that his Ex wife doesn't deem it fit to attend their daughters marriage yet this unforgiving pretenders sold millions of copies of Rhapsody of realities to millions of gullible Christians. Even if he was a chronic womanizer as alleged by the bitter wife, they couldn't shield their swords for their daughter's sake I'm sometimes ashamed to be a Christian. Hate them or not Muslims are better than we Christians cos they practice what they preach sad

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Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by newdawn2017(f): 11:15pm On Oct 06, 2018
GoTV:
sad As a born again Christian, I'm ashamed people still attend this man's church or seek marital counselling in his church despite his failed marriage. The bible says in the book of Psalms that a man shall leave his parents and stick to any amount of women he desires. Yet this man heads a church and he couldn't resolve his marital crisis to the extent that his Ex wife doesn't deem it fit to attend their daughters marriage yet this unforgiving pretenders sold millions of copies of Rhapsody of realities to millions of gullible Christians. Even if he was a chronic womanizer as alleged by the bitter wife, they couldn't shield their swords for their daughter's sake I'm sometimes ashamed to be a Christian. Hate them or not Muslims are better than we Christians cos they practice what they preach sad
My dear, these re not d true followers of Jesus Christ, these re rogues, & wolves. Only Jehovah's witnesses worldwide 2day, re d true followers of Jesus Christ & his appostles. I pray & hope 2 become 1 of d witnesses.

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Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by lexy2014: 11:15pm On Oct 06, 2018
jesmond3945:
your comparison is very faulty. Adherents of both religion fail to practice what they preach. What do you say of boko haram and other ills in islam? In christianity the major problem is sexual sins while in islam the major problem is violence.
d major problem in Christianity is sexual sin? How?

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Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by Shelumiel: 11:19pm On Oct 06, 2018
whiteeyes:
My dearest, you see, what I'm trying to convey is that, such vices are subject to serious and thorough "from the horses mouth" sort of response before a finger is pointed. You get my point?
Pastor Chris was sued to court on cases of adultery by his own wife . Read and decide for yourself: https://www.vanguardngr.com/2014/08/pastor-oyakhilomes-wife-accuses-adultery-sues-divorce/

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Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by Softhands(m): 11:19pm On Oct 06, 2018
It is your likes that preach spirituality but don't practice it... How do you Judge a man you don't even know? Hearsay? abeg just look bush with this your brand of born-again...nonsense.
GoTV:
sad As a born again Christian, I'm ashamed people still attend this man's church or seek marital counselling in his church despite his failed marriage. The bible says in the book of Psalms that a man shall leave his parents and stick to any amount of women he desires. Yet this man heads a church and he couldn't resolve his marital crisis to the extent that his Ex wife doesn't deem it fit to attend their daughters marriage yet this unforgiving pretenders sold millions of copies of Rhapsody of realities to millions of gullible Christians. Even if he was a chronic womanizer as alleged by the bitter wife, they couldn't shield their swords for their daughter's sake I'm sometimes ashamed to be a Christian. Hate them or not Muslims are better than we Christians cos they practice what they preach sad
Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by Nobody: 11:19pm On Oct 06, 2018
GavelSlam:
She cannot live with the lie she and her husband lived and he still does.

She knows they've been lying to the public and as much as she loves her daughter, it is simply something her conscience wouldn't let her condone.

Africans must be enlightened.
And she called your cell phone and told you to help her broadcast why she refused to grace her own daughter's wedding? cheesy

Phew!

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Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by FrenchyL(m): 11:19pm On Oct 06, 2018
GoTV:
sad As a born again Christian, I'm ashamed people still attend this man's church or seek marital counselling in his church despite his failed marriage. The bible says in the book of Psalms that a man shall leave his parents and stick to any amount of women he desires. Yet this man heads a church and he couldn't resolve his marital crisis to the extent that his Ex wife doesn't deem it fit to attend their daughters marriage yet this unforgiving pretenders sold millions of copies of Rhapsody of realities to millions of gullible Christians. Even if he was a chronic womanizer as alleged by the bitter wife, they couldn't shield their swords for their daughter's sake I'm sometimes ashamed to be a Christian. Hate them or not Muslims are better than we Christians cos they practice what they preach sad

shat up! Who made you a judge? Are you God?

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Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by Nobody: 11:20pm On Oct 06, 2018
Shelumiel:
There were allegations of infidelity in the marriage of Chris Oyakilome and his wife .Perhaps the bitterness of standing with an unfaithful husband was the reason for her absence.

