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Re: Can No Longer Cope In A Sexless Marriage by Acidosis(m): 3:27pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
Dyt:lemme abeg |
Re: Can No Longer Cope In A Sexless Marriage by Nobody: 3:35pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
Madam! Go and start working out and stop complaining. That you’re pregnant isn’t an excuse not to work out and keep fit. There are routines for pregnant women. I don’t know what’s with Nigerian women thinking pregnancy is an automatic ticket to get fat anyhow |
Re: Can No Longer Cope In A Sexless Marriage by shakmati(m): 9:22pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
She has accepted her own faults in the issue. I wonder the kind of men that would wilingly have a hard on for a woman that always competes with them and try to show them she's the Lord. Maybe fuckboys. Husbands can and have been known to go impotent because of their wives lack of submission or when such men are completely broke. Marriage has its dynamics. It is however not a do or die affair. Most times, you as a single part of the deal can make things work if the other person's b/s is what you can swallow. 2 Likes |
Re: Can No Longer Cope In A Sexless Marriage by carammel(f): 9:57pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
Acidosis:Are you saying a woman should not help her husband with finances? Like she should leave all the financial burden of the home to the man while she keeps her own money? Or rather, she shouldn't work and always ask for everything from her man? |
Re: Can No Longer Cope In A Sexless Marriage by Nobody: 10:05pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
Acidosis:May the OYEL in your head never dry! 3 Likes |
Re: Can No Longer Cope In A Sexless Marriage by Franklyine: 10:10pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
please don't worry yourself , you are pregnant and the hormones are affecting him. As soon as you put to bed, his head will come down. Don't take any hasty decisions 1 Like |
Re: Can No Longer Cope In A Sexless Marriage by Nobody: 10:15pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
carammel:No! But a man be a man! Allow him.. There's a reason he is called A MAN! Let him do his responsibility which is PROVIDING! Support if need be. A lot of women have misplaced the priority so as to stay WOKE! They do the bill splitting and 50/50 even before the conjugal vows.. They are the first to bring out debit cards to pay for dates and movies. The moment they tie the knots, reality sets in and they are faced with real responsibilities, they begin to scream 'blue murder'. 8 Likes |
Re: Can No Longer Cope In A Sexless Marriage by Franklyine: 10:20pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
Ishilove:He is pregnant. Some men cannot stand a pregnant woman, all they see is an ugly fat thing, as soon as the baby arrives, everything will go back to normal. |
Re: Can No Longer Cope In A Sexless Marriage by carammel(f): 10:38pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
yettymuse:I actually thought men love women that can pay bills, women that they can be sure would take care of things whether they are present or absent. Everything a man says is contradictory, " I want an independent woman, a woman who can also be a provider , give one to him, he begins to feel threatened and just assumes every of her actions are because she also provides for the home, if she says one thing, he would term it to mean that she is disrespectful simply because she is a provider. She will always be too careful so that she won't be termed "disrespectful. Give the same man a woman who just wants be a homemaker, all she is interested in is to do domestic chores, take care of the kids while the man gets to be the sole provider, he begins to see her as a liability, a lazy and dumb woman who cannot even handle anything finance behind his back. The same woman dares not talk much, all we will hear is, I spend my hard earned money on you, you had better lick my feet. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Can No Longer Cope In A Sexless Marriage by Rosarie(f): 10:39pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
He's telling u his mind.na who dey alive they birth baby. 1 Like |
Re: Can No Longer Cope In A Sexless Marriage by Rosarie(f): 10:41pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
yettymuse: |
Re: Can No Longer Cope In A Sexless Marriage by Rosarie(f): 10:44pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
