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Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by victor8269: 12:01am On Oct 19, 2018 |
highchief1:Oga, give me 2m, I go marry now now |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by flyca: 12:04am On Oct 19, 2018 |
victor8269:Another pencil preeek spotted |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by jimcaddy(m): 12:12am On Oct 19, 2018 |
For where? As long as you are in Nigeria, you must spend your life savings to get married... |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by sammiepraise(m): 12:13am On Oct 19, 2018 |
flyca: white wedding is not our culture we copied it from them. but in Africa we over do everything thing. we always want to show ourselves especially when it comes to anything that involves money. everybody always want to act rich. |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by flyca: 12:21am On Oct 19, 2018 |
sammiepraise:That's not what I am talking about, sir. |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by highchief1: 12:25am On Oct 19, 2018 |
victor8269:no try am o u go gate yourself marriage is expensive to run |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by highchief1: 12:27am On Oct 19, 2018 |
patoski39:weite me directly even if na one black label make I do u |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by victor8269: 12:29am On Oct 19, 2018 |
highchief1: |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by victor8269: 12:31am On Oct 19, 2018 |
highchief1:Is it ur marriage?, U go give me abi u no go give me? |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by highchief1: 12:36am On Oct 19, 2018 |
victor8269:lol calm down |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by victor8269: 12:37am On Oct 19, 2018 |
highchief1:I need to marry fast |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by highchief1: 12:38am On Oct 19, 2018 |
victor8269:pm me guy let’s talk |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by ucosuagwu(m): 12:54am On Oct 19, 2018 |
flyca: Mourn koh, It's like you don't know Nigerians. People love to celebrate and spend your money but no one will mourn with you, just close family will mourn with you...... Don't be thinking otherwise. |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by ddeola: 2:37am On Oct 19, 2018 |
Some people are still in bondage of elaborate stuff when life can be sooooo simple 1 Like |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by stevio(m): 2:41am On Oct 19, 2018 |
Wake up,you're dreaming MrPlato: |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by Nobody: 2:49am On Oct 19, 2018 |
famousbowale: Please leave our wedding for us. Fact is that this same nigerian guy typing this will invite 725 people to his wedding. |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by Zieina(f): 3:35am On Oct 19, 2018 |
My kind of wedding. So pretty. |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by akdjr(m): 5:21am On Oct 19, 2018 |
I wonder why people keep wasting money on wedding. I did mine with less than 100k had a reception of less than 20 guest both family and friends. 1 Like |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by Ugosample(m): 7:57am On Oct 19, 2018 |
flyca: |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by Mrjo(m): 7:58am On Oct 19, 2018 |
highchief1:club? I dey mad? |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by flyca: 8:19am On Oct 19, 2018 |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by Nobody: 8:38am On Oct 19, 2018 |
[quote author=ImaIma1 post=72210060] You cannot blame the ladies and leave the man out. Both are meant to be in agreement.I will still blame ladies. Ask an average lady if she would do just traditional wedding, her reaction alone would many guys to commit suicide. Many of them like flamboyant weddings, they say it is one in a life time experience. An average guy would want just one wedding and probably on a low key but the ladies will not reason that way. Many of them get carried way by what they see around forgetting that there is marriage after wedding. And the couple cannot be blamed alone. Some tribes make it so difficult when parents want to take over. At least we read here where someone was complaining about his FIL being rigid about the church to use. I still blame couples because they have say. If they choose not to have church wedding, there is nothing the bride's father can do. This believe of father's blessing is killing many persons silently. I shared a story on this forum of a guy that left his bride on her traditional wedding. Her family were too demanding hence he work out of the party,switched off his and lost contact with his would be in-laws. Even after his in-laws begged him and tried to reduce the wedding cost, he made up his mind not to marry their daughter again. He latter got married to a white lady in Poland. friend of mine said she was planning for 200 but her MIL said that is her own crowd. That she should make it 450. Family makes things complicated sometimes200 guest is a crowd, 450 is a community. You friend just wanted to show off. Am sure she doesn't know up to 50 persons yet she planned for 200. She can even reduce the size if she want. On the day of introduction, her groom can just pay the bride price that day and it ends there. No need for plenty ceremony. 1 Like |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by highchief1: 8:40am On Oct 19, 2018 |
Mrjo:what about buying one pair of trouser 150k |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by Ugosample(m): 9:01am On Oct 19, 2018 |
akdjr: nice one you know a lot of Nigerians are cowards who can't stand up to their parents and family in general (cultural bondage) but then wetin concern me? everyone should do as they like 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by ImaIma1(f): 9:27am On Oct 19, 2018 |
[quote author=asuustrike1 post=72219567][/quote] The 50 people she was planning for was for her and her husband...not just her. I know a lot of people that don't want or didn't wamt flamboyant weddings. My sister for one had only a traditional marriage and went to court. I had a white wedding of just 100 people. Another friend did court and parlour party. It just depends on the people and if their parents can be open minded. Infact, another one did a strictly by IV wedding in a restaurant and i wasn't invited...i vexed but got over it. People date high maintenance girls and then expect her to be cheap. They should date people with like minds. |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by princfred(m): 9:28am On Oct 19, 2018 |
ozoneymcm:Is white marriage an African culture? |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by Nobody: 9:31am On Oct 19, 2018 |
ImaIma1:I agree with you |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by bigl: 10:06am On Oct 19, 2018 |
famousbowale: Ogbeni, carry your wife go registry joor. U won't even spend N100k. Then do traditional just to fulfil cultural righteousness. U spend max 300k but you must learn to behave like someone wey smoke the wrong weed and adulterated cocaine or else, your inlaws will put you in to serious financial mess, which you might never recover. 3.2 Million for kini? Nonsense. See if u have that kind of money, go and build a house and if u have already built, buy yourself a good car. And if u have that already, omo, put am for your business. Don't spend more than N500k cos anything can happen tomorrow. What if she divorces u? 1 Like |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by ImaIma1(f): 10:07am On Oct 19, 2018 |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by Nobody: 12:01pm On Oct 19, 2018 |
highchief1:I JST pm u |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by ferhyntorlah(f): 1:17pm On Oct 19, 2018 |
Derawiz: At the bolded, that's my view as well. Well said sir. |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by ozoneymcm: 3:04pm On Oct 19, 2018 |
princfred:The op didn't have to add that traditional wedding is included hence extra expenses which wouldn't be included if an American was getting married. Even during the wedding reception, amala, pounded yam, fresh fish etc will be included. That is what we are talking abbout |
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