See this one commenting base on emotions on what he has zero knowledge about. And cannot even make common sense.

The brain is the major difference between humans and animals. But, if the brain cannot reason as human, then that person is invariably an animal.

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Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by AreaFada2: 11:20pm On Oct 06, 2018
GoTV:
sad As a born again Christian, I'm ashamed people still attend this man's church or seek marital counselling in his church despite his failed marriage. The bible says in the book of Psalms that a man shall leave his parents and stick to any amount of women he desires. Yet this man heads a church and he couldn't resolve his marital crisis to the extent that his Ex wife doesn't deem it fit to attend their daughters marriage yet this unforgiving pretenders sold millions of copies of Rhapsody of realities to millions of gullible Christians. Even if he was a chronic womanizer as alleged by the bitter wife, they couldn't shield their swords for their daughter's sake I'm sometimes ashamed to be a Christian. Hate them or not Muslims are better than we Christians cos they practice what they preach sad

I agree with much of what you said. But the Bible never said Christians will be perfect or that POPULAR pastors will necessarily be genuine and be assured heaven. NO, it didn't. But it doesn't mean their publications were entirely useless. At times one who receives advice might succeed with that advice than the giver.

Now there are things people of other religions have done or do that clearly do not tally with teachings of their religions. Not only Christians. Some have been known to kill their own daughter or the fiance/hubby if they do not support the relationship, as in honour killing.

Clearly, both should have put their disagreement aside for the daughter's sake. Like I have always said, a forgiving person will become an even more forgiving Christian. The Damascus Road conversion of Saul to Paul is extremely rare in modern times.

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Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by Shelumiel: 11:22pm On Oct 06, 2018
omogin:

Even me a small Christian dares not toy with adultery, talk more of a man who understands the spiritual implications of adultery. Carry your allegations enter gutter.
I know you love Pastor Chris, but I want you to know that the best of a man , is a man . Pastor Chris is not a god ; he has his weaknesses just like you and me , so making him look sinless is not helping the body of Christ. Take at look at the allegations made by his wife :https://www.vanguardngr.com/2014/08/pastor-oyakhilomes-wife-accuses-adultery-sues-divorce/

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Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by jesmond3945: 11:24pm On Oct 06, 2018
lexy2014:
d major problem in Christianity is sexual sin? How?
yes all the sins we commit as christians has a sexual undertone besides the love of money. Adultery, fornication, pornography, incest etc they are all sexual sins and the reason is because in christainity there are no immediate consequence for wrongdoing. So people are not afraid to explore even when in conflict with bible teachings unlike in islam when even ordinary stealing your hands would be cut off.

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Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by Shelumiel: 11:24pm On Oct 06, 2018
kingy1:


See this one commenting base on emotions on what he has zero knowledge about. And cannot even make common sense.

The brain is the major difference between humans and animals. But, if the brain cannot reason as human, then that person is invariably an animal.
I would appreciate it if you spoke in defense of the topic rather than spit gibberish

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Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by Olujoe1(m): 11:25pm On Oct 06, 2018
GoTV:
sad As a born again Christian, I'm ashamed people still attend this man's church or seek marital counselling in his church despite his failed marriage. The bible says in the book of Psalms that a man shall leave his parents and stick to any amount of women he desires. Yet this man heads a church and he couldn't resolve his marital crisis to the extent that his Ex wife doesn't deem it fit to attend their daughters marriage yet this unforgiving pretenders sold millions of copies of Rhapsody of realities to millions of gullible Christians. Even if he was a chronic womanizer as alleged by the bitter wife, they couldn't shield their swords for their daughter's sake I'm sometimes ashamed to be a Christian. Hate them or not Muslims are better than we Christians cos they practice what they preach sad
u sounds more like an impostor, advocating for an unworthy religion. Yeah they do what they preach, enjoying harren of wives, enlaving and demeaning women among them, killing in the name of Allah with the promise of sweet virgins.

