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Re: Share Your Experience After Marrying Without Your Mother's Or Father's Consent by ImaIma1(f): 7:33pm On Jan 12, 2019 |
NaijaRoyalty: How can only the parents have the solution when they are not God? 3 Likes |
Re: Share Your Experience After Marrying Without Your Mother's Or Father's Consent by drmikeadams(m): 7:34pm On Jan 12, 2019 |
Barney11:any where I catch u..I go give u one chilled origin |
Re: Share Your Experience After Marrying Without Your Mother's Or Father's Consent by cutechioma1: 7:34pm On Jan 12, 2019 |
It is proper to have parental consent before marriage but sometimes our parents might not have any concrete of personal issue against the person. Some will be be like don't marry from this tribe, state, religion or denomination because of what had been heard or rumored about. As far as I'm concerned that is not enough. If your parents after consultations and interaction with the proposed family, relatives and friends and is against the union, there is 85% chance there is problem somewhere and I will advice you not to go further. Marriage is not just about the couples, it still involves both families so be wise when you feel they can be ignored. My humble opinion. |
Re: Share Your Experience After Marrying Without Your Mother's Or Father's Consent by uuzba(m): 7:35pm On Jan 12, 2019 |
LynnnCHI:How can you lose in your gambling, if you put God right in the center and middle of all your affairs? Aha! Because many people wish to marry for SEXUAL and material reasons only. They totally push God out of their marriage, then expect wonders to happen. |
Re: Share Your Experience After Marrying Without Your Mother's Or Father's Consent by 1Sharon(f): 7:35pm On Jan 12, 2019 |
Ghostmode2two: Did you get ur parents consent the first time you had sex too? |
Re: Share Your Experience After Marrying Without Your Mother's Or Father's Consent by Nobody: 7:36pm On Jan 12, 2019 |
PeacenLove2: Yes!Such validation usually arose from the females in the family.Its only desperate girls that will pretend not to notice such unhealthy validation all to answer Mrs.I careless. Like you pointed,it depends how they see their son.The caliber of son they have determine what aspect of respect they will give to whoever he has chosen.A bread winner who has got financial/ intellectual dignity needs nobody validation. |
Re: Share Your Experience After Marrying Without Your Mother's Or Father's Consent by hammerFC: 7:40pm On Jan 12, 2019 |
uuzba: Ur calling God, but throwing away the parents. Ma guy, your parents are the God u see on earth. |
Re: Share Your Experience After Marrying Without Your Mother's Or Father's Consent by GrammarNazi1(m): 7:42pm On Jan 12, 2019 |
LynnnCHI:This is what I tell people. 1 Like |
Re: Share Your Experience After Marrying Without Your Mother's Or Father's Consent by Nobody: 7:44pm On Jan 12, 2019 |
uuzba: When I mean gamble,it's like saying what ever the situation one should make the best out of it.One cannot rule out the importance money in marriage as you won't take care of a family with an empty account.But then management here is the key....I like to cut my coat according to my material. Please sex is also important ooooo.To avoid masturbating after a seeming "romp" trust me!It's not a good feeling to still feel unsatisfied after love making. God is the utimate key.Thats why one should put him first before embarking on the journey of marriage |
Re: Share Your Experience After Marrying Without Your Mother's Or Father's Consent by ImaIma1(f): 7:45pm On Jan 12, 2019 |
Moneystopnonsen: Parents can be so selfish but some people here fail to see it. First and foremost, the fact that a person wants to get married means you are an adult. At that point, a parent does not have the right to pick a spouse or blatantly refuse one. 3 Likes |
Re: Share Your Experience After Marrying Without Your Mother's Or Father's Consent by chloride6: 7:47pm On Jan 12, 2019 |
alexistaiwo: OMO IYA MI!!!! WASERE! Fvuk it! What is marriage ? We lose our life savings to Alabi every weekend If we pick the right person good, if not fvck it!! Cook 10 odds make i nack am 1k. If e green i send 2k sharpaly.. 1 Like |
Re: Share Your Experience After Marrying Without Your Mother's Or Father's Consent by Nobody: 7:47pm On Jan 12, 2019 |
hammerFC: He who findeth a wife findth a good thing and as obtain favor from GOD 5 Likes |
Re: Share Your Experience After Marrying Without Your Mother's Or Father's Consent by hammerFC: 7:50pm On Jan 12, 2019 |
LynnnCHI: Clever pants... I can't argue with dat... |
Re: Share Your Experience After Marrying Without Your Mother's Or Father's Consent by Nobody: 7:51pm On Jan 12, 2019 |
hammerFC:The most important thing is that I aired my contribution.Acting on it is entirely his choice.Na grand pikin I dey sit down wait so I go tie gele come naming ceremony 2 Likes |
Re: Share Your Experience After Marrying Without Your Mother's Or Father's Consent by jaszplus12(m): 7:51pm On Jan 12, 2019 |
drmikeadams:Tau...if you say so! |