mrAMG:pls shutup.diiferrnt preggy different body.my first baby I work like no man business.second I was very lazy.always tired.third always sick and no strength.it differs.u think is easy.pls quiet abeg 7 Likes |
Re: Can No Longer Cope In A Sexless Marriage by sammieone(m): 10:47pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
inioluwajoe: you need to be patient with him. some men can not cope with changes in their woman easily especially when the are pregnant, it may take him time to adjust to the new you. secondly, the pressure of seeing same person at home all the time is getting to him, its normal pressure, he needs time to adjust to the new reality. Men that are married for more than four years sometimes wish they are still single. just bear with him and please don't nag. if you nag it will worsen the situation. on the sex part....maybe u need to add spice to your sex life, men get tired of doing same thing over and over again. my thoughts. |
Re: Can No Longer Cope In A Sexless Marriage by sammieone(m): 10:49pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
inioluwajoe: |
Re: Can No Longer Cope In A Sexless Marriage by thorpido(m): 11:12pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
I think your hubby is finding it hard mentally to cope with a pregnant you. He might come around later or he might just be a waste.Avoid him as much as you can so he doesn't batter you. Concentrate on your pregnancy. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Can No Longer Cope In A Sexless Marriage by bukatyne(f): 11:20pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
yettymuse: Hmmmmmm |
Re: Can No Longer Cope In A Sexless Marriage by bukatyne(f): 11:21pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
carammel: Hmmmmmm |
Re: Can No Longer Cope In A Sexless Marriage by Nobody: 11:32pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
Rosarie: Please take your time to read and understand before making any contribution anywhere. Working out = exercising Not working a job. No good thing ever comes easy, whoever told you exercising was easy must be trying to deceive you. It’s not easy to exercise when you’re not pregnant, it definitely won’t be easier when you’re pregnant; regardless, health experts advise regular exercise for pregnant women https://www.parents.com/pregnancy/my-body/fitness/is-it-safe-to-exercise-during-pregnancy/ Her husband clearly said he doesn’t like that she’s fat inioluwajoe: In my own opinion, the solution to this problem solves all problems, this is just a simple case of problems cascading into more problems. The moment you start seeing one fault in a person, you begin to see so many other things you wouldn’t even consider as fault normally. And I will repeat again, GETTING PREGNANT IS NOT AN AUTOMATIC TICKET TO GET RUBBISHLY OBESE/FAT - take note, all ye Nigerian women! |
Re: Can No Longer Cope In A Sexless Marriage by Nobody: 11:34pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
Deleted. Too private 6 Likes |
Re: Can No Longer Cope In A Sexless Marriage by Ranchhoddas: 12:30am On Jan 11, 2019 |
carammel:I'm sure you have not experienced any of this crap that you've written. Your narrative is merely a product of your flights of fancy combined with the rubbish you read on this forum. 2 Likes |
Re: Can No Longer Cope In A Sexless Marriage by 4everyoungpresh(f): 1:12am On Jan 11, 2019 |
it's a straight forward story the man is frustration and he is venting his frustration on the woman. lack of money makes an angry man |
Re: Can No Longer Cope In A Sexless Marriage by mrsthang: 6:37am On Jan 11, 2019 |
You could learn to please yourself..at least temporarily 4 months is a very long time. Pele |
Re: Can No Longer Cope In A Sexless Marriage by carammel(f): 8:05am On Jan 11, 2019 |
[s] Ranchhoddas:[/s] Pieces of thrash from a fellow who left his brain in 2018, grow up and contribute constructively. 1 Like |
Re: Can No Longer Cope In A Sexless Marriage by Ranchhoddas: 8:18am On Jan 11, 2019 |
carammel:That's not constructive enough? Damn! |
Re: Can No Longer Cope In A Sexless Marriage by Brazenbabe: 8:40am On Jan 11, 2019 |
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Re: Can No Longer Cope In A Sexless Marriage by Nobody: 11:02pm On Jan 17, 2019 |
Dyt: Bawo ni Idaya? |
Re: Can No Longer Cope In A Sexless Marriage by Dyt(f): 2:49am On Jan 18, 2019 |
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