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Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by Oolawepo(m): 11:25pm On Oct 06, 2018
Shelumiel:
There were allegations of infidelity in the marriage of Chris Oyakilome and his wife .Perhaps the bitterness of standing with an unfaithful husband was the reason for her absence.
And even at that, they should practice what they preach . forgiveness
Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by Nobody: 11:26pm On Oct 06, 2018
GoTV:
sad As a born again Christian, I'm ashamed people still attend this man's church or seek marital counselling in his church despite his failed marriage. The bible says in the book of Psalms that a man shall leave his parents and stick to any amount of women he desires. Yet this man heads a church and he couldn't resolve his marital crisis to the extent that his Ex wife doesn't deem it fit to attend their daughters marriage yet this unforgiving pretenders sold millions of copies of Rhapsody of realities to millions of gullible Christians. Even if he was a chronic womanizer as alleged by the bitter wife, they couldn't shield their swords for their daughter's sake I'm sometimes ashamed to be a Christian. Hate them or not Muslims are better than we Christians cos they practice what they preach sad
What happens when the woman refuses to reconcile, will the man kill himself? Abeg, leave Pastor Chris alone. Even if he offended his wife, what has her daughter's best day in life got to do with it that she wouldn't honor her. With this alone, the woman has proven to be anything but a wife.

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Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by Shelumiel: 11:27pm On Oct 06, 2018
Oolawepo:

And even at that, they should practice what they preach . forgiveness
Sir , forgiveness is something that only God can give . No man or woman can claim to forgive without God first putting it in the heart of that person . Which leaves the question of : what sort of church is BLW?

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Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by Nobody: 11:29pm On Oct 06, 2018
People just commenting base on hate on a case they have no knowledge of.

If we can just reason with our brain and not with our heart, we will be save from disgrace. But no; they have said disgrace is their birth-right. As such, they have constantly opt to spewing thrash.

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Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by Delhdel: 11:29pm On Oct 06, 2018
Celebrityblog:
The wedding of Christ Embassy founder, Pastor Chris Oyakhilome's Daughter, Sharon Oyakhilome has been trending since 4th of October.

One thing vivid is the absence of Pastor Anita Oyakhilome (Ebhodaghe Schafer) the mother of the bride and the estranged wife of Pastor Chris.

What could have caused her absence from the best moment of her daughter's life? Did she attend but wasn't photographed or what?

www.thefamousnaija.com has gone through all the pictures from the traditional and white weddings released online but didn't see Anita. Even the moment where she should have been part of those that prayed and blessed her:

"That Golden Moment: When Pastor Benny Hinn with Pastor Chris and Mum and Highly esteemed Pastors of the BLW ministry, said words of prayer to the Couple.."

She was unequivocally absent as captured from the picture above.

See the group photo below during the blessings that shows she could have been absent.

More photos below:
http://www.thefamousnaija.com/2018/10/pastor-anita-schafer-oyakhilome-absent.html?m=1
I think there was something more to it than infidelity
Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by Nobody: 11:31pm On Oct 06, 2018
generationz:
I suspect pastor is behind this
after all the girls grew up with their mom in London as such they are supposed to be closer to her

someone once claimed that when the divorce issues came up the girls chose the moneybag parent

Na their business aha

a lot is wrong with the wedding
eg traditional marriage in the husband's country rather than the wife's fathers house.

check my signature and profile for your choice car

You have a very primitive mentality. Drained in patriarchal blood.

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Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by Yewandequeen(f): 11:33pm On Oct 06, 2018
Shelumiel:
My dear, this woman is sending out a message that she is not happy : she is felling the pains of hypocrisy and lies Pastor Chris has spoon-fed the world . So should she continue living a lie just for the sake of her daughters happiness? Should she?
for her daughters happiness? Yes she should.

The gentility of a lion doesn't make it stupid.
Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by Xisnin(m): 11:35pm On Oct 06, 2018
lexy2014:
u have to have a vast knowledge of d koran b4 u conclude that Muslims practice what they preach
He already has. He is a muslim.

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Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by mrchris3(m): 11:35pm On Oct 06, 2018
Whether pastor chris and anita and truly people of God only God can decide. But that a woman would choose to miss such a golden moment in her daughter's life speak volume about her person.
Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by AFONJACOW(m): 11:35pm On Oct 06, 2018
the kind Relaxer that will go on sell in Lagos because of this wedding is enough to finance Ghana annual budget

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Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by Shelumiel: 11:35pm On Oct 06, 2018
Yewandequeen:
for her daughters happiness? Yes she should.

The gentility of a lion doesn't make it stupid.
...Aha! So you are in support of lying just for the sake of happiness .

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Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by lastempero: 11:36pm On Oct 06, 2018
whiteeyes:
face ya front, march like a soldier oga!

Na so that Ghana boy go take March in Oza room

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Re: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Absent From Sharon's Wedding? (Photos) by Yewandequeen(f): 11:39pm On Oct 06, 2018
Shelumiel:
...Aha! So you are in support of lying just for the sake of happiness .

If that's how you see it. Like I said earlier she could v ignored the husband and just be there to support her daughter. That's all.

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