Re: Share Your Experience After Marrying Without Your Mother's Or Father's Consent by Nobody: 7:51pm On Jan 12, 2019 |
hammerFC: |
Re: Share Your Experience After Marrying Without Your Mother's Or Father's Consent by Nobody: 7:53pm On Jan 12, 2019 |
Na her wahala be that one. The thread was about my family's consent not my partner's. Willie2015: 1 Like |
Re: Share Your Experience After Marrying Without Your Mother's Or Father's Consent by Nobody: 7:54pm On Jan 12, 2019 |
Moneystopnonsen: This is seriously serious.Youre a strong man,no doubt. |
Re: Share Your Experience After Marrying Without Your Mother's Or Father's Consent by hammerFC: 7:56pm On Jan 12, 2019 |
LynnnCHI: There is an obligation to honour ur parents with your marriage. Ur choice has to be pleasing to them. Dont use it to cause them discomfort. They should be happy along with you. Carry them along... |
Re: Share Your Experience After Marrying Without Your Mother's Or Father's Consent by Barney11: 8:04pm On Jan 12, 2019 |
drmikeadams: thanks bro. |
Re: Share Your Experience After Marrying Without Your Mother's Or Father's Consent by valencia25(m): 8:08pm On Jan 12, 2019 |
olumyde: Never settle down with a lady that has a bad in law, you'll regret it! 1 Like |
Re: Share Your Experience After Marrying Without Your Mother's Or Father's Consent by ImaIma1(f): 8:09pm On Jan 12, 2019 |
NwaliE01: In marriage, the person you need is God and your spouse. Family advice and interference is not necessary. My parents are late and my father in-law too. And my mum inlaw is busy with all her kids and hardly has time and does not believe in interfering except she is asked. What I have noticed about people from my side is that parents allow you to be independent and mind your family. 3 Likes |
Re: Share Your Experience After Marrying Without Your Mother's Or Father's Consent by hammerFC: 8:13pm On Jan 12, 2019 |
LynnnCHI: Proverbs 4:1 ► Listen, my sons, to a father's instruction; pay attention and gain understanding. |
Re: Share Your Experience After Marrying Without Your Mother's Or Father's Consent by ImaIma1(f): 8:13pm On Jan 12, 2019 |
Giantslayer: Your bro's issue is not necessarily parental consent. Your bro saw these things too but still decided to go ahead for whatever reason. There are some things that we don't even need our parents to tell us. We should know. |
Re: Share Your Experience After Marrying Without Your Mother's Or Father's Consent by hammerFC: 8:14pm On Jan 12, 2019 |
@LynnnCHI: my own bible verse |
Re: Share Your Experience After Marrying Without Your Mother's Or Father's Consent by ImaIma1(f): 8:16pm On Jan 12, 2019 |
luminouz: Chai! My ears are itching...I went to UI too. I have been cracking my brain |
Re: Share Your Experience After Marrying Without Your Mother's Or Father's Consent by Nobody: 8:21pm On Jan 12, 2019 |
hammerFC: Your choice must not be pleasing to them.Your choice is a choice given to you as an individual in this world.In this thing called life,it's an individual race... God knows the importance of the happiness of children that's why in Psalms he pointed out that children are "heritage of the LORD;the fruit of the womb is his reward.They shouldn't don't provoke God's gift to anger because they want to enjoy their lives and then start living that of their kids... The idea of both verses coming right after the other is for God to teach us that there must be tolerance and establishment of boundaries.There must be an understanding.Look, sometimes many parents are the cause of their own misfortune.Not all old people are wise and not all young are FOOLISH.King Solomon is the wisest king in the Bible but was a very young man. Parents blessings are important,but they are still not GOD.He has the final say. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Share Your Experience After Marrying Without Your Mother's Or Father's Consent by franchasng: 8:22pm On Jan 12, 2019 |
One of my elder brother married a lady my parents advised against, and today they are divorced, op listen to your parents if they have strong reason, don't let all these Liar Mohammed wannabes on Nairaland deceive you oh, listen to your parents o, hmmm 3 Likes |
Re: Share Your Experience After Marrying Without Your Mother's Or Father's Consent by hammerFC: 8:23pm On Jan 12, 2019 |
LynnnCHI: Not very convincing quote, find another one, like your earlier proverb 18:22... |
Re: Share Your Experience After Marrying Without Your Mother's Or Father's Consent by Nobody: 8:24pm On Jan 12, 2019 |
hammerFC: Listen is different from carrying it out.Is that not what ears are made for? Sometimes my mom tells me to eat poo,do I go about looking for poo to eat? 1 Like |
Re: Share Your Experience After Marrying Without Your Mother's Or Father's Consent by DavidEsq(m): 8:26pm On Jan 12, 2019 |
Tallesty1:Bro, abeg come collect banga soup with river cat fish, sama am with starch and wash am.with gulder. 1 Like |
Re: Share Your Experience After Marrying Without Your Mother's Or Father's Consent by Nobody: 8:27pm On Jan 12, 2019 |
hammerFC: Leave me jare... Ok let me Google some |
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